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This is either a troll or a mentally unstable individual.

sisisioge:
I gentle o . Glad to hear you've been good too. Oluwaseun!

sisisioge:
Oba! Longest time! No be only small swear

I'm good mami. Its been ages. How ya been?

JASONjnr:
There's no movie who's sex scene last upto 5minutes....

Even 50shades of grey that's perceived as a pornmovie.


You should look for a better lie...

You really can't blame him. When another man is pounding your woman, one second must feel like one day

2 important things a young broke man must have:

1. Self respect
2. Standards


OP, from your post it seems you lack both. She doesn't respect you because you don't respect yourself. If she wants to go out woth other men, offer to drive her there and leave her there. That should be the last time you ever speak to each other. Block her everywhere. If she comes to your house uninvited, give her the warning of her life.

Secondly, you have no standards. Your woman is freely already going out woth other men, of course she's a hoe. What are you doing with a hoe, even calling her girlfriend.

Bin the trash and move on.

It is better to be single and having knacks with random women than to just date anything in the name of girlfriend.

Now listen, you don't owe her any money. Any kobo you give her is a privilege not your responsibility. If you send her a dime, she should express extreme gratitude and show love and respect because you being charitable to her is sacrificial on your part. Your 'girlfriend' is showing disdain for your sacrifices and instead of getting angry and kicking her prostitution aśs out you're forming sad. If I light you.

My friend respect yourself and have some standards. Get yourself a woman that automatically makes herself exclusive to only you, only that kind of woman is worthy of your commitment and your resources. Girlfriend is not a requirement to be successful in life. Give yourself brain

lebienconnu:
Omo ale tanna woro.

The amount of resentment these people have for the Yoruba race is so unimaginable and I keep wondering why.

They actually believe they are superior to everybody else, that's the number one problem they have with all tribes. Now, because yorubas aren't noise makers like they are they assume yorubas have nothing going for them. The source of their sorrow is that yoruba achievements come as a shock to them. They can't understand it because no bragging, no show off. It's like someone you think is an olodo actually outdoing you in class . Igbos tend to feel entitled to everything they want but no be so, you gotta earn whatever you desire, hence their utmost frustration

sisisioge:
Shior, the court will grant the wife the divorce with or without his consent. No be only swearing before your papa

It's just small swear. Nothing major

mariahAngel:
Don't see/take it as a threat.

The truth is that, what she couldn't tell you before, she's more mature, bold and comfortable to tell you now.
You should be happy that she's still interested in you after 10years.
She still wants you to rock her world.

It doesn't take much to be romantic.
Discover what gets your wife excited.
It could be the littlest of things.

A wife wanting piercings, waistbeads and tattoos isn't a threat?

EgunMogaji2:
Divorce?

Should definitely be on the cards. Man should be planning his exit strategy as we speak. Women can never be satisfied. If he decides to start acting more romantic, she'll come up with some other silly attitude. He should count his losses and prepare to call it a day

snthesis:
Got a shocker recently, my wife suddenly says i am not romantic after 10years of marriage and having 3 children... should i be worried
we got married young and she now in her early 30s

p.s
she now wants to get a tattoo, piercing. waistbeads and wear leg chain

O ti lo

The moment you begin to begin your wife for séx it's almost over. You cannot negotiate genuine desire. Do you know how many married women cheat and scream in the throes of passion while getting dícked down by men they aren't married to?

The only thing you need to resolve marital issues is genuine communication which is almost impossible to achieve because for an individual to communicate honestly with their spouse, they first need to be genuine and honest with themselves. And if you think people are going to be honest to/with therapists you are in lala land

Most times women use séx to secure marriage and once in doing séx things becomes a chore. If you think I'm lying draw a poll asking married men to tell you what period they enjoyed séx the most; before or after marriage.

If your wife does not like you naturally but only married you because of pressure or just to secure a guy with money that can carry her life load for her. If you like go therapy for Azerbaijan you ate wasting your time. I don't know what the statistics say, but going to therapy does almost nothing to salvage a broken down, séxless marriage.

I can't even imagine following wife to therapy so they can help me beg to open coochie for me 😭😭😆😆. If she no wan open Alhamdililah; side chicken or second wife loading and I better not catch her cheating 😤

Mindlog:
The nonsense is you not yet seeing the need for both of you go visit a marriage therapist who has been professionally trained not to be biased and have no vested interest since one on one talks with her is not yielding the desired sustained change.

Such therapy sessions would help your wife to unlearn some notions about intimacy with a spouse, that it is not be rationed nor give the impression you do your spouse a favour by allowing them access to your body and personal space......your wife needs "rewiring" that should result to meeting your fantasies
to an extent. 😆😆😆😆

Lol. Imagine following my wife to a therapist. My words are not enough to set her straight. She needs to hear them from someone who we don't know and who we don't know, and we go still pay o 😆. If I have to go to a therapist to get through to my wife then the marriage is effectively over

HeartlessMan:
This 2023 is Seyi Vibez year.
Watch out!

I swear. This is one coincidence too many

Semi independence while being taken care of. A friends with benefits arrangement. She can freely fvck other men while dating her cheating lover

ahnie:
Lai Lai Poco....he must go...we must filter him out from her life let men with potential locate her.

Imagine dating a yahoo boy's leftovers. Lol

ramaju:
I know that no woman has been intimate until she is found pregnant. No preggy, kerewa denied.

Women supporting women

Smh. Marrying a single mother is like going to jail for a crime you didn't commit

Beverlyjean:
Good guys are still there, if u want I will introduce u to a relative of mine that will show u how good some men are , so to prove to u that u are wrong , if he 4ks up, I will pay u 10m . We will sign the agreement between us , but he will not know.. unless u 4k up then u will not get the money...

You better not put your brother in an unfortunate situation. Nigerian women despise good men, they see them as weak.

MatrixReloaded:
It's just a mere scenerio where the man couldn't control his sexual escapades . I have melt with such scene where this woman happen to be my cousin wife , I lived with them while searching for job back then. Btw she was so beautiful that even her curves were irresistible while her front melon was a haven to seek comfort.
I resisted the urge to even look when ever she wears her bumshort and walk pass to the kitchen
Or when ever I hear her voice calling me to come takemy meal from the kitchen, opening the door to the kitchen will be a see through night gown that protrude her pointing nipples and her v pant shape that melts my throat.
My cousin was a guy I knew his manhood is like catapillar, each moment I want to draw the useless picture of him hitting the wife bossom I feel unrepentant and alas I jettison that and flee to a safer harbor where I won't be deceived by the Eve kind to eat the forbidden fruit.

Oshey Enugu Shakespeare

Praktikals:
Are you not safe with your dad?

Isn't it obvious?

Candidlady:




The poor girl ain't safe with her dad even if he gets the custody sef. . Cos those gender ain't to be trusted.. and she ain't safe either at her step dad's place... Omo this one get were e touch

But the gender that can be trusted carried one man's child and went to give another man and even changed the child's name to reflect a strange man's. It could even be a case of paternity fraud. Can there be anything more treacherous? .

Allah please guide your daughter cos this predators called men be out there hunting to we the endangered species

I would advise against smoking cigarettes. They are super addictive and can be hard even imossible, to quit. Started smoking in 2016 and I finally was able to stop this year, though I get cravings from time to time.

If you must smoke, I'd suggest smoking something natural ifkwim.

Anyway, Benson & Hedges Switch was my preferred brand, though I enjoyed Malboro once in a while

Nothing to see here...Symptoms of fatherlessness. Expect more of this kind of behaviour in the future

I really pity men who take women's words seriously. I can guarantee that if the relationship only ended at copulation, the man would have been accused of sexúally assaulting this woman or, at best, accused of abusing his power or taking advantage of her.

My own na to just look and laugh. It's all entertainment now

Canadaornothing:
What's the man's business?

Nothing to do with his ex fiancée apparently