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ggh

She should go ahead and live her life. There are plenty men in the world for her to choose from

sisisioge:
This babe should just leave this guy's peeps alone. Let them visit you if they want....truly move on jare.

You want her to move on from money? Can you reject good thing?

Okay, now I understand.

It's a cultural thing. This is what they have been taught from infancy - to always compare themselves and compete with yorubas. Interesting.

Point noted and well taken

sisisioge:


Mistakes do happen fa....as in the risk of letting your peepee fall into someone else's puspus unconsciously is very high especially with all this Lagos traffic. Pele darling.

. Nobody prays for evil, but anything can happen

Wait, I thought "my mama tell me say I be igbo" was an insult? What changed?

sisisioge:
Hian! My interest is noble though....not reckless or indiscriminate sha.

Na so. I believe you totally

Hope you've been good.

Oh, yes i have. You?

Karleb:
I guess this makes sense but maybe the statement has been abused online and honestly, there are people who have used that mantra to be irresponsible.

Sometimes here, a guy complained of how his big brother who is doing okay neglected his siblings even let his own mother die of a curable/maintainable ailment but ended up throwing a lavish party for the burial, do you want to know what happened next? Nairalanders started saying the brother owe them nothing. At that point, I felt like killing somebody , I was really really angry.

I used to be in a situation where I look up to people but now, younger ones are gradually looking up to me and I know my obligations to them. Maybe saying I owe them sound somehow but I know what I must do.

In the realistic sense, the brother owed them nothing. Everyone is responsible for their outcomes in life. Nobody owes you anything

sisisioge:

Always thought you had no interest on carnal matters

sisisioge:


I have always known big something equals big wahala! Very over rated something! Moderate is darling biko.

Smh

Lol. Nobody still owes you anything. Anything you receive from anybody is a gift/charity.

I wonder what the reason for the attempted murder is

IamGreen1:
Alright, virtuous lady fall on you.

Amen and thank you.
Good man land on you too

IamGreen1:
Alright, I'm not

Well, I'm a gentleman and I insist bro

See woman wey dem pay hin bride price dey behave like degenerate.

You stripped naked on another man's bed and you're worried about his own reaction, not even what your husband would do if he found out

Are we not finished in this generation laidis?

IamGreen1:
Instead of you to answer my question first, do you deserve a virtuous woman, yes or no?

Ladies first

IamGreen1:
Yes he married a good, virtuous woman give it a thought if your kind of person deserve such woman.

Are you a good woman

IamGreen1:
I love this but kindly share with us what your father did that make him to deserve all what your mother did for him so that all these men here can also learn from your dad like some ladies here like me I've learnt from your mum.

I'll tell you what her father did right to get that kind of treatment from his wife in his darkest days. He married a good, virtuous woman. That's it. That's what he did.

You're welcome

Mairice125:
If you want to get married to a woman , practice celibacy (continence) for minimum of one year.Celibacy is a powerful tool to get to k know the woman you want to marry , without it you can never get the right woman .While being celibate make sure you chase your goals so keenly never loose sight on your goals ,make money and be financial bouyant.When you finally get married make sure you are very good in bed ,I mean very very very good in bed Believe this or not great sex is the only way you can submit yourself and your wife to God .When you chase your goals ,great sex , holding firm to your morals and values that way any woman would surrender and submit are whole being to you .Dm me I will advice you more

I totally endorse this message.

Men need to stop choosing women based on emotions. Being able to be celibate for a lengthy period of time basically kills sentiments and makes you as logical as you can possibly be

Also, the energy you would have expended in chasing women would be put to much better use

DrayZee:
Is there a reason why all of you are picking this one part of finances while avoiding the fact that she lays curses on her husband all the time and also may not be able to conceive due to an abortion (and thinks it’s spiritual)?

Because a man without money is like a smartphone without internet. Both useless.

He doesn't deserve blessings because he's not Dangote. The curses his wife constantly lays upon him are the rewards for his lack of sufficient funds

He should go and have money to be able to fund his wife's every request before he can expect sweet words and respect

Flier:
This POSTER seem to be the problem in the marriage if you look at it from psychological point of view but since we are not able to read from the lady,everything he post is allowed
Some of the points the poster made make him the culprit
She has a weak womb
You later got to know she had abortion while in school
You have been married for 2 years but no kid
From your first post,she abuse you but society does not allow you to beat her

Seek professional help

Fountainofyouth:
A lack of functional womb will not get pregnant TWICE, an incompetent cervix will have multiple miscarriages as is evident of Op's wife, a simple Google search will enlighten you.

Okay, she has a functional womb but the cervix lack competence due to abortions of her past life. Why should the OP be forced to bear the brunt of her poor choices?

Fountainofyouth:
I believe you are educated, is a weak womb, a lack of womb?

Okay sorry, a lack of a functional womb

Why violence, dear?

Fountainofyouth:
Dumbness of the century, you keep ranting lack of womb everywhere when Op specifically said she had miscarriage TWICE, are you blind? Or you lack comprehension?

You're not blind but you missed this direct quote from the OP himself?

Yea.....i messed up in that aspect..... Especially the background check and way of life.
The worst one was the medical check it was two years into marriage I found out she had weak womb due to abortion....

https://www.nairaland.com/6673069/marriage-finally-crashed#104176980

Xilsbridalhouse:
pecoleee345

There are 3 sides to a story, yours, hers and the truth.

I have a feeling you are leaving her because of the test result. Perhaps you detested her afterwards and now making her look bad to everyone to justify your actions.

The fact that you don't even know that the results of the test are super sufficient grounds for a divorce shows your ethical leanings.

She deserves to be divorced on the grounds of lack of womb alone. Jeez.

Protein0:
how many $ coupon?

Hello Protein0, been a while. Trust business is going well?

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A fool and his money are soon parted. Jaruma cash out dey go, nothing do you

Jerryherd:
I pity your life ... Smh for you

I pray to heavenly father say make those karichika slay queen no knack you kanyamata... You Account no go remain the same

They cannot come near me because I don't buy the kind of market they sell. I obey my heavenly father's commands and steer clear of them. I am divinely protected

Xilsbridalhouse:
I suspect he could be a cheat too. You know these things brings out the beast in women.

If I weren't trying to avoid a ban I would have said you're an imbecïle.

If he was cheating why didn't she leave? Why become a monster in another man's house?

Now that she's acting like a loon, the man has decided he will have none of it instead of becoming a monster. That's what people with functional brains do, not coming on NL to disgrace their lineage with watery hypotheticals

Jerryherd:
Juju pass juju

You mean mumu pass mumu?

Can't you see she's giving excuses why her shït doesn't work to her mumu clientele?

Solid marketing caveat. I actually respect this woman's sales acumen.

Her stuff is simply a placebo, so if you didn't get the results you desired, perhaps the gods don't want it to Genius

I need to build a brand so irredeemable nonces make me rich