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citywal:
this is exactly what my friends are telling me

You better listen to them

siofra:
I've lost hope in the redemption of Nigerian men, they come here and rant about women all day everyday, yet see how they are representing us abroad. All their problems in this life is women, all the bad things in this world were caused by women. I literally can't even...

It's going to be a long read so brace yourselves.



They'll come here now and call it hustling, stand up as men that you claim to be and overthrow this government, so that you'll leave a legacy for your children no they won't it's only to come here and blame women for your misfortunes.

Wasn't an igbo woman caught a few days claiming to be Amina? And that's just one of the many female criminals we have, but in our magnanimity as Nigerian men we tend to soften punishment and embarrassement on our women.

With as little as two barely working brain cells you could have supported your premise, but alas you were too emotional to comprehend the article you yourself posted.

Did you not see this quote in the article?

Their wives mock them Are the wives Togolese?

Nigeria men are disgracing you, bit every Christmas you flock to the village to go and have your share of this disgraceful money, after gleefully rendering illicit services of course.

The last person to speak on morality is the Nigerian woman. Abi is it not Nigerian women offering relief services in Italy or guzzling faeces in Dubai?

No matter how wicked a Nigerian man is, a Nigerian woman is 10x evil

citywal:
like she's changed totally, bro late nights and all n this is something she doesn't do before. And many more the. Other day she was posting how she wants to take molly n all sorts c'mon man I know what I'm saying

Your woman is under the influence of another man (or men). I guarantee you, she's gone.

She's chosen the streets, respect her choice and have peace

citywal:
I just don't get it at all, I swear I don't. How can a girl know that you love her, like she knows legit.

I told her times without numbers reduce the way she goes out with friends, she lives in the mainland n I live at Ajah (lekki axis) her mum recently opened a restaurant and she should be helping the woman... Like I advice her alot.

I came across pastor Kingsley Okonkwo preaching that says "you saw her the way she was before you married her and it you didn't change her then why change her now"
Heaven knows I tried but if she can't stop we can't get married and I can't date her.

I can't keep getting worried anytime she goes out considering the dangerous times that we are now.

I am not a simp but fact is sooner or later y'all calling yourself redpillers will want to settle down.

I mean if this is how looking for a partner is hard I'll just get myself a baby mama n focus on my life n kid. I'm legit tired of all this...so pissed this night.

The redpill signifies an awakening from societal programming to actually understand life as it is.

In the area of relationships, an awake man realizes that choosing a mate is basically choosing an apple from a bunch of sour apples.

The one so chosen must be the most suitable considering your value and status. Basically, the redpill arms you with critical knowledge of what women are and gives you an advantage in the selection process. It is not a women-hating movement

samguru:
you hacked into my brain bro,

Men are not safe again, yesterday my friend's wife unleashed terror on my friend just because he assisted a female colleague in his office to receive some items.

1.Phone screen destroyed

2. Car windscreen smashed

3. Wrist watch destroyed

4. 3 debits cards destroyed

5. Me self chop small slap (Say na me dey teach him husband to cheat on her)


yet she is still threatening divorce.

Your friend's wife slapped you?

Opus85:
Bros that man don already Bleep your babe several times. Talking from experience. Once your instinct gives you those vibes, bros forget am. She has been bleeped and refucked

The man is the sugar daddy na. I can bet my left ball he has caned her in his car countless times. For a man to dash you money in this country, there must be something involved. He no get cousins wey need money?

Only a fool would be asking the kind of question the OP is asking

I remember one Sunday morning I went to see my chick, now ex, and she wasn't home when I got there. I called and she said she was at home, so I gave her the benefit of the doubt thinking she quickly stepped out to buy something.

However, not to be a much, I asked one of her neighbours when she went out and the bobo told me she didn't sleep at home and that he hadn't seen her that morning

Didn't call her back or anything. I left the house, got a bike and went home. After like 3 hours, this babe was at my house knocking my door saying she could explain. Aunty, abeg explain what, I ask you question? If you explain, who go market your script? Me?

Guys, please, stop fooling yourselves if it looks like shït, smells like shït and feels like shït, you don't need a prophet that you're dealing with shït. Flush the damn thing asap

braine:
The only sensible comment on this thread.

With 13 years experience, OP should even have a side hustle in his line of business already!!

He should probably have gotten more certifications or degrees or something!

Like you rightly said, he probably deserves the nonsense he was offered. All we can do if to do plus and minus on how he can manage the underating salary.

For real. 13 years in any business is more than sufficient time to set up your own similar outfit or to gather enough skills from your daily tasks to be super useful elsewhere

oluseg2:
It's easier said.

You think life is easy? If it was easy everybody would be Jeff Bezos na.

You don't know there are people that earn millions in the private sector in Nigeria and that these people are being worshipped by their bosses?

If you're looking for ease, please manage 85k after 13 years

kingscare1:
BIG Pussyy Ass Bittch.
Bye, do your thing make I do my thing, we don't make noise I make money, fucck bitches watch them cum on themselves, bitchees love'en and smoke weed.

Continue answering yes sir/ yes ma from 7am in the morning till 6pm in the evening while I sit on my couch with my laptop and make my own dough.

Big Pussy Bittchh...Quote me again.

You're just a fool. I employ, I don't answer yes sir or yes ma, that's why I understand value exchange
You make money but don't understand value, you're probably a scammer. Nobody who grows a business can be so stupid in real life

kingscare1:
Fvck off bitchh ass Niggaa.
That's for you, basically you are saying that your market value is determined by others. For me, I know my worth, the value I bring to the table, and I can't take less or more.

I can't work for any person rather I'm working on having several workers work for me.

Mindset vary.

Why are you not charging your clients/customers ₦1bn per service you offer to them?

Like I said, you lack basic english comprehension. You said you cannot take more than the value you bring to the table but you think the OP can? Are you smoking something?

If you charge a client a fee and they say it's too high and opt not to patronise you, can you force them? No. They do not see your services as worth that amount. Period.

If other customers/clients pay, it means those paying clients believe you're worth that. That is what I said that is making you foam at the mouth like a dog suffering from rabies.

Whatever you are able to aggregate from those prospects that refuse to pay and those clients that eventually patronise you is called market forces, you uncircumcised dingbat.

Dumbo, read to understand. Capisce?

siofra:
prettier

Every anonymous on the internet is as pretty as JLo. Your claims need to be verified by competent judges of beauty

kingscare1:
Na lie, a big fat lie.
I don't know about you, for me I determine my value through my personal convictions, who I am, and what I can offer to myself and the world and I don't give a damn if you think me less or more because I believe I'm the best in my choosing career and I'm working hard passionately every day to improve.

In as much as I believe that working for anyone belittles me personally and my ease of making money all by myself without a regular job, when it comes to working for anyone or when an employer feels that they cannot see my values, I move without wasting time as simple as that.

The bottom line - Fvck salary or regular job.

Out and peace...

Stop spitting all over the place like someone that dropped out of kindergarten.

Your market value in terms of what you'll be paid what paying customers believing your services are worth

Do you know how many broke people are personally convinced that they deserve to earn ad much as Dangote?

At the end of the day, you agreed with me, but feel personally attacked for some weird reason.

You need to learn to read to understand, not to reply

Benrosaria:
� � lolololol but really who thinks of divorce after marriage and still thinks marriage is love

We really are living by some deliberately distorted info and truths. Na oyinbo teach us say na love dem dey take marry, couldn't be further from the truth.

Marriage is based on compatibility mainly. A lot of people are in love but not compatible and have no controls for avoiding divorce. A shame really

If after 13 years, you have not been able to increase your skill level to a point where employers would be scared of offering you 85k, then that's what you deserve.

Everyday you go to work, you must actively develop yourself to be worth what you want to earn from life.

Nobody pays you for time, they pay for your value. If you are worth 850k to them they'll pay you 850k. That is the reality. If you believe you are undervalued where you are, then prove it by offering your service and skills to other employers and see if they jump at your offer or not.

You don't determine your value, the market does.

aribisala0:
Flying kick or free kick?

Actually na sliding tackle

tunjijones:
Ipob shd build bridges not destroy it.

They are incapable of building bridges. Are you not aware that they are superior to every other Nigerian tribe? They don't need any useless bridge

MrColdsweat:
Insults will not get us biafra. But diplomacy can. This man has the power and influence to cripple Nigeria in 24 hours via his militants. He can be useful to us in Our struggle.

Think!!

You are attracting animosity with your uncouth utterances.

I'm beginning to believe your people may be just as tyrannical as the Fulanis the claim to despise for their high-handedness. If you cannot humble yourself to ask fro help from someone who means you no ill when you desperately need their assistance, what will you do when you have all the power to do as you please?

freshkpomo:
you guys abuse that word simp on nairaland. Nairaland accommodates the good,bad and ugly.

You spoke about peace of mind, who told you men of this generation don't act like people who needs peace of mind, have you seen how some men make jokes of those church type of girls that put on long skirts with no make-up?

I will end it here so it will not seem like I am justifying enlargement and it's related stuff. Thanks for your time.

The moment you absolve women of their personal responsibility and accountability, you're a simp

melzabull:
coming from someone from a tribe that claims superiority over every tribe in nigeria, a tribe of loud mouths and chest beaters like primitive dimwits.

You yoroobas are always full of yourselves with your i-too-know rubbish.

Always on every igbo related spewing gabbage

Please remind us again which war has aboki won?

We can set up a poll and ask Nigeriansp who the biggest braggarts are on Nigeria. The igbos will lead the polls over every other tribe combined

Here you are again, not being able to make your point without cheap insults, even deliberately misspelling yoruba . Unfortunately for you, it changes nothing about our reality in this country.

Wake the ffuck up

Boudiccao:
Upon how pissful and diplomatic Igboho was, he was still hunted by the govt and his weak Yoruba nation agitation has taken a backseat.
Say something else!!

You are free to deliberately misunderstand my simple English. However, Igboho never insulted igbos or Urhobo or Ijaw or Calabar and that is my point.

You Yorubas must always find reasons even non existent reasons to taunt and mock Igbos /ipob. Say something else.

Taunt and mock igbos? That would be foolishness on my Aprt or any yoruba's part for that matter. There is nothing to mock. You are your own problem, always saying everyone is envious and jealous of your tribe which is the superior tribe.

As a southerner, I have the same problems as the igbo man, a totally incompetent government. But the igbo man would be insane to think I would want to join him in struggling to free myself of this mad government if he thinks and tries to remind me of his superiority to me by constantly insulting me and my tribe. If the igbo man believes he can go it himself, I wish him good luck and absolutely no bad intentions.

However, as foolish and cowardly as me and my tribes people are, I would like to remind you that these same fulanis have attempted to take over our lands many times and they have failed those times. The only time they succeeded was when a man, Afonja, thought he could go it alone and he lost woefully.

There are strategies to win wars , which yoruba's have deployed for centuries successfully and chest beating is not one of them.

IPOB fans have shown themselves to be quite unaware of how successful campaigns are achieved.

This same trash they are doing to Edwin Clark is the same mistake Nnamdi Kanu made, calling Yorubas cowards and all sorts of unsavory names. Upon the hounding of Sunday Igboho, you can now all see that yoruba elders also want out of this zoo.

The last thing a reasonable human will do is be a comrade to someone who disrespects them at every given opportunity.

Igbos, I put it to you that with all your beliefs of superiority over other Nigerian tribes, it will take you longer to achieve Biafra if you do not know how to play politics, build bridges and make concessions. It is not by chest beating.

How many abokis have you seen bragging up and down? No be mouth dem dey take win war o. Go and read the Art of War by Sun Tzu and learn. Leave all these prehistoric chest beating and name-calling to low IQ losers.

You must collaborate if you must win

Benrosaria:
Exactly the sin in sex is when it is abused. A woman is suppose to be eaten gracefully and gratefully regardless of marriage.

Anyone who marries and files a divorce needs to die

Oga, die bawo. You need to calm down bro

Totally agree with your first paragraph though

22jumpstreet:
Sex is sin because it is pleasurable...it gives us that "feel good " feeling due to the hormones that are released...

So it is sin and weapon in Satan Arsenal..

The funny thing is that does who have this mentality are either suffering from premature ejaculation, have a small dick or infertile....


Or gay.

First of all, sex is not a sin. The sin is having sex under the wrong parameters.

Sex is pleasurable, but it also has its other purposes such as; intimacy, procreation, etc. The sin with sex is when sex is abused.

You are commanded to give and help people in need, but if you fail to fulfil your responsibilities to your family, no amount of charity giving will render your generosity righteous. Failing to care for members of your household and giving to strangers is sinful.

SimplePlan34:
Shows u how d creator plays us all.

What is the playing there? The bible has said it " everything in moderation". You cannot be totally free until you can govern yourself. You must refuse to be a slave to carnal desires, you are spirit in flesh. Do not let the flesh control you.

If you lack self control, it's not God's fault. You have simply refused to bring your flesh under subjection

freshkpomo:
I know what I am saying, you need to see the way men worship these women online, they heap praises on them and ignore or sometime insult those without it. Let's look for instance there was a Post on how a lady stole the show at a party because she had big assets. A female cannot make such a post and the major people that commented on that post were male folks. No matter what you say, men are encouraging it indirectly because of their desire for it, people pay millions just to have a taste of it and these things makes the women feel they are on track.

Lastly no man will openly tell a woman to go get a butt or boobs enlargement, but deep down most of them crave for it. The internet is your friend,you can take a walk round the profile of some of these female folk. You even see some men telling them thank you for accepting my request

Are you a drug dealer or yahoo boy? Do millions of Nigerian women not fain over drug dealers and yahoo boys on the internet and even in real life?

Anybody is free to say anything with their mouth and data. You have your own life to live with your own choices. Nobody will put a gin to your head and say they will kill you if you don't buy a Benz by next Friday.

If these women are so easily swayed into putting their lives in danger because of internet nobodies and that is justified, then perhaps, their phones should be seized from them or they should be banned from using he internet. Again, why do they have to post their body shapes on the net for people who don't know then and they don't know to validate their beauty?

Are they so weak and so vapid that a few mean words is sufficient to put their lives in danger?

Btw, the kind of woman that will continually post images of herself on the internet for public approval is exactly the kind of woman no man that values his peace and life should even consider marrying.

Again, I repeat, do not be a simp

freshkpomo:
. Seniorwriter


Sir, things have changed for real. The only reason marriage still exists is because of religion. Marriage is gradually been replaced with baby mama and baby papa stuff, not just with celebrities alone, it's happening in the streets too.

The only reason marriage still exists is because men want children. The baby mama thing is still rising. When it gets to a head, marriage go be like Volkswagen Beetle, artifact

freshkpomo:
Ladies when don go for boobs and ass enlargement can't really take consequences serious and men folks on the other side just got rewired to start pushing women towards that direction by craving for it.

Is there any man that has specifically old a woman to go get a bigger boob or butt? If they exist, they're probably less than 1% of men.

The women do it because they are daft or they want to be attractive to men so they can corner resources. No man is going to tell a woman to get a boobjob, yet women are doing it because they want to live baby girl lifestyle. And even if their men suggested it, they are at liberty to refuse and date someone else,nobody held a gun to their heads

Please, don't be a simp. Let these women take full responsibility for their actions

blizard44:
By reactions to the conversation in question.

Oh, that's right. People neither lie nor pretend.

Now, I see why muslims say women have the highest population in hell.

I mean look at these men showing gratitude to this woman for her help throughout the years. I'm touched. Women think sex is just sex for men, but it's not. It is as important as the air we breathe.

If you are a woman today depriving your man of sex, just know that hell fire is your portion, you cannot see heaven. It is the height of wickedness to deprive your man of sex. Anything that can make a man neglect his mother for you is very vital. Women change today.

Happy Sunday to you all

Largely because they had no choice but stay married. There were consequences for absconding your marriage.

Today, those consequences are largely dissolved or weakened, hence, no incentive to remain married when your spouse is making you see crazy

esnbrutality:
please define passion and interchange with emotions...

you afonja people are deplorable "mouth action" ninjas...

So foool of yourselves and you know nothing!!

YOU GUYZ ARE DISGUSTING...

You sound fatherless. Try hanging around your uncles and other men in your neighbourhood. You have a loooot of growing up to do