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CrimeRe: Cross River Assailants Kill & Eat 5 Cassava Harvesters In Ebonyi by Belafonte(m): 6:34pm On Jul 15, 2021
FamilyRe: Ladies: How Is Your Relationship With Your Mother-in-law? by Belafonte(m): 4:46pm On Jul 14, 2021
Juliusmomoh:
No mother in_law is bad... Na the character wey you carry from your house to your husband house bad. And your mother in-law can't be sitting down looking you.
Bro, dont be ridiculous. There are insane wives, as well as insane MILs. I've seen enough of both.
CrimeRe: Cross River Assailants Kill & Eat 5 Cassava Harvesters In Ebonyi by Belafonte(m): 12:41pm On Jul 14, 2021
27Pushing30:
i'm telling you... e shock me say those around were not shocked to see those guys eating that officer
Wait, what? Endsars people ate a human being? grin
RomanceRe: I Am Scared Of Marriage, Advise Me Please by Belafonte(m): 1:47pm On Jul 08, 2021
Austeeenxx:
Those of us wey go attend Shiloh 2030 too many abeg.
As in. Make una dey reserve front seat, make anointing dey first touch una grin
PoliticsRe: Yoruba Nation Not The Answer - Soyinka by Belafonte(m): 6:05pm On Jul 06, 2021
Nukilia:
This double-mouthed Professor should just go and sit down somewhere! Believe him at your own risk grin grin grin

Can we have our Southern Protectorate?

Let the North keep its Northern protectorate!
You lack brain. You want DSS to go and arrest an octogenarian under the guise of calling for secession? Its like you don't have elderly people in your lineage
CrimeRe: NDLEA Nabs Nigerian Mum-of-3 With 100 Wraps Of Cocaine In Her Private Part, Bag by Belafonte(m): 10:39pm On Jul 04, 2021
xynerise:
Today na Igbo turn with drugs, tomorrow na Yoruba man with Human heads, next tomorrow na Hausa/Fulani man with terrorism grin
As in. Nigeria is such a fantastic space. Everybody with their unique gifts and modus operandi
RomanceRe: Most Men Will Marry Runs Girls by Belafonte(m): 5:58pm On Jul 04, 2021
Many men are going to commit suicide or have stroke in future grin

Just marry and insha Allah
Christianity EtcRe: Dominion City & RCCG: Changing Church As A Married Woman by Belafonte(m): 5:08pm On Jul 04, 2021
AntiWailer:
Imagine.

So they did not discuss all these before the party ?
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Oh, they obviously did. But as soon as they got married, madam wasn't feeling the church anymore so the agreement became null and void based on her feelings grin
RomanceRe: Heartbreak: Lady Weeps As She Asks Guys What They Want From Relationships by Belafonte(m): 4:54pm On Jul 04, 2021
kay29000:
Hahaha
You yoursef, you be husband material? grin
RomanceRe: Heartbreak: Lady Weeps As She Asks Guys What They Want From Relationships by Belafonte(m): 4:54pm On Jul 04, 2021
Adakintroy:
Lol. You and me know him no de work like that.

Most niga weh rake full ground for online go still go beg them on the low.
Wahala for who no get sense bro. Dem no way tell blind man say rain dey fall grin
RomanceRe: Heartbreak: Lady Weeps As She Asks Guys What They Want From Relationships by Belafonte(m): 4:05pm On Jul 04, 2021
olurili:
my brother some guys are doing that already,i know a man that marry blue angel ashewo that he met for hotel,
This is actually not new, bit expect it to become common within the next 10 years when girls will stay walking about totally naked.
RomanceRe: Heartbreak: Lady Weeps As She Asks Guys What They Want From Relationships by Belafonte(m): 4:04pm On Jul 04, 2021
Hassanmaye:
My guy you are very Good person, married women is a no no if you want to be successful and live long, if na another guy!!!!
No man is good except our Father in heaven grin.

But I get what you mean. I just find it distasteful that the woman in this video is blaming Nigerian men for her relationship woes. The same Nigerian woman that sees a broke man as a criminal and a yahoo boy as a saint because of material things and soft life is whom I should pity? Never. Many of them are street dogs
RomanceRe: Heartbreak: Lady Weeps As She Asks Guys What They Want From Relationships by Belafonte(m): 3:53pm On Jul 04, 2021
Adakintroy:
Lead una no lead follow una no follow.
Na hin be say make everybody dey dia dey na grin
RomanceRe: Heartbreak: Lady Weeps As She Asks Guys What They Want From Relationships by Belafonte(m): 3:50pm On Jul 04, 2021
Hassanmaye:
You should have given her na
I have nephews and nieces asking me for stuff and I haven't responded to them all.

She should be content with the little her husband can provide. That is how they continue prostituti*n in their matrimonial homes. It is shameful begging exes for money
RomanceRe: Heartbreak: Lady Weeps As She Asks Guys What They Want From Relationships by Belafonte(m): 3:38pm On Jul 04, 2021
larryking540:
my guy we are entering an era of if na olosho get good behavior na that one we go marry I swear
I think a lot of guys are yet to come to terms with this truth
FamilyRe: The Continuous Decline In Critical Thinking Among Nigerian University Students by Belafonte(m): 7:35am On Jul 04, 2021
Dtruthspeaker:
Critical Thinking tells me that all you said is void! Why?

Because you and the author do not know what giving education and getting education is all about.

The value of Life is good Living! Now, anything which aids good living is welcome. But anything which is a void is a complete waste of other good things eg time, resources, energy, soul, space!

So it is with giving and getting an education.

If it is not Gainful and Profitable, then it is a waste of good things!

So if it is not profitable to acquire certificate/certificates, get educated in another Lawful activity which is profitable for you!
I was going to oppose this but you have a point.

While the OP does a good job articulating his observation, I'd say he's looking from the micro point of view
RomanceRe: Heartbreak: Lady Weeps As She Asks Guys What They Want From Relationships by Belafonte(m): 7:21am On Jul 04, 2021
Una never ready. Nigerian women under 35 years old are largely unmarriageable. Know this and know peace.

After all the copulation styles, what next? The go on social media and start to look for attention posting trash and responding to DMs from men other than their lovers/spouses.

And they have the funniest behaviours. I remember a married ex who has a baby not up to six months texting me for 20k. In my mind I was like "abi Ogun wan kill your papa? Na me dey f*ck you?" Just posted her till she stopped asking. If I want to give money out I have family in need.

Nigerian women, I know you don't want to hear this, but the simple truth is that you are unmarriageable. Maybe we guys are also unmarriageable too, so ojoro cancel ojoro grin
RomanceRe: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by Belafonte(m): 1:41pm On Jul 01, 2021
Faithy247:
Not every woman is like your sister,ex or female cousins idiot with a stupid notion.
I pray for God to heal you sis. It shall be well with you kiss
RomanceRe: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by Belafonte(m): 1:40pm On Jul 01, 2021
AutoChick4U:
But I've been without sex for more than a year. Mind you I'm a sexually active adult who simply chose to be disciplined. It ain't easy though
There's always an exception to every rule sis. How many women do you know that can stay fr one year like you?
RomanceRe: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by Belafonte(m): 1:40pm On Jul 01, 2021
YelloweWest:
Have lived in the US and seen what other women do OPENLY?
Spend one month in any Nigerian city and weep. You think the lamentations by men in the romance section is just bad belle? People are the same everywhere bro. Know this and know peace
RomanceRe: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by Belafonte(m):
I don't understand why Nigerian men in the diaspora think it's a good thing to come marry wives from Nigeria. It is always a foolish thing.

Nigerian women are extremely sexually active, and I can just imagine the body count of a 33 year old Nigerian woman. This kind of woman cannot stay unsexed for more than a few weeks at most.

Stop fooling yourselves. If she's not a virgin don't bother coming to pick a Nigerian wife. If you cannot marry a woman in your immediate environment, you don't deserve to have a wife.

Hopefully, other men learn from this unfortunate episode

HRHQueenPhil:
U are the person, he is not matured enof to marry. To have a sweet marriage, u must learn how to forgive. If u can't forgive, den don't bother getting married..
He shld go abroad and join the monastery grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
You're either trolling or naive. The mature thing for him to do is actually cancel marriage plans and move on. The woman has no business visiting men behind closed doors, least of all her ex boyfriend.
CrimeRe: Chidinma Ojukwu: How I Stabbed Michael Usifo Ataga To Death (Video) by Belafonte(m): 7:26pm On Jun 24, 2021
Joysticks:
She knew that the man wanted to use her and dump as other rich men have done to her and her olosho friends in the past.So she decided to kill him so that she would steal his money and go and hire a big boutique shop and start selling ladies pants and be boasting that she worked hard to make her money.
Are you suggesting that murder isn't hard work? grin
RomanceRe: ....... by Belafonte(m): 2:25pm On Jun 24, 2021
Joyless004:
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Turn off; 1. lies (If u know u ain't ready to be with one person,pls avoid me. U won't be comfortable playing games around me).
Oga, wake up
RomanceRe: Getting Husbands by Belafonte(m): 9:34am On Jun 24, 2021
Divoc19:
You know our men are becoming too lazy nowadays, sending their girls/wives out there to support their manhood and still want to claim to be man at home?
It's not really laziness, it's a little bit more complicated than that.

The old ways of making money (re: school education and employment securing) are no longer viable for large swaths of the population and a lot of men that have been trained in that regard are not adaptable. And this is why you see a lot of internet fraud, because me have to meet up with responsibilities and even just life basically.

The trend of dependent men will be a thing of the past in the next 10 years, at least there'll be a drastic improvement. And this is because a lot people are disregarding the school-job route and opting for irregular income generating skills. That's why you also see a lot of bitcoining and tech and entrepreneurship.

Relax na rest we dey so. wink
FamilyRe: Please Help.my Wife Has Denied Me Sex For More Than 6 months now by Belafonte(m): 12:47am On Jun 24, 2021
You wey suppose done print IV for traditional wedding. Mumu man. You called your in-laws to beg your wife to f^ck you. Hahahahaha. Have some dignity, mahn
FamilyRe: My Neighbours Wife. by Belafonte(m): 12:22am On Jun 24, 2021
shortgun:
3 things my Dad told me the day I turned 12.

1. Never desire another man's wife.
2. Never deny any man his dues.
3. Don't look down on anyone.

I've kept these words close to my heart all my life and they have been my guide.
If having willing females equals success, I would be among the most successful men alive.
Yet, here you are at 12 midnight complaining that a man is protecting his wife from your advances grin
FamilyRe: “If You Fight My Side Chick, I Will Upgrade Her To Wife” - Nigerian Man. by Belafonte(m):
Twoclans:
I will rather be a side chic to Dangote than be a wife to nwAmaikpe of nairaland.

Good side chics are important for a mans sanity,regardless of our disdain for side chics the truth is that side chics keeps a man sane.They will always have a place in the society.
Perfect

A lot of women will deny this, but this is the truth about how most women think. Society is just forcing y'all to stick with one average, or even poor, man.

Abeg do you jare kiss
FamilyRe: My Neighbours Wife. by Belafonte(m): 12:04am On Jun 24, 2021
drmikeadams:
Give am anything u wan give am...
Abi. Instead of trying to assuage his guilt with story for the gods grin
FamilyRe: My Neighbours Wife. by Belafonte(m): 12:03am On Jun 24, 2021
Dude, shut the eff up and face front. Talmbout you want to repay her kindness.

Nigga for you to start a thread clearly shows your unwholesome intentions.

You're fooling nobody, least of all her huaband grin
RomanceRe: Getting Husbands by Belafonte(m):
Peace081:
Why are the uneducated girls so lucky to get husbands faster than the educated ones?
Please this topic should be move to front page.
Cc Lalasticlala
Cc MissyB3
Cc Fynestboi
Cc Mynd44
Cc Seun
Men don't care about your money and your degrees unless he wants to live off you or needs your help in running the household day-to-day.

The kind of men that women want are exactly the kind of men that marry uneducated women. You women can protest this as much as you want, but this is the simple truth.

A woman who depends on her man and appreciates that fact will have a happier home than a woman with a chip on her shoulder who believes she can walk out of the marriage at any time. These different sets of women bring different attitudes and approaches to their relationships.

No man that has options (read high status men) will tolerate the arrogance of an independent woman, unless he lacks self respect or self esteem.

So, there's the answer to your question
PoliticsRe: “Rise Above Your Stomach And Respect Yourself”, Okai Tells FFK Over Bello Praise by Belafonte(m): 11:42pm On Jun 23, 2021
Commentor:
grin
My broda no be die be dat? grin

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