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I generally agree with this dude, even though I think he made quite a few generalisations and wrong statements.

I'd probably rate the info in this video 4 out of 10

Hathor5:
I met a friend last week for dinner who had had a flourishing career before she got pregnant last year. She delivered the baby in February. She said her life has changed for the worse.

Women should know themselves and not be guided by self-proclaimed experts on womantology.

This is interestng. Did she give any insights on what she considers as a worsening of her life? Gestation itself? Childcare? Covid? Care to share?

The very gender that always screams against domestic violence are the greatest perpetrators of abuse.

They have set up more than one million NGOs to protect themselves while they mete wickedness on their husbands and children of other women.

Liposure:
To be fair here, the ladies were clearly at fault on all counts cos they started it. Even though another guy would have chosen to walk away. However all men are not the same. Women cant be playing the weaker sex card all the time. Agreed violence against women is shameful. But that does not give them the right to provoke a man as they please

Another woman would have moved on too. This is common sense.

Also, this is not violence against women, this is self defence

obowunmi:
You my friend are a MAD person. how can you advocate that a man beat up a woman ? the men should have been gentlemen and given up their seats for the women. Its only polite.

You need to be committed into a mental institution. Why didn't the other men who came to the ladies defence offer their own seats when the argument began? Why should anybody be entitled to seats because of gender?

engrchykae:
the boy is supposed to be locked up for two months before questioning.
He is a very stupid boy.
For the fact that you like what the guy did shows you are not a gentleman.

Idiot, go and lock him up na

Uyi168:
U can stay back and enjoy your booming business.. While he too, can relocate and continue his career..
Life be nor dey hard, na we humans dey complicate issues..

As in I don't get the purpose of this thread

I really don't see why anybody on this thread is trying to convince you to do something you already agreed to do with your husband years ago.

Your options are simple and clear: stay back and continue flourishing in your business or go when your husband is going, and start again.

mariahAngel:


Don't be a dunce!
I don't enable foolish threads that demean women period!
Buka does that all the time, reason why you guys "adore" her and urge her on.

Oh! And...apply your punctuation(s) in the appropriate places for easy reading and comprehension Mr Literature!

There's really no reason to be salty. You can disagree with opposing opinion and tactics like someone that went to school.

It's also to keep quiet when you can't eke out an intelligent response to differing worldviews.

And thanks for the punctuation suggestions, I'll try to improve in my subsequent posts.

mariahAngel:
In other words, we should've allowed the bullsh!t of a thread where women being compared to strawberries to carry on so that men like you can have a fill day right?

"The daily bashing of women on nairaland is not enough, let us compare them to fruits..."
Like play, like play, na so Hoe-losho take stuck!
...and which yeye axe you and Buka dey grind?

You can have misgivings about the innuendos and how women are characterized without sounding like an illiterate. As far as, English composition is concerned the OP of the thread has made no errors.

Your problem with his worldview is what you should address, not the format in which thy are expressed.

It is no crime to haul dung with a Benz SUV. Your problem should be with the dung, not the Benz

mariahAngel:
So, you really took this piece of sh!t seriously?
Did God ever tell you He created humans in the likeness of fruits?
OK. If you were a fruit, what would you be? Let me guess: a banana

Posts like these tend to expose the abject deficiencies in Nigeria's educational system. Didn’t you do literature in any school you may have attended? Haven’t heard of symbolism? Did Jesus himself not use earthly things to explain mysteries of the kingdom? By your logic, Jesus placed earthly things and the kingdom on the same level.

Are you really literal or do you just have an axe to grind against Buka?

LadySarah:
To reform Nigeria, religious sentiments will be overlooked
Anybody with more than 3 children will pay tax to the govt. Heavy tax. Excess children will be terned luxury goods.

The whole thing is pissing me off.

I think anybody with even one child should be taxed

Unnerve:
I will collect on his behalf. Liquid courage is good for once in a while.

No wahala. Whoever has seen you has seen the father sef.

Unnerve:
I was one of the lucky ones who had a father who taught him game very early in life.
He was the one who introduced me to this principle and although it was very hard during my teens, by the time I was in my early 20s, I had mastered & fully inculcated the act of mastering myself and my sexual needs around women.

It has saved me and continues saving me from female manipulations.

The lady didn't include tears, lol. Pops also taught me to identify real emotional tears from manipulative crocodile tears.

I owe your pops a full carton of whatever spirit he drinks.

Not bad, Buka.

Rozz:
I was eavesdropping on some elderly discussion(men)today and heard so many things from this men of wisdom and decided to bring it here as well. It was a discussion about a man who stabbed his wife's concubine that she brought home while her husband was away,the man chased his wife's concubine naked round the whole neighborhood and everything became public,after the whole drama, the wife told her husband that she will deal with him for this big disgrace he has caused her, one of those men outrightly condemns the man's reaction and termed it senseless and dangerous.He was of the opinion that the man should have simply conceal the wife's adulterous act and end things with her peacefully as he could risk being killed by the wife which might take years for her to carry out her threat,but some of these men supported the man's action and it became an endless argument.Initially I supported the exposure as it kinds of bring emotional support for the man especially from his family,friends and even children,but I later began to reason with the other man who thinks otherwise.I feel affairs should not be exposed to children,familes and friends,it kind of create enormous suffering for the children psychologically and this children grows up with some kind of depression and anxiety and this becomes a torn in their strong emotional attraction and commitment to their spouse and family in future which in turn results to a permanent damage and broken homes,this becomes a norm in such family.So I think it's best never to expose an adulterous wife,it is not foolishness but wisdom.What do you think?

Yorubas say a cheating wife can kill her husband. So, if a man finds his wife cheating, the marriage should be over and the retribution biblical. If she wants to kill him after the divorce, she should do so with assassins, that’s if she herself is still alive and in control of her own faculties.

And to think she still has the temerity to threaten the husband she cheated on because “he disgraced her”.

Romangalactic:
I love your comment. I too am very visual person because I've made peace with the reality that love is a mask and relationships will always depend on selfish interests. I can't stand my woman looking like a whale,not when I'm responsible for her financially and all she has to do for me is look exceptionally attractive.

The day she starts to let go in the name of I gave birth to your children,na dat day I begin search for another smallie with my spec to use as sidechic. You can't be eating my money and still want to use emotion to manipulate me into liking what I hate.

Sorry to say, but you’re not a real man

Romangalactic:
Daz all.

If to say some women be God, they would have found a way by now to make the DNA of a bastard child match dat of the husband, but God will not let devil shame us. All the glory belongs to him.

Glory to God in the highest

Paternity fraud will stop when men make it a duty to find out if the children they have been given truly belong to them or not.

bukatyne:
Seven points agenda for N50m.

Anyways, he who pays the piper dictates the tune.

Carry on.

It is what it is, Buka. Do they not follow more stringent rules for less money in their places of employment? Abi you think 50milla is 500k?

Owo lo n soro nau.

Move on

Ybaby:
Apology accepted.

Go and sin no more

Weyrey alaso

Ybaby:
NEVER NEVER NEVER

You that has fish brain.... my hubby is a sharp man with respect for women knowing he was born by a woman.

Not some 50k salary earning with shoulder pad ego where as he secretly likes it from behind.

How dare you compare yourself to men of timber and calibre like my sweetie - you that a woman is probably rooting your Bill's and buying you shoes


See this slownpoke saying he is faster than my sweetim let me be clear your father and all the men in your family can NEVER be as fast as my Oga.

How can!?

You that you are dim!

I am in a good mood today o. Saying a woman should not talk when you are talking .... as per na dog.

You are demented !!

You that a woman popped you out... born of a woman and now you want to frustrate women.

Walahi o gbadun rara .... you and your chicken change are not fully balanced upstairs

Oya sorry, I can see you flinging spit everywhere like an epilepsy sufferer. No vex. As sharp as you claim your husband is, he went and married a daft Jezebel. That’s some sharpness I must admit. If by sharp, you mean he’s an imbeciile then I fully agree with you. Sha sorry.

Ybaby:
Ode!!!!
AFI spoons and Ogun na

You are quite slow bro

Still faster than your husband

Romangalactic:
Exactly. Just don't call dem golddiggers even when they know they are golddiggers. Same way we should not call a woman skinny or fat or ugly, even when she knows for real she's skinny or fat or ugly.

It's a woman thing

And that is the conclusion of the whole matter.

Ybaby:
God allows women to talk talkless of you a mere mortal.... do you know why we have alot of landladies?

If you dont want your wife to be landlady of house you built .... while you commute to heaven prematurely you better give yourself brain

Woman!

She is like water till she will drown you - you will not see her coming.

She is like the ocean enticing looks like you can walk all over her but she is so deep you will find yourself at the bottom of the sea bed

Woman!!!

Respect and fear her.

I notice you said physically so you are a wife beater.... I hope your meet your match.

Those men who had job doing well then started mistreating thier wives .... go and ask them how ot turned.

Your best bet is to have your woman in your corner but ti o ba lo crazy la San you will soon know delilah was a soldier in mini skirt what might men could not do - she finish work.

Donot die prematurely biko

I don’t need to beat a woman who cheats on me. Her punishment will be handed to her by the gods. She will swear oaths. If Regina Daniels can do it, so can any other woman who desires to marry me.

I will hand her over to Ogun and Sopona.

The prayer against premature death should be for your husband and sons, I’m quite good. But thanks for your concern

Romangalactic:
They don't just like to admit dat their choice of a man depends heavily on his financial standing because it makes dem seem superficial. But thank God for life,I have seen too much. Only innocent teenage girls fall in love simply on the idea of love, that genuine butterfly feeling is still very real at dat age.

Money hungry wenches are perfect for me, but they must fit my physical requirements 100%.no compromises, everyone is winning

Oh, they don’t mind admitting money is a huge incentive. Where they have issues is where you acknowledge their game and counter play. Al of a sudden, you want a puppet and will only attract money hungry wenches. But nobody complained when they wanted walking ATMs.

Romangalactic:
This is not a problem,well to me personally it's not a problem. Which is why I have always gone for women with the best looks and biggest nyansh. She can pretend all she wants but as long as she is my perfect type physically and sexually, we gonna roll.

And God forbid money gets scarce,I won't be surprised if she leaves cos I was already expecting it. In fact, any woman staying wit me & still respecting me when I can't provide for her is wat can surprise me.

It’s reverse psychology. No respect without money, they say, from the same lips they say basing your respect on money will attract money hungry wenches. The cognitive dissonance is huge in her

Ybaby:
Pmoye is a wise man.

What he did not say is that those lazy men will suffer eh have you seen the tactics of a bitter woman.

The man will be disgraced everywhere they go - she will remove every masculine from him and make him her sissy and he will not be able to do anything about it.

Pay the Bill's as a man !!! It is for your own good or else wo ma wooo eh wa wooo mummy eh.


Just this evening one of my staff husband came to report her that because he has not paid the rent for 12 years she is always embarrassing him - I said ah! I will talk to her.

Of cos I am not talking to her- she works hard to put a roof over his head and that of thier 3 children. She is resentful and if it is only embarrassment he is getting I think it is fair.

It is what it is. Pay the cost to be the boss

Biglittlelois:
All because you're bringing money to the table means she won't have a mind of her own? You want a "Yes sir" woman? Smh,

Spirituality is an individual race, learn to intercede for yourself, your wife can only join you, it is a mutual cooperation.

In all you typed, you only want your wife to love you because of the money you have, you never for once mentioned anything about loving her as a human that she is, and you think you wouldn't attract a money hungry lady after most of all you typed? Lol.

Reread my comment, possibly up to 15 times, I’m sure your comprehension isn’t faulty, you just replied impulsively.

Drink water, take deep breaths and reread. Shalom