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For the right amount, they surely will.

Once money is involved, I wouldn't put anything past them

YorubaLord:
Mostly black ladies...

Dey dia na

SanctifiedSista:
that's the last resort and very much allowed

Allowed for foolish men.

Do it once and you'll do it forever. Save your time and energy for a woman that actually respects you

Lol. This is trash. You need to stop letting your insecurities and ignorance make you spew nonsense

There are millions of people who have monkey-branched living happily-ever-after as we speak.

What you typed up there does happen, but it only happens in a certain percentage. It is certain not universal nor is it a rule of nature.

Don't fear a woman leaving because she found a better deal elsewhere. Embrace the fact that everyone has the right and the agency to improve their lives anyway they see fit

Love and light, bro

SanctifiedSista:
Call for a meeting with family member and pastor she respects and let them talk sense into her. If she doesn't change, pray abt her attitude..she will come to her senses.Holy Spirit know how to deal with her

If your woman only does things when you call a committee to reason with her it means she clearly doesn't rate your leadership as a man.

The energy spent marshalling people to talk to her would be better spent getting another girlfriend or learning Arabic

Kriss216:
Stay away from Nigerian girls and avoid threads like this.

This mentality isn't unique to Nigerian women

BenDrickz:
I can feel her pains

My Girlfriend was rape last week.
Currently she is passing through hell.

Are you guys seeking redress? Or did it happen by the roadside?

Nuttella:
Somethings are better left unsaid, there are some secrets you should take to your grave, secrets like this.

How will she gets viral publicity and promote her new project if she doesn't perform this cheap stunt?

apstpaulg:
APOSTLE PAUL ESHIET
PROPHET, COUNSELLOR AND MOTIVATOR
Prayer line... 08142304453. Whatsapp and text messages ONLY.

Good luck bro. Nice format

Why are these guys wearing caps? Why are they hiding their identity?

NobleAngell:
So what can you say about Jude? He's what every man should be, yeah?

Nah. Jude is weak. I used to be angry at such men, now I feel nothing bit pity for them.

Traitors

Pavore9:
Efe and Jude!

Lol. I remember this cartoon from way back. I used to wonder what sort of dude the Jude guy was. Now, I can say I understand

According to Dr. Uzoamaka Chukwuma, married men suffered mostly emotional abuse, followed by sexual abuse, physical and economic abuses.

According to her, married men whose wives were not in their first marriage were two times more likely to experienced spousal abuse while men in polygamous marriage are less likely to be victims of spousal abuse.

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Men are scum

Mubbyleey:
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Glad to be of some value bro. Trust you're having a great 2021 so far?

Cheers

internationalman:
I suspect she's already pregnant with another man's baby, she wants you to be responsible for it by having sex with you and making you cum inside so as to contemporarily coincide with the pregnancy.

If I'm wrong, which I doubt you can go ahead and perform vasectomy

My thoughts exactly

iamadonis2:
Bash me Nairalanders, I didn’t learn again.

But sit down critically and analyze this, then tell me your thoughts.

Sometime last year, I made a thread https://www.nairaland.com/5461415/it-proper-girlfriend-still-gets where I revealed my girlfriend-cum-business partner still receives financial help from a man she once dated.

Today, another story surfaced. In June 2020, she had produced one million naira saying her brother gave it to her to invest in our business. I even called the brother to say thank you and he told me it wasn’t a bother to him at all. We could pay in six months time. I know we can.

Today, I realized it was her ex-boyfriend, the same man I complained about last year, that gave her the money. He’s 52. She's been confessing more and more about how it’s a loan to grow our business she asked for to pay back in December and she only kissed him as a thank you. My people, what precise, wise, and smart move do I make now?

Poverty is a bastàrd sha. I'm really disappointed with most of what is passing for advice here.

I have this to say though, if you don't mind sharing her with the other guy till he dies or is tired of her pûssy, you can look the other way and keep on enjoying his money.

However, you should note that now that everyone knows the source of your business capital, you no longer have a 100% say in that relationship. Expect her to expect you to be understanding whenever he makes demands. Whether you like it or not he has become a major factor in your relationship. You looking the other way means you have greenlit your babe to continually seek assistance from him while he receives his "kisses" in return.

In your shoes I would continue the relationship until I can stand on my own without any external assistance, upon exiting the relationship I would exit the business partnership with the girlfriend, of course I'd have been making moves on the side. Of course, it's easier said than done but life isn't easy. You can either take the tough road, or sell your birthright and share your wife.

IgweBUIKE1:
they deserve to be butchered before they turn out like their blood sucking parent... snake must beget a reptile and beside this politievecian kids are proud and behave worst than their parent

But its okay for them to enjoy the loot of their fathers?

fineboynl:
if not for the roles falz played on this protest. I would have ask the human right lawyer falana where was he all this year's when the police are brutalizing Nigerian.

No offence, but you lack sense

Omihanifa:
Idi dowo Idi dola

Lo jen ro pe da

Sirfemisky:
I am in HND l.
My life has been in a mess since when I was a child.
My parents did care much for me when I was a child.
I was a victim of child bully.
I wasted many years after my secondary school.
I now steal from them as a revenge for not teaching me self love

You are five years away from 40 and you need to wake up.

Your lot in life is a direct result of your choices and at your age you have no excuse. There are orphans doing very well and you're blaming your parents? You need to be flogged with Cele broom till you have sense.

Wake the hell up. When your parents die who will you be stealing from abi you haven't thought that far ahead yet? Sorry is your name

staymore:
When she decided to sneak into my chat was when the trouble started and right from then her love has dropped beyond 50%

We were watching Black Panther on my phone one night and I slept off, when she noticed I was far gone asleep she opened my whatsapp nd messenger and read my messages.

The one that got her badly was the one a girl was confessing that she has never had it the way I gave it to her the previous day, that the f**k was "hot and sweet", my lovely wife started saying everything in this world to me.

I couldn't even say a word, she cried and I just closed my eyes pretending I was sleeping.

Since then, hmmm! Its four months now and it has not been as it used to even as I have repented.

Lol. This is so funny. Sorry bro

sisisioge:
Oba o!

Eku 100 days o.

sisisioge:


A friend broke up with a modaforkar some few weeks back because the azzzhole told her she was down the ladder just because her job, which was virtual, was paying less than a 100k and he was earning 250k. The babe just got another job last week paying 245k and still retained her other job paying less than 100k. Mama got shot up the ladder above baba in less than 2months!

Moral, don't look at your ladder like that...you never know how much reshuffling can happen within the shortest timelines. So long as you found her good enough to date, ladders no longer count.

By the way, girls are still allowed to stay off broke azzzz o

Hathor5:
I feigned ignorance when I asked this question. I know why he wrote it. And you know what? The dynamics in Nigerian relationships equal the dynamics in brothels but sometimes a prostitute has it better because she can still say no and her body is hers.

Prostitude will say no after collecting money abi what are you saying?

Sixfeetbelle:
And you know this, how?

Besides, being "good in bed" has several dynamics to it. Many men don't have a guide book on sex, in fact, many are not bothered to understand what kamasutra is all about.

As long as he cums once he sticks it in after two minutes, he's good to go, forgetting one sex style is boring; selfish men in bed produce unsatisfied women in bed. It's a third law of motion at work here.

It's a safe assumption. He wouldnt be complaining otherwise.

I could also ask how you know he's not plowing her properly

liberalchick:
Bleh... The usual side chick threat. Nigerian men that cheat don’t need any excuse to and society applauds them. They constantly cheat on a married a virgin, homely Chef Boyardee wife that performs the Kamasutra.

Nigerian men cheating is irrelevant as far as this issue is concerned. The issue is that this man is bothered about his wife not playing ball. Barring rape and fulfilling his sexual desires elsewhere, this guy will die with a dry dîck. That is the issue

liberalchick:

The thing is men that really love their wives don’t open threads that their wives ‘denied’ them sex. When you think your wife is a paid sex object, this is what you get. Nobody talks or cares when the wife is in the mood for sex but the husband isn’t, somehow wives are supposed to understand sometimes your spouse isn’t in the mood for sex. It’s all about the man.

Men that don't open threads have already found outside help. The OP's friend is obviously a simp otherwise he'd know what to do

Sixfeetbelle:
Why is it that men never seem to agree that they're just not that good in bed in some of these "wife denies sex" cases? Sticking it in always can get boring and uninteresting very quickly for someone who seeks enjoyment in the bedroom.

You, sef, you sabi knack woman into seventh heaven? Different women against different styles?

Why did she give him sex before they got married if he was that bad at séx?

For those men who might be swayed by comments advising romance, be advised that romance CAN NOT make a woman want to fúck you if she doesn't want to.

Maybe many people are unaware that rich men's wives pay for hotel room to get lashed by their sideboys. If romance could sustain desire, Seal an Heidi Klum would still be married today .

The moment you need to do more than you used to to negotiate any woman into wanting to part legs, realise it's time to seek another puna.

YOU CANNOT NEGOTIATE DESIRE

Divorce should, as a matter of practicality, always be on the table. This is 2020 ffs