₦airaland Forum

Arsenate:
Are men supposed to start crying because some ladies with body count of over a hundred are not gonna marry them or what? Amazing how y'all overestimate yourselves. The most valuable things women can give their men is their beauty and youth. Y'all aren't even bringing those to the table anymore.

LordKO:
"Just don’t come and be forming love, knowing I would disgust you if I were broke" succinctly worded @Belafonte - unfortunately that's the hallmark of perfidious (expedient) people. 

Meanwhile, every sane person knows the importance of money and doesn't need crass and expedient elements to remind them of it - if as a person you need someone to remind you of the importance of success, you simply lack grit and common sense. Sane people don't allow money to define them, even when they've it in abundance. Of course, it's only a foolish and spineless man who'll allow a crass and expedient woman to share his crown with him. 

To every ethically sound (good) woman here or out there, don't allow any small-minded person to guilt trip you to immorality, because sane wealthy men marry ethically sound women every other day. As a matter of fact, true well-to-do people never base their respect, and goodness in general, for others on money/material things. Money remains a means to an end, but never an end itself, and it remains one of the easiest things to acquire, all things being equal. Those who do not have it today, remain steadfast and be content without being complacent, and don't allow anyone to abuse you.

If as an ethically sound woman here someone bullies you because of money they barely have directly or indirectly, if you can't defend yourself, direct the person and their backer(s) to me let me show them that the true haves don't shout unnecessarily like the have-nots and quasi-haves.

Success consciousness is the goal, say no to both materialism and parasitism - principle/spiritualism over expediency any day and anywhere. Of course, perfection is still of the creator of the world.

cococandy:
The answer to your first question lies in your second paragraph. Whatever makes her worth 50m to you is the value she’s bringing to the table.

Remember, this proverbial table is the base where everything including but not limited to money is placed.

bukatyne:


Thread is gradually going to the traditional roles of a man and a woman.

Like Belafonte said, the woman you are bringing N50m to meet has to be worth it and not in monetary terms.

It is in those qualities women think is slavery or 'promoting' patriarchy today.

@Belafonte what qualities are you looking for in a wife that would worth N50m?

pmoye:
This is the best comment I have read on this thread.

I deliberately decided not to emphasize the income the wife brings to the table because the worth of a lady one wants to marry should be supremely above money. I like the way you said that she has to be worth that 50m.

I personally cannot marry or bring children into this world if I am not supremely capable to give them a good life. Not just life, a good one. As much as everyone is complaining about life being difficult in Nigeria, some people and their children will never understand what that means, simply because the parents have enough and more than enough. What money is required to live a good life, the man should provide, which is the easier part of the job. The harder aspect is the role of the wife and mother who is literally the superintendent of the home whether or not she has an income.

Brilliant contribution from you sir!

Dande55:
So, you will marry cos you want a woman that's gonna uplift you from poverty state or that will be there to comfort you when you don't have the money? You see why you men are very selfish yet, you always get to turn the table around and some gullible women will believe so.

Dande55:
Whatever you wish my dear.
If you want a woman that's as equal as you are and you somehow got to find one, that's good for you.

What I'm saying is that every woman should avoid the mistake of saying he has vision, so many poor people today had/have visions.

Dande55:
So, you will marry cos you want a woman that's gonna uplift you from poverty state or that will be there to comfort you when you don't have the money? You see why you men are very selfish yet, you always get to turn the table around and some gullible women will believe so.

Dande55:
This is very cool. Never marry a man with less than 20m cash/investment

FGonline:
However, what caught my attention was him saying there were other spells/charms that can be done to boost one’s work/business that don’t involve injuring or killing other people.
Why didn't u ask him?

Vortex369:
Nothing is absolutely wrong. Sometimes we play short-cuts and get into trouble and some other times we succeed. It is a free will universe but with laws, you can break the law but be ready to run from the consequence or be caught to face the music. But all is allowed. I love short cuts myself but I also know where to draw the line.

No one is perfect, not even the God(s). They designed those short-cuts.

Spiritual Masters are not perfect. They have needs too. And sometimes they play short-cuts too. Some are caught others can escape. But Rules are designed to maintain law and order, though we can exist in chaos.

So all is allowed.

HarunaWest:
'Holy Spirit take over the world no, cos i am dying come take all over me now'.....The Chorus....Was he saying he was akready dead as at then?

KosiGee:
Thanks for this post. This man wants to trend with Fashek’s death.
He was on drugs and if he was seeing something, it was because he was probably hallucinating.

...what’s wrong with Dede Mabiaku?? Dude is one over zealous and fanatical Fela’s fan. He needs to calm his silly head down. Majek calling Fela and Bob Marley his boys was just an innocuous expression. It’s same as saying Dre is my nigga, Wizzy is my boy, Phyno is my aroba.

As for Mcroy, I’ve never heard of him or any of his songs. He simply wasn’t talented enough. Blackface might say the same things if God forbid it something happens to Tuface.

You simply can’t hide talent, you might misuse it, it might take a long time to manifest but it all comes from God not from Maharaji stuffs. You are born with it and every bits and pieces that fall into place to create a genius would’ve come from the parents.

Uche Chukwumerijes children inherited bits and pieces from him and his calm and beautiful souled wife,
Osadebe inherited his skills from his parents, Check Bovi, A.Y., Basketmouth...these guys parents would be very funny or their grand parents would’ve been funny. Kanu and Okocha’s children might not have their football skills but the gene or the molecule responsible for their football success would Ibe day manifest and we shouldn’t be surprised.

I digress....Majek Fashek was successful because heaven gifted him with his music skills...just like Bob Marley and the Wailers, Mashek has the voice, talent, look and personality which producers and fans alike look for.

IMO01:
I like the word creators even Elohim is plural not singular.

Yesterday the moon was shining so bright I couldn't sleep just wondering what is out there. Most times I'm awake all night thinking is there anything out there that one can't see spirits are they real, what is there purpose?

ethicallyright:
He arose on the third day of his death but a great lightening struck him down.

Vortex369:
The Bible is not entirely correct, not because the Creator(s) made mistakes, but because those who compiled the manuscripts of the book were not 100% sincere. They distorted most of the structures of the Book, and even the early writers misintepreted the things they saw.

If the writers had access to the latest Scientific Data of our time now, we would have had an entirely better book that tells about Universe and every other thing that the early writers intended to pass across.

The Bible is a Program Manual.

adamadwealthy:
The devil gives you a cap and collects your head with it. He gives you shoes and collect them with your feet.
True joy and freedom are found in Christ. Where Christ cannot take me to, may I never get there. What God cannot give me, may I never get it.

Vortex369:
You are correct at that level.

Most Pastors have no direct link to God or even Jesus. So sometimes I think if it is not all games.

I believe direct connection to the Master is essential, so even if you are in any Religion and the Imam, or Pastor or Shaman knows what he is doing, he is supposed to teach you how to access God directly or atleast access Jesus directly may be through dreams or visions.

If one can not connect you to the Collective Unconsciousness and can not even connect you to the Master of that Program Access to the Collective Unconsciousness, then does he as a Pastor or Imam etc have directly metaphysical access to the Master? or even the Collective Unconsciousness or even the SuperConsciousness System?

There is so much foolishness on the part of Humans.

Salvation is an individual thing, you DO NOT NEED A SAVIOR, you need a Guide. But the human Guides are cons. Even the Spirit worlds, there are many cons who deceive people that they are Gods or even Jesus. It is a complex game.

It is a Very Narrow Road. It is a very complex Game.

fullblast:
Thanks for your speedy approval.
Pls, let me know when you eventually start your lectures.
I can't explain it but I'm certain something big is about to happen in the universe and I don't want to be left out.

Vortex369:
You are right on track. I have a feeling you will make it in this life-time because your understanding at your level is very clear and sound. Please note that nothing is absolutely wrong with All Religions as they have been constituted.

The Religions were initially designed for a purpose, and that purpose has been achieved, but the shops were not closed down before the shylocks took over and use these institution as mind control centers as well as OPM(Other People's Money) revenue collection centers and money laundering charities.

We are the Divine in fractals of archetypes of the Divine Absolute. Individuated units of consciousness having unique experience on a 3D plane of existence. So the process of evolution should also be unique. Organized Religions of any kind, seeks to erroneously think you can fix Spiritual Ascension using group-think or Dogmatic Theology when you have not even known all or can answer for all.

And you wonder why I think COVID-19 is a perfect wake-up call for Humanity? If COVID -19 does not wake humanity up; then what will be done next might not be as nice. - I digressed, but then there is a reason for that.

As for Majek, I really am impressed that he at least made an attempt of knowing more, even though I know he may have given loyalty to an AI.- Cosmic AI.

ejimatic:
. The Nigerian police cannot prevent crimes but they can investigate them later after lives have been lost.....Nigeria ,! our Nigeria!

SweetCunt97:
Is that the stone on the bed? Looks big and heavy. So someone carried such big stone and no one noticed?

They should arrest the impregnator, he's probably responsible.

Vortex369:
By Chakra you mean the 5D circuits that connects the 3D Avatar to the interuniversal consciousness. When fully activated, the flow of data comes from the collective consciousness. And the temple has to be clean to reduce the resistivity of the flow of data without burning up and destabilizing the up the physical 3D organism. I think it is the imbalance and the sensations that is pulsated during the imbalance that made Majek Indulge in Alcohol and Cannabis a lot to feel stable. The ignorant can think he was on drugs or mentally sick. He was suffering cos he didnt know what he was facing anymore. It couldnt make it out of the rabbit hole. Once known, you can unknow and half knowledge is worse that ignorance. You have to worship nothing in the rabbit hole. You have to request for nothing. You have to be loyal to nothing except .....The Great Unknowable.

If one manages successfully, and channel the energies through the right frequency portal, one becomes an inventor, an artist, a creator, .....just a great originator of stuff.

This is the Key to Creation.

bryanarchie:
Yes you are right.

She said the elder sister said they should forget about school for now and the elder sister has abandoned the akara business, my girl fries Akara and sells before coming to work.
She is too attached to her twin, they do everything together. I wish I can help both but I can't.
My observation, the elder sister believes she raised her up and believes she should serve her, but I don't believe someone this good deserves more.

She saved and wrote jamb this year but now she has been discouraged and something in me is telling me I should help her.

I'm scared of finances anyway... But I believe I can do it.

andyanders:
Madam, take her as your daughter and do help her to find her feet. Remember that u stated that she has been good to u, both at work nd home. Do that 'cus of God. By doing this, God will prosper you. Do not attach/expect any form of reward towards whatever u are doing from her, but from God who gave u life and the girl will reward u in kind. For her to be sending whatever u pay her to her people shows that the girl has the heart of gold and will not forget where she is coming from. Nobody knows tomorrow. She might even turn to be a blessing to ur children. May God who sees ur heart bless nd reward u IJN, Ameen.

bryanarchie:
Why is everyone referring to me as a man, I'm ar lsdy

bryanarchie:
How
Hmmmmmm...i really appreciate your opinion, I guess people will misunderstand me.
I'll just increase her salary a bit and let her sort out her life, no need to complicate mine.

Thank you for your opinion. I truly appreciate..

olisaEze:
In the first place, what is "matching ground" that they’re fighting over the right to collect from traders?

Land way no bi ur papa carry d sand sand come planet earth, and land way e still die leave!

This cycle of cultism related violence cannot end in Rivers State until the leaders invest massively in free education up to technical school, so we don’t just churn out certificate bearers but entrepreneurs. Who wan reason confra meeting when he has to be up early to meet demands of clients/customers!