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MrBrownJay1:
nothing wrong here... their pregnancy, their baby, their bloody life.

as we all can see, they BOTH have a big smile on their faces.



what about because they think it will be a great remeinder to their kids OR because thats a great artistic way to remember her pregnancy OR because they both think she is very beautiful being pregnant and want to memorize the moment etc
whatever the reason is, it is GOOD ENOUGH for them

One of the rare times I'd disagree with you. If they want to keep the memories for their kids they wouldn't be publishing it. They'd keep it in the family album like sensible people do. Unless, of course, the pictures were leaked by someone else without their consent.

Gofwane:
one of the few nairalanders with correct brain. I just don't understand why some people find it hard to mind their business
If you are not cool with their concept, simply close the thread and move on! But no, they won't. Instead, they will start running the gutter on their faces they call mouth.

You should learn to take your own advice. You should have just minded your own business by not condemning the condemners. You're in the same category as those you think you're better than, i.e., nairalanders without correct brain.

makydebbie:
It's nobody's business. We should all learn to mind our business, the couple liked the concept and went for it so who are we to complain? Misplaced priorities.

You're only being clever by half. The moment they published the nudes it became public business. It is public business because it is now in public domain. You're welcome.

Newboss:
Marriage is a big scam!

I agree. Marriage is a tool of the patriarchy to subjugate unsuspecting women. That is what our sisters have been telling us. Now we accept and believe

Divorce is on the rise worldwide not just in Nigeria. To be continued

I'm glad this sort of information is becoming mainstream. Any guy who doesn't understand this dynamic should, as a matter of urgency and necessity, get well versed in these arts. Nice guys finish last. Don't be an idiot gentleman. Be the alpha.

ubunja:
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i dream of that dumb gal that always chatters useless things in the background that dont even make sense.i once dates a gal like that.that was THE MOST PEACEFULL STRESSLESS 6months i ever had.i could just relax.her shallow talks and useless issues were exactly what i needed after a long day at work outwitting smart females with wonderwoman complexes.
stupid gals are a blessing to any man.me and smart women dont meet. and its not even an ego thing.dumb gals rock.there is a reason why most rich men marry the so-called dumb blonde.that woman helps u relax.she never takes anything serious.when u overthinking a situation she jumps in and help u loosen up.i love the dumb ones.with all my heart.

Bros, are you sure you aren't hacking my brain? These guys don't know what their missing with a homely, feminine woman. I would take that every damn day of the week.

I will take 2 any day of the week. What use is 1's money and career to me? I'm not lazy or a gold-digger. Only inexperienced guys will choose 1.

I don't blame girls for their numerous foibles, it's guys who have given them the leeway to be so disrespectful. If this guy dumps her now she will start chanting he wasted x number if years of my life. But, babe, you were showing ho tendencies and he did the logical thing and dumped your trifling ass. Ladies, quit playing yourselves.

Daeylar:
All the useless misogynistic men here as usual giving their useless advice,
The girl this, the girl that, the useless girl has fish brain but not one insult for the guy, your so called friend who had the guts to give your girlfriend his number and even chat her up asking her out.

Yet the misogynists on this thread are attacking the girl alone

Misogyny will kill all the useless men on this thread one day and I'm sure this world will be better off without you all,
Imagine insulting the girl without addressing the boy,

Will you useless men die if you approach issues involving men and women without misogyny and sexism?

Your girl friend is better, 10 times better than that your useless friend that took your gfs number and is asking her out, did he tell you that he is doing all that? No,
If the girl didn't tell you that he had collected her number and shown you their chats would you have known anything? No.

With that being said they are both useless and you are far better off without them.

I don't know about fuçking him up, but I know you are better off without both of them (your girlfriend and your friend) in your life..

Calm down, young lady. You sound really upset.

JeffreyJamez:
Aww common give the girl some slack. It's her Boyfriend's friend for crying out loud. Not like it's some stranger. Room mate for that matter. I see nothing wrong in giving him her number. Abi you want to tell me some of your friends don't have your girlfriend's number?

What are they using her number for? If she's not supplying a product or they have a cogent reason to have my girlfriends' numbers, they don't get it. There's something called 'mateguarding' where someone protects themselves from comprising situations. If any of my friends asks for my babe's number behind my back I know what he's after and I treat him accordingly. If she gives her number to any of themwithout good reason I know how to handle her.

Also, only my best friend has ever had any of my girlfriend's numbers; she happened to be my baby mama. And nigga respected himself, I have never had any of his girlfriend's numbers. I don't need it.

frugal:
Supported. Don't destroy a life long friendship because of a girl. Talk to your friend @dharamanil.

*Modified*
He said 'flatmate' and not 'friend'. In that case, talk to him first, then kick his ass out.

Talking will achieve nothing. The friend has already shown he cannot be trusted. People who cannot be trusted should be cut off; or at the very least, kept at arms length for whatever benefit they present.

JeffreyJamez:
How you people think all girls are that loose is beyond me. So much insecurities among guys these days. To me, she is innocent until proven guilty. Right now the only idiot in this equation is the fool asking his friend's gf out.

The girl is also an idiot for agreeing to give him her number. She could have declined when he asked, which he did only when her boyfriend was out of sight. A very suspicious move. By now, she should have blocked the ass knowing full well her boyfriend is incensed at the idea of their rapport. This is how the game is played. Show your boyfriend your disturbing toasters to make him think you're a faithful, loyal girlfriend. Meanwhile, shite is going down behind the scenes.

The first question you should ask yourself is why she agreed to exchange numbers with your flatmate.

Your babe has played a solid psychological trick on you by showing you their conversations, which makes you put your guard down against her and absolve her of any culpability should white hit the fan. She will gladly part thighs for him, but she can do so without fear because you're already cool with the fact that they chat. She just played you.

COOL10:
Just replied ur message.

Hello bro, check your mail.

Marriage isn't the ultimate in life, at least, that's what our sisters have been harping on for years. Now, we guys are starting to heed their admonitions they are complaining, yet again, that men are not marrying them. Women want to have it all, but it is humanly impossible to have it all for the generality of the human populace. Maybe 1% will be lucky to be so blessed, note I didn't use the word 'achieve'. No human can achieve having it all.

Anyway, with the well-advanced sexual revolution and woman's sexual liberation coupled with women not wanting to settle down until their eggs are beginning to lose value, men are slowly realising that sampling a vast array of booty is more thrilling than committing to the insatiable, ever-complaining harridan the modern woman is becoming/has become.

Having seen the world for what it is, I blame no man for hopping from woman to woman. Interestingly, most women complaining of men refusing to settle are usually in their 30s/40s, suddenly fertility clock is ticking and suitors are seemingly not as plentiful as they once were. This sudden reality check sends their heads spinning and all of a sudden, marriage looks appealing to them. I could go on for ever buy I'll stop here.

Women, marriage is not the ultimate. We, men agree with you. Goodbye.

Hi Cool10, just sent you a PM. I would like to talk with you about what you're going through.

I will fill the bag in a hurry. Who love epp?

richy5:
Make i marry beyonce, nicki, halle, kim, omosexy or whatever curvy damzel out there wont stop me from denying myself another women that please my cock. Preaching faithfulness as if dem girls are more faithful than Mary(Jesus Mother)
As long as you're responsible at home bruh please if cheating pleases you don't wait. seconds before you find any akpu your cock go like chop.
Good Morning

These girls that will part legs and climb schlongs like someone that wants to balance well on okada for ordinary fast food lunch? I trust flies to comport themselves around faeces more than I do them.

Bloom1:
But men are different from one another.

Kindly share with me the research that proves that cheating is a basic natural instinct in men alone.

If you think only men are naturally inclined to cheat, you are wrong. Do you know why? Women are as naturally wired to cheat as much as men.

To prove my assertion, read this excerpt from a research:


Zietsch concludes from his research that: ‘an individual’s genetic makeup in general influences how likely he or she is to cheat’ (Kim). There is not a single ‘cheating gene’ in the DNA, but rather that genetic variations affect our hormone levels. These levels determine how bonded to our partner we feel.

https://googleweblight.com/i?u=https://dnatesting.com/does-dna-and-make-you-more-likely-cheat/&grqid=7FJOH8CE&hl=en-NG

Our natural instinct does not determine our entire lives. There is free will. You can read the following article about the claim that our genes don't determine our entire lives:

https://www.google.com.ng/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/science/2015/mar/19/do-your-genes-determine-your-entire-life

Don't forget, when you come across an article saying only men are naturally inclined to be polygamous, share with me.

My friend, stop arguing with yourself. I haven't used the word 'cheat' in this thread to connote men's propensity for sampling different booty. It is not cheating, it is sowing oats. Women mostly sleep around for money and material gain, men do for the thrill copulation brings. Please, learn to understand others' arguments before attempting to negate their opinions. Thanks.

This must be fake news. I refuse to believe IPOB would be so stewpid as to make such a ridiculous threat.

dominique:
Yes you'll marry those holy saint girls, you'll get bored of them after a while and start chasing after the so-called slay queens you love to run down so much. Yet you guys call us confused!

Even the ones that marry slay queens will still play the field, that is a given. However, a wise man knows you do not make a ho a housewife. Oloshos are not to be upgraded to wife level. That sort of like indiscretion is reserved for only clueless bozos.

ubunja:
you know what the beauty of Dating Drills is? u get to experiment and prove things yourself.
if there is a gal u like thats been ignoring u,just find another gal and walk with her infront of gal A the one u want. and i promise u the next time u try to talk to that gal A she will actually wait and listen. try it and update me.its that simple.

I see you, bruv. Who no know no know.

MrBrownJay1:
sadly, if these men where "REAL MEN" they would say the above you mention right to their women's face, and let them choose whether she want to be with him or not... instead of these weak deluded men crawling at the dead of night like rats, to go and cheat.

these are not MEN... far from it.

Couldn't have put it better myself.

Bloom1:
The thread is not about a harem!

This thread is about trying to guilt men into pleasing women by denying men their basic natural instincts which will not fly as long as there are men like me in this world. All I'm doing is trying to tell men that the content of the OP this thread is trash and they shouldn't be guilted into living their lives for women. C'est fini.

This thread is such sweet nonsense. Men having a harem is not cheating it is the way of nature. Any woman who cannot stand her man's options is free to try another man.

This thread reminds me of one raging feminist on here named Shollypopz or something. She talk pass all these baby feminists, she dey very aggressive and dey even add strong, strong insults join her own crusade. Today nko? That babe is pregnant for a well-known nairalander who was a well-known nairaland "misogynist".

All these ones are learning. When they see life for what it really is, dem go know say dem no tell person.

Benita27:
At least the paint is covering the important parts. What's the fuss about?.

The fuss is that the picture is indecent. The important parts are obviously not covered. Nipples and pusssy aren't the only important parts on a female's body.

Spicycat:
That's one amongst several things i love about Islam, they don't act as directionless people, they carry out their burial rites in an orderly and well coordinated manner not like this confused lots here.

Hello Spicy, did the "other people" offend you somehow? Let's try to be sensitive and tolerant to other people's way of life as well. It costs nothing. Ok, sweetheart?

mhizesther:
Why is this an issue sef, No one is forcing any one to pay. If u want to pay it tithe, PAY IT!!! And if you are not interested. KEEP your money.. it's not a do or die affair.. Everyone is just shouting "Tithe oo" U ppl should leave us alone jare

Come on, Es. You know as well as I do that churches preach tithe with threats of financial ruin and even disconnection from God. That is bullying and extortion. It would be helpful if Pastor Adeboye were to respond to Daddy Freeze. This matter needs to be settled once and for all.

The government needs to proscribe these herdsmen as they have officially come out as terrorists. These people are obviously on a mission to terrorise the rest of the country and they must be treated as the murderous felons that they are.