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Christianity EtcRe: Prophet Jeremiah Omoto-Fufeyin Gives Muslim Food-packs In FCT by BENARI: 8:33am On May 18, 2020
Akaegwu:
If your enemy is thirsty give him water. This is what the Bible says
The water you give your enemy might just give him the strength he needs to hack you down. With some enemies you ought to be cautious as serpent; the bible says that too; doesn't it?
Christianity EtcRe: Prophet Jeremiah Omoto-Fufeyin Gives Muslim Food-packs In FCT by BENARI: 8:04am On May 18, 2020
Since I was born, and now I am getting old, I have never seen the Muslim North doing Charity toward Christians; its always the Christians giving to them and yet, they hate the Christians so badly.

Sometimes, I wonder the motive behind Some Christians falling over themselves to give to this people in the full glare of the camera. All the same, giving is Good, especially when the recipient is appreciative.
PoliticsRe: Kemi Olunloyo Attacks IPOB Again by BENARI: 11:31pm On May 16, 2020
I don't think she can win this battle she's has drawn. Unfortunately, more heads along tribal lines will end up being drawn into this fruitless, purposeless battle of two idiots; namely Kemi olunloyo and Nnamdi Kanu.

They are both useless idiots made important by free social media and it's unreasoning jobless users such as abundantly found on this terrible forum(Nairaland).
Technology MarketRe: #ENDSARS CHIEF_NWOSU :Sales of Used European SMART TV at an Affordable Price by BENARI: 10:33pm On May 14, 2020
Sommydisaster:
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Is it magic remote?
And do you deliver to Abuja?
Do you have sound systems too?
HealthRe: WHO Opens Up On Madagascar Herbal Potion That Cures Coronavirus by BENARI: 7:09pm On May 14, 2020
Yeye people!

Looks like they were waiting to be begged. This WHO is very ineffectual.
CrimeRe: Rinji Peter Bala: Army Apologises, Admits Killing 20-year-old UNIJOS Student by BENARI: 7:41am On May 14, 2020
Just wondering, could that boy have been arrested in the first place because of his dreadlocks? shocked
PoliticsRe: Buhari Presides Over Virtual FEC Meeting. Ibrahim Gambari In Attendance by BENARI: 4:13pm On May 13, 2020
Who can guess what Buhari is writing in the first picture?
PoliticsRe: Bala Lau Demands ₦100 Million From Sahara Reporters For Reporting His Death by BENARI: 7:20am On May 13, 2020
I thought I saw Baba Lawo demands 100million from Sahara reporters.
FamilyRe: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by BENARI: 1:23am On May 12, 2020
MizJaY:
Sorry for the long message but this lockdown period might favour reading long msgs.

I'm the quiet type so I have never opened mouth to insult my husband during any misunderstanding. Just arguments and my voice may go up a bit trying to explain or clear myself but he will start saying im raising my voice and talking back at him and start saying all sorts of things.

Honestly sometimes I wished I could unleash the anger deep down and screammm but I always have self control. If u sit with him, he will give u a million reasons why I'm not a good wife and if u don't know me well, u will fall for it because he tells it so well. I will not say everything he says is false, but 80% is. Only those that really know me, will know he is d one that has problem. He's too difficult at times.

In an office, there's usually that one person that quarrels with everyone am I right? But I end up being d only person that dat person doesn't quarrel with cos I try as much as possible to avoid quarrels that's just d kind of person I am. Calm and quiet.

When I met my husband NYSC days, he was very close to God, organizing programs in church and handling them. That was the main reason I got close to him cos I wasnt so spiritual and needed someone to help me grow spiritually through life. He told me he was called to be a pastor and that excited me but I'm not seeing that now lol. He's spiritual life is almost zero. And back then, he had nothing, we would spend all my money even to reach his sick mother in the village I would buy all the foodstuff to send to her.

The way he talked he sounded promising that things will get better with him, but today, I still suffer, I have no savings, all my salary is on the house. He works too and earns but he's salary covers rent and the children's school fees finished. I do the rest but he doesn't appreciate the fact that I sacrifice everything I earn to feeding the house. We are family of 6. Everything provision, food, children school snack, fuel for car and gen, gas filing etc etc it's me. And that's how my whole salary will just go fiam.

if I ws getting a little appreciation I for no mind but rather I get insults o. It's my fault that
Money is finished, it's my fault that we have no savings, I don't know how to manage money, I'm hoarding my money etc etc those are d words that come out of his mouth o.

I used to be a beautiful woman but no more, I wear one shoe everyday to work, can't buy myself clothes shoes nothing I had to cut my hair to relieve myself from hair money lol. I'm stressed out thinking of where money will come for feeding when my salary gets finished before month end at times I have to beg my sister or my dad a pensioner or hussle one way or d other. I now developed high bp and today I'm living with hypertension taking drugs everyday. It was my parents that gave my husband d job he's doing today. He is not in talking terms with he's dad n siblings. Before he's mother died, things were not too good between them. My husband likes to always form man of d house and want me to apologise whenever there's a misunderstanding saying that I am d one wrong, I'm always wondering how am always the one wrong and he's not � every time.

Sometimes self I don't know what I did that mks him angry he will just start carrying face. Today makes it a week we are not talking cos he has been carrying face since 7days now, and went to post something on wassap yesterday that a woman that cannot apologise to her husband cannot stay in marriage.

My brothers and sisters if I know of anything I did that I have to apologise for yet I refused to apologise that is making him carry face, may God strike me. If u know I did anything wrong why not come to me and tell me u don't like what I did and tell me what i did rather than carry face up n down. He always does that. At times I do ask him and as usual am always d one at fault. Maybe it's cos I'm a quiet person he's taking me for mumu.

The national anthem now is that because he does not have money that's why I don't respect him the way I'm supposed to. I'm always careful with my word when gisting with him cos make I make mistake say Donald duke is d current governor of rivers state haaa problem don enter and it may spoil d sweet gisting we were having. He go almost insult me and become uninterested in gisting with me again cos i don talk mumu talk.

So how can I handle such man cos if no be say I be quiet person, I for don receive serious beating black and blue from this man cos he has done it earlier on in our marriage not serious beating sha but I had some bruises. If not that my parents are still alive and warned him. Tho he still attempts once in a blue moon I go jus arrange myself. But I'm kind of tired. I have no money cos trust me, if I had, Maybe i for don dey plan my move sef I no dey enjoy marriage life at all
Madam, I can see you have history of complaining about a lot of things on this forum. While it's not bad sharing your worries with others, always doing so might rob you of the personal responsibility you have to think about and solve your problems yourself. The married women here have their own marital battles. That they are not screaming out thier throat here isn't an indication all is well for them.

No perfect husband anywhere, and you're no perfect wife either. But just so you know, I believe there's something you do often your husband dislikes and would have complained about several time, but you keep doing it either deliberately or otherwise.

There's this adage, when a child cries pointing in a direction, look well and you'll find something of interest to the child there. When a man persistently is not happy with his wife, there's usually something the woman is doing or isn't doing that hurts him.

Bye and large, life is short, your kids will soon be adults and you'll both soon grow old. So make the best of your life by being happy and stop allowing somebody else determine that for you. Your complaining May soon land you in the Blossom of another man, who will take advantage of what you say about your marriage. He'll simply pretend to be everything you've told him your husband is not, and before you know it, your marriage is gone.
HealthRe: COVID-19: TB Joshua Reveals What God Says Will Happen After Lockdown by BENARI: 8:46am On May 11, 2020
Temade29:
Great one..........more anointing sir.....God will be with you all the days of your life sir...
Such a pity! Use your God given brain. Stop trusting in men to whom no salvation belongs.

Haven't you read from your Bible in Deuteronomy 18:20-22 that if a prophet prophesy and his words fail to come true as prophesied, he is not from God and should not be believed. How difficult is that to comprehend.

I can count many failed prophecies from this same man and indeed all so called religious. Jesus said, I am the way, the truth, and the life; no one comes to the father except through me; not true men but true Christ.
So if you're a Christian, Believe in Christ and his Father, follow in the footsteps of Christ, read your Bible on your own, understand the much you can, and live by what you learn, that's all you really need.

If you must, associate with any church that does not swindle you and force you to trust it's leader instead of Christ(difficult to find one though). But even if the leaders ask you to do things you can't find the basis in scriptures, refuse to obey men, instead obey God as ruler.

That's all I can say.

I hope this make little sense.

You might want to check up the meaning of this words: ''cognitive dissonance''.

The mean might help you break free from your fear of men and thier religious doctrines. The problem is really you, not them.
Satellite TV TechnologyRe: Solar Energy, A Complement To FTA by BENARI: 8:13am On May 11, 2020
alhasanalo:
I'm Abuja,if you've not gotten anyone yet we can work it out
O fantastic. How do I contact you Sir?
Satellite TV TechnologyRe: Solar Energy, A Complement To FTA by BENARI: 8:28pm On May 10, 2020
adrusa:
I think it is because your question is somehow vague. What is your budget? Are you DIY or will get an installer to help you? If you are using an installer, your best bet is to ask the installer to give you a quote. You can then bring the quote here for help.
Thanks for your response Sir.

Can you recommend anyone in Abuja I can engage for procurement and installation pls, preferably someone on the forum if possible.
Satellite TV TechnologyRe: Solar Energy, A Complement To FTA by BENARI: 8:21pm On May 10, 2020
unicmarket:
First an foremost, you will need to calculate the total wattage of all the appliance you want to power.

You only mentioned that of your fans which is 220watts in total; please get all others and add them together; an Inverter that can be at least 2times the required load will be best, so for instance your load is 500watts in total; you’ll need to get an Inverter of about 1000watts, it’s best than getting something just the same as your load requirement, in case of some minor addition long term stability of your inverter.

Now inverters are considered mostly in KVA, find an Inverter that is about the equivalent of 1000w
Which is about 1.2-1.5kva

1500x0.8 =1200w Inverter for instance( the 0.8 is pf)

Or

Converting from watts to kva, you will need to know the pf power factor of the Inverter you wish to get, but before then you can use 0.8


So for instance 1/0.8x 1000watts= 1250kva( you may not get the exact kVa, but this means you can get something higher or a little lower


Once that is considered; then calculate the number of hours you want to run the Inverter.

http://jekitech.com/battery-backup-time-calculator/

To check required backup time

For instance you found that a 1.5kva could power the house, then go to the calculator type in the ah of the battery

200ah for instance

On a 24v system; the calculator is will automatically make it 2 batteries, type in the load, then it will give u an estimate of backup hrs


Please if you have specific questions
You may also contact us on whatsapp 08031138665


I really will advice that you contact us; to work you through easily
Wow! Thanks A Billion

The thing get maths o! But really really interesting.
I'll get in touch via Whatsapp.

Meanwhile if you have a known member I can contact in Abuja to help with procurement and installation, I'll be most grateful, if not, I'll seek further guidance via the Whatsapp number you provided.

Again, I'm really grateful Sir.
Satellite TV TechnologyRe: Solar Energy, A Complement To FTA by BENARI: 1:44pm On May 10, 2020
BENARI:
Good Day House.

I need your advice please. It's possible that my request has been covered here already, but there are now 735 pages to read, and I've tried to skim through, but can't find any, thus my request.

I intend to install an inverter system in my house; for now without solar panel. My house is a 4 bedroom, and I've been told a 3.5kva can power the basic things, namely; lighting, four fans(54watts each), 2 tvs(55inch each), and a small scanfrost freezer.

I'll want to know what I'll require to achieve this, the cost if possible, and the most reliable brands in terms of inverter and batteries. Also whether to use wet or dry cell batteries(talking about durability and efficiency).

I'm sorry for troubling you.

Thanks.

Kindly quote me if responding to my request pls. That will be very helpful.
Looks like newbies ain't welcome here o! I was directed here from another thread to solicit answers to the quoted request, but till now, not a single response to my post.

A beg make una help na, or my in the wrong thread again? shocked
Satellite TV TechnologyRe: Solar Energy, A Complement To FTA by BENARI: 10:39am On May 10, 2020
idris4r83:
i don't know why anytime i hear inverter connected to a fridge, AC or any other heavy appliances and no solar panels connected i usually feel the person that invested his money n the installer may be disappointed at the long run.
Thanks for this insight. I'll probably hang on with connecting my fridge till I have my panels.
Satellite TV TechnologyRe: Solar Energy, A Complement To FTA by BENARI: 4:09pm On May 08, 2020
Good Day House.

I need your advice please. It's possible that my request has been covered here already, but there are now 735 pages to read, and I've tried to skim through, but can't find any, thus my request.

I intend to install an inverter system in my house; for now without solar panel. My house is a 4 bedroom, and I've been told a 3.5kva can power the basic things, namely; lighting, four fans(54watts each), 2 tvs(55inch each), and a small scanfrost freezer.

I'll want to know what I'll require to achieve this, the cost if possible, and the most reliable brands in terms of inverter and batteries. Also whether to use wet or dry cell batteries(talking about durability and efficiency).

I'm sorry for troubling you.

Thanks.

Kindly quote me if responding to my request pls. That will be very helpful.
Technology MarketRe: Alabaconnect: Tokunbo Sound System by BENARI: 12:16pm On May 07, 2020
ALABACONNECT:
You can get an LG body guard which is a 1000w set selling currently at 130k(new)
Some soundbars with their wireless subwoofer can do the job too but considering your space as you said, the body guard is the best pick.
Can I see pics?
Technology MarketRe: Alabaconnect: Tokunbo Sound System by BENARI: 11:12am On May 07, 2020
I need something for a large living room. I love solid sound. I want something that can serve if I need to organise a house party.

Let me know if you have something that fits. Home theatre or sound bar.
PoliticsRe: Covid-19:If Kano Goes Down, The Whole Of Nigeria Goes With It - Ex-NHIS Boss by BENARI: 7:15am On May 05, 2020
One thing that units the South it seems, is thier hatred for the North. And one thing that divides the South it appears, is thier hatred for themselves.
PoliticsRe: Sagay: It’s Insulting For United States To Give Conditions On Abacha's Loot by BENARI: 12:23am On May 05, 2020
I've come to hate this loud mouth so much.

All he knows is how to condemn anything sensible and defend anything senseless from his Lord Buhari.

He has lost relevance forever
HealthRe: Covid-19 : Why We Should Avoid Ankara Face Masks..... by BENARI: 12:15am On May 05, 2020
Go make your own Oga
PoliticsRe: Nigerian Troops Kill 134 Terrorists, Apprehend 16 Informants In Borno by BENARI: 12:06am On May 05, 2020
This Bokoharam are fast becoming Vietnamese soldiers that never finishes in number no matter how many you kill.
HealthRe: Lagos Records 2 New Coronavirus Deaths by BENARI: 6:17pm On May 04, 2020
Tissaia:
Better to live with coronavirus in nigeria than share same country with I-pigs
And now you must be feeling like you've posted something on the internet abi?

Better go find something useful to do with your life before it's too late. You're not intelligent enough to be posting here, ok?
PoliticsRe: 84m Barrels Of Nigerian Crude Oil Unsold, Stranded At Sea by BENARI: 1:12pm On May 04, 2020
bayelsaowei:
this comment is top notch.
Thank you my Brother.
PoliticsRe: 84m Barrels Of Nigerian Crude Oil Unsold, Stranded At Sea by BENARI: 9:10am On May 04, 2020
u11ae1013:
apart from fufu and cocoyam soup, what resources can you people boast of
Human resources!

A well educated and ingenious Human Resources!!!

That's what they can boast of; and that's all that is really really needed.

Nigeria has being boasting with oil resources, yet we're the world poorest; not just that, the poorest of the poorest in impoverished Nigeria, are from the part of the country that has enjoyed the so called resources.

Grow up, lazy man. Always talking about a useless resource you can't add value to.
A resource you can't refine, a resource that you end up buying back from those who don't have the resource, but have the Brains to take it from your illiterate self and do something of value.

Resource my foot.

You can go and drink those in the high sea you are now begging those without resources to come and buy at peanut price.
HealthRe: Anxiety In Kano Over Continuing Deaths, People Leaving Ancient City In Droves by BENARI: 10:12am On May 03, 2020
ignis:
Leaving kano to where?
To Lagos and Abuja offcourse, and perhaps kaduna for some. Where do you expect them to go to again?

Most of those leaving will have to be those who can afford it, and those with houses or relations in the two biggest cities. Mind you, most of this them will even move with police escorts, so who are you to stop them?

The poor will be left to thier fate doubtless.
HealthRe: Nigerian Air Force Produces Face-Masks And Medical Kits (Photos) by BENARI: 10:27am On Apr 28, 2020
Is this what Shekau has reduced NAF to now? shocked

Mere tailors!

And some of you think this is a news worth celebrating!

Clearly the curse on Nigeria is not just on the political class, it extends to the masses too.
I'm ashamed to be called a Nigerian.

NAF sewing face mask! grin
PoliticsRe: Coronavirus: INEC To Shift Edo, Ondo Governorship Elections by BENARI: 10:50am On Apr 27, 2020
Rapmoney:
Ondo and Edo governorship aspirants now...
That MEME has become stale, you guys should learn to be innovative, i.e. if you so desperately want to keep us entertained.
FamilyRe: Have You Ever Lost A Dear One That Makes You Cry Till Now? by BENARI: 12:25pm On Apr 26, 2020
starbuck:
The worse of it was that i saw when life was slipping away from my mom that very day, she was crying, she asked me to touch her legs to know if she can still feel it..... I almost died that day so she could live, other patients were praying so she could live because they said they haven't seen a bond between a mother and daughter like that before cry cry... Finally, slipped away from her...


It's been 18 months now and i have refused to move on. Every 19th of each month, i completely shut off from the world so i can mourn her, i still want to have a moment with her to tell her everything that has happened since she left cry cry cry
O so sorry Sis.

I've shed some tears for you and all others here.

I think the worst thing for me is a person knowing him/her is dying and crying to stay alive. I'm broken for you Sis.

Death is indeed the worst enemy.
PoliticsRe: Covid-19: Governors Give Buhari Conditions For Relaxing Lockdown On Monday by BENARI: 2:04pm On Apr 25, 2020
BOOZELEE:
The Lockdown should continue but they should let children go back to school since the disease hardly kill children.
First, are you a parent?

If the child gets infected, assuming it does nothing to them like you claim, won't the child return home to the rest of family?

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