iKON11: I'm 31 and my friend is 34 years. Lately we've been having some issues over the above topic. I don't know why but he takes so much pleasure in sleeping with girls he's far older than. Like 18, 19 years old girls (very tender girls).
Anytime I complain about this, it becomes an issue. He even think I'm jealous of him, in fact he told me today to stop been jealous but frankly I feel very embarrassed anytime he brings such girls to our gathering.
We are new in this area but people have already taken notice of this and its even rubbing off on me now.
The funny thing is he doesn't even feel any shame or remorse about this.
There are two things to be considered here
1. Age - so long as you can confirm that these girls are 18 years and above, there's no issue with that since they are up to the legal age as enshrined in our constitution. Mind your business.
2. Consent - if these girls have decided to do things with your friend base on consent, there's nothing wrong with that. Mind your business as well.
Where you should have an issue is where the girls are minors or there's a case of sex without consent which is rape.
In conclusion, there's nothing illegal about what your friend is doing, it's normal. Allow him go for the kind of girls he likes so long as they are not minors.
GLeesMODEL: *Family Set To Hold Memorial Thanksgiving Service For Hon. Dr. Prince A.A Nwafor Orizu.(GCON)*
The family of late Prince A.A Nwafor Orizu, Nigeria's second Senate President during the first Republic has concluded plans to hold 23rd anniversary memorial service in his honour.
He transitioned in the year 1999.
A release made available to our correspondent by his last child, Prince Ifeamuma Nwafor Orizu said the event will take place on March 20, 2022 at Nwafor Orizu's home town, God’s Village, Ndiakwu Otolo Nnewi in Anambra State.
Orizu was also an Acting President of Nigeria from late 1965 until the military coup of January 1966 where he spent 92 days in power.
Orizu ran successfully for election as an independent candidate to represent Onitsha Division, and became the chief whip in the Eastern House of Assembly.
He later joined with other independent candidates to form the National Council of Nigeria and Cameroon (NCNC).
He played a central role in helping Dr. Nnamdi Azikiwe become premier of the Eastern Region, using his influence in the NCNC. Zik appointed Orizu the minister of local Government.
He was a member of the Nnewi Royal family. His nephew Igwe Kenneth Onyeneke Orizu III is the current Igwe (King) of Nnewi Kingdom. Nwafor Orizu College of Education in Nsugbe, Anambra State, is named after him.
The memorial thanksgiving service is expected to attract the presence of top Igbo sons from within and outside the country, diplomats, the academia, business class and top rated entertainers.
IrepChrist: Hebrews 13:4, “Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.”
Practical suggestions to avoid temptation
The following aren't so much rules, as they are wise advice. If you are waiting until marriage for sex, then these bits of wisdom could help you to steer clear of making a mistake that you're sure to regret.
1. For a start, don’t do anything which would make others assume that you are sleeping together. In other words, don’t stay over in the same house or room. Don’t take overnight trips together without other people.
2. Set a curfew for yourselves and be accountable to other people for keeping it.
3. Talk about your plans to wait until marriage together. Work out what might be a difficulty for you to stay pure - be realistic & pray about your decision. ask others to pray for you too.
4. Keep physical touch to a minimum. It's generally wise to avoid touching skin below the neck and above the knee.
5. Be committed to holy lifestyle and stay away from friends that would not see sex before marriage a big deal.
6. Recognise any potentially difficult situations and stay away from them or change them. You might even consider not watching romantic films or TV together.
7. If you're old enough, get married soon. Why wait for years if you know you want to be together? However, be aware of your age and the advice of other people who love you and know you. 20 or 21 just may be too young to marry, or it may not. It depends on how mature you are. Advice from parents, pastors, and friends will help you work this out.
8. Do not cohabit.
Even the Pastors, Choirmasters, Youth leaders, Church fathers and mentors in church who are married are the ones sleeping with these girls most. Why you no address that part??
Throwback video of veteran Nollywood actress mercy aigbe advising young ladies not to become second wives, today she said she's happy to be a second wife.
Mercy Aigbe Defends Herself On Young Girl Dating Married Men - Throwback
Mercy Aigbe was heard saying;
“If you are a side chic to a married man, Girl, you are better be cashing out. Secure the bag, get that dough, get that money because that man isn’t yours. Sis, he isn’t yours. He belongs to another woman so please it had better be worth it. Don’t go and collect chocolate and flowers as gifts from a married man oh.
“If you do, your head needs to be examined. If you are dating a married man, chop his money, collect his money because that man is already married. So stupid girls will be dating a married man will be doing love…sis he is not yours. He belongs to another woman so use your brain”
However defending herself after the backlash that trailed the video, the actress said she will never encourage girls to be side chicks to married or single men. She claimed that she was taken out of context as some parts of the video was cut off by ”mischievous persons.”
According to Mercy Aigbe, the video shared on Valentine’s Day was meant to be a fun video for everyone to laugh and also get her message. She added that she was encouraging married men to stay faithful to their wives because if they don’t, they will get extorted by their side chicks.
The actress stated that she always tells girls they can get way more than what they get from married men when they work on their own because there is dignity in labour. Mercy also averred that everything she owns is from her sweat and everything said about her when the first video went viral is not who she is.
E concern people wey dey listen to advise the only advise I dey listen to na the advise wey I dey advise myself
Rtk5: I went to my director's office to get something from the secretary, i met the presence of alot of people including a visitor, so i left. While going he called me back infront of everybody and said didn't you see me? I answered by saying how? he said, so you can't greet me? I now told him but i greeted you earlier on while you were outside but you never answered. Then he said that means you didn't open your mouth loud enough. I replied by saying sir, even if i don't greet you, my mind might be somewhere else, then he said why will your mind be somewhere else, your mind must always be here. I said it is not possible for my mind to always be here sir. That was all and the following day, i received a letter of suspension without querry. I was asked to sign the letter but i refused and i told the secretary that before i leave all my outstanding salaries should be paid to me. But they refused saying until i finish my 4weeks suspension, I refused and then threatened them with legal action. Then I received this text today.
Another toxic boss, feeling on top of the world. If they don't pay you, sue their silly ass.
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It seems we have a similar gift, mine usually happens whenever I fall into a deep sleep. For instance, few days before Prince Philip died, I saw it in my dreams, I described everything to my girlfriend as well and it wasn't up to a week the Prince died and I even posted it here on WhatsApp in my previous account that was banned. There were others too which I can't remember. it happens once in a while though
I will keep this very simple because I want to keep a very low profile.
Sometime in 2019, I was approached by a contractor for financial assistance to enable him to complete a job he was doing for the government. He needed a short-term loan he can pay back within one to three months.
I spoke to a friend who linked me up with his dad's business partner and I was able to secure funds for the man.
The transaction was done based on trust, although we signed some documents and he provided us with two guarantors who are currently at large before the money was disbursed to him.
He made interest payments for about four months and since late 2020, he stopped picking up my calls and started to avoid me.
He was paid for the contracts he executed for the government and even went further to do other jobs which he has received payments for, but he has refused to settle the debt.
He is a highly placed individual with strong connections to the government and some highly placed persons.
I have tried every means possible including physical confrontation, legal proceedings, and spiritual consultations to recover this debt, all to no avail.
This transaction has placed my life on hold for the past two years and all my savings, plus monies I borrowed from people are stuck in this transaction.
I am seeking assistance in whatsoever capacity in recovering the debt which has accrued to almost One Hundred Million Naira (N100,000,000.00).
A certain percentage for whatever sum that is recovered will be paid as recovery fees - this we shall agree on.
I am willing to go to any length to ensure this money is recovered, my safety and that of the borrower being of utmost priority.
If you have any experience or knowledge or any link that you strongly believe will help me in recovering this debt, please drop your email or email me at loanrecovery2022@gmail.com.
I will be ignoring comments that cannot solve the problem at hand.
Ladyhart: Good day Nairalanders, I am available to do your house chores, cleaning, cooking and washing. Do not forget to refer me to people who needs my services. Thank you.
Are you in Ogun state? If yes, reply. I am hiring for a company, House keeper though.
Goodvibes8: My girlfriend is a Banker at GTB (not a contract staff). I just love her unconditionally. I thought she was different from other ladies. My girlfriend is cheating on me with an elderly ugly man.
She switched off her phone for 2 days, since on Tuesday. The first day I noticed, I was scared for her safety because she don't behave like that.
I called her very close friend and she said she haven't heard from her too but I shouldn't worry that she's fine.
Then I knew something was fishy. I live in Ogun state, so I went to Lagos early this morning as at 4:45am hoping to see her at home before she go to work.
When I got to her house, I saw her neighbor (she haven't seen me before else she would have lied to me as well) so I asked after my girlfriend and she said she has not been around since on Sunday.
In my mind, I was like since Sunday? Well, I know since last week, she has been acting strange. I noticed she's always quick to discharge me whenever we're on call.
I just went straight to her office at ikeja. I met with a security man and i asked if miss Lydia (not her real name) has come to office this morning? He said no but she will soon come afterall work starts by 8am and it's just 7am.
I just sat inside my car looking angry and curious. As at 7:25am, a car dropped her. I came down from my car immediately to approach her.
I was like so this is the ugly slowpoke you have been staying with since on Sunday that made you switched off your phone abi? She even have guts to ask what am I doing in Lag?
This is a girl I have never cheated on her before. Despite I am good looking, dark and tall with a good physique.
I don't know what to do. I'm heart broken . She hasn't even call me till now. This is a girl I have sacrificed a lot for.
Move on Man, don't listen to her pleas either, life goes on, you will find someone better but take your time. Don't jump into another relationship immediately, relax and recover the mumu girl will try reaching you to make amends but no gree oooo, the old ugly slowpoke don pound her finish, imagine all the moaning, sucking and she might have sucked his old dick . Once she don useless herself, she go come get sense. I repeat, don't listen to her pleas, avoid anything that has to do with her. ThankGod she is in Lagos and you in Ogun State. Women of these days no too wise again even the once that God blessed with guys that truly love them dey bleep up.
Lagos is a balling city and it's hard to find a girl that will be 100% loyal to you without misbehaving, rare.
FERNANDEZISBACK: Did you discuss with her? A car dropped her and you quickly concluded that she's cheating.. Well-done..keep concluding and bringing your issues here..
Is that what you are supposed to do? instead of sitting her down and tell her how you feel you are seeking advice from a section that reeks of MISOGYNY?
brimdans: Okay, here is the thing. I was working with this woman in her organization. Shes high handed, toxic and domineering, but I was coping well with her, she insults me and talk down on me, all I say mostly is sorry Ma.
So this particular day, which was yesterday. There's this particular room in the lab which we were constructing, which she categorically told me not to open that room, because it contains equipment. And I don't handle the keys, but another person holds the keys.
Now water entered the room, from a faulty pipe, and did a little damage to one of the cabinets, and it touched some of the materials.
The woman, now began insulting me that it will be deducted from my salary, because it was my fault?
I asked how is it my fault Ma, you said that room shouldn't be opened by anybody. So I can't accept fault for what I didn't do. I'm sorry. She shouted and shouted to the point of almost slapping me, but God saved her she didn't. I kept my calm and told her sorry.
Again she asked for some remaining boards that were used in constructing some cabinets in the lab, I told her I don't know, but lemme check and ask the person who has custody to the keys. Another tirade began, she insulted the hell of out me. I remained calm, that it will be removed from my salary, and those things according to her is about one hundred thousand naira. I told her ma, I didn't take them, but lemme ask oga Patrick who is in charge of the lab, she refused, that I shouldn't l. That I must pay for all of these things. I kept my cool all through.
She now said I should remove her uniform and submit her company materials, actually some of the materials are at home, so I couldn't get them that night.
She texted and called me countless times to send the company materials, I then told her, I'll send them but I need my salary that I've worked for, for the last month. She now said, before she wanted to pay and forgive me, but that she's not paying me again.
It is Worthy to note that I came purposely to work for this woman from another state, I needed my salary to help me plan my life after my sack. Right now I'm confused, because I've no money, nor accommodation, I can't even travel back. Please nairalanders, I need your advice, legally and all. Thank you for reading PS, there might be errors, I didn't have time to edit. Currently in church.
90% of Nigerian female bosses are toxic, domineering and wicked. ThankGod you walked away
Sinensis: so y u come dey pretend like say u na want the thing
Lolzzz. I comot mind from there na and I recently got another job. The thing is that I wanted to do a thorough finding instead of all these it will be out today, it will be out tomorrow but I confirmed it today..
Kindly apply if you have the required skills. Once invited for an interview, you can ask all questions pertaining pay and negotiate according to your expertise.
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Mtschewwww: A GSM network provider (GLO) engineers visited my land yesterday and said they want me to lease a space for their mast installation for a period of 15 years. (They have not told me any amount yet).
The land is in a residential area. Please those who know about this sort of engagement should tell me what it entails because I was asked if I would accept the offer or not so as to tell them the amount and other things involved.
I really want to know the real benefits as well as if there are other health damages that may adversely affect residence living around my compound on the long run?
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godofuck231: If you all knew what you are getting into ,leave the oba alone , be warned , omadan (sword bearers ) are known to be terrible kids , wayward and crimey at a young age , they are taken to the palace as a way of curbing their evil excesses, its a last resort for parents in ancient times and modern , its an institution on its own to teach these kids discipline. BE WARNED
Are you sure you are okay? We are talking about a 20year old here and you are busy defending your Oba. Stupid fool
Romance › Re: My Friend Takes Pleasure In Sleeping With Small Girls by BENCHOKCONSULT: 6:08pm On Mar 11, 2022
