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For your information The church bought it rather too late. Anyway the word of God has been fulfilled here;

1Co 1:27 But God made selection of the foolish things of this world so that he might put the wise to shame; and the feeble things that he might put to shame the strong;
(BBE)
shame to all who feel the true men of God shouldnt have the good things

@ Poster,

Just mind ur own business but, you can also pray for her. Take this

1 Thessalonians 4:11 1Th 4:11

4:11 (i) And that ye study to be quiet, (ii) and to do your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you;

(MEANING)

(i) He condemns unsettled minds, and such as are curious in matters which do not concern them.

(ii) He rebukes idleness and slothfulness: and whoever is given to these vices, fall into other wickedness, to the great offence of the Church.

Sweet T:
Because she got it from her mama.

I cant agree with you here. Some are trained but refused to be trained. So in a thing like this would you still say they got it from their mum? havent you seen situation were mother is responsible and the daughter is not? So how do you marry that together?

It sometimes work for some people. It worked for my brother they've been married for more a while now and there hasnt been any problem and i pray there wont.

@ Poster,

Looking is not a sin and does not mean he is pretending atleast you can look for free but dont touch coz it may cost you alot.

Come first are you in the church to look at married men that are looking at cute girls? come you go miss you blessing oh

spoilt:
Loyal to herself jare. Will you die because of your husband?

You try,

Tgirl4real:
Husband of course except for some irrational cases

No matter what your husband first then you can thereafter strainghten somethings

sistawoman:
The bible says when you marry you become one.

Thus my loyalty first lies with my husband then with my family.

And since my family all also believes in the above we have never had these type of issues in our family. Everyone knows thier place and plays thier role.

I agree with you

Women are more faithful than men. Though not all women and also there are some men too that are very faithful to their last breath

it is blamed on women b/coz it is the role of the woman to build her home. The bible even narrowed the bad child to the mother i.e

Pr 10:1 ¶ The proverbs of Solomon. A wise son maketh a glad father: but a foolish son is the heaviness of his mother.

Pr 29:15 ¶ The rod and sharp words give wisdom: but a child who is not guided is a cause of shame to his mother.

2 wives, 13 children is equal to 28 problems adding another o boy ye you are finished. with this ecomic meltdown?

Who even told you women produce boys, it is what you have that you give yeye you.

@Poster,

if she wants to leave her marriage just becoz of this reason, she should go and i tell you more than one thousand girls are on queue waiting to take her place. she must be stupid to have this tots. Anyway is she is a whitey of Ninja b4 i know what to say more?

mohawkchic:
~I Find the highligthed bits very disturbing to say the least!It's Obvious You're are not emotionally attached to your son,So you prolly see no wrong in your hubby requesting you bring Your son home on the basic of helping you w/ housework! That is so wrong!

~If the purpose of you having your son back in your life is to help you out & not on the grounds of You having a mother & son r/s. . . making up for the years lost,i'd advice he's better off where he is! Me think You're torn between your consceince of not been in your son's life  but scared of the consequences of having him in your life . . most of all you're worried about how it will affect your r/s with hubby . . .

~Reading your post,it came across like you already have a life planned out w/ your hubby that didint include your son,now all of a sudden your faced with making a decision that could well affect the whole dynamics of your marriage/relationship . . which is more Important to you? Your Son Or Your Hubby?


~Prior to your hubby Requesting you bring your 7 year old to come help out as an househelp in your home have you ever considered having the child back in your life?

~My only Advice is Answer  the questons i've asked & reflect on it,I hope you'll be able to come to a decision . .

~Oh BTW this is as objective as i could be given the information you provided,am not trying to be Judgemental in any way!

Thank you mohawkchic, i am very emotionaly attached to the boy that is one. b4 we got married the issued had been settled during our marriage counseling we agreed that the boy will leave with us after wedding.

i requested for a househelp which he refused. i also asked if i could get his nice to leave with us and he also refused then he said that i should go and bring my son not becoz he wanted him as a househelp. His reason was that he wasnt ready for any house help/madam probs and all that.

B4 our wedding till now he has been payin his school fees and i send any other thing i can send but for the school it has been his responsibility i thank God for that.

Besides, i dont like his leaving conditions. he leaves with his grandma who is above 70years of age i know she has really been of help but i just need him.

I think and believe he loves my son as his. men are generally jealous when you pay much attention to your children even if they are the producers of these children.

This is where i am confused coz u really cannt understand men.

my next of kin anytime is my husband (my better part)

Siena:
I think it's best babies sleep in their own cot, from the onset.

Sleeping in bed with mom / parents, there's a risk of them being suffocated.

Also, it's good they get used to being in their own space from the beginning, they become more independent as the get older, and are less likely to cry if their mom / parents aren't in the same room as them.

I support this opinion but, unless in rear cases maybe when the child is ill then you can make him sleep on the same bed with you so as to monitor him.

Thank you all i have really leant alot from your various posts but my challenge now is that:

i had a child out of wedlock who will be 7 this year and now i am married, my hubby has requested i bring the child to help me at home that he doesnt like house helps. Now how do i face it as in i have not been with this child for about 6years.

i think i own him that motherly love that i have dennied him in the past but how do i do all these and still not make my hubby feel bad that my attention is shifting to my son as we are still trusting God for our own child.

Pls i really need good advice.

Learn to apologise fast when you are wrong and try not to repeat it.

Kissing

and who is the only one remaining?

Congratulations as your permission for Holy misbehaviours starts.

obinna5000:
I am sure the decoder model is DSD1110(+2). It usually takes time 2 scan.

I dont think so, i think it was either not installed well or it has lost it's signals. call an installer to check for you.

JJYOU:
will be back to read thread

thanks

JJYOU:
wbb

Pls what does it mean

At what age should your child/children start having pocket money?

@Topic,

all you listed is just all about sex, if sex is the most important thing in marriage then i believe the prostitutes and sex therapist would have the best marriages. It is more than just sex (bedmathicz) and food but much more like

I love you

I am sorry

Thank you

to mention but a few

You can captivate your man and make him fall in love with you and give you the world through many things. Just understand him and do it in his own way and you find him hopelessly doing everything for you.

I am not perfect but i am doing my best to achieve that perfect marriage.

http://www.relationshipheadquarters.com

mcwalker:
that guy is not ordinary. dnt say any evil about him o, I hear say na Ghost the man be.

Are you scare? you be yoruba guy?


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dejiariyo:
i hope the world wont read all this shameless things happening in nigeria.
a country where 40 million youths are un employed
a country where average nigeria live under a dollar per day
a country where there is not power supply
a country owing around 40 billion naira
a country where there is no adequate water supply
a country where there is no good roads
a country where education is degenerating

this is the same country where a pastor can buy a jet and go on a trip for 15,ooo pounds.if this is the way christianity is all around the world then we need to think.

keep thinking while others are flying all you who still belive that Christianity is poverty.

So, kini big deal?

dayokanu:
Remember the rich young man that went to meet Jesus on how he could make heaven and Jesus told him to go and sell all his belonging give it to the poor and follow him.

The love of money that left Eununch to see the truth and avoid it. His redemption camp is now the Jamboree for all corrupt politicians and business execs and heavily jazzed traditional rulers

If you feel the redemption camp is for for Adeboye that means you as a person has the power to forgive sins and answer prayers.

Moreover it is not for anyone of you to judge leave him for God who called him.

Some men are just like that, like my husband he doesnt buy at first i used to complain and he would say if i wanted anything that i have access to money i should go and buy that he doesnt have that kind of time but i buy for him.

Then when i bought he will never say thank you but just look at the thing and smile after which he will ask "How much did you buy it" and i will be so angry. But, one night after love making (knowing he was in a good mood) i told him how i felt about the whole thing and he apologized but until now he doesnt buy. I buy and i am still buying coz i know what i want for my guy and if i have the opportunity to do that i just go ahead without minding. At least the Bible says a virtuos woman see consideres a field, and buys it: with the fruit of her hands she plants a vineyard.

So my dear just fulfil your part, i know certainly that someday he will realize it and appreciate you.

Some men dont appreciate their wives in their present but do it outside and we (women) dont like that we want to see it but it doesnt always work that way.

Smile and be happy dont let that disturb you as long as he is doing other necessary things.

As for me, we pick each other's calls or text messages. There is no secret in my home. In every area even financially, we know all. There is no reason for secret

Nothing dey Daarsat, they are just empty vessel

Some are really wicked, devil incarnate

i see everything wrong in it from the african content and even the Holy Book. Once married means the man is the head and u bear his name.

What is so important about your father's name as woman that you cant let go for the peace of you relationship?

Not bearing your father's name doesnt mean you dont love him/family.