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Its stupid idea to wanna leave yiur good wife.... If sex is the only problem... Get it outside and limit it to that alone

Wen you're home pretend everything is ok. Don't let her catch u plz...... Its so important... If not... You'll loose everything and ur gf should be ur gf. Cut emotional blackmail and man up.

My guy... U did what's right by confronting her... If she's sensible... She will know its guys who love that get jealous.... Meanwhile if she doesn't come back.... Then God is taking u away from one big future problem.... Considering her health too bro. Love shouldn't be blind anymore.

Explain your conditions to her, she'll understand.... U guys will end up friends with benefits.

Wen saying it, don't be too emotional as she might take it as if you're asking her out directly.

Please am not Igbo but am with them on this one oooo, since we can't fight for ourselves here because of useless weapons called police, sars and dss they use to oppress us here

I fully support any shady politician irrespective of his tribe to be beaten well.


We need to protest in this country to get ourselves right

The last place me and NY family will seek medical treatment and help is any govt hospital.


It's a no man's biz, so everything is done anyhow.

Another solution for ur dumb ass questions

If u know how to secretly be reading her WhatsApp msg on your own phone without her knowing, u will find out the truth in one way or the other because she will definitely pour out her mind to her close friends or even the guy responsible for the pregnancy

It so annoying wen matured educated fellow ask stupid questions


U had sex with her 4weeks back
She came out 6 weeks plus days pregnant
You're still asking dumb questions about what people thinks

Keep am na, shebi u want to father another man's child. Mumu. U better send her packing.... U met less than 3 months and you're believing everything she's saying.

Comot here joor olodo

Africans are known for pulling ourselves down no matter wat, this joke is nothing to be offensive about, I just see a purposeful action to pull u down.


No wonder the first thing they attack is your ambassadorship with Glo and EU.



So sorry bro but I still love ❤️ u.

Africans are known for pulling ourselves down no matter wat, this joke is nothing to be offensive about, I just see a purposeful action to pull u down.


No wonder the first thing they attack is your ambassadorsjop with Glo and EU.



So sorry bro but I still love ❤️ u.

He that doesn't lost doesn't find either.... This life is a full time test, ur standard cool but u won't get it wen u judge from afar. The only quality I will advice is an ambitious man for great future. If he has nothing, u can work on him.

And the guy no think am say one day one day, him sef go carry woman put for house.

Let her knw u nw hv a fiancee but u don't mind if you guys can just b friends..... Possibly friends with benefit

Its a painful story, though we are hearing just your side of the story. I bliv he will Also have something to say. Do u know that he might really be after the happiness of the entire family but process to the happy ending might be something you'll totally disagree with.


Women most times are the ones who structure the attitude and movement of their men. Wen he noticed you might disagree with somethings he seems good for the family, what do u want him to do other than to lie or take some actions, won't b surprised if he's sleeping under the bridge or sleeping with a woman just to actualize his dream for now, hence avoiding video calls


On the other side, calm down ursef, he will call and reply ur msg. Pls make him feel safe and pray for him always even on video calls,

If after 2 months, u didn't notice any changes, start your traveling process too without telling him.

The next time she makes such demands from u, politely tell her that..... You know she's trying to blackmail u but if she doesn't stop it and start acting normal, you'll tell ur wife what actually happened and u know ur wife will forgive u and she on the other side will loose the love of a sister for life and many other benefits.

Don't do this if you know you still have skeletons in your cupboard and you ain't been too plain with us here oooo. because u might loose everything u have worked hard for.

Op, good girls are hard to find nowadays oooo, if she's truly good like you're saying, she should calm down, her heart rob will fetch her soon

But I guess she's not a good girl because good girls don't practice friends with benefits, you kept fucking her and still looking for best relationship for her, Infact u b her devil sef. She needs to run far from u.

Even if she finds a relationship, you'll still be her friends with benefits

Buzz me up, I'll show u how u can know the real person you're about to get marry to by giving u directives on how access to her WhatsApp page without touching her phone...

ask buhari

mitcheeeeew

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Evaberry:
very few men are victims of domestic violence. Women always bear the brunt of a man's anger


No matter what a woman says or does, a man should never hit her, a man is physically stronger than a woman so hitting her will inflict serious physical damage, whereas a woman may not cause any real harm to a man.

Op the husband in your write Up should have quietly left the compound and go relax somewhere until he was sure his wife had calmed down. when a woman is angry she throws all reason and caution to the wind, it therefore falls on the man to be understanding and reasonable


Engaging in a fisticuffs with a woman is wrong and should be condemned.

well said but Wat if the guy leaves the compound and relax for a while like you've adviced but later the woman still refuses to let him enter his house like she did in the morning. or maybe he even tried to wait to evening before coming back but the wife is still angry, what will you advice.


BTW... I have seen a situation where the woman stops the man from going to work on Monday morning by throwing his car key in a well, locked the door with key and threw the key out of the window saying the man should do his worse. what will u also advice here.

ivolt:
Do you want him dead ?

of what use is his life to the common Nigerians

Following

sariu11:
What time.....?

16.37...... but twas their two missed calls....later called them and they said that they wanted to confirm my state of Origin

Did anyone receive call from Syoj consulting today? because I did.

If I hear say I join "legal criminals " na teacher sure pass at least you wud still have your respect and dignity in the society

akinloluwao:
With this your english, nobody will employ you, that's why they refused to get back to you

Nawa for you oooo. Your mates are out there finking of how to get millions while you're busy pointing out people's mistake on nairaland......I jus wonder when Nigerians will start concentrating on getting solution instead of finding faults.

ajasa4link:
I think its best if a thread is created to expose this high level of wickedness on the part of ics and it should be taken to frontpage so people can know them for what they are

Haha, Mr ajasa, it hasn't gotten to that na, I was also there and I saw for myself everything that happened. Although Icsl really fumbled with this programme but I fink they don't have that aim of disappointing nigeria unemployed graduate like this. Let's jus say that their expectations on the invited companies were cut short and being the first time, things can't be that perfect as they anticipated. Though they use us shine ooooo but am not sure the programme was organised solely for their own interest rather things didn't turn out as they anticipated. My advice to icsl now is to start making up for their mistakes by placing the successful top talents as their priority in job offers without much stress again.

My people please let all understand that there's always a first time and it's not always perfect. I believe they too must have learnt from their mistakes as no one wants it's integrity to be tarnished

KPMG.............. they are the best when it comes to selecting for graduate trainee.

Nice one

Maybe when dey
stop harassing drivers because of #20,
stop co-operating with agbero to disturb drivers,
stop having link with yahoo Boyz,
stop giving out their guns to robbers,
stop supporting the rich over the poor

Then I will change my finking about police.

97% of policemen don't depend on their salary and yiu understand fully well where am driving too.


God bless nigeria...

Play along, who knows it might be real but do not give a kobo or go meet him in a hidden place.