Jobs/Vacancies › Vacancies In BC Kash Microfinance Bank by benedima1990(op): 1:09pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
*BCKASH Cooperative and investment society Ltd Recruitment*
*Job Title:* Loan officer *Employment:* Full time *Location:* Idimu, Lagos
*Requirements* *Qualification:* ND, HND or BSC in social sciences or Art. *Gender:* male and female *Age limit:* Not more than 35yrs
Must possess good communication skill and good customer relation.
*Qualified and interested candidates should send their CVs to @abibatakindele7@gmail.com with job title as subject of the mail on or before 21st January, 2022.* |
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Romance › Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by benedima1990(m): 3:11pm On Aug 29, 2020 |
I will try to b honest and b friendly with my reply
Are u really a man. If yes..... Not every thing you'll tell your woman because their nature is to control their man.
Use ur discretion most times. They'll come to respect u for DAT. But if u allow her control u, u becomes her puppet. |
Travel › Re: Nigerian Has Announced Visa Restrictions For The USA And Other Countries by benedima1990(m): 1:14pm On Aug 13, 2020 |
nairalandankrah: Sorry to say but You are stupid..so this is how much your brain can carry you..?? Nigeria has the highest covid infection rate in the world..#fact.. I guess you didn't read about the deaths in kano?. And you also didnt get the news by NCDC that Nigerians below 45 are carriers and spreaders of the virus, while those above 50 are dying from it?? Did you even care to ask yourself why is that??did you care to reason along that line?? the fact that covid related deaths are not overly glaring like it is in the west boils down to the fact that covid has symptomatic resemblance to malaria.. And right from birth,our immune system has been subjected to all kinds of anti malaria drugs already. This is why we don't die much from covid here.. Unlike our counterparts in the west, who hardly survive malaria cos their immune system isn't use to it.. So its possible YOU might have suffered COVID, which you ignorantly brushed off as malaria, because, there are no testing kits in your beautiful country so you will never know..
We don't keep hygiene, we don't practice social distance, we don't wash our hands, we don't wear masks, we are worse out there when it comes to preventing the spread of covid 19.. HOW MANY PEOPLE HAVE EVEN BEEN TESTED OUT OF OVER 200MILLION NIGERIANS,,are you telling me, there's no covid in Nigeria?? Or we practice social distance and good hygiene more than the Americans??
Do you now see that there is something wrong with the way you reason? #Onye isi oji U have a problem brother. |
Romance › Re: She dumps him 8 years ago and wants him back now. by benedima1990(m): 12:49pm On Aug 13, 2020 |
Its better to go for a totally new gf than to reconcile with that girl.
The girl has gone south, north, east and west. Enjoyed her life to the fullest and now want to settle down with a rich nice dude that she has once blocked, cheated on and separated from . Its impossible.
Kindly delete, everything that connect her in this life and life after. If not, it will end in premium tears. |
Education › Re: Sad: Here Are The 4 Reasons Why The VC Of UNILAG Was Removed Today by benedima1990(m): 12:25pm On Aug 13, 2020 |
Its a black day for him today
What a pity |
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Romance › Re: My Friend Sleeps With This. Is It Medically Okay? (graphic Pics) by benedima1990(m): 2:12am On Jul 25, 2020 |
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Celebrities › Re: Mark Angel Surprise Emmanuella With A Car On Her 10th Birthday by benedima1990(m): 2:07am On Jul 25, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: Sowore: Reno Omokri's Open Letter To Macarthur Foundation by benedima1990(m): 11:06pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Its very evidence that this is a sponsored post. Y will some naira lander comment like 5 to 6 times on a particular post. its a mission post.
Possibly by reno and his co.
Sowore is too respected to b dragged on social media by meaningful youth Like this |
Family › Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by benedima1990(m): 12:03pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
Three things I will advice u
1. Can u trace your family first house, possibly the house ur family was living wen u were born. People around would know something. That's neighborhood for u.
2. Hire a private investigator, its obvious you're to emotional to think of possible way out
3. Be prayerful and don't loose focus. Don't let this take another turn of ur life. Possibly if you've been told earlier, you'd have done something worse reason y people are avoiding to tell u the truth. Best of luck in ur search
Meanwhile, if u can try have a change of mind and get married, it will help alot most especially having close tie with someone u can call ur own because its obvious you're all alone. Having ur kids will give u the joy and happiness u we're denied. Try it |
Family › Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by benedima1990(m): 3:58pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
With yiur write up, yiu seems to be very proud and arrogant.
Things like this should give u a dream and a purpose in life.
Not competing with some other gender that has no purpose in life.
In my opinion, stay a low life profile till u finish serving. I love the way your brother is handling u. Be a man |
Family › Re: I Am Ending My Marriage Because Of These (see Reasons And Give Advise) by benedima1990(m): 12:27pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
MedicH: You both are immature and u Mr man u are very silly and a disgrace to manhood. matured man , can we have your own advice as we are all here to learn one or two things from one another |
Family › Re: I Am Ending My Marriage Because Of These (see Reasons And Give Advise) by benedima1990(m): 12:16pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
I can feel ur pain brother, needless to say you're too young to kill yourself now
I tried so much to b fair with my judgement on her but the betrayal, illiteracy and extreme extrovert is something me too cannot withstand ,hence I feel your pain
if u are well to do , get another apartment for her and her child, feed and take care of their expenses, get yourself another suitable wife that will match your standard . if not , one of u will develop hypertension soon . |
Romance › Re: My Wife's Sister Wants Me To Sleep With Her. by benedima1990(m): 4:28pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
see my guy , am a very realistic person , morally sleeping with your wife sister is very very bad but this our flesh ehn, it's something else
now if the flesh is taking over u , just sit down and think abt it this way , what if you're been caught with her having sex , can u handle the aftermath situation. if u think u can , then move to the second phase of question, what if she get pregnant and decide to blackmail u with it , can u handle it too . then 3 , if after everything ur wife get to know , can she decide to leave the marriage ??, if she can , hope u won't blame it on the devil after all .
after all these self meditation , go and bleep her, life is too short. |
Romance › Re: If You Paid A Girl's School Fees Can You Get Your Money Back? by benedima1990(m): 2:32pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
joceey: First, what is a “promise to marry”? A “promise” is defined as the manifestation of an intention to act or refrain from acting in a specified manner conveyed in such a way that another is justified in understanding that a commitment has been made; a person’s assurance that a person will or will not do something. A promise to marry is thus defined as a “betrothal”, an “engagement to be married” also termed “agreement to marry”. The promise to marry a contract comes into existence by the mutual exchange of promises by the parties to marry each other. A mere convivial or romantic relationship is not enough for a court to found an agreement to marry.
In the same vein as commercial contracts, a promise to marry can be oral, written, or otherwise. As an oral contract, the proof is determined by the same common law rules by which oral commercial contracts are judged. As a written contract, the evidence of a personal letter indicating an agreement to marry is enough to establish proof. Promise to marry can be inferred from the action or conduct of the party making the promise. Any action or conduct which directly suggests promise would constitute evidence and therefore proof of promise to marry. (Dr Steve Ogan, 2008). In Aiyede vs Norman –William (1960) LLR 253, it was held that the promise to marry need not take the oral or written exchange of mutual promise.
A germane criteria for a promise to marry to be legally binding apart from parties possessing the requisite legal capacity is that it must have consideration for it to be legally valid and enforceable. The evidence of consideration is the basis for establishing the existence of a contract. In a promise to marry case, the reciprocal promise of a woman to marry a man who promised to marry her is usually regarded as consideration. Other instances of consideration could include where for example a woman travels to another city/state/country to meet a man who promised to marry her! Does it include where a woman gets pregnant for her man in furtherance to the promise to marry? This is mootable!
To constitute a breach of promise to marry, two elements are essential: First it must be proved to the satisfaction of the court that there was a promise to marry under the relevant law. Second, it must be shown that one party to the agreement, whether the man or the woman, has failed or refused to honour the obligation. When the above are established, the injured party may sue the other for breach of the contract and claim damages thereof, although no damages may be recovered unless his or her testimony is corroborated by some other material evidence in support of such promise in line with section 197 of the Evidence Act 2004. What constitutes material evidence is a question of law for the court to determine
The breach of promise to marry could either be in the form of non-performance or anticipatory breach. There may be non-performance where the time for performance is fixed, for example where parties agree on a particular date, the failure or refusal of one of the parties to turn up for the marriage constitutes a breach. Where no date is fixed, the law implies that the promise is one to marry within a reasonable time or at the request of one party. Where however, the promise is subject to a condition precedent, for example consent of parents, there can be no breach until the condition is satisfied or fulfilled. In Aiyede’s case (supra), the plaintiff’s case was dismissed as there was a condition precedent to the fulfilment of the defendant’s promise to marry, which in this case was obtaining the consent of the plaintiff’s father.
The breach of promise to marry takes the form of an anticipatory breach where there is outright repudiation of obligation by a party, or by such conduct on his part that’s puts it out of his power to perform his obligation. An anticipatory breach may occur where before the contractual date for performance, a party to the contract announces his intention not to perform, which announcement the other party could treat as wrongful termination of the agreement and head to court. Anticipatory breach can also occur where one party to an agreement by his own act puts it out of his power to perform his obligation. Such is the case where a party to the contract to marry elopes and marries someone else .The case of Uso v Iketubosin [1975] WRNLR 187 depict this form. In that case, the defendant promised to marry the plaintiff in 1947. In 1957, the defendant married another woman in breach of his promise to the plaintiff. The Court held that the defendant’s act constituted a breach for which the plaintiff was entitled to damages. What are the damages for breach of promise to marry? The quantum of damages is generally subject to the rules of remoteness i.e the damages should be that which flow directly from the breach or which are within the contemplation of the parties at the time of the promise. In this light, damages awarded by courts fall under the following categories: general damages e.g. compensation for the loss of consortium of the other party; injured feelings, wounded pride, etc ; special damages affecting property e.g for money spent or financial loss sustained by the plaintiff as a direct result of the defendant’s breach of the promise to marry; recovery of the engagement ring and presents. An interesting thing to note is that damages could also be claimed against a third party who induced the breach. Whatever be the damage claimed, one thing the court would not do is to grant an order of specific performance as no court would force any one to marry another. fear lawyers with everything you have ..... This is pure nonsense and it won't stand a bit in the law court once the lady deny any promise of marriage and the family also deny knowing the guy . even with evidence of payment, if the lady tell the court that , he decided he wanna be of help because I've been a good student from secondary and no marriage plan whatsoever, the court will just close the case lawyers will make u feel like there are higher chances whereas, u don't have 0.2 % of winning if he claims he can win your case , let him represent u free and wen he wins the case, proceeds will be shared 50_ 50. |
Romance › Re: I Was Raped Before My Husband And He Wants To Divorce Me Because I Enjoyed It – by benedima1990(m): 1:39pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
it sounds fake though but let's assume it's true
madam , you've just discover what turns u up greatly.... been forced and probably beaten well before sex.
I have people that won't enjoy sex if not beaten well by their partner |
Romance › Re: Girls That I've Forgotten Suddenly Remembered Me by benedima1990(m): 1:27pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
How did they turn u down  what was their excuses  I think this is ur pay back time. ladies are known for always going for the best benefiting guys are the moment . you were a trash , now they see u as gold. Meanwhile, do u still bliv in love  |
Family › Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating On Me? Advice Needed by benedima1990(m): 11:37pm On Apr 27, 2020 |
I can teach u how to hack her WhatsApp acc .just put your mind at rest bro , A partner's wahala can cause someone high bp and you're too young for that.
once u get your facts right from her hacked WhatsApp, screen shot evidence , then move outside to get yourself a better girl and deny her everything she could want from you as her husband. when it's time , she will speak up and by then you'll know what to do .
Two men died from wife's wahala in my area this month . Can't withstand that |
Romance › Re: Is It Right to Have S*x With A Psycho-friend? by benedima1990(m): 8:47am On Apr 25, 2020 |
smile , let's just assume u successfully bleeped her , if she mistakenly become pregnant , can u marry her  ? if yes ... go ahead if no .... don't try it |
Romance › Re: by benedima1990(m): 5:30pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
guy , i beg u with everything u have in life , don't break up with this girl. the truth is that, they've been having sex not once or twice and they both enjoyed it .
plz just keep that part of text somewhere safe , because Its so certain that she can't marry the other guy since he has a fiancee,
plz look for another wife but don't break up with her , if u can, wait till your wedding invite is out and give her two days to your wedding attaching a copy of the text u extracted from her . this is the best way to revenge her infidelity and betrayal of your trust . |
Romance › Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by benedima1990(m): 2:27pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Will u now kill yourself because she doesn't love u
it's her decision and not her mum
I'll advice you to stop seeing her ,delete her number and that searching else where for a wife
she'll probably notice your change of attitude and start running after u .
am sure she's into someone else but you're just too blind to see it .
Wen a lady is in love , they'll b the one to bring up proposal and marriage topic first |
Romance › Re: I Am Heart Broken, Please I Need Help by benedima1990(m): 2:18pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
U don't have legs and you want to contest in a race....... do u think you'll win  ? you don't have money , you're falling in love ....... my friend , stupidity is in your blood .......... U better go get money. |
Romance › Re: Quarantine Whatsapp Group by benedima1990(m): 1:38am On Apr 16, 2020 |
08063523696 |
Romance › Re: Kwam 1 Was Having Extra Marital Affairs With Alaafin Oyo’s Wife by benedima1990(m): 1:32am On Apr 16, 2020 |
How can this old man satisfy this young girl  ? |
Romance › Re: Seven Years Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock by benedima1990(m): 12:16pm On Apr 12, 2020 |
e b like say na white garment your parent dey go bliv those white garment prophet prophecy about relationship at your own risk myself and my immediate brother are vivid example . is there any white garment prophet who doesn't attack u from relationship aspect  . b wise jawe and go for it hrt |
Romance › Re: .......closed. by benedima1990(m): 12:07pm On Apr 12, 2020 |
for the op to put up something like this..... I think the op family has serious issue while growing up . your father married your mum to give birth to u ..... now u want to avoid marriage basically maybe you hate the relationship btw your dad and mum . any lady who agrees to this is inviting great trouble for herself. meanwhile, even a mad woman will not want to drop her child of 5 years for 10 million naira. do u even understand the emotional connection btw mum and son/ daughter  . op, no waste your time , she'll will default with time even if she agrees with it at the initial stage |
Romance › Re: I Finally Asked Her Out Via Whatsapp Video Call, Here Is What She Said... by benedima1990(m): 12:56am On Apr 12, 2020 |
Now that you've heard for yasef ...... move closer to her and do a little push ..... she might b your fwb too.
Forget love and taste what u wanna taste
If I hear say .... U had the intention to marry her b4 ooo , I go swear for u. Na lust dey front love. So enjoy . |
Romance › Re: Why do Guys Lose Interest In A Lady After They Have Slept With Her by benedima1990(m): 6:58pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
Davash222: Have you seen a politician campaigning after winning election Amadioha will not forgive u for this kind of savage response � |
Romance › Re: I Don't Understand My Husband Again by benedima1990(m): 6:43pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
Do u mean to write that your husband has been cheating on you for 6 good years  |
Family › Re: Stop Having Sex In The Dark - Patience Akpabio Tells Couples by benedima1990(m): 9:52pm On Mar 04, 2020 |
That's true ,
now i see
naira Marley parent had his sex in the dark . |