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RighteousI:
Wait sis, is it not you that said you don't want to marry a male virgin rather you prefer a repentant non-virgin man since you are not a virgin yourself?
Sis, why do you despise virgin men?

GoodMuyis:
This is how I believed it should be done

Hello ladies,
Ayam goodmuyis, by the grace of God, am born again and spirit-filled. Am posting here looking for a Potential Life partner, What interest me in a women is true godliness and passion for Christ and soul-winning.
"Tribe doesn't matter although I'm south western. Looks doesn't matter cos no one is ugly, Height or weight doesn't matter but no obese, since this shows lack of discipline" (RighteousI)
Denomination does not matter, must be between 25 - 32, "Never married but repentant single moms are welcome" (RighteousI).

Few things you may want to know about me
Ayam Calm, playfull, free and open-minded, hardworking but sometimes indolent, if i work overnight.
I love God, like to give to God's work.
I work as a Computer operator (Web Stuff, but not yahoo-yahoo oooo), I have second kitchen experience

My Lifetime ambition is to serve God in youth ministry till I die and am looking for a partner who will run with this vision.

If I fit into your interest and wanted to know more about me DO NOT contact via the PM.

DISCLAIMER: What you just read above should be taken for granted, otherwise you will be responsible for wedding expenses, Thank you

RighteousI:
Yes you are right. A woman should not say "here I am" instead she should keep quiet and wait for the man to find her cos that's what the bible teaches us...... do you get the irony?
What makes you think I'm over 40, the age range I've stated seeks to accomodate and is sympathetic towards women like repentant single moms, more mature christian women and divorcees. I'm not over 40 but in my early thirties.
Yes I can easily use other ways like walking into a church and get involved there but its just that false christians have placed themselves in the choir, pastoral team and in the congregation, therefore I'm trying the online lottery. Its a lottery cos you can find a perfect match online and you can also find a false christian online.
Lol. "Letters of application" may seem too forward to a young girl but wait till you are still single at 40, you will buy envelope and stamp yourself to post your courtship application to a true christian man.
And why will I ask a potential wife to possess some christian qualities that I do not possess? So stop this "what of you" accussation.

GoodMuyis:
OP RighteousI calm down do apologize where needed a potential wife will not like to see you arguing.

bennyann abeg forgive and dont spoil the market.

BACK To OP
Your submission makes .....

==Modified==

Your submission makes me remember my brother who got his spouse online, not even social media, It was this Glo SMS chat. But today he is a Pastor with two kids, he has personal ministry "Glorious Child Fellowship", he is in his early 30s. You too can get a godly wife online, but..

analice107:
Wait sis, is this that guy on your thread? The Pastor guy?

You don't think I really mean this stuff, do you? Its more of a social experiment to test if any christian woman will bother to reply.

Frederick7:
Are you going to a gay church, I meant all male church, what happened to the unmarried sisters in your church! If you can't find anyone there then switch church. Moreover Here is not a Christian dating site, is not the best place to search for your second half! Well I wish you luck, maybe bennyann can give you a chance.

analice107:
Funny how so called Christians don't even know why they get married. Just check out his list, it's about him nothing about God's purpose.

felixomor:
It is well with you in Jesus name.
Amen.
I thank God that there are still people like you who are Willing to take responsibility for their actions. Some other people will blame others.

Firstly you should know that your inner peace is more expensive than anything on this planet.
Sometimes, the troubling of this inner peace is a signal that you have to settle things.

You may be surprised, that when you eventually tell your husband, he may already be aware.
You may then blame yourself for killing your inner peace unnecessarily all this while.

Secondly, if you allow the guilt to persist, it may continue to hurt you. Especially on occasions when your husband shows you love.

So just open up.
Do it once and for all.
And give your husband a way to assure him, it will never happen again.
By reducing all avenues to cheating in the future.

But first confess to Godand
Pray that God puts forgiveness in his heart.
Have a plan to take care of yourself and kids in case he tells you to move out.
But dont use this as leverage to break free.
By God's grace I pray he will not tell you to move out.

Finally, develop a good relationship with God and study God's word.
This is the only way you will get real peace.
No man, not even my advice can give you this.

I pray God heals you, your marriage in Jesus name.
Amen

Akiintom:
On one condition will i wave aside, the ridiculous act of this your Felix, and that's if he's in his early 20s.

onyenze123:
Because attending church is important for a Christian and since you comments on Nairaland are christ-like (unlike other Christians here) I would like to attend the church you attend. I need sane preaching and true followship

MrPresident1:
Everywhere and everyone is looking drab and dull

onyenze123:

Which church do you attend?

Akiintom:
Under the oath of holyghost, bennyann, do you think that felix.omoron is anything close to being a Christian?

Ranchhoddas:
I am always here. Always reading posts, only that I have to be sufficiently motivated to type these days.
Too many storms in my life right now. I know it's a phase though; I'll weather them and return to my usual joyful self sooner than later.

How you dey?

onyenze123:
my babe, I accept Christ as my personal lord and savior. pls minister to me.

I need help..

Pastafarian:
lol, here you are giving good humour, the guy above this post however......

But the only time when that christian needs to mix with the society is when the time to pick a marriage partner comes.

Pastafarian:
atheists

MZLady39:

Brother,
There's so much I want to say about those scriptural references.....
However, with all due respect, please boast in Christ' Righteous & victory at the Cross..rather than a title of a denomination.
Followers of Christ shouldn't be behaving as the world.
Regardless of the thousands of different denominations out there, we aren't in a competition against one another......
Just some food for thought....

felixomor:
Honestly. If not 99%
Many of them dont even know the statistical occurence and incidence of Hallucinations.
Any cockroach, they just shout hallucination.

HungerBAD:
To me a virtuous woman is a woman who has the fear of God in them.

She must not NAG. If only women know how constant naggings get to a man.

A virtuous woman will not sleep outside,even if separated from the husband for 20 years.

The list is endless. A virtuous woman,are those we read about now. Sadly,they no longer exist.

HungerBAD:
You see?exactly my point. Your answers are from the Bible.

I am a realist. Maybe the mistake i made was assuming you are a female,as i will repeat my question.

Who is a virtuous woman?and what are those realistic signs to watch out for so as to recognize them.

HungerBAD:
You have a point.

But can you pour more light on my question without referring back to men?the write up is about virtuous women, and trust me, i am curious to meet one.

Any education about the mysterious virtuous women will be helpful. I mean how to know them.

but are there women like this?with all these qualities you listed?

First, they are self-righteous. “Jesus, here’s my resume. You gotta let me in because I am an accomplished individual. Look at all I’ve done!” Which is basically saying, “Jesus, you died for nothing. Keep your grace; I don’t need it. I stand on my own merits.” Pretty dumb.

Do you get a self-satisfaction when you look in the mirror and like what you see?