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crazygod: Andre na bastard, dog, nkita, mudafuka, I feel like shooting him. I feel like sending boko haram to him. He is a poor excuse for a human being. A waste of space. Shiooor. Kelebe. Pueee. Dis guy disgusts me. And he still has the guts to blame lola. He cannot even man up to his mistakes. Super bastard.

hahahahahahahahahahahah...guy take it easy...its ok...na act dem dey act

Julieni: million gbosa to you jawe, i join you on tthis... Eeven if angel is a demon like diana, lola never tried or even allowed angel to kiis her. She was married to diff men, but nvr slept with any, while andre dey nack debra at any given opportunity... Thumbs up jawe! U try.

4 d bolded,i will say keep watching and see how passionate she is going to kiss angel ...but buttomline is andre and lola were made 4 each oda..AND THEIR HEARTS WILL ALWAYS KEEP BEATING FOR EACH ODA ...DATS HOW BEAUTIFUL LOVE IS MY SISTER!!!

Ladiva49: and where did you hear that andree never slept with debra? Let me catch fire and roast nw,dat one that at evry minimal trial falls an has sex with debra,it sure hapnd mre than thrice so you beta stp dat ur talk, i hate it when guys think they cn play around with anytin in skirt and expct their galfrds to remain faithful an respct dm,WTF is she firewood mtchw,to tel u d truth eh lola has tried,wat sef am fed up with dis shout abt lola and angel,c eh lft 4 me i gve lola 250% rit to flirt with angel al she likes,wat does andree tink he is. In evry relationshp dres wat dy cll respct for each odas pride,andree dosnt have it evn smal sf, lola made it clear to evry man in ha lif dat andree was ultimate and ownd ha body no mata d situation but oga andre own is totaly difrnt,he always gves evrywoman in hs lfe d oportuinity to laf an spit at lolas face,always stickn hs dick an mouth wereva acepts dreby woundin d pride of d woman he claims to love,where i flt like kiling him was wen he refusd diana's resignation(JESUS) evn if shes d only profesional in d whole world whch she sure isnt at least 4 ur womans pride let her go but instead dis beloved gentleman refusd it despite the tears in lolas eye if i were lola sf eh,4 dat single act i must born pikin 4 angel. The sumary of dis my long anger provoked talk is that andree dosnt respct lola so dosnt dserve her rspct and we al knew frm d begining dat he had a tin for diana so he CN GO TO HELL FOR ALL I CARE (i cn evn borow hm my pickup)

telemundo fev.

LOLA AND ANDRE FOOLISHNESS IS MAKING ME REGRET WATCHING MHBL ...CAN'T WAIT TO SEE LOLA'S FACE WHEN HER 'ANGEL' REVEALS HIS DEVILISH ACTS ON HER...SHE THINKS SHE IS ALWAYS RIGHT AND EVERYONE IS WRONG...SO SAD THAT DEBRA ENDED UP THIS WAY....EVEN TO THE POINT OF DEATH,SHE STILL LOVED ANDRE...SEE LOVE

OMAR IN BCD IS DEAD...GONZALO SHOT HIM TWICE ...JUST WATCHED THE FOLLOWING EPISODE...APART FROM REBECCA WHO BECOMES PARALYSED,WHOEVER FINDS OUT GONZALO'S SECRET EITHER ENDS UP DEAD OR MISSING...SORRY OMAR,BUT U SCREWED UP BIG TIME WITH REBECCA...INSTEAD OF FINDING A SAFE PLACE TO HIDE TWICE,YOU STILL TRIED TO PLAY INTO THE HANDS OF A SERIAL KILLER!!

HAVIER NA REAL CLOWN

ARareGem: But I have to say that Andres attitude towards Lola was becoming lackadaisical. Yes, the girl was acting jealous and from his point of view it was uncalled for, but Lola isn't just any girl. She's the mother of his child and was his fiancée. He should have put her first before any other chick. He should have accepted Diana's resignation. Afterall, it isn't as if Diana can't be replaced.

Meanwhile, I had mad laughs watching Debra shooting at Diana and Diana running for her dear life. Nor be another person man you dey find, you go see am.

true about andres,but she cant ask him to fire his employee simply because she is too jealous of her...na wa ohh..abi she don turn 2 debra overnite ...besides,she asked 4 it wen she challenged diana 2 a jealousy competition...and rite now,it seems diana is the one winning d battle

jealousy can make a matured person luk so stewpid..if am lying ask lola...

lola is getting more unbearable..her own jealousy is worse than dat of blanca in aurora...

na wa ohhh..is it just my dstv or is it everywhere....it seems as if there is a crack evry 1minute of play...hope say their disk neva crack ohh ..just saying

[quote author=mimicue][/quote]yes she will and both wud even want to get married until she discovers who angel really is............

paula in del monte dynasty..kai..see paula curves ..no wonder juan's brain Somersaults anytime he sees her...but paula's temptation is just too much 4 him..OMG any PAULA in my life b4 i marry i come against you......

amunike and kelechi's agent are not lying but not telling us the whole truth..scheming tins

adolpho na 'hard to kill'...

i like the new intro on behind closed doors....i got angry any time dey put up the former intro where dat portrays gonzalo as a detective!!

what ever is going to happen to rosa is expected..i guess this should be a lesson for everyone especially those in a relationship..always tell your partner(or spouse) about your past no matter how ugly it mite sound...the truth hurts but lies hurt more-aurora

ohhhh....Mathias...d BCD sud have allowed rebeeca and Mathias travel in peace......wat a sad tale ohhhh....

mathias ..u cud have stayd dere after untyn urself...how do u want 2 fight sumone(gonzalo:serial killer) holding a weapon..i pity rebecca(she really felt d gunshot)..dis is really one of d tragedies of BCD

trux: But not in English the one online is in Urdu Pakistan

yeah u r rite..the one on youtube is a pakistan version but you can only understand by watching their body language..datsall

though i have watched the end of behind closed doors but i tink its the best suspense filled soapy i have watchd 4 a long time..absolutely no one is a saint...the very best!BCD(BEHIND CLOSED DOORS)

lizzyt92: Pls I wnt 2 knw

dont really know wat u want 2 know but...gonzalo will be revealed on nxt week episode(61) as inaki...by d way u can watch d spanish version on youtube..this is d link...open youtube and type this on d search box Behind Closed Doors / Poshte Darhaya Basteh Ep 1...do the same for d rest of the episodes u want to watch..dstv is on episode 59 and behind closed doors has 165 episodes..enjoy watchin

[quote author=Mosminic][/quote]yap...absolutely

ohh..my God...guess behind closed doors is d best...just watched d episode where gonzalo was revealed as the third broda of d mora family...and d people he has been killing..wat a suspense..dont want 2 tell u guys d end..4 dose who want 2 no..just let me know and i will get u d link 4rm youtube..

i would like to thank every one that has contributed his or her own opinion to this issue...i never knew public forums like nairaland had such enlightened individuals..i have actually learnt a lot about this 'tithe' wahala..just hope such doesnt happen to me ...well,the buttomline is that my friend and his girlfriend have brought their 3-year relationship to an end due to disagreements over the tithe or tithe struggle and other hidden issues unknown to me...my friend was willing to accept her tithing belief..suggesting that there were more important issues to tackle but his girlfriend insisted that she can't marry a man who does'nt tithe!(na wa oh )..so thats actually the latest update so far...its really a pity.......!

DrummaBoy: I would have found myself in that situation some three years ago when I was courting my wife. But then I still believed in tithing and it was not an issue in our relationship. Five months ago, when I stopped tithing, I talked it over with my wife and though it was a really tensed situation, and she was unhappy about it, we resolved that as long as she could still pay her own tithe, the matter will not be an issue btw us. She even refused to listen to whatever reason led me to such conviction. She felt I had been deceived and close loosing my faith in God.

Five months later, I get to share my conviction with her on tithing little by little; she is now convinced that tithing is not a legal requirement for Christians but she gives a tenth of her income as a "freewill offering" to the church.

I related my story to draw home the fact that this matter is a very serious issue. On the one hand couples should share a similar faith, at least the fundamentals of their faith, if not it will tear at the foundation of their home. And if they do not have this, it is better they do not marry. On the other hand, what is really a fundamental to our faith? Tithe? This is the real issue. The Matthew 23:23 that many quote as the only justification for tithing showed Jesus implying that tithing is not a weighty matter or it is not fundamental. When did tithing become a fundamental issue in Christianity? It became fundamental when false prophets, benefiting illegally from it, made it so.

Now, it is easy for those of us who are not in this couple's shoes to just say they cannot marry bc they do not share a similar faith. But do we know what goes into the making of a relationship? Especially one that has lasted three years. I will give my advice in two fold, directing one to the husband and the other to the wife below, bc I know that I have a great home and with lovely children and if I had gotten the revelation on tithing, like I do now, three years ago, it would not have given me a home like I have it. I am saying the tithe matter should not stop this home from becoming a reality: So,

Lady/Wife:

Assume you are in your husband's home already. If you were and a matter arise, is this how you will continue to debate it? The bible commands the wife to submit to the husband. Take your time and read the following "evidences" I provide on NL on why tithing is no longer acceptable in today's Christianity.



Man/Husband:

You may not be married now but assume you were how will you handle your differences. Read Romans 14 and see there what Paul cations to do with non-weighty matters of doctrine like tithing. "He that tithe, to the Lord he tithe. He that doesn't tithe, to the Lord he doesn't tithe". Do not condemn your wife tithing; permit her to and trust God to bring her to understand the matter like you did, no matter how long.

If the point of difference of belief was the question of how to be saved; Jesus being the son of God or other fundamentals of our faith, ehen, you may say, let's put off the marraige; but if it is for a mere matter of tithing, pls do not. I advice, though, that you both work this matter out sufficiently before you go to the altar.

I wish you all the best. And, OP, do let us know how the thing is going btw the two of them.

Cheers.

tank U so much...i will definitely keep you posted about my friend and his lady..please is it true that such issues were treated in previous threads?
if true,cud u help me with the links to such?
tank you so much and God bless U!

Thank you all for making matured and excellent analysis of the situation my friend is into!
though the comments sent so far might seem enough,but i wud like to get more comments on dis issue!
can anyone direct me 2 threads in nairaland dat discussed this particular topic extensively?
thank you all for your comments!

tommybiz2002: I believe they both should take a break and re-evaluate their faith in Christ- they should ask themselves questions about whom they are truly serving? How can they please Him? They should also ask God for a revelation of the truth so that they can be set free. Our churches, these days, are void of truth. They feed the people with what they want to hear since most pastors are psychologist either by profession or proxy. All part of the scriptures is useful for teaching 2 Timothy 3:16. Otherwise, we would be reducing God, Jesus and His disciples to advisers and commentators. God wants us to obey His commandments, but if anyone thinks otherwise, then they can go one killing, stealing, committing adultery and even refuse to pay tithes, after all those are laws written in the old testament. I hope this is helpful.

tank you my brother!

clip: "My friend believes tithes were practised as a requirement in the old covenant and was used as a means by God to feed the levites and priest who had no allotment in the land" = CORECT, that is why the full time Pastor needs the tithe just like the Old Testament ,
"he also believes that after christ resurrection,the temple became non existent, so he was not required to tithe "
Temple: is a place of worship (a building devoted to the worship, or regarded as the dwelling place, of a god or gods or other objects of religious reverence). Is he saying that those that believe in the same faith do not sit to share words,meet or when they do it, it always at open air and not permanent?
Therefore,the Full Time Minister/ Pastor need the tithe and the ministry needs it more for the expansion of the good news.

tanks 4 ur comment though u didnt really answer d question at d tail end..how can there be a compromise or agreement between dem 2 foster peace?

EatmyShorts: This Man, stop being Lazy.Several Threads have been made to discuss to issue.

my friend needs ur opinion not ur backlash..if u cant contribute...just ignore and move on...no be by force to comment

My friend sam is in a relationship with a lady that he loves so much and she also loves him too but the problem is that they have different beliefs when it comes to matters of tithes and offering especially tithes.
My friend believes tithes were practised as a requirement in the old covenant and was used as a means by God to feed the levites and priest who had no allotment in the land,he also believes that after christ resurrection,the temple became non existent, so he was not required to tithe but rather offer free will giving and contribution as his heart leads him.
The lady believes that tithes after christ ressurection became a principle and so still keeps tithing....its now turning to an everyday debate and its almost threatening their relationship of 3years(note:both are very good christians)..please how can they reach a compromise and agree on what to do or whats the way forward for them?
Please your sincere advise and contributions are welcome!