Family › Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Beolly(m): 7:09pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
Poseidon000: If this is your idea of recrimination, then you suck at it. Just so we're clear; it's been eon I last had a relationship. I'm comfortable, but I presently don't have a woman friend not to talk of a wife, so, your postulation is balderdash.
Let me pretend to believe what you said about your brother: that your brother have a different story, does not mean it's the prevalent case. In fact, his case is miniscule on the scale of 1/10 as obtainable in our society. Now, no sensible man will predicate his future on the probability of 'one' against 'nine.' That's akin to looking for a needle in a haystack. Not that there's no needle in the haystack, but what are the odd of finding it .
* No, I'm not God, but even the Christian Bible says: "A man who can't provide for his family, is worse than an infidel."
Just so you know, marriage give you this hustling mindset to be on your toes. The highlighted is one of the major lies I aforementioned. Let's put it into perspective. If as a bachelor you earn 4k per day, then spend 1k for feeding and another 1k for miscellaneous, leaving you with 2k to save for future investment that will avail you the financial laxity to venture into other enterprise or expand existing one, thus increasing your earning power to say 10k per day. At this juncture, you're to a large extent impervious to the cost implication of running a family. So, it's fine.
Now, let's say you got married with an earning of the same 4k per day. Remember you were spending 2k as a bachelor and saving the remaining 2k for the future. What you'll discover as a married man, is that; 4k will be barely enough to service the family, leaving you on the path of stagnancy, cause you'll be feeding from hand to mouth with no savings to venture into new waters of financial promise. Basically, you'll be retrogressing with the rise in inflation and graduating family expenses. In no time, you'll be wizened with dejection and suffering, consequently embroiling the innocent children you sired, in your self inflicted debacle.
Nuff said. God give you more wisdom, only a minute few see things this way. Once belle show na marriage straight. |
Career › Re: 15,000 NIPOST Workers To Lose Jobs, Threaten Strike by Beolly(m): 5:34am On Jul 12, 2020 |
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Career › Re: 15,000 NIPOST Workers To Lose Jobs, Threaten Strike by Beolly(m): 2:32pm On Jul 11, 2020 |
helpsomeone: . First go to official NIPOST website to track it with the tracking number. Let me know the information it displayed to know next line of action. Please help I need job or anything to survive. Please |
Career › Re: 15,000 NIPOST Workers To Lose Jobs, Threaten Strike by Beolly(m): 10:51am On Jul 11, 2020 |
obyrich: So Nipost has up to 15000 workers?  I sure say more than half of them just dey collect salary doing nothing. |
Career › Re: 15,000 NIPOST Workers To Lose Jobs, Threaten Strike by Beolly(m): 10:49am On Jul 11, 2020 |
Spontaneous007: God don catch tunde omo iya onigi... Tunde see work for Nipost come dey form for we him guys for street.
Tunde wey be say na bread and pap the idiot dey chop every morning for my side. After him see us he start to call us riff Raff, jobless morons.. because him don buy car. Hmmmm easy oo. |
Properties › Re: Complete My House Or Travel Abroad? by Beolly(m): 11:03pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
OkikiOluwa1: Asin don't come back here again. Cos Nigeria is not getting better. If you can get to top countries in overseas you are ok even as an immigrant. You chances of success is more in Benin Rep with N5m than Nigeria. Na so our condition worst reach. Why am I still in Nigeria? It's cos I never gather reach to japa. See what Aunty Shadia is saying here: https://www.nairaland.com/5973324/n-power-109823-beneficiaries-now-business Only a few % of nPower employee can start up biz with that N30K stipend. Some are even married with kids. No matter how prudent one can be & with this present economy that's injured badly since 2015, there's no way an nPower beneficiary with family responsibility ll gather money to start up a big biz. Except there's an external source of income. It's an insult to even pay people N30K stipend with the way things are costly. Talk about a country that love spending lavishly for election campaign & vote buying. Talk about a country that doesn't invest in well in health, education, agriculture & youth sector. Talk about a country that doesn't diversify. Only oil, oil, oil! Talk of a country where the amount earned by legislators, ministers, govs & the president is harshly proportional to the budget of Nigeria as a whole. That's why people in different ministries too eat money cos the corruption is from the top to the base. How will any reasonable person marry on top Npower Allawee nawa oo. Something you know has an expiry date you turn am to source of income to run a family. |
Politics › Re: APC: Tinubu, Amaechi, El-rufai Dig In For 2023 by Beolly(m): 12:46pm On Jul 02, 2020 |
Corporate2020: Can you see the bolded? Tinubu returns to the drawing board. He never lost a single election and he will never lose. Fayemi and Rotimi Amaechi my main guy have both lost severally even in their local state and local government. When Fayose defeated Fayemi, he defeated Fayemi even in Fayemi's Ward and LG, same thing with when Wike the wicked defeated my guy Amaechi, he defeated Amaechi even in Amaechi's local government. El-Rufai has been going about many enemies. No single Northern governor trust El-Rufai, the guy that even betrayed his benefactors Obasanjo and the Adamawa Bobrisky Atiukuchukwu. Just recently, the El-Rufai midget was following and promoting the deposed paedophile Emire Sanusi Lamido around even when others mind their business.
Are those the once that want to compete with the Jagaban Borgu? The only single politician that has retired very many political jobbers.
If Buhari decides to be unfortunate, Tinubu will pull out his ACN, he did it to the Association of Old Foolish Men called Afenifere when Afenifere dicided to join forces with the Yoruba prodigal son Olusegun Obasanjo. At the end of the day, Tinubu and his team defeated and humiliated Afenifere with Obasanjo and the so called federal might. So, if Buhari and his political kindergarten decide to be unfortunate, Tinubu will pull out his political family and go re-strategise. He may not even contest for any position just as he never did since he left office about 14 years ago. But one thing is sure, Tinubu has never lost an election since our return to democrazy. Na because say he has never contested outside Lagos State that's why. |
Business › Re: This Guy Is A Scammer! by Beolly(m): 9:12am On Jul 02, 2020 |
coputa: You've proved me right.that's why i said all the one's they show case here wash wash. Whatever I'm not going to say a word. Many online paying platforms you can subscribe to if you can devise a way to. Thanks. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: N-Power: Sadiya Farooq's Message To Batch A And B Beneficiaries by Beolly(m): 8:35am On Jul 02, 2020 |
Seunaj05: For those of you hailing this woman that she has done well by following the initial agreement let's not forget the following: 1. Laolu Akande who still remains the spokesman for the Npower program categorically told the beneficiaries in a live chat that they will be made permanent staffs if they reelection Buhari into office. Alot of the beneficiaries fell for this scam. [/b]2. What is the fate of those who have already started a family based on earnings from NPOWER? I know couples who are both Npower beneficiaries 3.[b] Why exit beneficiaries without clearly stating out what the transitioning package would be? I guess the promise of transitioning is just another scam, a political strategy to maintain calm and order. As for me, stipends ought not to stop until Farouk is sure of what's coming up for the disengaged beneficiaries 4. In Nigeria today, it is almost impossible for beneficiaries to save something substantial to start a living out of 30k monthly stipend. Again in my own opinion, part of the money, say 5k, should have have been deducted on a monthly basis and be given to beneficiaries at the end of program. 5. How do you think that someone who has earned 30k monthly for 2 years would readjust back to earning nothing? Perhaps by resulting to crimes to maintain standard of living?? Goodluck to the retired beneficiaries, God almighty will see you through Your number 2 point is so wrong who does that, those married couple should have known they were on a borrowed time from the onset. There has to be a steady source of income before getting married if you can't achieve that there's no point in getting married. |
Business › Re: This Guy Is A Scammer! by Beolly(m): 8:23am On Jul 02, 2020 |
coputa: in what online biz do you earn money,what model,please let us know. I won't disclose that here because it will be subjected to abuse. |
Business › Re: This Guy Is A Scammer! by Beolly(m): 8:12am On Jul 02, 2020 |
coputa: Show me the screenshot of some of earnings,keep deceiving yourself with online digital marketing and application developer,these are total waste of time,someone hawking pure water earns and more purposeful than you, You are ignorant bro, I earn money online legitimately. You need information don't jump in to conclusions. Don't just work hard but work smart. |
Health › Re: Charles Aniagwua And Chiedu Ebie Test Positive To COVID-19 by Beolly(m): 1:11pm On Jun 21, 2020 |
Starhearts: No be d same Charles Aniagwu of AIT dat time? Yeah same one Ehiedu Aniagwu, God really favour the guy |
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Threatened To Break Up If I Don't Marry Her Now by Beolly(m): 11:38am On Jun 18, 2020 |
livinbygrace: Oh boy ,it’s better you marry that girl now else you will regret not doing so later.I was in the same situation twelve years ago and was forming never ready as at then even until now,which comes with lots of regrets and the lady has moved on happily married with children while am still single doing Yuppy guy at over 40yrs old.Even some friends that were not doing very well then,but got married are coand doing well now with their grown up children . So if the girl really loves you and being an understanding type ,I will advise you go ahead and marry her now.Its hard to find a good woman these days and a man will never be ready for marriage even if you click 50yrs old. Talking from personal experience . Is getting married such an accomplishment? I'd rather have a kid or two rather than trying to conform to what everyone in the society is doing. |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: UCL Will Return On August 7. 'Final 8' Will Be Held In Lisbon On August 12 by Beolly(m): 9:59am On Jun 18, 2020 |
Slawormir: Damnnnnn niggarrr Wow Champions League night! Best of all night
Na to resume my bet9ja and virtual bet be this God abeg bless your boy this period Because for every day we wake we are faced with more than a hundred ways to become a millionaire of which gambling is among
A big shout out to all my fellow gamblers, punters, stakers, risk takers and high rollers EFCC need to respond your matter small |
Christianity Etc › Re: Lagos Government Suspends Re-Opening Of Churches And Mosques by Beolly(m): 10:17pm On Jun 16, 2020 |
LostAddict: Smart and decisive move from Sanwo Olu, the rise in cases and death since the relaxation of the lockdown has been at an alarming rate.
I hope to see the government at the federal level impose another nationwide lockdown until there is a decline in cases.  Are you kidding me? |
NYSC › Re: Consider Suspending NYSC Camps For 2 Years, Osinbajo Committee Tells FG by Beolly(m): 5:57pm On Jun 16, 2020 |
IME1: I got start up capital I made lifetime friends I improved in my profession I saw new places I won't ordinarily have gone to When and where did you serve sir |
NYSC › Re: Consider Suspending NYSC Camps For 2 Years, Osinbajo Committee Tells FG by Beolly(m): 12:37pm On Jun 16, 2020 |
IME1: NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER 4 times to counter his 2 years suggestion NYSC helped me Tell him even foreigners say, "never" In what way did it helped you bro |
Education › Re: Governor Akeredolu Rehabilitates OAUSTECH Abandoned For 8 Years (Photos) by Beolly(m): 1:17am On Jun 16, 2020 |
Judolisco: Abeg Hw Many state university ondo get? 3 |
Health › Re: COVID-19: Man Gains Over 100kg Within 5 Months Of Lockdown In Wuhan (Pics) by Beolly(m): 5:54pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
BeauBragner: This one na small.
Onyi22 go still fvck am without condom as long as him get money.
Even milleniumlady sef.   |
Family › Re: Why Do Couples Who Claim To Be In Love Engage In Physical Fight? by Beolly(m): 8:36am On Jun 13, 2020 |
bustykasa: unfaithfulness and intolerance.. what do I know sef let me ask Mama bomboy Please check your email |
Christianity Etc › Re: Could It Be Spirit Husband Or My Ex After My Life? by Beolly(m): 9:26am On Jun 12, 2020 |
vickydevoka: Now I see reason why some Igbo men prefer smaller gals than older ones. The older ones must have had serious of sordid past, n wen u get married to them, u bear de consequences with dem. Any gal above 27 is a no no for me That's harsh on the ladies |
Politics › Re: Zahrah Audu Throws Out Tenants, Defies Court Order by Beolly(m): 12:42pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
adadike: You know whether she be IGP 's woman friend ? Waiting for IG's response though Check your email please |
Politics › Re: Governor Obaseki Denies Forging The Certificate Of The University Of Ibadan by Beolly(m): 10:48am On Jun 09, 2020 |
SATANIIST: abobo certificates can be forged anywhere. one pretty girl working in my company works with a forged cerificate, i know about it but because she gives me steady toto regularly, i pretend not to know. btw i own the company but pretend to be the human resource manger Wow  you are another specie of human being |
Politics › Re: Governor Obaseki Denies Forging The Certificate Of The University Of Ibadan by Beolly(m): 10:42am On Jun 09, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: Bisi Fayemi Celebrates Her 57th Birthday by Beolly(m): 11:41pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
drkrest: The wife is going to be 57 while the husband is just 55. I am pretty sure that the wife saw potentials in him while they were dating. Happy birthday in advance Erelu. I thought I was the only one who knew that. I was shocked the day I found out. |
Politics › Re: Bisi Fayemi Celebrates Her 57th Birthday by Beolly(m): 11:37pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Slawormir: Damnnnnn niggarrr Isoright Happy birthday to her
That wura aribatise of a girl abi woman way say fayemi and he wife resemble dull finish. She too dull
She nor know say Years of shared emotions and body fluids due to non stop sex without condom between couples result in a closer resemblance
Continue to bang a particular woman without condom. Last last you go begin notice say una don dey look alike and have the same character. Sex na bad thing sha. Especially without condom. It binds the soul
And also people in close contact mimic each other's facial expressions without knowing Ma Nigga I feel your words. But please what's the brand of that stuff you always take. |
Politics › Re: Edo: APC Weighs Options, Fears PDP Takeover by Beolly(m): 11:49pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
Ezewuzie01: You will be surprised that in this thread, one person has already used six or seven different monikers to comment.  To what end bro? |
Politics › Re: Federal Lawmakers From Abia Visit Orji Kalu Following Release by Beolly(m): 9:35pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
fergie001: Just 1 or 2 PDP members
Kalu & Onyejeocha (the female) are APC members.
They are all members of HoRs.
I doubt if the Senators will visit...because one is his estranged successor and the other, his former deputy governor he disgraced out of office. Yeah I've been wondering how they relate on the floor of the Senate considering they are from the same State. Will they just avoid each other, if they run into each other what would the feeling be like? There are times 3 senators from a state need to speak in unison to either support or go against a particular issues pertaining to a State |
Education › Re: Pictures Of Federal University Of Technology, Akure by Beolly(m): 8:55am On Jun 06, 2020 |
Emmaxlee: Lover of Drones  Now you are talking update the post sharp sharp. And try to include Crc and CCE axis with sports complex and bank area |
Education › Re: Pictures Of Federal University Of Technology, Akure by Beolly(m): 1:02am On Jun 06, 2020 |
Femich18: Nah real one. Hostel that disgraced Balogun the former VC when he went visiting Which year did that happen |
Education › Re: Pictures Of Federal University Of Technology, Akure by Beolly(m): 1:00am On Jun 06, 2020 |
zumazeks: FUTA my school! Spent 5years living in Akindeko. If you can live there and use all the facilities (especially blockC toilet and kitchen), you would survive anywhere. Block C na die. Which year did you graduate bro? |
Education › Re: Pictures Of Federal University Of Technology, Akure by Beolly(m): 12:58am On Jun 06, 2020 |
TuFab: What an eyesore! Pls delete.. The op did a terrible job he left out loads of beautiful locations and didn't use drone |