₦airaland Forum

You see the problem with us Nigerians, we always put ourselves first before the country. We have all lost the love for each other, hence, lost the love for the country.
We leave germain issues to start politics of bitterness all in a tussle to go and steal not really to do anything meaningful.
We are mostly useless people in this country. Make the country divide, make everybody go him way.... May be things will be done differently then, but for now, na nonsense we dey do for this country.

toneroforever:
On election day,the Irish might unleash their Oro festival.

Ogun go kee u

Wetin this man dey do, dey drive me crazy everyday. If he eventually fails, na me go kill am myself.

doggedfighter:
Israel taking marriage advice from Davido ?


He thinks that Israel tagging along with him is what will make the ex- wife pained ?

Israel has been quiet of late not attacking and talking about his wife which I think means he's gradually moving on but seeing that nonsense up there by Davido shows they both lack sense and still pained.


That young woman dodged a bullet.

I am glad she's living her best life while those two cry.



Davido and Israel are just two big fools !

Davido fans will come for you o....

TINTINABULATION:
I have been using car for 15 years. Today, my fuel finished while on the run. Tinubu has done this one.

Infact, my car in the last 8years, I didn't know had a low fuel warning light . Na under Tinubu I just discovered the light and now it comes up anyhow... Cos 10k, 5k fuel can't get you anywhere anymore.

immortalcrown:
The way Nigeria media reports things is embarrassing. What the young man did has no justification and he deserves the arrest and the detention. But it is important to tell the public how he got the video.

Did he steal the video from the woman's smart device or did the woman consent to the generation of the video? If the former is the case, he alone deserves public attention and criticism. If the later is the case, we need to sensitise women while condemning the guy's action.

You didn't watch the video up there...

numericalguy:
Anyone referring to Oshiomhole as a Taylor is just DUMB because Oshiomhole worked as a senior staff of Arewa textiles in Kaduna.

Although Oshiomhole was not a Taylor, there is absolutely nothing wrong in being a Taylor

He didn't even mention that he was NLC President . Politics funny sha... E just dey shout Tailor! Tailor!! Tailor!!!
Oshiomole is one of the few very intelligent Nigerians I know. After Sanusi, I go for him. I be Lagos boy and I no fancy Edo anyway but Oshiomole na good stuff.
Obaseki no be am. He plays dirty politics and na enemy of progress. Just see how him take treat him deputy.

You didn't give us more details of that particular vehicle. Model, year, mileage, new/used etc.
You can as well watch YouTube reviews. They are very helpful.

This is an interesting case. But will the welfare agency take custody of the girl? Make her suffering no go increase again o...
I don't know why a lot of people are like this. Come see how Nigerians go dey serious on Sundays all going to church and Friday, everybody for prayers, so who come dey do all this evil wey full our society?

Kidnappers should actually killed once they are caught and are confirmed kidnappers, outrightly killed.

From this statement from the Police, it is clear that the Nigeria Police does not have any intention or plan of going after Bandits/Terrorists that are carrying arms openly in the public and on social media but are more after few individuals with light arms for their own protection.
This is the more reason why nothing impresses me about this country. We just pride ourselves over nothing. This country is nought, hopeless and helpless and we made it so.

jmoore:
Sane people did not vote for him na.

Never underestimate the power of insane people in large numbers. They can vote for him again.

Oloshi

Northerners are the Architects of their own destructions. Is this not the same Bello Turji that was being made a chief at a point. A renowned Bandits being welcome with Arms.

Girls wey dey enjoy sex no dey shout, the shouters are just PA people. Just playing to the gallery.

Originalsly:
Hmmmm ..... he stole N795 million ... repaid N7.5 million.... given the option of 2 years imprisonment or N2 million fine. Justice indeed. Why will he not immediately go back to scamming? .... it's a win win with this kind of justice.

Na N79m

Wickedfact:
Naija-Used Corolla
Naija-Used Sienna

Congrats to Rivers state mechanics.

Fubara is a big fool and it is apparent in the he handles things. Imagine the nonsense this failure bought. No wonder he doesn't have anything to show as Governor of Rivers.

Ode ni e! If them buy N160m naira vehicle now, na una go dey shout upandan. Him buy tokunboh now, which makes economic sense considering the situation of our economy at the moment, everywhere rough, una still dey shout.
Make you calm down...
This one is good. If it can last in the hands of private owners, let them manage it well too.

Successtube:
I never thought I’d find myself contemplating divorce just two years into my marriage. As a bachelor, I’d look at couples splitting up and wonder how they ended up there. Didn’t they date and get to know each other first? Didn’t they see the signs? And yet, here I am, standing on the brink of making the same decision. I dated my wife for a year and three months before we got married, and I thought I knew her. But I was wrong. She lied and pretended to be someone she wasn’t. Now, I’m starting to see who she truly is, and it’s tearing me apart.

Immediately after our wedding, I noticed changes in her that hadn’t been there before. One month in, we were not having sex like any newly married couple would. Every time I tried to be intimate, she’d have some excuse—a headache, feeling tired, or being stressed from work. I tried to be patient, thinking it was just a phase. But it didn’t end. When I finally asked her what was wrong, she bluntly told me she didn’t like sex. I was shocked. How could she not like sex? We had been intimate enough times while dating for me to believe otherwise.

“How can we have children if we don’t have sex?” I asked, trying to keep my frustration in check. Her response was indifferent, almost as if it didn’t matter. From then on, she’d sometimes only have sex with me during her ovulation period, like it was a chore to check off her list. It went on like this for over eight months, and I felt more and more disconnected. I felt unwanted, unloved. Every attempt to bridge the gap between us only seemed to widen it.

But the cracks didn’t just stop there. Through a relative of mine, I managed to get her a job that paid her 300,000 Naira monthly. She seemed happy, and I was glad I could help. Then, fate dealt me a blow—I lost my job. After months of searching, I managed to find another one, but it paid only 120,000 Naira a month. I couldn’t afford to stay home, so I took it, thinking it would just be temporary until I found something better.

My 120,000 Naira salary barely covers our expenses. I take care of the rent, food, bills, and still fuel my car to get to work. The one that hit me hardest was when our rent increased to 700,000 Naira around the same time my car’s engine gave out, needing another 500,000 Naira to repair. I felt the walls closing in on me. I was struggling, juggling all these financial burdens alone. I turned to my wife, thinking she’d step up and help. After all, she was earning more than double what I was. But all she could offer was 50,000 Naira.

I was speechless. She looked at me and said it was a man's duty to cater to his family, and she could only "assist." Her words felt like a slap. Here I was, drowning under the weight of our expenses, and she was holding back. I had to sell one of the lands I’d bought back in my bachelor days to cover the bills. I never thought I’d be in a position where I had to sell my hard-earned property just to survive while my wife, who I had helped get a better-paying job, stood by and watched.

The emptiness gnawed at me until I reached out to someone who had once filled a different kind of void in my life—my ex. We had broken up years ago because of distance when she moved to London for her studies. But we never really ended things on bad terms. There was always a "what if" lingering between us. Now, in my loneliness, that "what if" turned into late-night conversations, laughter, and the kind of warmth I hadn’t felt in a long time. I sneak out every now and then to be with her. I know it’s wrong. I know cheating is not the answer, but I felt like I was drowning, and she was the only one who could save me. With her, I felt alive again, seen, and heard. Things quickly escalated, and before I knew it, I was back in her arms. It felt like a betrayal of my marriage vows, but at the same time, it felt like the only way to reclaim a part of myself that had been lost.

I never imagined I’d be contemplating divorce, but here I am. I want to marry my ex. I want a fresh start, a chance to feel loved again. I don’t know if I can continue in a marriage where I feel more like a burden than a partner. Maybe it’s time to face the harsh truth: some people change, and some people never really were who they claimed to be. Maybe it’s time for me to choose my own happiness, to take a leap and start over.

Don't make the same mistake I made. Study your partner thoroughly before to married, don't rush!

There is nothing like study your partner thoroughly in marriage. It's either you are fortunate to be with a great person or not. Couples often succumb to marriage pressures and even now that things are tougher. We are all going through challenges my brother.
In summary, you might have to adjust to whatever situation you find yourself, cheating and going out of line will only bring more problems than solution.

Mynd44:
Not exactly.

There has been cases of babies being switched at hospitals by either mistake or purposely.

There was even a case of an hospital worker who did it for fun for years

Our hospitals are compromised. Even the general hospitals are culpable. They do all sorts of unimaginable practices there. Couples having babies there, need to be more firm, challenging and in-control. Don't just let them keep pushing you here and there, they do all sorts of hideous things there and these are young health workers for crying out loud.

washmibili:
She brought the disgrace on herself by herself.

I thought she said nothing can happen to her that she is Canadian. I don't just understand why Nigerians are always like this, whether home or abroad. There is this madness we always want to portray. It's just madness that puts us in a mess, either as individual and even as a country.

This one truly mumu, why test it on yourself first. Why not test run on the Juju man first to confirm.
When Oyinbo people dey test bulletproof cars, na the CEO of the company dey sit inside the vehicle first for testing.

MadPolitician:
if na me, i won't go to Turkey
Ah go bone face tanda for Napoli
Make them pay
Body go tell them
They were acting tough duringnegotiations, yet they no money to pay salaries

He will be forgotten if does that. Football players value dey quick drop faster than he dey rise.
Before a player can gain proper recognition he go don score many goals or even win a league his club but just disappoint in one or two matches and watch your value drop so fast, not to talk of not playing at all.

Like play like play Nigeria go do so tey, this guy go die for here. It won't be funny. You charge him for money laundering which same thing your state Governors are doing monthly. Who knows whether he was even laundering money for our Governors.
Let them provide evidence to prosecute him if he is guilty and if no evidence, they should let him go and stop all these mad drama they always do without any meaningful end.

Ekejoestar:
Lol, this country sef. One week one trouble 🤣🤣

It's not funny oooo, we have witchcraft in the place of government because tell me why they refused to give us electricity and still made it hard for us to power our homes by ourselves.

Gas is now going to 1500 per liter.

Bandits and kidnappers are having a field day.

Police and efcc dey harass the citizens anyhow.

Nigerians are angry and we are bottling up our anger, but one day na one day, everybody go answer him papa name

This is just my concern. I fear there is still going to be a serious breakdown of law and order in this country, but the time never reach, e remain small.

Who call am for Nigeria? Small problem wey Nigeria get, all of them start to relocate their offices to another country, including Microsoft, so what is he still coming here to do?

Entanglement:
lack of maintenance but US have the highest rate of plane crash with their adequate maintenance policy

If any country should be delisted in the entire world, it should be the US. They have recorded the highest crashes in recent times, which should actually call for concern by other countries but because of the money (grants/loans/interventions/donations) they all get from the US, everyone keeps quiet. Hence, they are.now delisting others.

enimoli:
I wonder who is advising Osimhen. I pray this will not be the end of his playing career

That's why it is good to keep quiet sometimes, infact, a lot of times. So that you are not judged or misconstrued from the things you say. Somehow, I feel all his reactions and outbursts are hunting him.
Take a look at Mikel for example, nobody knew he was this vocal while he was playing - I thought he was deaf and dumb, not until recently he started saying a lot of things...

Chidimma will still win that South African Mia on the World stage. Watch out!

People just want them to start another strike for nothing. Leave Lecturers alone, if them never kpai one of these Bois always comparing Lecturer's cars, all of them no go learn.

Ordinarily the testicles are not of same size. But if you notice it is bigger than normal size for a 3-year old then, you might have to see the children's doctor.

CyrusVI:

We've successfully exported our Simphood abroad

How come its always hard for Nigerian women to see the Good in us

Judging by the everyday comments on Twitter and FB, you could easily conclude that a large percentage of them arent please with us


What are these ones seeing that our women arent?

Na see finish they cause am. Nigerian women grow up with Nigerian men, so them no go value them but you those looking at us from afar, it's a like a dream....

Many Nigerians are senseless. That's why senseless scammers succeed on senseless victims with senseless scams.

If these Teens am seeing here are the bandits, then Northerners are the ones providing cover for their children to perpetrate evil. These ones still juveniles wey never even know life they do banditry. It's either they are sponsored by the leaders or their parents sent them out.