₦airaland Forum

After my Nysc three years ago I saved some money for business. I vow to use the money to do somthing useful. Since then I have kept this full year alowee saved. But really I don't no what business to start ,how to start of ,which I should start with. I came from an educational background . No one is into business in my family. I need idea on how to invest and do business.

Why won't this robbers go for the rich. Rob people with real money abeg. People who have money stored in tanks and underground storage. Rubbing average Nigeria trying to survive the harsh economy will warrant more jungle justice. Now you rub anywhere anyhow you may not come out alive if caught. No body dey call police again oo or fear gun shot. O boy see how people dey wait for bullet round to finish. They must be use to it.

Mingle with the kind of people you want. If you mingle with a broke guy like you said he will come up with stories. Mingle with the right one. Be careful too how you put them off so they don't have a plan B. Fix yourself with the type or social status as yours. That will solve it. Don't see it because of your age you go less because you think those ones will love better. No . look simple and smile alot

I regret losing my vaginity to him even when there reasons why I should have kept it.

Lol. Nna eh

Negotiate. Why will they send such a list to raise panic. People I don't even no in my life. How many times have I gone to my village. Non of them even come to say hello. How will the negotiation go abeg . my dad is not a traditionalist.

I really don't no how to start. My spouse and I decided to fix our wedding this year. Happily I have been expecting that wonderful day. Then we decided to ask for the list.
Hmmm. Before this list came everyone say cool down it won't be that much . Igbo's have change. I believed it. I got to see the list today. As I was looking at it , I was just shouting Jesus! Jesus !Jesus!. I taught it was only me oo. I called my guy he was shouting Jesus! Jesus !Jesus! too. So I asked him why are you shouting Jesus are you looking at the list. He said yes Jesus. Abeg I will call you latter. Am confused now. If I upload the paper I guess you all will shout Jesus. They even put cream their. THIS PEOPLE ARE MAD! HELP ME BEG ABIA PEOPLE OO ECONOMY IS BAD FOR SUCH A LIST.

She try

Appreciate the man for the work he has done on his body. Encouragement should be better than Criticism . it's not easy. You still look my dear. Don't mind Nigerians. Your health is way more better. Accumulation of fat is dangerous. Thumbs Up

I knew mine from a distant. Talk on phone on and off for five 7 years. He was too quite for my liking. And i was rude to him.i said so many nasty words to him. He would run anytime am online. Now we laugh about it. Everyone called me rude but i didnt care. But oneday this quit man told me girl you are rude . i felt it hard. Anyone can call me rude but when he said it. I was touched. I didn't no this man that has been in my life for years was going to end up being my husband . if I knew then I wont have wastered time on those other unserious ones. I Never loved anyone in my life. I didn't no what it meant to love. I asked God open my heart to love a man. After praying. We talk on phone and I could feel the easyness to talk to him. Communication flowed. He would laugh and laugh at my jokes. I developed love for him. I changed. I cared about him alot now. He isnt perfect but he loves me so so much For that love he has shown me my world evolves around him. I will give him children be with him in time of need. Did I mention he is a shy type lol. Am his world . He says he is the luckiest man finding a beautiful ,smart girl like me. I have never told him am the luck one to have him. Even my beauty brought rich but unserious men. Am lucky to have him instead.

How hard is it to get a customer care job. I heard I have to go through agent. I have applied. Am good in spoken English. I speak two Nigerian languages. Igbo and yoruba fluently. I studied mass communication. So am familiar with communication skill and communicating with customers. I know this is a job I can do much better. But then I need help in searching for communication companies or rather agents.

Security, force ,fine That is the only way to make Nigerians listen to simple instruction .

She is just trying to say before one points fingers and make accusation you should check yourself first. The point is not about his personal issue but what he has been able to managed successfuly before condeming other.

There is no resemblance simple

For those who havnt been to Badagry. The historical part of it. Where the slave trade began. Fortunately I was oppotuned to be their so see most of what our forfather went through.
I saw the first upstairs in Nigeria
The first dug well
The bowl in which the slaves drank from. Fifty slaves to one bowl
The chains they used on them ,even for the kids. They had padlocks to lock a slaves mouth to avoid any form of communication. Then the chain for punishment for any slave who goes against the white and their law. They really had a horrible experience

I always read and see pictures how some guys propose to their girl friend and always taught to feel such surprise. My case is just different. He isn't much of a romantic person anyway not into ladies always do everything possible to please me. But this time he didn't do it well. I was so complaining and unhappy oneday to make me feel better he showed me the ring he intends to buy or rather he bought. I even no where he bought it. Saw the price tag in dollars. How much is a dollar now sef. But mehn I still need it to be romantic and memorable when it reaches my finger. Sweet part our names will be inscribed on. It. How do I get my romantic proposal. He will do it anyhow I want it, I prefare he finds a way to make it romantic .

This is to formally inform Ogun State government of a dead body causing nuisances in songo Ota . specifically Isorosi ,ijako. This man has been lying on the floor sick for weeks. He died Friday and as at now the body is decomposing and smiling. This is not good for the health. Nearby shops has closed down because of it. Please help us take the body away. I can't even stand close to it to take pictures for proof.

My guy simply asked for the size of my ring finger. I don't mind. atleast I get my ring.

My guy simply asked for my size of my ring finger. I don't mind. atleast I get my ring.

Thank God for this forum. I have to preach tomorrow I needed bible verse to back up. I have it all from you guys. More please

Most ladies have dreams of actually wearing that white beautiful gown one day. A wedding gown it is called. When you actually have someone who is ready to spend the rest his life with you planing for marriage becomes a thorn. This is the most difficult part. planing a wedding. Can't we just go to court and get on with our lives thinking of the whole thing is scary. Expenses keeps piling. You can't even pick an item because every thing cost money. Now what will the poor guy do now. Should he get an apartment first which cost 300k or more, should he collect list for the marriage which speculated amount may be high. Should he pay his bill worth 100k should he renew his mother rent which is 250k. Now am stuck. This is too much I pity him a lot. I want to help but when the cash start with 200k 300k ha. Him self go ask me where am geting the money from. My work with low income.

I think she should let it go. Promises are meant to be broken. She brought her children into the world she has to find a way to train them she can't shift responsibility. Just look at it as a sign of giving to the needy let God do the blessing. The war she wants to fight she may lose it. She is angry I know what can she do. She tells her husband what can he do too. The way I see it there is no written agreement so she has no proof. And if there is, human right can't do shit , take them to court, for her infor she has to spend money too for a lawyer. Abeg make she bury the thing.

This guy was a close neighbour of mine. Few months ago we were just talking of how he will teach me how to make international dishes because he once worked as a caterera. 15 days ago I saw his pictures of facebook. He was married. I guess far away in his wifes town. Just today I heard he was dead. He was invloved in an oil vandalization. He told me he started work in an oil company not knowing its vandalization. I couldn't believe it. Simon is gone just for the love of money. He had nothing. When he started this bad work, he got married,bought a land. He must have made lots of promises to his wife for a better life. I heard as they stole the oil police fired at them the whole thing exploded he got burnt called his wife who carried him back home and died few days latter. The love of money is the root of all evil

This has been really strange to me of late . I can't tell if anyone has heard of it. A friend of mine has been dating this cheater called boy friend for 5yrs. No matter how much he cheats she has been so adamant to let him go. Afraid to be alone I guess. To cut the long story short she decided to get pregnant for him knowing the fact that he is jobless, irresponsible and stupid. A guy that was caught sticking his manhood into a 9yr old girls mouth by the same gf who has refused to dump him. Well no case to arrest. This friend tested positive to pregnancy geting to four months now. The strange thing is that she was asked to come after two months for a scan , she went and the scan shows she is one month pregnant. Maybe you don't understand. Let me put it straight she has been pregnant for four months and anytime she goes for a scan it shows one month.She went for the fourth scan two days ago Still one month. There is somthing inside her but it is not growing is that possible. Anyway she has been adviced to wash it off that an infection is stoping the growth. Havnt heard of this before.

No maTter how true or faulse the story is one thing is in everything is an atom of truth in it. The amount of times the lady demands for sex shouldn't threnthen u. She is ur wife and she is active u should be proud of that. You will still complain if it was the other way round. Its unavoidable. But put ur mind to it. Eat well take fruit and enjoy it.

Atleast am not looking too old for marriage. This pics was taken dis morning

I have been living with my mum for the fist time since I was five due to seperation. Coming back as a grown up has affected my relationship with her. I grew up in the east while she lived all her years in the west. We have had a lot of disagreement to the extent I made up my mind no matter what she does I won't bother myself to react to it.

Firstly she has been hammering on me to get married or bring a man home, she has virtually been disturbing my life with marriage. To cut the long story short, my mother brought her friend's younger brother who has been married for 15yrs with no issue and having problem in his home to come and ask for my hand in marriage on the excuse that he is planning to chase away his wife soon. During the visit I was just smiling because of how close I was to my mummy's friend.

Now I am asking how could my own mother ask me to marry a man who has been married for 15yrs and still live with his wife? How can she ask me to consider marry him? I have kept quiet since this incident and I want to confront my mum about it, but I just feel if I decide to do that I will get so angry talking about it.

I want to confront her to get it off my chest but then, I am having a second feeling not to, but my decision in my mind. I am just 25 going to 26.

I have known this guy for close to 5years. We talk about mostly everything. We enjoy each others company. One time we traveled together to the east we talk and enjoyed each others company all the way. He is not the type that talk about love or a guy full of love talk. But for that five years I can't teLl if we are in a relationship or not. We are very close and do what lovers do but , he won't tell where we are going. If I talk about it he will change d topic or make fun of it. I want to marry someone eles I no I will miss him if I do. I don't want to lose him? If we were married am sure we will be the best couple. How do I get him to tell me if we will be together or not? Should I leave him I marry someone eles?