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So I have this lady who actually I have known for few months now we talk a lot about our personal lives as married women. I guess that is what made her open up to me. Few weeks ago she said she was tired of her marriage of few years.
I taught it was just a joke , Maybe something happen between her and hubby. They will get over it . Its husband and wife matter so I said to myself.
On the long run someone gave her some house equipment she toĺd me she will keep it in my house . I was like what of your husbands house she said no.
I was having this early morning sleep when I got a call that she was coming to drop the things. Too late to say no she dropped it and left never knew she was traveling . Few days latter the husband came to my house to say he is looking for his wife. I was surprised . Am I the one to know where the wife is. But then I felt bad. Truly I don't no where she went.
Few days latter she is back after family intervention and all still she is bent on leaving him for good.
Of recent she has been picking her things one by one from the house in other to disappear one day. I know where she is keeping her property. Everyday she picks one of her things out of the house. Her things keeps disappearing one by one out of her matrimonial home and the hubby keep asking about some of her things missing. She gives excesses of just rearranging things. He has been trying to show her so much love of recent . Buying her things , paying attention to her but she told me she is still leaving.
Am staying out of this mess as I could . I didn't tell her stay or say go but then it is marriage for better for worse. Isn't it?
I prayed for this marriage to work. Plz let's us pray for it to.

Why won't the men stay away from women if you would complain about her needs. Stay on your own for God's sake. Stay. You see a lady sitting by herself you carry you silly self to her to speak long sentences you think for your small brain she hasn't heard before. You spend time talking to her on the phone day in day out like you don't have a life , you pursue her up and down just to get her attention like a jobless person.

Tell me what you saw when you first met her. A neatly dressed woman , good hair do , good Cloth and all. And you feel you can come around keep her busy thinking about you and you do nothing ?

Sometimes I wonder . The money you give to the girl can it buy land and build a house. A broke guy will always criticise women and money.
You no why

They are too broke they feel they can't have any girl without money so all they have is bad mouth to talk trash. So angry with themselves for being incompetent.

A rich dude never complains of how girls need money. Because it becomes nothing . And they see need to show love not by words but by action. Even the once who aren't rich still in their little way show care, love , responsibility towards their woman and their needs.

Some guys are so broke the last kobo is one 200naira that has torn. Not knowing where their next meal will come from yet you want a woman in your life. For What!

To certify your urge or to come take care of you? Wait till you have money you will get sense. Poverty sometimes generates ignorance

It is becoming so disturbing in Nigeria that even if a crime is committed with all evidence you plead not guilty and you are free to go on bail. What the hell is that?

Please lawyers in the house help straighten out this issue. Nigerian law doesn't have the Number of time a person should spend in prison for a crime? What is this bail free to go thing. A man rapes two year old with all evidence he pleads not guilty he pays for bail and go.

Someone stabs someone else with evidence , witnesses victim he pleads not guilty and they give bail free to go.

Maybe I watch a lot of detectives movies . But I think they should serve their time for a cream commited for God's sake.

No Number of years for rape? Everyone goes on bail and they can work Scot free the next day as the person's suffers.

I read a rape case one day . The man was released on bail and he lives in the same environment with the victim . The mother of the child is traumatised seeing her daughter in bad shape as this man works free.

The should serve time in prison . Rape cases should have years there serve

In Nigeria Evans can never go Scot free. The law will take it's due cause. But what do we say about politician there is always favoritism and injustice. He stole from the rich and charge them in dollars they will do everything possible to make sure he doesn't come out or be free.
Let's wait he may come out as Nigerian president one says


Nemesis catches up with everyone according to their sins

They train day in day out. In preparation for anything . Kudos

Anyone with the log in details. Being trying to register the page am directed to the only thing I fill there is my name BVN Number and address and email. The register isn't going at all

Postpone the marriage please. Tell him he needs to stop the abuses unless you won't go on with it

She doesn't deserve to die for whatever reason she decided to be with that man

You both are just kids. She sef doesn't know what she is saying . How many heart break at 17. Did she start dating at 13? You self believe all that crap.

Someone told me of a secondary school hostel where girls touch themselves at night. Maybe she has been involved in that too.

You are friend zoned already. If she was serious lesbianism won't come out .

NA wa oo. What gives him that right? Even if it's his wife .

So I came across a video of a man who hates water so much that he hasn't taken his bath for years. He was already smelling like a he goat. So his friends decided to give him a car wash bath

What actually has made this people famous. For their mind they are celebrities

Sometimes it is quit reasonable to use our common sense before we pick our phone to type rubbish what does marriage have to do with that write up.

Anyway
Because we are woman we shouldnt be subjected to in human behaviours. Women are coming up to stand firm and not allow society determine how they live

So finally she found Christ ABI Christ found her. Which ever way they found each other. Since she couldn't get what she wanted she is tired and wants something eles. She is claiming deceived
Abeg o is she 15 abi 13. them self are smarter this days. And old woman is claiming deceived by a man . Like she didn't no what she was doing at first.
Her crap was just so irritating. People got tired of her coming to say nonsense all the time. When she felt everybody was against her she changed
Who she epp
DRAMA QUEEN.

You no your husband better. If it's my husband I simply tell him do not talk to her again if you do you are looking for my trouble. No that there is something I will do ooo. But he has totally changed my mood. My loveliness is gone and he get quit bored when am not talking or teasing him.

Your husband is bored. Don't complain again. Try to creat livelyness in the home. Make the home more welcoming. Teas him , laugh with him play with him then when you too are happy you can cheap it in that that close relationship with that girl you don't like it ooo.

Abeg which app did you use to Access his WhatsApp with your phone.

If a man that doesn't lock his phone decided to start doing it something is wrong . What of the one who has always kept the phone locked.

Madam just give him silent treatment . All those demand you having made in years make it now .

There are women who complain there men don't last long and there are men who last too long

Some men like to just stay long on the woman till it's starts getting painful. I guess men don't no that. Not all women like the long lasting sex of no stop especially when the lady isn't aroused to last that long

Women .what are the magical ways to make that man cum fast

Some will say abeg you won kill me when the shows the man is just starting

I know mine but won't tell

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See when someone ask for help, If you want to help the person help the person stop throwing silly question to discredit him from other good Samaritan.
Some people should just keep shut.
People who feel the need to help will help either true of false everybody is not the same.

Oooop I guess some married men will be thinking how how actual to make this possible . Sorry folks that's not the point of the topic.

But how can a woman be married yet still looks single. How possible do our men want us to remain the way they met us after marriage. Am not saying it's not possible .
Should we as women still think about getting the best shoes after marriage?
Should we shop with every little money we have after marriage ?
Should we consider always keep our hairs beautiful after marriage?
It's possible.
But then how many of you men who crave for women , your wives to continue looking good has contributed to it.
Drive her to the salon and pick a hair style
Buy her shoes and Cloths.
Making sure she continues looking good . It shouldn't be left to the woman alone. Its two to tangle relationship
Make your Wife look good stop complaining about why she isn't looking good, or feel other women outside look better than your Wife.
Some men can't even buy pant for their wives yet each night you want to sleep with her . You are heartless
You mock her about her hair yet you can't pay for it to be done . You are wicked!
You complain about her clothing yet you never took her shopping. You are selfish. Some don't even no the name of the cream the wife uses yet her skin isnt good enough . You are inconsiderate.
It is possible for a woman to look single after marriage but men encourage it.
Been married for few months now for the first time I carried my natural hair looking like simbi is a girl the only person that reminds me of my hair is my husband . Money for it has been wired into my account I just want to feel my natural hair for sometime so I left it.
Men take care of your Wife

Most of the cloths I have now are bought by my husband because he doesnt like my other clothing. Men love your wife

Men pay attention to your Wife. Buy her the Cloth you want her to dress in.

If I dress to go out with my husband he looks at me head to toe to make sure all I wear is good. Sometimes I tell him let's go joor no body is looking at me.

It is possible to be married yet look single . Men do it with us. Do it with your Wife.

See money . Am going after someone owing me 7500 naira today and someone has this kind of money locked up. Some people are born thieves . Some showing off their thief thief fathers money

Lagos is tough this days

Good for him. Good Nigerians making us proud bad Nigerians giving us shame. CHANGE STARTS WITH YOU AND ME

All this people wey dey said resemble me and nothing to show fot

You people don't no how painful it is to keep satisfying a man

If being part of the union will make this kind of thing not to happen then he should have joined the union. Infact na union born am. The family nko. It's not about biafra or anything. He must have been asked to join the union in times of need and surport some are so ignorant in their life. Well if not being part of the union will make Igbo people not to touch him then he is at fault not the union. With that they will no the difference between the different religion or culture overy there. Since he has placed himself under no union na on your own thing

Roju. My mum would say is better to withstand the pain and use hot water latter to dab. If not the man will go outside for someone eles. It's not easy withstanding pain of sex. When the woman isnt in the mood its painful. To my husband i just do what will make him cum easily.

It may be menstral pad. Not the other thing

I see no big deal in what she said. I can decide not to know anybody tomorrow. Must I know you? The people everybody is crucifying her for not know probably havnt done jack for her. She doesn't no him so what. people sef. For me falz, face or whatever all of them call themselves I don't no them the only musician I can easily recall are people I like their songs. Am not a fan of music so how would I no them. Before I knew the difference between two young musicians wetin be their name sef? The two wey get baby mama. Lol whatever it is it took times. Because I like one of their song. This apology no get head. If it's me . I wont give it.

He did all shameful act without the fear of God in him. Na wa oooo

Which great job . I served in Ondo State and he never paid us our money after the end of service but paid the year before me. That's how he swallowed 60k of over 20,000 corpers. In Nigeria where we don't no our right. Majority kept quite what will minority do. Nobody could say anything we just managed to survive one year. Time for him to leave . Never knew he was still there sef. After I suffered at pollen unit in other to conduct voting.

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