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And now you are feeling like what!

You are both using una self. She is enjoying it. You are enjoying it. Why are you feeling like a hero

Nonsence upon ingredient

The whole thing looks somehow. You dating her help she sees as sister now. Please let the girl concentrate and further her education. Forget those asking you to be a man. That girl will begin to see your sis differently when she start dating you. Are you ready to shoulder her responsibility. Pleases dont start talking about love cause of what your penis wants. Men mistake that for love.
Let her be .
Be her friend for now. Talk with her share her pain know who she is. You just came pounce on the girl and suddenly you want to date her. What level of date sef.
Whats your definition of date. Please be a brother and friend to her till you are ready to settle down

Move on jare.

Let him go. You want to be his ATM machine.

He will collect money from you and spend on another lady.

Money like that is never used for anything serious about himself. Na free money .

He doesnt regard you.
You have a career girl. Why dont you focus on it now. Save alot of money buy a land do somthing profitable for YOU.

No dey give man money especially that one who isnt stable. He is just messing with your heart.
Cut ties with him joor. Let go of him. You are too wonderful for such nonsence .
Dont let any man know what you earn or have in your account. Before you know it they will bring up problems that need money solution . You are a virgin or not doesnt matter to anyone who loves you.
I once said poverty na him dey make man look for virginty. He has nothing , he is collecting from you and he still cheating and onto of that na virgin him won marry. And you are still thinking of him haba

Pr0cter:
Those people you are helping in the shopping mall don't really need it. They could afford what they want to buy that's why they are in a shopping mall if not, they would have gone to Iya Basira, the one that sells provision in Kiosk down their street to buy.




Those who actually needs help are those living under the bridge, those that live in the ghetto, those labourers who do dirty jobs. Those who beg on the road side needs this gesture not this one's in the shopping mall.

Oga know all. He is trying to pass a message. Though they can afford it they should also be kind.
You how many times have gone to all those places to give out things. You think because its a mall its more expensive? Better reason well

Homers123:
You read through your arse or what?

You must be silly to make such comment.

Take your mind off her money is as simple as that.

A mans money is our money a womans money is her money.

Stop questioning her about her money or how much she was paid or how much she has. She wont tell you the truth because if you knew you will want to spend it. Borrow me i no get in the name of love

If you want to do things for her do it. If you dont want leave it haba.

Na heart attack final final you won carry.


Take your mind off her money whatever she buys leave it if she doesnt buy for you buy your own and dont buy for her. If you want to buy for her buy.
This guy self.

You just dey chok chok eyes for the girl money you won follow dey spend the money ni.
Some guys cant stand it when they see there babe get money that is when they will bring up problem and just want to spend the money.

Loves you.? Lo hahshgahaahahahahhahahahhaahhahaahhahahahahshshshhahahahshahahahshshahshhshshshshhshsh.
Loves you to a fault ? Hahahahhahhaahhahahahahahahahahhaahhahahhahahahahahahahah


He will kill you one day

This one hard ooo

Tell him and if he decide not to marry her again she should remain unmarried just like her initial plan


But if not let her try getting pregnant before the marriage if it clicks marry dey go. If not her conscience will eat her up if she gets married and after 5 to 10 years no child and she knows the fault is from her

What is she feeling like

Move in with you. As in she done become wife just like that. What is that girl thinking sef. Is somthing wrong with her senses.

Move in with you sleep with you, cook for you and clean for you.

Do you think you will cope and not try to sleep with her. �You think your body can control that.

Dont lie to yourself. Be truthful. She is someone you are attracted to. You cannot do it to anyone you are not attracted to forget doing it out of your good heart talk. It impossible


The girl herself is not cultured who does somthing like that. She doesnt even have fear that you can do all that and she is still not safe.

She just meet you and followed you like someone being controlled by remote.
What does she want to tell her parents that she is living with a man?

Does she even know if you are mentally ok

She is silly and has no respect for herself. She doesnt even know anything. Some people will still go to uni and come out there sence still will be incorrect
She is not matured


You are selfish!!!!

Leave someone's daughter alone ooooo. Please.

At 21 the last thing a girl will think of is marriage. Please if you are ready and she is not move on na.

21 and married ma .?There are alot of things to still achieve has she finished school ?or worked to make a dime so she can know how difficult it is to work for the money.

She is still young and no one should blame the girl.
At 21 did you in anyway think of marriage and because you are ready you want her to be ready automatically abeg. Keep your marriage you may not be the right person for her anyways dont raise your ego because of marriage.
If you cant wait or rather be patient with her please move on its as simple as that

I will put myself in your shoes. Its not easy . You regret leaving him and you still want him back.you know he is married but losing out after six years hurt not to talk of seeing someone eles enjoying what you should be enjoying.

Its pathetic.

Do you want to be a second wife?

Are you ready to face whatever comes with it?

If your answer is yes go ahead get married and damn the consequences. Have all you want back and be happy.

But if your answer is no then let him go. It will hurt to see six years go down the drain. But let him go. See it as he is not meant for you. If he was he will stick to you and wait. What he is doing behind his wife's back he will do it if you were the one he married.
Let me stop here

Its in you and its you and it also depends on you to control it. Ask God for Grace to help you.

All this one is just thinking about is women and sex

I pray today may you be delivered.

I have read so many articles of some people saying a woman has nothing to offer in a relationship.

If you have had some level of experiences in your relationships and you still see a woman like she never offered you anything possibly apart from sex it means you are blind. You are blinded by your selfish desire.
You meet a woman ,already you are fantasizing on how you will sleep with her. The possible time and moment you will have her. You keep skimming ,thinking and all your interest is circled around her body. You are blind!!
You chat her up pretend you care about her. You start up conversation about her day and you skim your way into her heart in pretence.
You are blinded by your selfish desire and as long as that continues you will never, i repeat Never see anything she has to offer.

Most men meet their wife fall In love and marry .most it takes them few months they get married some 2yr and some 5 years and so on.
Some men will date a woman for years decide to leave her to meet someone eles later they come back and decide this is the one i want to spend the rest of my life with. That woman has offered him somthing no woman can. Some also will be in a relationship for years and meet one who has offered him something he leaves to marry that one.
Some find exactly what they want and they marry her immediately .some take their time before they finally see.
If you really want to know what a woman offers in a relationship ask those who are married why did you marry your wife.
Some woman offers a man peace of mind. He will find peace anytime he is with her.
Some woman offers a man right decisions. Some men cant make simple decisions but you have the right woman she looks at the scenario she already know what to do .Most men take advice from wives like that. No matter what they will take it to their wife
Some women is their level of intellgence
Some women is there instinct. If she say dont do that it wont work you do it and it doesn't.
Some women is their zeal . Some men get attracted to see a woman with strong zeal to push him to greater height. Some women have pushed their men to achieve height they never imagined.
Some women is their skill.
Some if they pray about somthing it works.
Some is their company. Some men just want a woman's company . Some just want to go home and meet their wife because her company matter to him. He can talk about his day and feel encouraged.
Some women is their connection
Some is how industrous
Some is their level of communication
Some is their background and influence. And so on.
Sometimes you look at a woman and ask wetin this man see for this woman body sef. He is not blind like you. You look at body he is focused om somthing eles.
A woman always have somthing to offer. And if you havnt in anyway found out what your woman has offered you as a man that if she isnt there its not complete then you are blind!!! and your selfish desire has over crowded your mind. Or rather you havnt come across her
She will not have anything to offer you as long as you mind your heart is closed and your eyes blinded with dirty desires.
If you love her find what she carries inside that made you love her

Little story
My anty actually pushed till her husband was able to buy a land. Now they will soon pack to their duplex.
The man will make money , before you know it everything is finshed. He will give it out. He likes to give. Let us buy land , no way woman i have no money, lets do this no woman no money. Everytime she talks about land the man feel its too much to buy a land. Ok let go to companies that borrow. We will be paying back bit by bit. The man said noo. He doesnt want problem. There is a land of 200k lets buy i dont have money. Until they had no land again to buy. Her friend bought land less that 500k they bought thier own in millions.The woman talked to the husband since you make money this way lets do it this way and get a land the man refused. The woman got angry and decided she wont live with such man who doesnt have prospect . The way she told me the story she sat down and cried called him that she was leaving. About to pack her things to leave the man accepted to go by her decision . The time the man made up his mind all the cheap land have all been bought the one they bought was now in millions.They had to buy because the woman had threatened to live him. She packed her own saving join with the man now their beautiful home is almost complete The man bought the land left it and didnt do anything the woman continued to push and push now its almost complet.
Now he said if not for my wife ooo i wouldnt have gotten this land. He will go to the house now and be smiling from upstairs.


If you havnt found out what a woman carries inside of her ask God for Grace to see and know. To open your eyes because definitely you are blind.

Let me tell you if a woman has nothing to offer which is impossible and she is good sexually she has offered somthing. You think its all woman that do acrobatic sex. We all dont have that interest. Some marry their wife because they are good sexually.
As long as you are at peace take it.

This question shouldn't be answered its just a thing.

Let me just chip in.

They aren't asking for money in the sense you are going but a woman who doesnt feel entitled to you, will ask you for money because money is like her gain.
A woman who doesnt feel you have any future plan with her; money is her gain.
A woman who knows your level of seriousness with her is below 20% money to take care of herself is her gain.
A woman who you havnt showed any sign of love but all you talk about with her is sex. How you miss her body, her breast. Every of your discussion with her is meaningless and directed toward sex , money to that woman is her gain.
She wont feel bad if you walk away one day she gained somthing from you. She was able to take care of needs.

Most men will say a woman has nothing to offer in a relationship. An unserious man will make that statement. All the men who have confessed to how there wives have done this and that in there lives. So all the once that got marrried and lived happily you think the woman didnt have anything she added to that man's life. They just met and decided to marry all of a sudden. The man saw potential, he saw somthing that has added to his life.
Some see peace of mind
Some is the joy they get with the woman
Some is the woman's right advice
Some is her level of knowledge
Some is skill
Some is their level of understanding and so on.
A woman always has somthing to offer .
If as a man you keep jumping from one woman to the other and you havnt seen anything non of them have to offer
Sorry to say YOU ARE A BLIND DOG

TissuePaper:
The truth is that it is only habitual for women to play the victim...it will surprise u to know that nothing of such actually happened, this might be her own way of getting back at the guy for maybe dumping her or refusing to grant a request made by her.

We have seen it all, them busola dakolo's, and Stephanie otobo's ..if u really had a case u should be in court and not on twitter.

Sharap there. People like you will surport beast like that. She is a victim of a beast in form of a man. Support that and stop talking with whatever you have beneath

See men who won marry virgin. Virgin ko virgin ni.

Do you know what an average woman face everyday with liars cheaters and love deceiving men like you.

You just want to cross your legs wait for a virgin to come and meet you or cross your path because we as ladies we are locked up in the house and one day released to come across husbands who want our virginity.

The same man who claim being in love and wants to spend the rest of his life with a lady. Immediately he hears she is a virgin some will force themselves on the woman disvirgin her and move on to marry somone who they never meet as virgins.
Do you know most women want to married as virgins but one idiot will walk into her life deceive her do all sort at the end they go seperate way.

Do you also know its difficult for a woman to forget the person that disvirgined her? Either in annoyance or in love.

Everyday children are molested. Here and there by boys men fathers who should look after them. Men will rape neighbours 9 year old daughter men will rape your girls. How many talk about there stories. Children babies are raped everyday. How will they explain how they lost their virginity.


And you as a person because you call yourself a man will come and start looking for viginity. Virginity you didnt provide ,money you dont have house you dont have, but you want to marry virgin. I think is only poverty that makes someone feel he is entitled to once viginty. Make money find a woman you love and want to be with marry her have kids and live long.

This one is here looking for virginity.
May you marry a wicked heartless and a troublesome woman who is a virgin lets see how long your lifespan will be. You will even forget you married her as virgin and run.

So the person saying you wont mind if she has bad character as long she is a virgin you have a confused priority. You simply dont no what you want yet.

No need to feel that way. You just have the right moment and mood. Study the person you are with. Communicate well. You cant just have sex with a random girl. Some do though but with a starter get your game right. Start with talking touching and see if she is on the same level . Then do this do that. I cant say more

My dear what you are feeling isnt love oooo.


Why would you start loving him more say wetin happen na

What is this story about being emotional. You better open your eyes and get your head straight. Do you go back to your vomit? He is a play boy and you are his toy. He can talk to you as he likes break up with you and come back after the fun is over. Dont let him start say this stupid girl in your absence.

Abeg forget love and move. NEVER WASTE YOUR TIME ON SUCH RELATIONSHIP. HE IS NOT A HUSBAND MATERIAL. WALK AWAY NOW CUT ALL TIES WITH HIM.

STOP THE CHATTING TOO ABEG TELL HIM YOU ARE BUSY LET HIM BEG TILL THY KINGDOM COME. HIS HEART IS WICKED

Its better to do The same thing to her. Let men in prison sleep with her for the number of years time date she has been in doing that.

Prison guys that havnt had sex for a long time


15 guys per day for the number of girls she has destroyed

Be mindful of that man called husband he is up to something. Find a way yourself without h9im jare.

You are on this ship alone and he is sending reassurance here and there dont make him waste your time .

He is up to somthing. He wants you in Nigeria permanent so he can be free like a bird. All is skimming is to keep you here.

Find your way ooo

What has happened has happened. By mistake or genuine sex happened.

Stop giving that girl money what is she feeling like. Rubbish. She was there waiting for the harder part.

Avoid her calls. When she calls be formal. Hello yes i dont have it.whatever she says stand by your words and drop the call.

Tell your wife you dont want her presence in the house anymore. If she ask why tell her you are upset or angry about somthing. It means even if she tells your wife you have created a scenario of being angry.

If she happens to come around dont be an inch close to her rather leave the house till your wife is back if she ask why tell her you cant be in the same house with the lady you have also created another impression. Last last if the truth comes out you have a bit of innocence to claim to yourself.

Or rather tell your wife you nearly had sex with the sister the other day. That you taught she was the one in the bathroom and everywhere was dark you walked into the bathroom with her sister when you heard her voice you quickly ran out. Laugh it off. Either way say it and avoid that girl

If you want to marry her marry her forget all this stories joor.


What happened when you separated should have stayed in the past, now you cant deal with it.

Na the girl no smart her mouth to lose and she will lose the marriage.

All this guys that say tell me tell me DONT EVER TELL SHIT. They cant deal with it. Just like this one. He wants to know yet the cant deal with it.

Just like that you want to move to this next babe hmmmm.

Becarefull ooo

Somthing they can't do to their own child. If someone does it to their child hell will break lose.

Two month too short for courtship. What do i know some people dated for 10years and still got divorced. So i will say this journey you embarked on be open minded and expectant. You cannot be bringing your personal affairs for us to advice you. The person to ask is there. .
You want people to advice you to leave her ? That is what you will see. You want her to see that people are asking you to leave her? Because she may see that.
Sort your problem with her
She said dont post. You should have listened. You just want to show off and make the ladies who didnt agree feel bad.
Park well oo

That is why it is good to date someone you see as a companion.
Some of these men just pick up any girl for dating sake or to continue there sexual escapade.

When good thing come your way through her you see it as a trap
Then when its turning sour you want to run.
As confused as the women so is the men.

Now her mother wants to do somthing good for you but because your intention where never true you want to run or rather asking us to advice you to either stay.
You are wicked!!!!!
Let me not say any other thing against you.

Please dont accept the job and please set her free so she can meet the right man for her. Stop wasting her time.

One thing the lady wants to eat her cake and have it same time.whatever that means .

She left you years ago got married and got divorced with two kids then she found her way back into your life and you two had it till she got pregnant for you.

She just wants to retrace her step and feel all will be as she wants. Maybe get you to marry her then her plan is complet. She would feel she has corrected the mistake she made long ago. But what she doesnt know is you may not be her husband. The mistake has been done. But going back to you and getting pregnant is wrong. I just hope she is financially stable and capable or the father of the two kid.

But if she feels you are the good and perfect husband she made mistake of leaving and she came back its fine by her.

Back to what you will do.
1. Do you love her and want to be with her despite all odds. Everything may be good now but marriage is different.
2. What happens to the kids she has even if you marry her they come to stay with you or with their father?
3. If you want to be with her talk to your parents about it and see there reaction first. They may say its up to you.
4. Be ready for anything that comes out after it. The children's father may or will always be in the picture.

Goodluck