Celebrities › Re: Toke Makinwa: 'I Have Dumped A Guy Before Because His Toilet Hygiene Was Bad' by Beze992(f): 8:51pm On Jan 22, 2021 |
John4B: see who is dumbing a man 'Dumbing' really?
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Family › Re: Three Experiences That Make Me Think I'm Married To The Wrong Person by Beze992(f): 11:39am On Jan 22, 2021 |
This looks like a poorly fabricated story. However, in the event that there's any element of truth in it, I quite agree with the others that you had no business getting married in the first place, but, it's never too late for a self reappraisal and doing the right thing. Firstly, you need to right all the wrongs from the very beginning, start being the man of the house and a husband to your wife, the reverse shouldn't be the case.
I'm assuming you're suprised about the reactions you got here, pretty sure you expected the usual women bashing in this case, that's to tell you that you didn't try at all. |
Food › Re: How To Make Ofe Owerri (Pictures) by Beze992(f): 11:12pm On Jan 21, 2021 |
Chii59: See NL alfa males dey propose because of food. Tomorrow, naija girls are useless. If I say "thunder faya their left skrotum" they'll say I'm wicked  Aunty Poco, you are doing well. More foodstuff to your pantry. Nwayo, nwayo�� |
Family › Re: Bayo Adedeji, Wakanow CEO: I Pay My Chef N100k But Caught Him Stealing From Me by Beze992(f): 9:10pm On Jan 21, 2021 |
realstars: A theif Is a theid, if you want him not to still,the he will start to still from you. Seriously?
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Family › Re: What Will You Do In A Marriage Like Mine? by Beze992(f): 1:02pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
Sis, in as much as you're working on yourself to control the way you express yourself, I'll still advise not to totally bottle your feelings, a lot of people heal faster when they pour their minds out. We all can't be stoic, just be less emotional whenever you bring these things up. Never allow anyone make you feel there's anything wrong with you. However, in this situation, I'll advise that you retreat and work behind the scenes, since you already know that things rarely get to him, if you can, try not to let things get to you, and even if it does, never make him realize this. PRAY more and be a little bit selfish with your feelings. Used to be like you, I had to learn the hard way. Wish you all the best. |
Education › Re: Winifred Hyacinth: UNIZIK Medical Graduate Gets 12 Awards At Induction by Beze992(f): 11:42am On Jan 20, 2021 |
Congratulations baby girl! |
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Romance › Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Beze992(f): 8:28am On Jan 17, 2021 |
shadowmancer: And by mere text you could deduce if one's been childish but yet find it hard to figure out what exactly makes Nigerian gals behave conflicted.
Who cares about my writing style when the points laced therein has been passed across.
Listen to your rhetoric...."Did someone take what you needed" implying a need is always something that can be taken. How does one write coherently without imbuing his typings with evocative words if need be?
Go read up some Shakespear you Belzebub of the 992 circle telling me how to convey my message without sounding obscene, this is Nairaland, a forum for all manners of obscene comments and crazy talks with unguarded words.
Better hop on to any of those facebook religious Nigeria groups if you want to read comments from sheeples whose bleating reflects how homely trained their suckling arse are. Here you go again with the tantrums, I pray you find the peace you so badly need. And for the records, not everyone has a 'herd' mentality, so I don't have to join people who write in an obscene way to so. And I still reiterate that you can pass your message across without sounding like someone having an epileptic fit. Don't bother quoting me again, I will not reply since you can't be civil in your conversations. However, I still stand by the last paragraph of my very first comment....... Happy Sunday. |
Sports › Re: Muslim Fans Blast Ahmed Musa Over Kissing Picture With His Wife On Facebook by Beze992(f): 12:55am On Jan 17, 2021 |
Manab: I never go to school stop wasting ur time and concentrate ur heat on almajiris nonsense and ingredients. I now see. |
Romance › Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Beze992(f): 12:36am On Jan 17, 2021 |
shadowmancer: Shaaaaraaap! Contrary to Taylor Swift's vituperative track 'Blank Space'....99% of men don't wants love when it's torture. You Nigerian ladies are just something else. Ona just dey fvckn complicated and get indescribable complex with ego the size of Trump's private jet. All leading to mental confusion. Man's-not-hot knows wetin he NEED when he NEEDS it, be it sex, love, family, future, but as for una...una go mix everything together in a twisted way to take confuse, destabilize ad mindfvck wetin the partner NEED. All of una dey MAAD. I swear down! Firstly, your writing style is terribly childish, it's rather tiring trying to decipher what you wrote. Secondly, why the emphasis on 'need' did someone take what you needed? Thirdly, learn to write coherently without throwing your emotions everywhere and stop using abusive words on people. You can pass your message across without sounding obscene, it's not nice showing you don't have home training. And lastly, I'm entitled to an opinion same way you are, so stop having seizures over mine. You can counter my point in a civilized manner without throwing tantrums. |
Politics › Re: Soldiers Missing As Insurgents Overwhelm Borno Army Installations by Beze992(f): 11:44pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
ayenale1: Ordinary 20 US navy SEALs will finish the whole BH boys in 3hrs... Nigeria army self no get tactics...Kai You call Navy seals ordinary, you can't even call Marines ordinary. Take your time o
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Romance › Re: Can You Marry The Person You Are Presently Dating? by Beze992(f): 10:23am On Jan 16, 2021 |
ModestGal: What happened, share it with me, I feel like walking away,and he's not allowing me to walk away This forum is rather public and it's something that's a bit sensitive to me. |
Romance › Re: Can You Marry The Person You Are Presently Dating? by Beze992(f): 9:03am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Just got out of a relationship that made me question whether love actually exist and lose faith in humanity. It made me realize that you can never be completely sure of anyone. I guess people interpret love the way that suits them. Will only marry when I meet someone who understands what commitment means. |
Romance › Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Beze992(f): 10:24pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
OP I think you should just move on, she doesn't love you. That a bit blunt, I know, but believe me no lady that loves her man would not want to settle a difference or refrain from calling him for two weeks if there's no one else somewhere that provides her emotional needs, except of course you did something grevious to her. Same thing is applicable to a man. That being said, I have noticed that in a twisted way most men seem to value women that stresses them . It's really baffling, when they see the loyal ones that never tries to manipulate them, they tend to take those ones for granted. |
Family › Re: How Many Children Would You Like To Have?? by Beze992(f): 8:43pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
2 is enough for me |
Celebrities › Re: Cindy Okafor Survives Car Accident On Her 25th Birthday (Video) by Beze992(f): 2:42pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
Ebus12: Thank God for the deliverance
But you also need to be delivered from the power of lying How on earth are you 25 ??� How please My dear.... God will deliver all these girls, imagine, 25 years? Then I am 20
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Literature › Re: Beneath My Heart by Beze992(f): 1:20am On Jan 13, 2021 |
SokoDobo: Hmmm. Thank you for the complement. I really appreciate.
Meanwhile, I'm just this ordinary guy you pass-by and give no second look.
Nothing special or intriguing but I love to stash words in a book.
Just a poor lonely guy precariously perched on a steep hill with a hook.
With a laptop, bottle of water and zeal.
Putting down words, sequestered from the hubbub, shindigs,and upheavals for real.
Hoping that someday, someway, the message would be gotten and would thrill.
I am not him, I am me.
Just me. You're anything but ordinary. You're an enigma and I think you have the same personality as Adnan. Thank you for the story, been awhile I enjoyed a story on naira land like this. It is beautifully crafted. |
Politics › Re: Police Detain Solomon Emmanuel Akuma For Criticising Buhari by Beze992(f): 11:30pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
Zenithpeak: Only few are intelligent enough to see sacasm in this post......  The sarcasm was very glaring, it wasn't subtle at all. |
Sports › Re: Muslim Fans Blast Ahmed Musa Over Kissing Picture With His Wife On Facebook by Beze992(f): 12:29am On Jan 12, 2021 |
Ericnrm: I followed you just because of this comment  The hypocrisy of these people is terrible coupled with their stupid herd mentality just makes you wonder how you can really share a country with people like this. Seriously, their hypocrisy and stupidity is cringe worthy. And, thanks for the first part. |
Sports › Re: Muslim Fans Blast Ahmed Musa Over Kissing Picture With His Wife On Facebook by Beze992(f): 12:25am On Jan 12, 2021 |
Manab: yeah I know I make a mistake as a human no body is above mistake/errors as for me English is not my language that is compulsory to speak or write as for u Mr knowledge try use ur knowledge,English to become a complete educated adult instead of educated illiterate. Gibberish. At least learn basic punctuations so it doesn't appear you're writing in Arabic. As for the educated illiterate part, I'm truly short of words.��� |
Family › Re: My Guy Said, "O Boy I Don Divorce O". by Beze992(f): 11:56am On Jan 11, 2021 |
Romanoff: This marriage matter.
A lot of people build their marriage on the wrong foundation.
Money, sex, looks, loneliness, desperation and some other mundane reasons.
The best foundation to build a marriage is on friendship and that's why you'll hear marriage counsellors say "marry your friend".
Take away sex from most relationships there will be nothing left, you'll discover the sex isn't even enough to keep it going. Sex that should be the icing on the cake has become the entire cake.
Money that should add spice to the marriage has become the entire food. He must have money, he must have a good car, she must be working and earning her own money etc. Once the money is not there anymore, water done pass garri.
Don't get me started on the Looks part, you'll marry because she has big bumbum and boobs, or because he is tall dark or fair and handsome with a six inch rod. A time will come that all these things won't do it for you anymore.
Marry your friend. That person that comes to your mind when you want to have deep discussions about your dreams, your bad day, your plans, your failures. That person that you will forget about time and keep talking with cause conversation and laughter and joys and tears just comes real.
That is what brings intimacy. The attraction, sex, money, looks all those ones na jara.
My opinion o. So before you mention me and insult me, take note of the fact that it's my opinion, make Thunder no fire you this morning. Thank you for this sister! Like you rightly said, take away sex, there will be nothing left in most marriages. But the irony is that after reading this and probably every other related write ups on marriage, people will still marry for good sex and beauty and for probably who they have absolute control over, the latter is relatable to the male sex. And you wonder why the failure rate is high. Like I was telling a friend, the truth is the 'Sparks' will certainly die down a bit, and when does, what exactly remains when you're not friends with your spouse, when you both cannot have genuine conversation or even gossip together. How will it survive when most couples have absolutely nothing in common but only got married because of probably physical attractiveness, pretentious humility and financial security. And note, I do not in any way undermine the importance of the latter in marriage. |
Family › Re: Nigeria Ranks 2nd Highest In Paternity Fraud In The World by Beze992(f): 10:33pm On Jan 10, 2021 |
prince3009: Before you continue talking rubbish, remember that Moy-hoe the ex wife of Tunde Thomas is from the South West! Including 80% of the names OP mentioned while giving instances. That should tell even a dunce not to go tribal on this....... Umu ofeke |
Family › Re: Nigeria Ranks 2nd Highest In Paternity Fraud In The World by Beze992(f): 10:27pm On Jan 10, 2021 |
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Sports › Re: Muslim Fans Blast Ahmed Musa Over Kissing Picture With His Wife On Facebook by Beze992(f): 9:18pm On Jan 10, 2021 |
Manab: walahi very discusting people don't mind them we are ahead them. At least learn how to spell *disgusting* and to construct a simple line of sentence before masturbating with your fellow alamajiri. |
Romance › Re: My Ex Is About Getting Married But She Still Loves Me by Beze992(f): 8:23am On Jan 10, 2021 |
OP, if her manipulative tactics is not glaring to you, is it me that will tell you.
He's touch is disgusting, yen yen yen. I'm officially bored |
Celebrities › Re: Wizkid Flew His Suya Man From Lagos To Ghana To Prepare His Special Suya by Beze992(f): 3:36pm On Jan 07, 2021 |
Splazy: Some girls will be like all I want from him is "Care, Attention, Support, and Honesty" now put all the first letters together. Cash na
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Politics › Re: We Don't Want Another Lockdown - Sanwo-Olu Warns Lagos Residents by Beze992(f): 8:50am On Jan 06, 2021 |
You don't want to impose any lockdown but commercial buses are loaded to there full capacity and you have turned a blind eye to it. No social distancing in buses, yet you're preaching on being circumspect with no guidelines as to numbers of passengers that should board at a time which will allow for social distancing in them........ Shame |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2020 Live Updates Thread by Beze992(f): 3:39pm On Sep 11, 2020 |
Anniemae: Did I see boyfriend there??.. boyfriend abi fvckmate She has one at least, but you? |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2020 Live Updates Thread by Beze992(f): 3:27pm On Sep 11, 2020 |
innocentdude: What some of these Lamecons don't realise is that it's TOO EASY to troll their guy. Like it takes zero effort . 
You don't even have to think or ponder for a second . All you have to do is; - Switch on your TV - Look at him from head to toe . - And there you go, excess trolling material .
The Guy is a walking Joke . Pathetic 
Guy abeg be calming down |
Health › Re: Cost Of IVF In Nigeria by Beze992(f): 8:04pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
jacy346: can I have the iya alagbo phone number please? Jessicajohn947@gmail.com Can I have her number as well, ezeblessed881@gmail.com. please? |
Health › Re: Cost Of IVF In Nigeria by Beze992(f): 7:59pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Sanmiabiona769: @Akiika,kindly send the gsm No's of Iya Alagbo to my email address pls. sanmiabiona769@gmail.com. God bless your home Please I'll be willing to have this as well. Thank you. |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2020 Live Updates Thread by Beze992(f): 1:45pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
Asuito7: Why do you guys readily pushed Erica's stuff to Nairaland home front page? And the are always negative stuffs.
If she wins HoH or other tasks you won't post it in the front page. I am not saying you shouldn't post anything about her be it positive or negative but it is too much especially considering the fact that it is always negative things about her
You, some mods and Seun are helping to bring that girl down  I thought I'm the only one that noticed this and it reeks of tribalism. Anyways, they should continue we're watching. |