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Lastlook:
Please dont say that. In that picture, those with the almost yellow look dress are their JSS 2 or 1 and the others are like SSS 1 to 3.

Those SSS always take care of their school uniform, as if its new. I always wonder too. I teach there before and i know what am saying.

Very obvious you taught there before

abimic:
Me that I've been rehearsing my proposal genre in my head.... Every man to his tent.

Just make sure she will say yes o, to avoid stories that touch the heart.

Coming from someone who bought a Lamborghini for her husband, all these oyibo women sef.

Bola146:
It means he doesn't love the lady if he can find time to talk to her one on one, 4 years relationship to be thrown away just like that Haba now, so he know she resides or works? He can't just find time to check what is happening Maybe the lady warned him about lack of good communication and this guy didn't listen, now he has her time, Love is a sacrifice and total commitment! If you can't, it's a total madness. It doesn't mean they are not meant to be.

Believe me the '1-on-1 talk doesn't always make much of a difference if the other party is distracted and probably looking for a way out. Been in this sort of situation before and I tried the 'talk', I never got the closure I was looking for, rather it made me more confused and miserable,

Michelle55:
Move on.. If she still desires the relationship she will come back to you but until then refrain from chasing her.
It might be a hard decision due to the 4years you guys have spent together but you just have to enter airplane mode for your sanity sake.

I no dey do pass myself, if I see that a relationship ain't working out anymore I take a long walk no matter the number of years I might have been with the person, my sanity and peace of mind over anything first, I hate drama and I certainly can't condole one.

You might see my approach as being selfish and hard hearted but that's how I've trained my heart to be. If it's not working out, bro/sis it's not. Let go!!

If truly you are meant to be, you will definitely end up together as one so don't fret over it.

Don't try finding someone who doesn't want to be found!!!

Your last paragraph though.... That's has always been my mantra.
OP, you will do well to follow this advice for the sake of your sanity.

post=98734378:
Our judiciary system should step up their games.
We have many criminals, terrorists and looters that ran abroad since President Buhari became president, looters like the frog-eyed thief diezani and the terrorists called Cownu, the idiotic coward.

We wondered why his traveling passport wasn't seized prior now, if they know what they are doing.
Oshisko!

We only imagine what could have happened if the most evil and wicked kidnapper in the history of Africa called Evans was released on bail sometimes ago.
We are damn sure that till he dies, he will never step foot on the soil of Nigeria again.

Our judiciary system need to get their act together big time.
This is where the main change should start from.

We Rise.

I'm actually beginning to see why people don't really like you in this forum, and I'm being very polite with my choice of words here. You might counter that in life not everyone should like you, but deep down, you know you're a very detestable person who never stands for the truth. Even your usual closing remark of 'we rise' doesn't hide the fact that you're very biased. Just take a look at what you commented on this topic, you never even mentioned the subject in the news, you rather conveniently digressed to other people, you're always subtle I'll give you that, but in this case, you were not. This makes it rather easy to believe what people are always saying, that you're on some people's payroll.

I welcome every thinly veiled insult but I suggest you retrace your steps, it will do you a whole world of good.

JovialJune:
Abeg we don't fall sick, where did you hear that from, I've not used any drugs or injection in years and I'm AA.

Most people often confuse AA genotype will blood group A+, those with A+ blood group are often vulnerable to malaria. My blood group is A+ and I treat malaria regularly. My younger brother is B+, genotype is AA same as mine and he rarely fall sick.

Boxer007:

Hello . Ok i hav moiney. Gimmme your nomba, quick if u still wanto be my babe?, and please hurry. I ain't got all days

Werey, who ban your real moniker 'Mr Cork?

Firstly, sending her nudes to a married man shows a woman who has loose morals and no principles, a bit harsh, yes, there's no way to sugar coat it.
Apologizing for what she did doesn't necessarily means she owns up to her mistake, it's also a manipulative tactics. That being said, you shouldn't have laid a hand on her.
My candid advice, forgive her, but don't take her back, if she doesn't respect the sanctity of other people's marriage, is it her own that she would respect? But if you love her so much like you've said, you might need to watch her for awhile to know if she's changing genuinely before taking her back.
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He has a thing for the colour white..... Anyways, more grease to his elbow. This is the kind of news that should be gracing our front page.

promzy555:
Mumu wan thread

I think it's 'trend' and yes this might likely be the trend soon enough.

Boxer007:
Yes, the poor man is suffering becuase people are condemin him, of course it is sad. HE was not aware of wot he done so he needs to go for couselling..piriod. Thats how u deal with situation like this. The stupid 4 year old pupil should go play with LEGO or somtiin and will get over it.
let him go & watch cartoon. pirood!!
The person who should get in trouble is the 4year old pikin's parents. They are stupid for making the kid suffer & they MUST BE ARRESTED FOR TREASON & NEGLET!! ...stupid parent. That man is inocent and MUST be release on medical ground. Kids are waste of time and attention seakers. PREACH!!!

You're very sick! You need help, and need 'help' and it's not counseling in your own case. It's chains on both your hands and feet!

Boxer007:
Sir please stop actin like a village babarian sir. this is not a stone age period.
. Every thing is not voilence. What he need is counselling. Thats how u deal with such behavior

This is sad!

Please can you go back and read what you wrote again, this time carefully to know if it actually makes sense. Between that child and that monster who needs counseling? That child is possibly scarred for life and you're suggesting counseling for her abuser? Let's be fearing God sometimes na.

Dated someone who was the perfect gentleman in every sense of the word, almost too good to be true and funny enough, he was actually too good to be true....... And yes, there's every reason to be sceptical when someone ticks all the boxes and the relationship is near perfect.

Chimaokigwe:
Why is it always the same culprits? Suleiman and Fatoyinbo? Why do their accusers always have proof?

Because most accusers who are malicious believe that since those people have been accused of such crimes before, involving them in a similar scandal will make it more believable and of course make the headline more sensational, especially if the said person is a public figure.

byteem:
So when did adultery become a crime in Nigeria .. all these fake lawyers criminalising civil matters.. the man abandoned his family I know their type.. they dump you and expect you to suffer and when u don't .. when u emerge stronger they get bitter and vindictive.. the truth will come out.. leave pastor Suleiman out this.. na soo Ur wife confidednin you that she slept with a pastor and u forgave her and continued going to the church for another 10 years .. lies ... Lies lies .. it's filled with holes..

Exactly! He probably thinks roping Apostle will make the story sensational.

wink2015:
Blackmail is at play.

He wants money from Pastor Suleman.

He is not using his extranged wife as a tool for cheap blackmail.

The heart of men. Only God can handle it.

You're not far from the truth, but I don't think he's alone on this scheme.

Nomorelove:
Long overdue. Koeman is next

My dear..... I am waiting patiently for that to happen, because it must.

Meanwhile, extra six hundred years for him.

LilMissFavvy:
She forgot to also lick his feet to get the ring, trash.

She should have even entered into praise and worship sef.

abimic:
Apt, quite incisive, such a polished response. Your first line of sentence nailed it. So how are you doing this morning?

Great, you?

abimic:
beze992,what's your take on this?

Like I always say, love goes beyond romantic feelings, it's commitment, you decide to commit to someone despite all odds. So yes, God can ask you to marry someone you don't have romantic feelings for because he sees beyond the carnal, doesn't attach sentiments like we do cos he knows in the long run, it would have been the best decision for us.

matm:
Most of ladies vaginas smell so bad .When they are sitting close to u,u perceive the odour that smells like urine and then poo.
It is usually worst when they are seeing their period Many don't change pads thereby making their vaginas a pit of mucus

I'm sure you're happy with yourself with the bile you just spewed. Even if you're trolling, troll with the consciousness that a woman gave birth to you. I come in peace.

John4B:
see who is dumbing a man

'Dumbing' really?

This looks like a poorly fabricated story. However, in the event that there's any element of truth in it, I quite agree with the others that you had no business getting married in the first place, but, it's never too late for a self reappraisal and doing the right thing. Firstly, you need to right all the wrongs from the very beginning, start being the man of the house and a husband to your wife, the reverse shouldn't be the case.

I'm assuming you're suprised about the reactions you got here, pretty sure you expected the usual women bashing in this case, that's to tell you that you didn't try at all.

Chii59:
See NL alfa males dey propose because of food.
Tomorrow, naija girls are useless.
If I say "thunder faya their left skrotum" they'll say I'm wicked
Aunty Poco, you are doing well. More foodstuff to your pantry.

Nwayo, nwayo��

realstars:
A theif Is a theid, if you want him not to still,the he will start to still from you.

Seriously?

Sis, in as much as you're working on yourself to control the way you express yourself, I'll still advise not to totally bottle your feelings, a lot of people heal faster when they pour their minds out. We all can't be stoic, just be less emotional whenever you bring these things up. Never allow anyone make you feel there's anything wrong with you. However, in this situation, I'll advise that you retreat and work behind the scenes, since you already know that things rarely get to him, if you can, try not to let things get to you, and even if it does, never make him realize this. PRAY more and be a little bit selfish with your feelings. Used to be like you, I had to learn the hard way.
Wish you all the best.

Congratulations baby girl!

shadowmancer:
And by mere text you could deduce if one's been childish but yet find it hard to figure out what exactly makes Nigerian gals behave conflicted.

Who cares about my writing style when the points laced therein has been passed across.

Listen to your rhetoric...."Did someone take what you needed" implying a need is always something that can be taken. How does one write coherently without imbuing his typings with evocative words if need be?

Go read up some Shakespear you Belzebub of the 992 circle telling me how to convey my message without sounding obscene, this is Nairaland, a forum for all manners of obscene comments and crazy talks with unguarded words.

Better hop on to any of those facebook religious Nigeria groups if you want to read comments from sheeples whose bleating reflects how homely trained their suckling arse are.

Here you go again with the tantrums, I pray you find the peace you so badly need. And for the records, not everyone has a 'herd' mentality, so I don't have to join people who write in an obscene way to so. And I still reiterate that you can pass your message across without sounding like someone having an epileptic fit.
Don't bother quoting me again, I will not reply since you can't be civil in your conversations. However, I still stand by the last paragraph of my very first comment....... Happy Sunday.

Manab:
I never go to school stop wasting ur time and concentrate ur heat on almajiris nonsense and ingredients.

I now see.

shadowmancer:
Shaaaaraaap! Contrary to Taylor Swift's vituperative track 'Blank Space'....99% of men don't wants love when it's torture. You Nigerian ladies are just something else. Ona just dey fvckn complicated and get indescribable complex with ego the size of Trump's private jet. All leading to mental confusion. Man's-not-hot knows wetin he NEED when he NEEDS it, be it sex, love, family, future, but as for una...una go mix everything together in a twisted way to take confuse, destabilize ad mindfvck wetin the partner NEED. All of una dey MAAD. I swear down!

Firstly, your writing style is terribly childish, it's rather tiring trying to decipher what you wrote. Secondly, why the emphasis on 'need' did someone take what you needed? Thirdly, learn to write coherently without throwing your emotions everywhere and stop using abusive words on people. You can pass your message across without sounding obscene, it's not nice showing you don't have home training.
And lastly, I'm entitled to an opinion same way you are, so stop having seizures over mine. You can counter my point in a civilized manner without throwing tantrums.