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iamJ:
if you like send 1m

ure still a nobody, no husband, no life, no job, no child, no future

na why dem bounce you from that table, civilized olosho like u

Life and happiness does not start or end with having a husband/wife, child, or whatever you say.
The number of people you affect and transform matters most. I can see that your motive is rooted bitterness.
She is making impact and affecting lives positively. Who cares if she's an international prostitute? Abegi
#stophating

Threebear:
I hope she's learned her lessons .
I lost every shred of respect I had for her when she bullied a 2 year old girl, calling her obese and making some abhorrent and deleterious statements, in any other civilised society, that could have been the reason she would be thrown into prison.
Well, everyone deserves a second chance, here is hoping she's learned.

You are entitled to your opinion, but her 'obese' comment may be right. the girl was fat and that is what she will grow with if not checked.
The parent of the girl should have just taken not of her comment and go on with their life instead of picking unecessary online fight.
Afterall, they settled and life goes on. She said it out of concern and not out of hatred.

For him to still be a messenger shows that he has not improved his life any bit for a long time.
He should prepare for the worse and hope for the best in life.
That is how to live safe without hypertension or shock.

This is a pathetic situation that calls for sympathy of well meaning Nigerians, especially those at the helm of affairs and governance.
They may turn deaf and dumb now, but if their own children has common ear infection, they fly them abroad

He can't do any of these to 40%, it is not a curse

1. Trust in God
2. Believe in myself and my ability
3. To stop depending on people and stop relying on their promises.

This story is so pathetic. How was the boy's parent trained by the Grandparent?
Which brings to question why the boy's life is like this.
He looks like a drug addict, cultist, unmannered and criminal indeed.
Most of this incident has been ringing bells a long time, but we just ignore them
waiting for the reality to stare at us.
Proverbs 22 vs 6 says it all

Destiny killers are already after you.

Why is the political class trying to cause commotion among the traditional rulers?
I understand that powers of some of these Obas needs to be reduced, but we have to do it systematically
Ajimobi should take caution.

that was sweet and touching.

let's leave it to the police to do their job

God is using his own people to propagate the gospel.
those who desire to be blessed knows where they sow their seeds

Nigerians are willing to pay if the service is readily available and if they are accurately metered. Shikena!

alt3r3g0:
There are a lot of ways to get rid of tattoos that do not involve cutting off your skin with a knife or burning it off with a hot iron.

Yes, you are correct. we also need to understand the kind of tattoo she had on herself.
removing a permanent tattoo can warrant surgery or laser technology which is costly
Going to any reasonable extent to do the right thing is not wrong
who knows the memory attached to that tattoo she was having on her
May God help us all to the right thing when we discover the truth.

People criticizing GEJ because he had good oil price should also recall the following
his government was paying oil subsidy,
he invested massively in agricultural and youth development
amnesty programme was at its peak
many infrastructural development
Nigerians paid very low for many things
Let's tell ourselves the truth for once

alt3r3g0:
Even the pastor that had a skull tattoo did not go this extreme.

And what was the end of the 'pastor'
symbols means a lot, it is a stamp of ownership
it says you still belong to them

since we are now using computerised plate numbers and driver's licence, can't they computerise the ways they arrest erring drivers/vehicles? Instead of putting their lives at risk.

LadyGoddiva:
I cannot even believe the comments I’m reading here. Like are you fuckiñg shitting me?? Even from fellow ladies too?
Things is, Nigerians are too close minded and backward thinking. A lot of things can constitute as rape. It’s not only when a random guy abducts you and forcefully has sex with you while you scream and fight back can be considered as rape. The basic thing that defines rape is CONSENT! Whether she was wearing only her panties in the man’s bed, even if she was twerking naked for him, as long as she said NO, then he had no right to try and perform any sexual activities on her.
And since when did agreeing to cuddle him automatically imply consent to have sex with him? He even went on to give her orals and strip her. Thing is, even if she may not have fought back, bottom line is, she didn’t want sex to happen. And he went on and did what he wanted anyway. That’s a more subtle kind of rape.
Nigerians really need reonrientation of their mindset when it comes to the issue of rape. I’m seeing a lot of bs comments like “why would she go to a guy’s house when it’s not her boyfriend” and “why would she wear only shorts in his bed and why would she sleep on the Same bed with him?” The thing is, irrespective of the circumstance surrounding the story, she didn’t give her consent and the man had sex with her against her wish. It wasn’t consensual sex thus, it can be classified as rape. Too bad she’s just speaking up now.

I think you are being sentimental in this case. What impression is a girl giving to a guy by visiting him at night? wearing bump short with him on same bed? when he was giving her oral, she was moaning, I assume. The man is aroused and you said you don't want sex.
The bible says touch not; taste not; handle not Col2:21

since you guys has decided to publicize everything about them.

What about the bed they will be sleeping on the wedding night?
and the styles they will be rocking on the bed
What about the clothes and under wears they will be wearing?
show us everything they will be doing and as they are doing it?

i wonder how some nonsensical post gets through to front page on nairaland these days

My simple question is this?

We as Christian, we follow the steps and doctrine, and teachings of Jesus Christ.

Did Jesus Pay Tithe?
Did He command or mandate us to pay Tithe?

More like it are the Apostles/Disciples. Did any of them pay Tithe?
Did they preach Tithe?

In Acts Chapter 2, we have the account of how the apostles was running their affairs and welfare.
Every one brought according to how he has. Nobody was coerced, cajoled, threatened, brainwashed.
They brought because they saw the need of the people of God and transparency of the Apostles. and everyone's basic needs was met
In church today, there are classes. Needs are not met. There are pauper and people with genuine needs while some are living in luxury

Today's Christianity needs to be sincere and go back to the ancient landmark.

If any man be in APC, he is a new criminal. old crimes are wiped away, behold, all crimes becomes new

OUR OWN SOLD US TO THEM.

10 years of dating and no marriage yet. It begs for question.
Marriage is not expensive, why prolonging things.

The only issue here is if she told you about her previous status as a single mother. If she didn't, then, something is wrong. If she did, she has not done anything wrong.
She can never register another man's child with your own name. Don't even accept it if she tries it.
Understand that the child can grow to love you and be a son, but you let him understand the situation that surrounds his birth as events unfold. Keep the issue for now, but let the son know later.
If your wife is OK by you, go on with your life. No one is perfect. No marriage is perfect.

I love and envy their courage. I appreciate their sincerity.
They saw the reality and they are not living a fake life
They did not put themselves in debt because of a day wedding
and use first 3 years of marriage to pay debt
God bless your union in Jesus Name.

This man is an embodiment of encouragement, his life style, his words, his character is a total inspiration

asuustrike2009:
It wouldn't even buy it talk less of maintaining. If you say a single member buying it for the pastor then it's an issue not kobo kobo tithe that can't even build a church.

The truth is that God raise people to do His work. If God raise 10 big time financial partner that believe in your ministry of whom God has raised through your ministration and anointing to encourage your ministry and propagate the gospel far abroad, so be it.

gabinogem:
If u get hundred thousand adult church members(excluding children oh) and all of dem pay tithes as low as one thousand naira, abeg pastor blessing tell me how much e go sum up & tell me how much be private jet

Based on your analysis. Getting 100,000 congregation is a whole lot of work in the first place
You need workers, pastors, office, many things to put in place for you to constantly have these 100,000 members
Not all of them will be working class. many of them are liability. We have widows among them, those who lose their jobs, etc
I think the woman is very correct. Running a church is not easy at all. Let's stop attacking people that God is using for our generation

Ireti Doyle looks like a daughter to Patience. That resemblance is much

These guys are criminals, they are sucking Nigeria

but they can risk the lives of millions of Nigerians with their low budget to the ministry of health.
and you budgeted so much for the Aso Rock villa clinic, still, when the president was sick,
he has to stay outside the shores of Nigeria for over 100 days with tax payers's money
this is shameful and disgraceful for these "change mantra"

meforyou1:
ur comments are just so immature. Do work on writing ability

The question was simple and mature. Your response was so irresponsible, immature, un called for and even stewpid.
This is a platform where we share ideas and learn about anything and everything. Don't bring your sadness to this platform