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Monogamy:
Good..

As you are talking about economy, don't forget to talk about investment oo,Kenya just signed some new investment deal with UK

that benefits UK not Nigeria.

Nanaborga:
Na pidgin , everyone understands pidgin and it’s special slangs , some words in our native dialects are infused inside the pidgin we speak and it’s accepted by all .

I agree oh!

Viicfuntop:
Lol. I see you are triggered. This was what you concluded from my post. I didn’t see where I called you a paedophile or anything relating to it. You mentioned me earlier asking why a 20 year old is not an adult. You came to my mention and I answered you. Further down you asked me to clarify what I meant and I explained it to you. I didn’t insult you. I only told you to read it slowly.
Now back to you, I can bet you are nothing less than 37. All your trigger on this post were directed at people who found it weird that a grown ass man would find a 20 year old attractive. It’s not a big deal. It’s people’s preference. My parents and friends parents have nothing more than 3 years between them. I didn’t grow up with wide age gap or know people with that: so I’m justified to havemy preference.

Back to you, you obviously are attracted to a younger woman and for some reasons you feel guilty because I do not understand this insult. Let me profile you. A man like you who could resort to such violent conclusion from nothing is nothing less than pathetic. We are not age mate sir. You clearly suffer from low self esteem( you are probably poor as well) and the only girls you can date are ladies with an equal low self esteem. Why would a young lady starting life be interested in someone as violent as you? Let me tell you honestly. Whoever is with you now, is mainly for the benefit. No woman can love you for you. You sound like an ugly man as well so the only thing you would have to have is money. With this you, I doubt that. So it would have to be a village girl.

I don’t mean this as an insult. No woman would ever love you except the useless thing that gave birth to you. Does she have a choice? Obviously the men in your family from generation to generation are all paedophiles . That’s why I asked you to read slowly to understand but your insecurity triggered you. Google what a craddle robber is. You felt I called you a paedophile hence the trigger because deep down you are probably attracted to children and since you can’t have them, you settle for 18-20.


Dont take out your frustration on me. Marry your kid girlfriend. She has no choice. If her parents could give her the life she wants or herself, she won’t be with you. Old fool.

Nb. Your father is a paedophile. I hope your son breaks the chain of sleeping with children in your family. Useless family

Shut up you used up old hag! no amount of man shaming, etc will ever exterminate the biologically imposed male gravitation towards younger women. and for the record, men do not cheat on their age mates with "matured" women; they cheat on them with much younger and sexually attractive women as God ordained it.

no amount of calling is paedophiles etc will change the truth. and I mean ALL men like young women at least on a biological level. even 50 year old men are going for 25-28 year olds and that's if they can't get 21 year olds.

youth is a symbol of fertility which is required for conception and delivery of a healthy child. nothing personal.

Stepanovs:
How do you assume that the people commenting here are suffering.....is it everyone that is suffering in Nigeria?

Get this into your head..... "IF YOU ARE A POOR MAN IN NIGERIA.....YOU WOULD STILL BE A POOR MAN IF BIAFRA BECOMES A NATION TODAY....SIMPLE AS ABC"

only poor igbos who blame the government for everything are the ones agitating for Biafra....

igbos that are doing well aren't clamoring for Biafra.

Guyman02:
As long as Fulanis control power at the centre Britain will always support them, they don't really want a prosperous Nigeria just like America don't want to see a prosperous Haiti

At last someone that gets and understands the truth.... in the case of Haiti it's also believed France has a hand in it.

Millz404:
They want gender equality, there it is...gender equality is not only when they are sharing goodies....woman should also fight for equal representation in the military, construction, mining etc....good one judge

no mind them....

Hassanmaye:
Lol just imagine that IS How an average woman think, that's why before you criticize a Man for killing his wife please do proper investigation

killing is still not the answer you wretched soul filled with toxic masculinity.

BigYash:
Don't even try 1%. In other words,zero trust is the way to avoid them smashing a man's heart

zero trust model is the best in the world for now..ive always been a big fan of polygamy.....

okwadatigbogal:
If you are truly a christian, you will never refer to any human being like that. Hope you know, you will grow old one day and no more be 'desirable'. Marry for true love oooh...this is for both men and women! That person you can truly see yourself growing old with.

grow old with is the keyword..... u hv said it all.... not marrying used up old hags.

majorbravo:
Men never make for good domestic helps. Why employ a boy as a househelp? How is he gonna meet up with the demands of being a man in today's world without hustling? Men are faster to think of deadly ways to hit it big. If you must take a boy, bring your relative not a criminal minded stranger. This is sad.

I 100% agree....

simhosting:
Women hide their real age.

how?

I need someone young with standing breasts in addition to good character....no more than 24 as of when I'm marrying her.

don't Christians deserve sexual pleasure after worshipping God for so long waiting for marriage??

I need them young and hot otherwise marriage is a scam that leaves Christian men with used up old hags with sagging boobs etc in the name of marriage....

englishmart:
There's no amount of love that will permit me to marry a woman that is 2-hours older than me. Women naturally grow older and weaker at a higher pace than men. Marrying someone older, as time goes on she might be mistaken for your mother. My future wife must be at least 10 years younger so that when I'll be 90, she'll be at most 70
Except for green card.
#bantilosha

young girls are younger, hotter and more attractive sexually. I want a young hot girl that's hot even if she has a few behavioral flaws that aren't deal breakers.... than marrying an old hag with sagging books and all I hv to deal with is liabilities.....

rosinkkit:
''Through the first five months of 2021, gunfire killed more than 8,100 people in the United States''

- https://www.washingtonpost.com/nation/2021/06/14/2021-gun-violence/

(Not kidnapped - slaughtered. But you kiss their butts anyway, so kindly shuush)

How come Americans don't hate and blame Biden for these terrible crimes happening ''under his watch''? They are seen as national issues requiring consensus solutions, and everyone's involvement to resolve, but in Nigeria, if an old woman falls down the stairs, it's Buhari's fault.

words on marble. very well said.

OfoIgbo:
IPOB knows the world is watching.

Already the UK has issued Nigeria a query to explain how Kanu made it to Nigeria. This is the beginning of a much bigger international crime that Nigeria is involved in.
If the Nigerian security forces start shooting at peaceful IPOB protesters tomorrow, the message will be well received by the international community. It will become clear that Nigeria is a lawless nation ruled by terrorists involved in international criminal activities like kidnapping and other vices.

UK is the biggest thief in the world....dont pay attention to those people.....

zyphr:
I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend since September 2019. I intend to marry her.
The problem is that, I don't desire her sexually. Any intimate touch from her feels like the touch from a blood sister. Very uncomfortable.
She is a strict Christian with a policy of no premarital sex. So we have never had sex except for occasional kissing and romance which I sometimes initiate.
However, since January this year, I lost sexual attraction towards her and I avoid even simple touches. In fact, last Sunday we were walking down the street and when she placed her arms round my shoulder, I stylishly evaded it. I don't feel like this towards every other woman.

I'm currently not seeing any other lady but I have had sexual flings with two different ladies including an ex.

Question is: Is sexual attraction/desire neccesary for marriage? Is it normal not to feel sexually attracted to your partner? Can this be a basis for break up as I fear it might persist in marriage and make me cheat on her.

I presume u are one of those church ppl forming marry character instead of both fyness and character; lieing to urself and calling attraction a carnal sin.

VanDerWaalforces:
Hmmmm! Everything here is vanity really. This man has made money and he is successful in his carreer, yet he is so troubled because everything his heart want is now power and fame. Uwa Ezuoke! I wish him all the best though.

he is troubled because all he sees around him is poverty and he wants to change it....

ablejesus26:
I like this man, but honestly speaking it's better to continue with Apga than all this foreign criminals. Pdthief and apcheat are nothing but failures.

apga that ordinary roads they haven't built for at least 12 years....are you cursed??

Vicas2000:
Dude...you are yet to marry and this woman has your balls in her hand to squeeze as she likes.

When you get married Ehn...you will hear 'wen' in that marriage.

Someone is broke. Does not contribute anything to a wedding but yet want a big wedding...want to make most decision.

Biko lete ask you. As a man...what is this woman bringing into your life?

What value is she bringing on the table and into your union?

Is it sex? If it is...you can get this easily without marriage?

Is it kids? You can have a child without the stress of adding an entitled girl who cares only about herself and how the world perceives how she is seen.

Ṣeé Ehn....men do not gain anything in getting married. It is only women who has a lot more to gain.

So why should you give away your power to her? She is the one that's meant to be in your good books to be married to you! Not the other way round.

You are acting like you have more to lose if the marriage did not go ahead even though really you don't! You are just being influenced by the 'onetitis syndrom' (Google it)

That's why she is using you to catch cruise.


You have to change that game as soon as possible. You need to put your foot down as the person who pays the piper and dictate the tune.

Renegotiate the terms of your union now before you get married. Make it your own way now or the high way.

You are the one paying for the wedding. Yet you are letting her make all the decision.


Dont ever let her back in your life.no matter how much she beg.

Men need to start placing more value in themselves and seeing themselves as prices that should be wọn which in reality is the case.

men get married due to judeo-christian threats of divine punishment, curses, he'll etc that's why men tolerate all these rubbish from women

inumidun2010:
Out of everything you just posted... Na ONETITIS SYNDROME I see... Make I go check am, wait 4 me....

I agree....and also wussyness I.e. giving in to her every demand....

don4real18:
Some months ago, I was supposed to get married to a lovely lady (Alias-Celia) whom I thought the universe made just for me. I find it unfortunate that this beautiful story was just never meant to be. This write-up is my story.
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Five years ago, while we both stared at the moon sitting in my compound and telling tales of our childhood, I studied her profile. She had a perfect-shaped jaw with rounded edges, full lips, and her ability to smile with so much ease. Her skin glowed against the moonlight, and her aura filled with so much innocence. It was no surprise when I finally popped the question asking her to be my girlfriend.

Four days later, I got a yes as her reply, and it became a beautiful relationship. Our companionship was a show of true love, or so I thought. She taught me to be a better kisser, and I made her be a better lover. We did almost everything together, and when challenges came, we solved them even though she was stubborn; A bit more than me.

Many moons down the line of love and sometimes distrust, she was to relocate to the FCT, the state where her family resides. I knew I was going to miss her, and it wasn't easy letting her go.

We did part ways at the airport, and ever since then, we were always on calls. I did notice later that I did most of the calling, and as time went on as it must, the regular calls became once in a while, and soon, it became longer.

I did play a little with other girls and tried getting into a relationship with others, but it just didn't work out. Perhaps, I wanted the kind of love that they could not give in return. It was no surprise when years later, my calls with Celia became regular and, I didn't mind doing most of the calling.

Soon, I traveled to Abuja, and she didn't seem enthusiastic about seeing me, even though my love clawed at my heart with a renewed burst of energy. This time, I decided that I wouldn't let go. I stayed in FCT for a while, I met her family, and I guess her feelings returned.

I returned to Lagos to continue working, and some months down the line, I was in Abuja again to see the one that I loved. We agreed that she would have to come to Lagos, and some months after I left Abuja, she arrived in the rowdy Lagos.

She met my family, and I popped the question, "will you marry me?" in a romantic atmosphere, and she was so happy that she was going to spend the rest of her life with me.

We made plans until the event of Corona took place, and it greatly affected my business. I became broke, but that didn't stop me from traveling to 3 different states to meet her family members and her pastor in FCT.

We did agree that we were going to have a small wedding, and the day of the introduction came, and I traveled with my family, spent a lot of money on hotel bills, etc. It did go well, and that was when it started.

She reneged on our agreement on the size of the wedding. She told me that she wanted to have her dream wedding although she had no money. I could not bring myself to spend so much on a wedding only to end up eating hand to mouth in my marriage. It became a back and forth argument. Her dad wanted it small, but her siblings wanted it big. My mum did try to advise her, but she felt my mum shouldn't have a say in her wedding being a supposed generation Z.

I did have to look for ways she would be happy without spending too much. Then the counseling issue came, and I was informed to come back to Abuja by her pastor. It was inconvenient, so I told her to recommend virtual counseling because I'm not ready to go and spend a lot staying there. She was mad at my response, saying that it was disrespectful, suggesting such to a supposed man of God, making it disrespectful to God.

I did try to let her know that we could use the money to do something else, but she was adamant. After some time, I did succumb to her demand, but she felt that it should not have led to an argument in the first place and decided to call the wedding off. I tried calming her down and even suggested that we postpone it, but she wouldn't budge with a reason so petty. It hurt at first. It made me lose focus for a while, but I guess I've pretty patched up now hence my decision to share with you all.

God bless us all.

You succumbing to her demands showed you are not a real man. succumb to demands.... but not to every single demand....thats the sign of a wussy.... this is why she called off the wedding....

also you seemed desperate. even on my wedding day il still hv a few other girls I talk to and most importantly God.

This is the mindset that keeps girls....

Obijulius:
Let’s define Haiti:

Imagine taking Nigeria and placing it in Europe!

Exactly, that’s Haiti for you, same African mentality different time zone.

African mentality is the best...

Kobojunkie:
That na the excuse your grandparents swear 50 years ago; your parents 25 years ago and now you too?
Una no dey tire to dey use the same nonsense excuse?

You need to understand UK has a very small land mass....with no resources....hence they have never left Africa alone because if they do, they will become poor fast....

They might also try to interfere in 2023 elections to put a president that will do their will instead of the will of the Nigerian ppl.

Hope you understand now.

Africa is currently being colonized by France and UK that's why there are so many wars across the continent becos the Africans are resisting the colonization.

TinubuGoQuench:
Most Africans hardly make use of their brains. That's why the continent is so dark and underdeveloped. While others in sane environments are working towards advancing in science and technology, people from backward societies still dwell on fairy tales and mad beliefs. That's why Nigerians are still debating cows while others are going to space and making astonishing discoveries.

no the continent is underdeveloped due to foreign interference in their local politics especially from France & UK.

Igbo, Hausa & Yoruba?? If only English can unite Nigeria then that means colonization was right.....

HonNL:
The sanctions target cases of serious corruption which have deprived developing countries of vital resources

Foreign Secretary Dominic Raab has today announced further sanctions on individuals under the UK’s Global Anti-Corruption sanctions regime.

This second set of Global Anti-Corruption sanctions targets corrupt individuals who have lined their own pockets through misappropriation, with their greed causing untold damage to the countries and communities they exploit.

The first set of UK sanctions under the global anti-corruption sanctions regime came in April, when 22 individuals allegedly involved in serious corruption cases in Russia, South Africa, South Sudan and Latin America were targeted.

The UK will impose asset freezes and travel bans against these individuals to ensure they will no longer be able to channel their money through UK banks or enter the country.

The new sanctions announced today target five individuals involved in serious corruption in Equatorial Guinea, Zimbabwe, Venezuela and Iraq. The individuals designated today are:



https://www.nairaland.com/5256497/swiss-auction-hypercars-seized-teodoro#79522232

His father has been President since 1979 through a bloody coup d'etat, and appointed Obiang as First Vice President in 2016.

https://ichef.bbci.co.uk/news/800/cpsprodpb/B646/production/_119526664_afp_gettyimages-106975372.jpg
Michael Jackson's "Bad" tour glove

UK is the most corrupt so they should go and sit down. evil 2 faced people.

Lifeisgoody:
One of the numerous effects of bad leadership.
RIP guys, your government failed you.

Generator in 2021, where some countries are trying to shed excess electricity.

SMH

it's not bad leadership. many nepa staff are quite lazy. it's more of a cultural problem. Nigerians don't want any form of stress but want maximum pay.

sniperr007:
All formal french Colonies.

France using evil means to protect it's colonies.

Kinikini:
Letter N comes after letter M.



quote author=tutudesz post=103963852]Assassination of president is now the new thing in town 2days ago na Mali and now Madagascar

Madagascar, Haiti and Mali presidents are good leaders.... but European nations allegedly want to forcefully remove them to install the bad leaders Africans normally complain about; these bad leaders will then do the bidding of the European countries that installed them...

tutudesz:
I believe Africa Union should man up and address this issue serioiously, from Mali, CRA, Congo

France has already appointed compromised leaders in many of those countries especially the francophone countries that use CFA francs...

skit66:
something is wrong with your sense of reasoning

Nothing is wrong with his sense of reasoning he said the truth...

tutudesz:
Since the last two years there have been 6
Haiti, Mali, Madagascar, Niger, Chad and Venezuela.

masterminded by France who believes Africa is their slave....