₦airaland Forum

Romanoff:
She is 16, she was raped.

No one should be made to have a child from a rape.

I'll recommend an abortion at this point but first things first, file statement at the police station so when ever the man comes back, he'd be arrested.

I think the hospital can grant a doctor's report on the pregnancy, age of the embryo and the abortion so it can also be put in file for the police.

She may have actually consented to it.... in many jurisdictions, 16 is the age of consent.... but I think it's 18 in Nigeria if I'm not mistaken.

chatinent:
If you don't find her sexually attractive, you must learn to make her sexually attractive since it is the only option you have.

Say no to extramarital affairs...and believe me, that bell ringing that she's not sexually attractive is just your head!

I learned so much from this post.... thanks for posting it.....

lexy2014:
are d governors responsible for d exchange rate, security and inflation? is it d governors that are responsible for buharis continuous refusal to patronise nigerian hospitals?

security within each state is a state governor responsibility.... corporate security that threaten the existence of the country lies with president e.g. warding off invasion by colonists.

iwaeda:
https://punchng.com/nigerians-must-vote-for-president-who-truly-cares-ighodalo/

Buhari cares - it is Governors that do not care. Do Nigerians even know the responsibilities of a president and how it differs from the responsibilities of a Governor?

Modrov:
It is not a matter of 'selling under duress'....even if France did not buy their raw materials...they would sell it to China.

Also, who has the forex to buy our goods? European countries...and increasingly China.

The problem is, a system where you rely on exporting raw materials, is at the end of the day, a nice way to wreck your domestic industry by over importing everything with the revenue.

(And Europeans don't mind us becoming manufacturers if Guinea manufactured TV and computers for the French market...it brings down the cost of those things...meaning consumer items become cheaper...which is one less worry for french pols.)

u don't understand. France installs fake presidents who will sell raw materials to France and to France only per colonial contract...

France needs to be kicked out of Africa

gimakon2:
Conde made it so. He at that time was the president of Guinea remember?

any African president that refuses to sell raw materials to European monsters and devil incarnates risks assssassination. Europe is evil.

Modrov:
While I like the ECO currency, and am aware of French machinations ...it won't have made anything better even then

What ECOWAS countries need to do is to stop selling their raw materials and using the revenue to import goods higher in value than the export materials, and start going towards being manufacturing nations.

But because it involves hard choices like removing subsides for example...

The Euro thrives because most eurozone nations are manuacturers, and exporters of manufactured goods.

they sell raw materials under duress from France and EU. refuse to sell raw materials to Europe and that African president risks assasssination.

Modrov:
I believe Guinea opted out of the CFA franc currency union on independence(Sekou Toure was a very very independent minded chap, who chose independence over 'self governance within France)...so they are in full control of their currency, unlike the CFA franc countries who have part of their reserves in France!

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ecowas wanted to adopt eco currency last year France blocked it.... France doesn't want to let former colonies go, they believe African countries belong to them

gimakon2:
As useless as the one ruling us.

$1 = 10,000 Guinea franc, thats how he ruined the country, Lets start there.
Guinea Bissau and Guinea Conakry are two useless countries in West africa. Thats why he got angry and decided to bring a change ... So they are happy with it as well.

it is France that is pulling the string and causing that exchange rate.... "Franc" is French currency.

AfroKnight:
Parts of the story have been altered cos affected parties might be nairalanders.

A while ago, I met a beautiful woman. She carry front, she carry back. Both in desirable proportions. I got her number and we got talking. We soon advanced to long calls, flirting and risqué jokes. Then she posted a boy on her WhatsApp status one day and the caption rocked me to my foundation. I asked and she confirmed that the little boy was her son. Okay.

“Where is his father?”

“He is not responsible. He is not involved in his son’s life. I take care of him alone.”

“Well, no problem”, I thought to myself. I reminded myself that it is not my dream in life to deal with the complications of raising a son who is not biologically mine, especially one whose father is still very much alive. So, I slowed down. Reduced calls until we drifted apart.

I told a female friend of mine about this and the way she looked at me ehn, I was wondering what I did wrong. She was so disappointed in me for refusing to date a single mother.

Well, I gave that friend of mine a piece of my mind. She had no right to project her concept of right or wrong or even chivalry on me! I am nobody’s saviour. I cannot pick up the responsibilities of another man who is alive and well. It is not only unfair but incredibly unjust to put a man on the spot by letting him find out you have a child after you guys have started flirting and even advanced in the talking stage of a budding relationship. I don dey feel you to the point of starting a serious relationship and I discover this? It is wrong.

And it is even more offensive that you would expect a man to just take it in stride.

Guys do not be shy to refuse if you don’t want.

Some guys are cool with it and that’s fine. If I’m not cool with it, don’t demonise me. It’s my choice.

Share your thoughts please.

alpha fukks beta bucks. she dated the attractive sexy alpha and now she wants you to be the beta provider.

SarkinYarki:
Why will the handlers allow the president to deplane with such a rough un ironed poor tailored trousers that looks like the current Nigerian economy

Nigerians....such negative people.... his top is nice...

How can we meet a large number of quality women in a short period of time - if this question can be answered, we would have achieved a lot. The truth is so many so called redpillers are bitter and would still jump at the opportunity to be with the fine babe of their dreams.....To solve this, as a redpiller, we still need to meet women - so where do we meet the high quality women that we do not want??

Kenogidi:
Dear brothers of the pill, you must endeavor to either be her plan A or forget about her, nothing like "I'll think about it" or "I didn't want you that time but now I'm interested". The shortcut to being a victim of paternity fraud is allowing women to "settle" for you (plan B, C, etc) instead of "desiring" you ab initio.
Spread the word!!

If there was a way to spread this for all men to hear, I would. Also it depends what she desires you for - does she desire you for just sex or for marriage....

Kenogidi:
Dear brothers of the pill, you must endeavor to either be her plan A or forget about her, nothing like "I'll think about it" or "I didn't want you that time but now I'm interested". The shortcut to being a victim of paternity fraud is allowing women to "settle" for you (plan B, C, etc) instead of "desiring" you ab initio.
Spread the word!!

Very wise words!

Collinsaik:
Optimistic and hardworking maduka wik emerge victorious at the end of the day.

We wil all be alive to witness that glorious day when u wil be sworn into office as gorvernor of Anambra state Nigeria. iseee..'

don't mind all the negative nay sayers.....

Moferere:
Maduka is spending good money on a lost project.

Know this & know peace!

the negativity of Nigerians is astonishing....

RedEnergy:
So far, highest salary I have ever received is N100k . What about you?

are u trying to identify potential victims of ur scams and frauds?

Gospelpreacher1:
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9950923/amp/California-teacher-told-pupils-pledge-allegiance-pride-flag-removed-classroom.html

everything foreign must be good and everything Nigerian must be bad...... inferiority complex set of pipo.

Angelfrost:
They love the black and African race heading backwards...

African progress is anathema to them.

Sadly, Africans can't seem to get their priorities right, and seek personal progress and development. We keep messing up our leadership.

It would almost seem the average Africans hate progress!!!

it is France, UK and EU that installs rogue governments in many African countries....a lot of these coups are either to remove West loyal governments installed by the West or for the West to remove legitimate governments voted into power by the people.

Fulaniherdmens:
Well let's see how their colonial masters or ecowas will tackle this in a nutshell. For me I see a long thingy warfare.


Yes I opined in your research but guinea has a long warfare as for North guinea bissau.

These Western African countries were shared for ethnicity bilateral relationship. Just as they failed to do in Nigeria.

We only need a Jew inside to take out the snake Head. This nation will fall in balance equation.

@ France trying to gain control, e fit be France sef were send the guy to plot the coup.

jamace:
If the president is up and doing who born the governor/LG chairman who will do otherwise? When the president is visionless and directionless, and failing to fulfil his promises, who will take such a president serious?. The failure of the president is the failure of the nation..

not true.... actually each governor is responsible for the development of their state...... development of states in Nigeria lies squarely with state governors....

jamace:
A weak president produces weak Governors/LG Chairmen.. The president is the prime mover of development in any country.

not true! governors are democratically elected by the people of each state. each state has a house of assembly.... you cannot blame it all on the President..... that's a sign of laziness and a sign of lack of critical thinking

jamace:
Nigeria needs a capable leader not a "good president". By the way, what is good in a president who does not fulfil promises?.

everything can't be blamed on president....what are Governors and LGA chair persons doing?

presidency:
JINXES BROKEN BY THE MUHAMMADU BUHARI ADMINISTRATION—PRESIDENCY

A giant-sized jinx was broken recently when the Nigerian National Petroleum Corporation (NNPC) announced a first Net Profit in the 44-year history of the organization. Under President Muhammadu Buhari, who doubles as Minister for Petroleum Resources, the oil conglomerate announced a first-ever profit of N287 billion. Such had never happened before.
But that was by no means the only major jinx broken in the lifetime of the Buhari administration. They abound. And here are just some of them. The list is by no means exhaustive:

Policies and legislation:

*Petroleum Industry Bill signed into law in 2021, after almost two decades in the works. It is aimed at reforming a Petroleum Act dating back to 1969, as well as other supplementary laws and regulations.

*Deep Offshore and Inland Basin (Production Sharing Contracts) Act, 2019, amended for the first time since 1993.

*More than 6 billion dollars of inherited Cash Call Arrears now being cleared by the Buhari Administration, since 2016. More than 3 billion dollars of the arrears (payments due to International Oil Companies) have since been paid.

*The Buhari Administration has overseen the first successful Marginal Fields Bid Round in almost 20 years.

*The Buhari Administration has launched the first National Social Investment Programme in the country’s history. Today it is the largest Social Investment Programme in Africa and one of the largest in the world.

*Restoration of the Federal Budget to a January-to-December cycle, after more than a decade.

*The Nigeria Center for Disease Control (NCDC) was established in 2011, and for its first seven years did not have an enabling Act of the National Assembly — Until 2018 when President Buhari assented to the NCDC Act.

*Nigeria Police Act, 2020: The first overhaul of the Police Act since it was originally enacted in 1943

*Nigeria Correctional Service Act, 2019 - overhauled the existing Prisons Act, almost 50 years after it was first enacted.

*Finance Acts 2019 and 2020 - the first time ever that Federal Budgets are being accompanied by dedicated and specific reform legislation, to support implementation.

*Suppression of Piracy and Other Maritime Offences Bill (SPOMO), 2019: The first of its kind in the entire Gulf of Guinea, dedicated to prosecuting maritime offences.

*Police Trust Fund Act, 2019: First-ever legislation dedicated to addressing the financing of the Police Force

*CAMA, 2020 - the first overhaul of the Company and Allied Matters Act (CAMA) in 30 years.

*Discrimination Against Persons With Disabilities (Prohibition) Act, 2018: Another unprecedented piece of legislation in Nigeria

*Treasury Single Account (TSA) started in 2012, expanded across the entire Government by President Buhari

Projects

*Itakpe-Warri Rail Line, started in 1987, abandoned for decades, and finally completed in 2020

*Completion of four standard gauge railway projects between 2016 and 2021: Abuja-Kaduna Rail Line, Abuja Metro Line, Itakpe-Warri Rail Line and Lagos-Ibadan Rail Line.

*President Buhari is the first President to start and complete a rail project in Nigeria’s history (Lagos-Ibadan Rail).

*The last NLNG Train project (Train 6) was completed in 2008. President Buhari has successfully flagged off Train 7 construction.

*Apapa-Oshodi-Oworonshoki Expressway, undergoing full reconstruction for the first time since it was constructed in the late 1970s.

*Bodo-Bonny Bridges and Road: Construction finally kicked off in 2017, after several decades of planning, and three false starts.

*The long-awaited Ogoni Clean-Up kicked off under the Buhari Administration.

*The Nigerian Navy has this year (2021) acquired its first new Landing Ship Tank (LST) in more than 40 years.

*The Nigerian Air Force has enjoyed the largest investment in fleet renewal in decades, under President Buhari, acquiring more than two-dozen new aircraft since 2016.

*Construction of the first full-scale private refinery and the first privately financed Deep Sea Port in Nigeria’s history both started under President Buhari’s watch.

*Only one Modular Refinery in the country pre-2016. Since 2018, there have been several either under construction or already completed.

*Maritime University, Delta State, licensed by the NUC and operationalized in 2018

*Completion, since 2016, of twelve (12) inherited Dam projects across the country: Kashimbila Multipurpose Dam, Taraba; Ogwashi-Uku Multipurpose Dam, Delta; Adada Dam, Enugu; Sulma Earth Dam, Katsina; Gimi Earth Dam, Kaduna; Amla-Otukpo Dam, Benue; Amauzari Earth Dam, Imo; Ibiono-Ibom Earth Dam, Akwa Ibom; Gadau/Lafia Zigau Dam, Bauchi; Alajue Small Earth Dam, Osun; Kampe Omi Dam, Kogi (Rehabilitation) and Kargo Dam, Kaduna (Rehabilitation)

*Completion of three (3) inherited Hydropower Projects, accounting for more than 100MW of electricity in total: Gurara Hydropower Project, 30MW, Kaduna State - completed and concessioned in 2020; Kashimbila Hydropower Project, 40MW, Taraba, Dadin-Kowa Hydropower Project, 40MW, Gombe.

*Completion, since 2016, of seven (7) inherited Irrigation projects and 30 Water Supply Projects inherited by the Administration, including the Central Ogbia Regional Water Supply Project in Bayelsa State, Northern Ishan Regional Water Supply Project and the Ojirami Dam Water Supply Scheme and Reticulation Network, both in Edo State; Sabke, Dutsi and Mashi Water Supply Project in Katsina State; Vom Water Supply Project and Mangu Regional Water Supply Scheme in Plateau State; Takum Water Supply Project in Taraba State; Gambaki/Chinade/Hardawa/Bulkachuwa Water Supply Project in Bauchi State; Inyishi Regional Water Supply Project in Imo State; Ilobu Water Supply Scheme and Osogbo Water Supply Scheme in Osun State; Idanre Water Supply Project in Ondo State; Ofeme Water Supply Project in Abia State; Uburu Water Supply Scheme in Ebonyi State; Gashua Water Supply Scheme in Yobe State; Kwami Gadam and Bojude Water Supply Project in Gombe State; the Saki Town Water Supply Project, Oyo State; and the Zobe and Kazaure Water Supply Projects in Katsina and Jigawa States respectively.

*NDDC HQ Complex, started in the mid-1990s, completed in 2021.

*EFCC HQ Complex, construction started in 2011, completed in 2018.

*Zik Mausoleum, started in 1996, completed and commissioned 2018.

Femi Adesina
Special Adviser to the President
(Media and Publicity)
September 5, 2021

Nigerians never appreciate what they have....always negative. Buhari is a good President....

Kooldon:
He is Mali to ensure Democracy is restored yet Guinea just started Military Coup.
They dont want this man to rest?

these coups happen to remove heads of states installed by UK, France or EU.

BKayy:
Black people. Chai
Who do una this thing?

u should ask the European colonizers.....

Adjovi:
When your mind is not prepared to handle wealth, when it comes you'll end up like her. No matter the money I know wan know how much it be. If it enter my hand, plans don dey like madt. I never get money the kind plans I dey make self dey scare me. Baba God abeg let my cup of wealth run over jare.

same applies to beauty...most women aren't prepared to deal with the level of interest that comes with it....and most beautiful women ultimately destroy themselves....

Lattop:
See came into limelight unprepared, the money is just too much for her brain

God I don do my best just Bless me with this money

this is also what happens to young attractive women who have men lined up to date them.....

between 16-26 a woman is approached by different men left right & center...most don't know what to do with all the interest and attention. most ultimately destroy themselves.....

Nackdemall:
Because the world belongs to Women

Women makes things happen
The world revolves around the women

well said.... even guys are focused on pleasing women!

eastOFwest:
Marriage itself is a sex killer.

There is absolutely NOTHING romantic or sexy about the process of living a married life with all its responsibilities, children, work/life balance, financial issues, personality clash, arguments, overfarmiliarity etc. NOTHING!

That is why sex is often the first victim of any marriage, but couples are not being properly prepared or warned about this. Women are the first to switch off sex because women are creatures of variety. They usually get easily bored with monotony and predictability. Even a jobless man who thinks about his wife 24/7 cannot constantly reinvent himself and how he approaches sex with his wife, including the romantic things leading up to it throughout the day.

So basically, although most women would not admit it, what they actually need is a different man from time to time. When they get bored, they move on until they begin to miss some of the older ones, including their husband.

Las Las, marriage na scam.

And before anyone says, "don't men need variety too?" A man can sleep with the same woman for years without getting bored, that is if she remains the same woman. But women change after marriage and start attaching their availability for sex to different things, including emotions. The same sex that she was giving the guy everywhere (living room, kitchen, bedroom, ontop washing machine, under cooking pot ), freely and on demand before marriage. A man can fvck if he is not happy or if he's sick (even if he's just had an operation) but women rarely do. Small argument and she's not in the mood for sex? After so many sex rejections for different reasons and the bad feelings that it brings. Yes, a woman will reject her husband sex and still feel bad about it because, apparently, its her husband's fault that she rejected him. After so many rejections, the man go begin respect himself and stay away from that issue. There's only so much rejection a man can take from his wife especially in a place like Nigeria where alternative women are readily and cheaply available. Also a man can have variety outside and still manage to give his wife sex at home if their sex life is still alive. Most women cannot emotionally do that.

I can go on and on.

Bottom life is, as far as I'm concerned, consistent hot sex life and marriage are incompatible.

Of course there rare cases where the woman has low sex drive, cu.m's quite easily and is totally satisfied with having sex once a month or so when she is ovulating and her libido is a bit up. But take it from me, no husband can satisfy a wife who has high sex drive (especially those ones that you can actually smell the musk a bit when they are wet). No one man can satisfy such and that is why out forefathers had all those Juju and taboos, so that fear of death or madness will keep such in check.

you make a very strong point and case....pls what advice do u have for us that believe "sex outside marriage is a sin" and that monogamous relationship is the only thing that is not a sin??

And if we don't comply with these that we would burn in the lake of fire forever.....

Why is a Nigerian Government official granting an interview to British state media?? why not grant same interview to fellow African state media. what business does British state media have with pidgin English?

valentineuwakwe:
Source: https://dailypost.ng/2021/08/30/i-have-document-fulani-want-to-takeover-nigeria-gov-ortom-insists/

What business does BBC have with pidgin?? They are just trying to maintain their colony....