₦airaland Forum

SegFault:
You're just a pained piece of shit, to all of womanhood, fool.

Face the facts and stop the personal attacks typical of low iq people

Elvictor:
neither will I engage in such with someone who lacks the functions of Nigeria L.G.A

Whether lga state or FG - the world sees you as a BLACK country.. .. and no black country is well run. This is the ammunition of the racists

quentin06:
they were given birth to by women .

Only because of the sexual activity of men.... you chase us, Rob your own to give us money, sleep with us, rape us - savage animals

silibaba:
ANIMAL KINGDOM

You nailed it. Brute beasts in the animal kingdom

WaleRock:
If the FG will allow State governments to exploit their natural resources and only remit a little fraction to Abuja then we can begin to blame the state governments for corruption and stagnation and poverty and underdevelopement.

For instance, Lagos State generates billions in taxes everyday and most of it goes to Abuja to redistribute to redundant states, which always rely on Abuja for everything.

What about the proceeds from oil? ...

There are many things that can be done at the LGA level that don't require much funding.... if every lga in Nigeria decides to build a well run mini hospital healthcare in Nigeria would have grown exponentially with 6-12 months.... we can all generate excuses or think more critically. Do you know that lga performance can even shame FG into performance?? There was a time Lagos State Government recently outperformed FG and FG stepped up.

I'm not criticising you you have made valid points and I respect your points.....

shadeyinka:
Nigeria is an import dependent country: is that the fault of the state and local governments

Dollar jumped from N360 to N465 within 4 months: is that the fault of the state and local governments

Most of the inter-state highways and roads are bad: is that the fault of the state and local governments

Since we do not yet have state owned police how come terrorists , kidnappers and bandits have overwhelmed the citizens: is that the fault of the state and local governments

Please don't just comment before a little analysis is done. Only a politician who benefits from the incredibly corrupt system will defend the undefendable!

What baffles me about Nigerians is folks that reason like you - a very negative people.

There are many things that can be done at the LGA level that don't require much funding.... if every lga in Nigeria decides to build a well run mini hospital healthcare in Nigeria would have grown exponentially with 6-12 months.... we can all generate excuses or think more critically. Do you know that lga performance can even shame FG into performance?? There was a time Lagos State Government recently outperformed FG and FG stepped up.

I'm not criticising you you have made valid points and I respect your points.

Elvictor:
do you even know your LGA monthly allocation?

It doesn't matter - they can use it well.... many countries do well with poor resources. Lack of money is not an excuse - we can at least start by getting Nigerians in the lga to obey simple rules like not littering - at least that doesn't cost much money.... I won't enter an argument.

VirginSearcher:
Trump.. the trouble maker.. u don eliminate Soleimani while Buhari is here flexing muscle.. we need your help oo!

There are some good things about President Buhari - let's not criticize the President indiscriminately - let's focus more on local government chairpersons and state governments......

Racoon:
https://www.channelstv.com/2020/10/01/nigerians-disappointed-because-they-are-looking-for-results-in-the-wrong-place-fashola/amp/?__twitter_impression=true

I've been saying this for a while but dem negros just love easy blame. It's local government chairpersons state governors and state house of assembly members you should be blaming pls leave Buhari alone

So no lga chairperson can use resource allocated to them to do something Good? Embarrassing

Yampotatocarrot:
You see this Bayelsa state's case, I believe the citizens of that state are sick somewhere or under a special kind of curse, because it just doesn't make sense.

All their past leaders and their family members should be used as k8racist to one of the gods in the southwest. For a state to be that small and that useless, it tells a lot about both the leaders there and the led

It's not just the state, it's blacks in general.... same way bayelsa is same way Nigeria is.... if not for ongoing Chinese intervention....

The poor attitude of the vast majority of Nigerians to work - when the jobs are given to oyinbos and Chinese they will start complaining....

Mutaultope:
ask his new wife oooooo ....... women can't be trusted oooooo .

Both the new wife and the old wife should be thoroughly questioned....

Might be an assassination organized by one of the wives for whatever reason.....

loneprof:
Sometimes some of these "suicides" are just well disguised professional murders...

Professional assassins will cover any up their tracks to discourage police investigation and the easiest way is to set up a fake suicide.

RIP to the man.

The wife may have well done it for insurance money.....

ibedun:
You missed the point, our society and system are not creating trustworthy, credible, dependable, reliable, honest people to lead us! Why?
We are all MESSED up and that is why we must change our social thinking. Unnecessary primitive behaviour among our people (I get money you no get, using money to humiliate people, using stolen unproven money as an advantage, chasing other people’s wife, bringing expensive luxury unaffordable items into the country to brag). We need to change the social construct and our useless materialism.

The church failed, other religions are following behind! We as a people are SICK in the head, very very very SICK! Dino Melaye and Saraki abd that idiot running Kogi state are poster boys for the serious ILLS in our rotten society!

200m people with so much fertile land going hungry abd suffering from hunger!!! Brainless!!!

No one liked your comment - that goes to prove the sickness you spoke about

Two Nigerian students fought and injured themselves in uk few years ago over whose father was richer and both of them ended up appearing before a judge in court.... I can pull up the link if you want the story....

ibedun:
You missed the point, our society and system are not creating trustworthy, credible, dependable, reliable, honest people to lead us! Why?
We are all MESSED up and that is why we must change our social thinking. Unnecessary primitive behaviour among our people (I get money you no get, using money to humiliate people, using stolen unproven money as an advantage, chasing other people’s wife, bringing expensive luxury unaffordable items into the country to brag). We need to change the social construct and our useless materialism.

The church failed, other religions are following behind! We as a people are SICK in the head, very very very SICK! Dino Melaye and Saraki abd that idiot running Kogi state are poster boys for the serious ILLS in our rotten society!

200m people with so much fertile land going hungry abd suffering from hunger!!! Brainless!!!

the materialism is reliant on the inventions and innovations of other races as well. they will drive lamboghini but they have no clue how to manufacture it.

crackhaus:
I think you have answered yourself.

If they're no longer on good terms, then it's a good reason to separate.

You seem not to understand the premise of this thread - pocahontas understands the thrust of the question - please lets wait for her to comment further. thanks

pocohantas:
Yes, I have also observed the growing trend of such divorce cases. My guess is, some of these women want kids, companionship, but not marriage. However, they can’t say it with their full chest in a country like Nigeria and they know the long run effect of having these kids from various men. So they go into marriages and leave after having kids. It isn’t a coincidence that they always have kids first. Better a divorcee than babymama.

Anyway, it shouldn’t be much of a problem that women are leaving marriages. After all, men claim to gain nothing from marriage and are also not interested in marrying Nigerian women anymore.

"Attraction is natures way of holding together our minds and bodies for long enough so that we mate with someone with good genes". Human beings are omnivorous primates of the order homo sapiens. Most things in humans consumate in sex as with the lower animals - could it be that marriage is actually unnatural and is only needed for procreation? Could it be biological?

bukatyne:
Sadly, not everyone marries for 'forever'.

Some do it to leave the spinster/bachelor group. Some to have 'legitimate kids.'

The kids and the partner 'deceived' of the other's intent are the victims.

I agree - u can imagine walking down the aisle while the other partner has other plans....

crackhaus:
Are you talking about separation here or divorce?

If you mean divorce, as in the one achieved in a court, then there is always a reason, and it has to be credible enough for any Nigerian court to grant it.
The concept of no-fault divorces are not commonplace within the Nigerian legal system... such is more perculiar in places like the UK.

On the other hand, if what you mean is just the usual separation, as in, a married couple who are now living apart... although there may be a good reason for it which you're not aware of, it makes more sense here that a man/woman can just easily separate from their spouse without a strong enough reason. (Note: separate, not divorce).

I mean both marriage and or separation - they no longer on good terms

Klass99:
Poco, how true is this observation? I ask because I know more married people than divorced ones.

I also know women remain in marriages they're unhappy with, either for the sake of their children or lack of finances to branch out on their own.

Then of course there are women in my own life who divorced but kept it a secret for a long time, so I was unaware of their status till they opened up.

But, upon hearing their stories the divorce wasn't on the basis of...... "Now I have kids so hubby can fck off" Issues like DV and unrepentant chronic cheating, led to it.

When some babes want to pull the stunt Pocahontas has described, they often blame the husband (so guys pls don't feel bad if u have reasonably done ur best b4 God and man).... it's a way to rationalize their action to not make themselves feel bad....

ibedun:
You missed the point, our society and system are not creating trustworthy, credible, dependable, reliable, honest people to lead us! Why?
We are all MESSED up and that is why we must change our social thinking. Unnecessary primitive behaviour among our people (I get money you no get, using money to humiliate people, using stolen unproven money as an advantage, chasing other people’s wife, bringing expensive luxury unaffordable items into the country to brag). We need to change the social construct and our useless materialism.

The church failed, other religions are following behind! We as a people are SICK in the head, very very very SICK! Dino Melaye and Saraki abd that idiot running Kogi state are poster boys for the serious ILLS in our rotten society!

200m people with so much fertile land going hungry abd suffering from hunger!!! Brainless!!!

You have hit the nail on the head. People can do ritual murder or kidnap or do Yahoo to be "big boys" - the "big boy culture" is primitive..... the culture in Nigeria centres on intimidation and oppression. A friend in traffic was once blocked for good 45mins or so becos the convoy of a government VIP was passing..... there was a story in Toronto where a Nigerian gave another Nigerian a $2 coin and it was regarded as an "insult" becos it's not a note though the coin is legal tender; in the person's mind coin in as insult while $5 note is a mark of respect and for big boys. It's a crazy thinking pattern.....

pocohantas:
Yes, I have also observed the growing trend of such divorce cases. My guess is, some of these women want kids, companionship, but not marriage. However, they can’t say it with their full chest in a country like Nigeria and they know the long run effect of having these kids from various men. So they go into marriages and leave after having kids. It isn’t a coincidence that they always have kids first. Better a divorcee than babymama.

Anyway, it shouldn’t be much of a problem that women are leaving marriages. After all, men claim to gain nothing from marriage and are also not interested in marrying Nigerian women anymore.

thanks for this insight pocahontas! And yes i agree Nigeria is still a strong partriarchy which isnt good for woman empowerment. This choice of going into marriage and leaving after having kids is actually somewhat tied to biology - I will expand this response a bit in a few hours so you can get my point of view - and I am not judgemental of anyone and the choices they make - it is just interesting how biology ties into both male and female behavior - check back soon!

planetx:
All this people talking of migrating to Luxembourg, they don't encourage immigration especially Africans migrating. Don't try to find solutions to your problem instead of running to people that will treat you with barely concealed disgust. Very racist country don't get deceived by the beautiful pictures.

The message behind the racism is for you to stop flocking to their land and go and make your own like Luxemburg

frozen70:
Stop making mockery of sensetive issues like this
No one goes to marriage to get divorced and no child was born with the intentions of being in a broken marriage

Go and get married and experience what it is

There is a statistical trend of a high percentage of divorcees even when the husband is not abusive or violent - in many instances the wives are extremely religious.... I'm trying to understand why a woman with children will wake up one day and say she is no longer doing.....

DAVE5:
So this is the best excuse you could come up with to back up why Nigeria is so bad

Wow, I’m amazed by you

They LOVE excuses and blame shifting.... they will soon say it's colonialism and say "they plundered our resources" - they didn't - they came for trade.....goods exchanged hands for compensation. Most of the so called resources Nigeria has, Nigerians won't have known they have zinc petroleum etc if the white man didn't come and tell the Nigerians they have these resources - after oyinbo don come discover am dem don begin shout "our resources our resources they stole our resources "

Rossinky:
Ignorant illiterates talking rubbish.

Luxembourg has less than 1 million inhabitants, but is the 2nd biggest tax haven on earth after Switzerland.

They are essentially a store for the world's stolen wealth, backed by the EU.

One example: ''in March 2010, the Sunday Telegraph (UK) reported that most of Kim Jong-Il's $4 billion in secret accounts is in Luxembourg banks.''

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Luxembourg

This is just ONE MAN.

But there are hundreds of billionaires, and thousands of millionaires from around the world who bank their loot in Luxembourg.

A country of 600,000 people.

Less than the population of Surulere.

That is why that country has the 2nd highest GDP per capita on earth, of approximately 80,000 dollars per annum.

That is why they can afford free transportation which even the USA, Germany, UK, and France cannot afford.

NIGERIANS, READ AND RESEARCH ISSUES BEFORE TYPING IGNORANT, SELF HATING GARBAGE, FOR ONCE IN YOUR LIVES.

TUFIA KWA. HUMANS BEHAVING LIKE COWS.

Transportation in uk is very affordable and sometimes you get free transport. Please could you tell me why there is no single developed black majority nation on earth?? Note that the development happening in Nigeria would not be possible without China and Chinese Labour.

Wives oya comment. I thought una say till death do us part??

Fhemmmy:
I totally agree because how can all black nations be backward and we just depend on other nations for survival, ain't we ashamed of ourselves?

Even the development happening in Africa is not being done by Africans themselves it's being done by China and Chinese labor; worst part is Nigerians due to ego won't admit something is wrong. The first step to getting it right is admitting something is wrong.

Fhemmmy:
No one has ever been closer to the truth than you are and i think i am close to saying all black leaders of black nations are cursed

Africa is cursed. How can Nigeria be having bad leaders for 60 consecutive years?? It's not the leaders that are cursed - it's the entire continent as evidenced by 60 consecutive years of "bad leadership"

DAVE5:
Now you want to use population and land mass as yardstick for their developed country abi


Please remind Nairaland members the population of China and that of USA as well

African leaders are cursed, Nigeria is the capital of hell fire

Africa is cursed. How can Nigeria be having bad leaders for 60 consecutive years?? It's not the leaders that are cursed - it's the entire continent as evidenced by 60 consecutive years of "bad leadership"