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PoliticsRe: See Pictures Of Enugu Miliken Hill Road At Night As Gov Ugwuanyi Lights It Up by bigocean(m): 3:56pm On Jul 13, 2018
mybestlove:
I spotted an error on the road already without taking a second look. I think Nigerians need serious education on road safety.

Those white lines you see on the road aren't for fancy or to demarcate the lanes, it means a lot to the driver. Those lines tell where you can and where you can't overtake.

The straight white lines mean you can't overtake here while the broken white lines means you can overtake here. Applying the broken white lines on a curve is erroneous because you are telling drivers to overtake in a curve.
i never knew this before now, thanks for the enlightenment
RomanceRe: Hold Your Husband's Tight, Small Girls With Big God Are Everywhere Now - Woman by bigocean(m): 3:39pm On Jul 13, 2018
MsFaith:
But some ladies use this caption 'small girl with a bid God' and they are not olosho na. People sef undecided
some ladies like you. shey?
RomanceRe: One Mindset That You Need To Have That Will Make A Girl To Chase You. by bigocean(m): 11:30pm On Jul 12, 2018
Please specify you are strictly advising guys who are not ready to settle down.
Donshaga:
Hey guys,

In my last post I talked about how to smoothly approach women in the daytime and get her number.

In today's post, you'll learn a secret that will definitely improve the results with girls and get them to like you.

So make sure you read this post till the end and take action.

This #1 mindset will turn you from "average guy" to an attractive guy women chase, as long as you apply what you'll learn today.

Alright let's roll..

The powerful mindset that attractive guy have is what I call
[/b]THE OVER-ABOUNANCE MENTALITY.

Now most guys, who are not yet good with women usually make this mistake,which is.. [i][/i]thinking of a woman as a scarce commodity & therefore put too much importance on her.

If you think girls are scarce , you're going to treat whoever particular woman you're dealing with as if she's your only chance.

You'll be more likely to put a needy behavior, trying everything to please her & so you don't loose her. This kind of behavior is unattractive to the woman you're dealing with.

To overcome this sabotage thought-pattern, adopt the mindset of [b]
"There are plenty of women, so this time around, I'm just practising in order to learn the skill. I'm not going to worry the outcome as the worst could happen is that I'll learn from it.

The thing to remember whenever dealing with girls who is behaving badly is that she's easily replaceable.
Having the mindset that women are plentiful will help you get women easily.

[b][/b]And come to think of it, why worry about messing up an approach?

There are plenty of women on the streets,in bars, in clubs,at the mall, campus, [i][/i]everyday!

If you rely merely on chance encounter , example; meeting women randomly through mutual friends, you're making women seem more scarce than they really are& giving them more value than they deserve.

By making an effort to go out & approach women you're increasing the size of the pool of women from which to have to try ,fail & succeed. Thus, you reduce the importance of any one woman & increase your chances of success with each outcome because you're reducing the amount of power they wield over you.

Think of it as this way , a hot woman will blow most men because they get approached so often, they know they can replace the suitor with the next guy that comes along.

If you apply that her frame & start treating her as an over-abundant commodity, with whom you can afford to fail & replace , she'll realise you're not the type of guy who can't be mistreated or given rude behavior.
[/b]You and other guys like you won't be there if she behaves that way.

In romance movies, the girls wants to be treated like as if she's the only girl in the planet.

The truth is that, when you start treating her like she's the only one. It gives her an impression you're not very desirable to other girls either in general, which makes her feel less interested in you

I'f you're aware of the bountiful sea from which you have to fish, your words, body language and action will show that you could be with any number girls. Since they must think you're attractive ,[i][/i]she'll think you're attractive too.

From the change of mindset from scarcity of women to plenty of women, the negative signal from your subconscious will be reversed to more attractive ones.

So anytime you think she's the only one who you have a chance with, repeat this to yourself ten times over,

[b]
"There are THREE BILLION MORE women on this planet.

Not letting her become a priority or too important in your
life also remains crucial.

If you take anything away from this post, let it be this:

[b][/b]The most important factor in whether or not you’ll always get a girl to like you, is making sure that women are NEVER your top priority.

If a girl knows that she can easily have you whenever she wants you .. you're done. It's over. Sure she may like you, may care about you but never have that passionate "desire" for you.

So, as a guy , it’s your job to find out what’s the most important to you. It is a hobby? Is it a business? Is it travel? Is it your job? Whatever it is… make sure it’s not women. Because girls are really like men who have drive, purpose and know what they want in life.

Women want a guy who they have to win over , it's really every girls fantasy to win over & seduce a guy who's out of their league.

Women don't want guys that throw themselves at them to easily & always over shower them with compliments as if she's an idol. Or take her too over seriously.

Lots of guys who successfully connect with a girl they like , later mess up... because they made her too important. Instead of taking "NEXT" attitude which is all kinds of attraction they act TOO NEEDY , generally doing this will make women lose interest in you.

It's much better to have a MINDSET of
[b][/b]I enjoy this woman's company as long as it's a good thing. The moment she becomes a stain or paint , I'm out of here. I don't need problems or drama in my life & my happiness is more important than any woman"

The first response to this is usually "But this woman is special she's not like other women. She's the one. blah blah blah.

Well the "ONE" isn't looking for a womanish-unmanly needy guy. Don't turn into a wuss just because you decide you really like a girl. Don't start calling her 47 times a day say "Ohh, baby I really miss you". Don't be that guy.

If you like what you've learnt today , then this is just the piece of the cake, because on 16th of July I'll be launching my new book called "Rapid Seduction Secrets" this will help you for total transformation & get results fast. Don't miss out on this.

Till next time,
Your man
Chris Uzor a.k.a Donshaga
TravelRe: Where Are Nigerians In Australia . by bigocean(m): 11:19pm On Jul 12, 2018
Good evening house, please just a little question I have. Anyone with answers should kindly help.

Question: I heard an ENGLISH PROFICIENCY TEST is a requirement in schools for international students aspiring to come to Australia but I googled a few schools that could admit you without the ENGLISH TEST, so far you have been tutored in English in your former school.
Now my question is, if eventually they offer you admission, will there still be a point you would need the TEST?
BusinessRe: UBA Wins Best Digital Bank In Africa, Thanks To Leo. by bigocean(m): 10:55pm On Jul 12, 2018
TechCapon:
Have you ever banked with Leo? Tell us your experience.
is he the guy that keeps debiting my account in the guise of silly charges? Just tell him I have informed my village people and they are on his case.
EventsRe: Ejiroghene Porch Armygirl Twerking To Celebrate Her Birthday (Photos, Video) by bigocean(m): 2:25pm On Jul 12, 2018
Slay soldier. undecided

BTW why do NL guys fantasize on pu**sy they can't dick even in their wildest dreams. undecided undecided undecided
RomanceRe: How Manage Do Guys Stick To One Football Club That Long But Can't To A Lady? by bigocean(m): 10:33pm On Jul 11, 2018
LOYALTY- you see, football clubs are loyal to us. They work very hard not to disappoint us and if mistakenly they disappoint us, they feel very bad and remorseful.
Now compare them to ladies who dont know LOYALTY. At the slightest chance, they would disappoint you and your ancestors without any show of remorse.

With football, no lies no drama.
CrimeRe: Dolapo Badmus: Dating Yahoo Boys Is The Fastest Way To Lose Your Life by bigocean(m): 1:43pm On Jul 11, 2018
Thiannah:
Please whats the fastest way to gain my life embarassed
come to Jesus Christ
EducationRe: How A Friend Used Her Best Friend To Teach Her Pupils In Class (Photos) by bigocean(m): 11:58am On Jul 11, 2018
Is that rochas okorocha sitting in that last picture? grin
HealthRe: 7 Wrong Things Nigerians Say About Acnes And Pimples by bigocean(m): 11:52am On Jul 11, 2018
zinnyzee:
It's d devil that causes acne!!!

How else can you explain sleeping in d night with a fresh face and waking up only to discover that ur face yaff spoil overnighthuh
girl you funny shaa grin grin
HealthRe: Lady Diagnosed Of Colon Cancer At 23, Had To Freeze Her Eggs by bigocean(m): 10:00am On Jul 11, 2018
hahn:
Exactly. That is the whole idea behind illusions. It becomes useless after it is understood
Jehovah is not an illusion. He is real. Amama amasighi amasi(He whose ways cannot be known completely)
HealthRe: Lady Diagnosed Of Colon Cancer At 23, Had To Freeze Her Eggs by bigocean(m): 9:17am On Jul 11, 2018
hahn:
God supposedly knows and created everything today, tomorrow and yesterday, right?

In that case god knew that when he was creating Satan that he will one day tempt job and blah blah blah. Also since everything is it's will, it is it's will for Satan to do those things because it is in it's power to stop it. Since it is it's will it was also caused by it.

Satan is simply the tool used by god to commit evil
the day we understand God is the day he stops being God.
CelebritiesRe: Peks Ikeji: "I Am Bored Being A Millionaire, I Want To Be A Billionaire" by bigocean(m): 9:01am On Jul 11, 2018
What exactly does peks ikeji do for a living. I know one of his sisters is a blogger and the other one is into fashion. I am just curious.
HealthRe: Lady Diagnosed Of Colon Cancer At 23, Had To Freeze Her Eggs by bigocean(m): 8:54am On Jul 11, 2018
hahn:
You actually make sense.

That then implies god did not cause the earth or life to exist. Thanks smiley
hahn, when God bragged about how faithful his servant was, the devil took permission to afflict job with sickness and also take away his wealth to prove if job would still remain faithful. God permitted him but gave him a strict warning not to touch Job's life.

NOTE: God was aware what job was going to face in the hands of the devil. It was HIS WILL for job to go through it for the purpose of proving a point BUT he didn't put the sickness on job neither did he take away jobs wealth. It was Satan that did those(the cause)
RomanceRe: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by bigocean(m): 8:05am On Jul 11, 2018
@op, most of the comments before mine have said it all.

Any relationship where one party has to always beg is not healthy. Marriage is a life long affair, now for how long will you continue to tolerate and beg.
Trust me, you Will get tired someday and am sure you don't want to have a failed marriage.
RomanceRe: C by bigocean(m): 7:44am On Jul 11, 2018
grin grin God is merciful

Be careful bro.
HealthRe: 44-Year-Old Woman Dies With Her Twins After Refusing To Give Birth Through CS by bigocean(m): 10:56pm On Jul 10, 2018
Shampoo77:
If you find out she is working on the instructions of one pastors that goes for medical check up twice a month but refuses to allow members to do same. We na she use her life take do gamble some even refuses blood transfusion all in the name of religion. Well RIP.
the emboldened got me laughing..
HealthRe: 44-Year-Old Woman Dies With Her Twins After Refusing To Give Birth Through CS by bigocean(m): 10:33pm On Jul 10, 2018
Vickygarl:
Doesn't change the fact that she was stupid.
"ignorant" you mean.
RomanceRe: Igbo Man Holds His Traditional Wedding With Oyinbo Lover In Australia. Photos by bigocean(m): 10:30pm On Jul 10, 2018
dainformant:
A Nigerian man decided to the the unusual by holding his traditional wedding beyond the shores of the country. Most Nigerians hold their court or church wedding abroad and come back home to do the traditional ceremony but for Leonard Dukes, he wanted to be different and also enjoy the moment with his lady not minding the foreign location of the event which is meant to take place in his hometown in Nigeria.

Leonard, an Igbo who lives in Melbourne, Victoria, Australia - got married to his White lover recently as her family and friends graced the colourful event.

The bride who rocked Ankara along with her Asoebi (mainly Whites), danced joyfully at the glamorous event.

Congratulations to the new couple.

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/07/igbo-man-holds-traditional-wedding-with-white-lover-in-australia-photos-videos.html

Watch Lovely Videos HERE.
@the emboldened, traditional marriages are done in the lady's compound in the Igbo tribe.
PoliticsRe: Orji Kalu Reacts After Seeing This At APC Campaign Rally In Ekiti State(photos) by bigocean(m): 10:06pm On Jul 10, 2018
Similar crowd turned out in awka the anambra state capital during their gubernatorial election campaign late last year. When Buhari and other apc chieftain came to campaign for Tony Nwoye(the apc candidate) but they still lost.

NOTE: what you don't know is that some of us just attend these rallies to have a glimpse of the faces of criminals we've been seeing only on TV. Not like we really want to vote them or that we even like them.
CelebritiesRe: Cee-C Celebrates Leo Dasilva's 26th Birthday by bigocean(m): 9:11pm On Jul 10, 2018
Khd95:
edakun who know how much i can add to #45k to buy any benz product huh huh
if you remove #12k from your #45k you can buy a Benz already.
CrimeRe: The Room Where Khadijat Oluboyo Was Buried By Adeyemi Alao QS Her Boyfriend by bigocean(m): 8:47pm On Jul 10, 2018
obafemee80:
angry

If he had succeeded, he would have flaunted his Range Rover Autobiography, Mercedes Maybach and so on...as well as Thanking JESUS or ALLAH for blessing his hustles


Lazy Youth angry
my thoughts exactly. The way they be thanking JESUS, you go dey wonder if you no follow for "CHILD OF GOD"
HealthRe: 44-Year-Old Woman Dies With Her Twins After Refusing To Give Birth Through CS by bigocean(m): 8:27pm On Jul 10, 2018
JORDAN202:
STUPID WOMAN ....
no naa, this could have been anybody. Whatever conviction she had for refusing the CS, was strong on her.
HealthRe: 44-Year-Old Woman Dies With Her Twins After Refusing To Give Birth Through CS by bigocean(m): 8:24pm On Jul 10, 2018
Oh lord! Another bundle of joy converted to sorrow. R. I. P
CelebritiesRe: Bovi Shares Lovely Photo With His Wife, But The Caption Has Fans Laughing by bigocean(m): 8:19pm On Jul 10, 2018
Bovi grin grin grin
CrimeRe: NLC Beats MTN Staff And Destroy Properties (Video) by bigocean(m): 7:39pm On Jul 10, 2018
I wish it were our "grand masters of data" oshii. small breeze will blow, they will just run and leave you, if Thunder come roar they go on sabbatical leave.
SportsRe: Manuel Akanji Rocks Super Eagles Jersey Amid Dual Nationality Protests. Photos by bigocean(m): 7:22pm On Jul 10, 2018
princechurchill:
Acknowledging your roots but not representing them that's hypocrisy
nawao, how many players dey go the world cup? No be 23? Did Nigeria not go with complete 23 players? Must every Nigerian footballer play in the national team? Wetin bring hypocrisy come this matter again? huh huh
RomanceRe: Pls Nairalanders How Can I Turn Down A Married Woman Sex Proposal by bigocean(m): 6:59pm On Jul 10, 2018
First, avoid her like a plague. Then you let someone or two persons older than you know the situation just incase the woman feels her pride has been stepped on and decides to do some desperate things we know ladies for.
LiteratureRe: Chimamanda Adichie: 'I Am Sorry For Men, They Can't Have Motherhood' by bigocean(m): 6:07pm On Jul 10, 2018
What is even wrong with this one? Like my father would always say "ACADEMIC INTELLIGENCE IS DIFFERENT FROM COMMON SENSE"

BTW who told her the fatherhood we experience is not enough for us. We all must not be like her who is not pleased with the woman she is.
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CelebritiesRe: Juliet Mgborukwe Hitting Chima Ojukwu, Her Husband (Video) by bigocean(m): 5:43pm On Jul 10, 2018
sparog:
What should we do about it now

It is for better for worse na
please it is not for better for worse oo. Even God told us in the Bible that "husbands do not divorce your wives EXCEPT for immorality "

So, when a man or woman chooses not to be loyal to their spouses, divorce their ass. Nothing like better for worse abeg.
PoliticsRe: 'Bring Back Fayose' - Ngige Mistakenly Tells Ekiti People At APC Rally (VIDEO) by bigocean(m): 5:20pm On Jul 10, 2018
It was the gods speaking through him.
ProgrammingRe: Is Programming A Passion Or for the Money In Nigeria? by bigocean(m): 1:39pm On Aug 07, 2013
The truth is programming is all about passion...or let me rephrase it for u to be a successful programmer u must have the passion to program but in the same way also you should be able to think of how to make money out of it....ask people like BILL GATE AND STEVE JOB(late) they will tell u more or beta still read about them.

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