₦airaland Forum

Faithscharms2:
Everyone knows the first guy is the obvious father,oga Ajayi just wants to get paid..compensate him for all the things he did end of story..But an 18year old dating for the past 5 years..so she started chopping d*ck since 13years hmm na wa for this indomie generation sha..

But according to the first guy story, they parted ways 10 months ago.
Which means they last had sex 10 months ago
Is 10 months till now or 10 months till the girl delivered.
If it's 10 months till the girl delivered, then it's likely the child belong to Ajayi.
Don't forget Ajayi has also being dating her for 2 years.

Buh DNA is always the best solution

heendrix:
churches now adays wount stop amazing me as well dissapointing me so a lady stole in the church and the best thing to do is disgrace her and hand her over to the police? what the church erected for? to gain money or win souls to christ? only a few sermon of christ love to her and message of salvation and prayers would have brought her to christ n guess what heaven would be happy but that pastor or deacon never thought so nd the church would claim to worship God every Sunday. I shake my head

Wise up guys and stop being an hypocrite.
Who is the church? No be Nigerians full there? People who take accident selfies..
It's the people that make up the church, don't deceive yourself.
If they were to follow that dumb ideas of yours, you are giving everybody free pass to go Rob fellow Nigerians in church and go Scot free. How about armed robbers as well.
She should have walked to the pastorate and asked for help not go stealing.
She should go try that in a mosque if they won't kill her immediately, or have u forgotten sharia?
Do not be an hypocrite, people like you go to church snapping around. Probably you would have done same.

CCs

Lawrenty50
Agbonkamen
YelloweWest

You guys should always reason well Abeg.

JaffyJoe:
It is a church b where forgiveness is preached all the time. Disgracing her was unnecessary by snapping photos, making clips. They should have handed her over to the cops if forgiveness was too much of a luxury for them.

It was not the church that took her picture. No be people like me and you dey go church? Nigerians that would rather take picture of accident victims than saving them.if you we're at the church , u would have taken pictures also. That is how useless our youths have become.
By the way what about sharia?
Y'all are quick to blam church forgotten it's just a building. No be una people ;Nigerians dey go there

beamtopola:
why is he not seated close to world leader, why is he sitting with black people.

Should he have Sat down with green people because he himself is blue in colour?

skressed1:
Yeah that does make sense. I forgot men are so visual. I agree.

The situation is still there, but I don't care because we have all ruled her out of my unborn child's life because of her behavior. She was behaving like that because she thinks I was taking her son away from her because he was really into our relationship then all of a sudden he changed and his father assumes it's his mother's influence. My ex boyfriend's father and his wife have accepted me and the child and have been meeting with my family to ensure the child and I have support. Thank you for asking.

Good to hear. It is well with you.

christejames:
I love Dankwanbo for his giant strides and achievements here in Gombe, turning a lonely land in the savanna into a jewel...
But arresting someone just for vilification? is no from me. I know he is not aware of this though!

#OurnextPresident

Even if the governor is aware, that's the right thing to do. You can't insult a sitting governor who signs your paycheck and his mother and go free. Its like insulting the MD of your company.
We abuse things a lot in this country.
In US, such citizen would take a stroll to state security services to cool off.

skressed1:
Lol. You came prepared with stats. I rest my case but can I ask why men like it so much?

Men's mind is controlled by what they see. Unlike women that are controlled by what they feel.
Both men and women do like it but I must say men can't do without it for long because like I said earlier, an endowed woman can pass and the man will want to have sex with her because he's being controlled by what he see. That's why a man can sleep with anything provided there's a hole .



By the way how far about the issue with your Nigerian mother in law

oshemus:
As in nobody can question his flamboyant lifestyle.

Unlike Hush......
I no mention any name

I'll get there soon.

Rajosh:
forget about the girl and relationships for now. I broke up with my ex two years ago. I'm still single as I don't wanna go through that lane at least not for now. no girlfriend no worries. you may be looking at your age but trust me, you'll be better off single than In a bad relationship. Love will come when it'll come.

Trust me, this is for me. More wisdom.

Wishaky:
Yeah Bro, mine was also a virgin answer.
Meet me in the other room.

Time and address.

skressed1:
So you think sex even during pregnancy is good?

Yes. Medically it is.
It even helps make child birth easier
Below are some benefits;
Improves orgasms: Blood flow intensifies your sexual desire. In fact, some women achieve a real orgasm for the first time ever during pregnancy!

Burns calories: Sex is the most fun way to stay fit — you’ll burn 50 calories or more in 30 minutes of love-making.

Lowers blood pressure: Sex has been found to lower blood pressure…a good thing for both of you, since high blood pressure is linked to the pregnancy complication preeclampsia.

Reduces pain: Orgasm releases oxytocin (or the “love hormone”), which one study found to increase pain tolerance by 74%.

Improves sleep:
For moms: Sex is relaxing — so it helps you sleep better.
For babies: The rocking motion of a sex session often lulls baby to sleep.

Boosts immunity: A study found that sex boosts levels of IgA, an antibody that helps avoid colds and other infections.

Boosts happiness: Orgasm releases endorphins — which make both you and baby happier and more relaxed.

Increases intimacy: Thank oxytocin again — it’s been linked to romantic attachment.

Speeds up postpartum recovery: Orgasms during pregnancy prepare the pelvic floor for childbirth, which in turn speeds postpartum recovery. Do Kegels during pregnancy sex to pump up those muscles — and increase pleasure for you both!


Also note that sex during pregnancy does not affect the baby
The thick mucus plug that seals your cervix helps to guard your baby against infection. The amniotic sac and the strong muscles of your uterus (womb) also keep your baby safe.

However if any of the couple should find it uncomfortable with sex during pregnancy, it should be put on hold and a medical personnel be consulted. He or she will be in a position to help them

Queenlovely:
I must confess I dont know the section to post this. But I have a serious question I must ask.
Is it necessary to have a house in the village when you spend most of your life outside the village? My uncles hardly visit their mansions in the village. Other people are just occupying the property. They only come back once in a blue moon. They can just breeze in and breeze out tomorrow.
My question now is, is it not better to have that mansion in the city, than rent an apartment in the city. You are a tenant in the city in one poor make-shift house, but own a duplex in the village that is empty. Is it even economically wise? It baffles logic and common sense. Dont give me that shity excuse about Home town and burial.

I also don't like that idea, I'll rather build my mansion Where I live. Mansion is for me to live in not for me to be buried in.

Wishaky:
Same place naa ni

Okay. But it was just an innocent question.

Wishaky:
Lagos

Okay.
Which side if I may ask?

eezeribe:
I don't know what her current CGPA is... But with 10 carryovers,I doubt if it's up to 2.0...
I would suggest the following options for her :

1)If she is like the average Nigerian girl,let her manage and write the carryovers,if she can at least pass them,graduate with a 'University attempted degree' and get married because that is the highest achievement of the average Nigerian girl.

2)If she has career dreams and passions,and her sponsors are still willing to help her,she should quietly write JAMB UTME,apply for her dream course Banking and finance and start all over again..

3)If she and her sponsors cannot stand to bear an extra year,she should quietly drop out of the University and get married or venture into business,while telling the whole world that she is a graduate (so many successful businessmen and politicians in Nigeria,are living like this)

3)If she is too frustrated,she can quietly jump into the Lagos lagoon because I wonder what she was doing to accumulate 10 carryovers....

lalasticlala,Mynd44

I was actually commending you until I read the 4th point and am like; what kind of fish brain is this person carrying about Lord.
The Lord will help you.

Wishaky:
Medical Laboratory Science, he wouldn't struggle to get job.

Hi, are u based in Lagos or Ekiti?

musicwriter:
Google is the only company I know of that's genuinely interested in helping development in this world, not just in third world countries.

YouTube is a FREE school!. One wonders why the world bank, the United nations, and all the other so called agents of development won't partner with them to make watching YouTube free.

YouTube is free, you only have to pay for data which is normal.

Olatoke007:
This is Senator Iyiola Ominsore not Otunba Ademola Adeleke... Aside dis, is now ex-senator... Iro yin po.

And also a governorship candidate for the past two elections and a potential one in the next gubernatorial election in Osun State. You are the one lying to yourself.

Gourdoinc:
I remember living with that pig who for reasons I can't fathom, thought taking regular baths will make him melt. maybe someone somewhere told him he was made of salt. the room would stink like a pigsty anytime nepa takes light. what irked me most was his love for taking siestas on my bed with his BO flavoured sweat. I thought life had gotten better when he graduated only for the real bush pig to be my new roommate.

in comes isoko man(donk know how and why he got that name despite not being from there). he uses plates and pots and plans to wash them at the end of the semester, people claim the boxers he wore and entered my room for the first time was what he wore since his matriculation, and I can firmly say he wore it on his convocation. apparently the grime and slime had made it stick to his buttocks that changing it was practically impossible. he knew this fact and yet he was a partial nudist who on little provocation would strip down to that boxers. imagine when a brown coloured boxers has faded to gray cloured brown with sufficient signs of accumulated skid marks.

this boy loved to eat beans once it has rottened abit, b3cause he deliberately leaves it without warming for days before he resumes the cooking. he will store the drained beans water in his corner and even corpses in a cemetery could be awoken by such a stench which usually emanates after weeks. no matter what you say, how much you yell, he will tell you that maximum you can leave the room. nobody eelver kicks him out, many run for dear life. this is a man who never had a gf all while I knew him and thus had no motivation to change his behavior. he was a swine all through university.

if you watch him eat, you will throw up all you have eaten since Christmas and new year. a man who prepared stale okro soup and when the animal and marine life finished in the soup, added boiled eggs to the okro soup for his dinner.

nobody ever tried eating his food by error or my robbery. those who didn't heed this recent warning went home with severe cases of stomach virus. it's very possible he added his stool to help his beans ferment, because for the life of me, beans shouldn't smell that bad, even if it was prepared in hell fire

You really tried. If you can endure all these, my brother you will cope well in hell fire.

ibkayee:
Hmm not hygiene wise but a temporary roommate had sex in the same room I was in thinking I was sleeping

You mean a guy came to have sex with your roomie with you inside. Sorry to say that guy is a jerk. Either you sleeping or not, it's not proper except you aren't around, a quickie can easily go.

jezuzboi:
This is my primary issue with some Naija girls. So "PUNNA" (whatever that means) is now equivalent to MARRIAGE? Couldn't you have reversed the question and present it as WHAT ABOUT A MAN WHO JUST WANTS MARRIAGE AND NOT THE GIRL? Why does it have to be "PUNNA?"

Mind you, PUNNA is just a 2-minute affair (in worst case scenario). And even in the best case scenario, it can't take 24 Hours. But MARRIAGE? Whether best or worst case scenario, MARRIAGE IS FOR LIFE!!! And by the way, WHY WOULD A GIRL WANT TO MARRY A GUY SHE DOESN'T REALLY WANT? Gosh!!!

You only want the "MRS" title so you can measure up with your married friends and form CLASS for the unmarried ones? What then happens after the MARRIAGE? So puzzling!!! I wish you would really take thought to the main topic and help me out with some tips here. I want to believe you have that info.

Nice response.

Danielmoore:
Don't women enjoy sex

They even enjoy it more. Man Na just when the thing dey commot.

Arthurwinner:
Well I'm not that super rich but I'm buoyant enough as God may have it...
To be very precise ....
I started dating this lady not too far from now and it have been moving nicely buh, lately i noticed some change in her attitude since she became very sure that I really love her...

For the past month we discussed about marriage and I told her that I'm going to marry her and truly I want to cos it feels like I CAN'T stay without her.....

But the problem is that since then whenever she's around I don't feel like coming back to my house after work cos all she does is to collect money for this or for that and when I try to tell ha that I don't have she always threatening to break up with me, every time I give her money to buy something that is when everything in the market becomes costly, sometimes I look at her and inmy mind I be lik'e "shey Dis gal no know say I sabi d price of all d things she dy lie abwt''
but I keep cool for the sake of peace...

Abeg can you imagine that a brown powder (Zara) she told she bought for 9k I checked it out and its sold for 3k... since night I haven't talked to her but as usual she's packing her bag now....I know in her mind she's waiting for me to beg her or she leave ......

What do I do FAM .....I truly love her

Please do not come running to us after marriage because you already seen the signs. Go into the marriage at your own risk

Evaberry:
very few men are victims of domestic violence. Women always bear the brunt of a man's anger


No matter what a woman says or does, a man should never hit her, a man is physically stronger than a woman so hitting her will inflict serious physical damage, whereas a woman may not cause any real harm to a man.

Op the husband in your write Up should have quietly left the compound and go relax somewhere until he was sure his wife had calmed down. when a woman is angry she throws all reason and caution to the wind, it therefore falls on the man to be understanding and reasonable


Engaging in a fisticuffs with a woman is wrong and should be condemned.

Seems you didn't read it well. It happens everyday.
If he leaves, he better not come back, unfortunately people like you will also abuse him that he abandon his house.
I have learnt something in my over 30yrs plus, never judge with what you hear from both man or woman especially from women. Ask Joseph about Pontiphars wife in the bible.

Saintsammurai:
THE bible says, keep the sabbath day holy, the same bible says, seek ye first the kingdom of GOD and his riteousness and every other thing shall be added into it....You have mondays till saturdays to make money and provide for your families, you cannot go to your place of work on sundays, instead of going to the house of GOD, if you do that, then you will go to hell and wont make heaven.. THE time has come for the true worshipers of GOD to worship him in spirit and in truth. And the truth is, If you have a job that requires your service on sundays, then quit the job, because its GOD over everything... GOD will provide a better job for you...Let us tell ourselfs the truth, you cannot claim to love GOD and go to work on sundays instead of going to church to worship him.. so dont deceive yourself, Going to your place of work on sundays will only land you in hell and you are not a true christian...bible reference: Exodus 20 verse 8. deuteronomy 5 verse 12, exodus 31 verse 16.

Keep your opinion to yourself and sholve it in your asss. Where in the bible does it specifically say Sunday is Sabbath day? Keep deceiving yourself. I work with a telecom company and I go to work on Sunday's depending on the rotation of my shift. You that go to church everysundayn how sure are you to make that heaven?

Shelloween:
With all the money, but this is how you celebrated your twin daughters' birthday? Nigga, I don't know what that Russian woman is feeding you, but it's not cool. This looks more like a couple in school to pick up their daughters and paused suddenly to take pictures.

Moral of the story.... Never marry a white woman, except for a green card though. Mikel looks more like a wifey to me.

Lost priority, not everybody is foolish like you to be throwing money around on 2 yr old birthday. Were u expecting DJ Khaled, Beyonce, PSquare birthday before. #Ode

It is well with your mum.
I'll advise you to come to UCH at ibadan. They have specialists in various field, the first question you need to find out is what is wrong with her. Once that s solved then u can know how to handle it. Try UCH.
Meanwhile you said you are a Christian, this is the time to try out your faith.
Going to church is not the point alone, are you with your Faith? Have faith also, this part of the world we are in is full of wickedness.
My submission, go to UCH and involves whatever it is you believe in.
Both will work.
She is healed in Jesus Name.

skressed1:
Yes it depends, however they won't die without it

Sure they won't die, but if couples enjoys it and so far no complication, should they also stop it? When doctors will even encourage both to keep having it.
Everybody should study his or her body, simple. Its like family planning. What goes for A might not go for B. That does not mean because of B, A should not use it or because of A, B should keep using it.

skressed1:
This is hilarious. Some people do not have sex at all during a pregnancy. I'm sure the guy didn't die from abstinence from sex for a couple of months until the wife gave birth and recovered

And some pregnant women will want it all through till the last day. Body differs.

She maybe enduring the xtra large 16" pointed arrow when she hasn't conceived. Now d belly enter, it's a different ball game. Couple with the fact that he might take a very long time to arrive.

Pls, I beg all women that find themselves in this category, avoid intimacy.x.x. Until baby arrive, let the guy sort himself out Abeg!

I don't want your babies to have holes in their heads because of constant strafing.

Just my advise.

Hard don, I suspect you fall on this category, better look for alternative when that time comes.

I don talk my own finish

Medically doctors do advise sex regularly, sex is not just the type u have with those he goats of yours. There are some benefits associated with it medically, not just shouting of "am coming am coming" like a goat.
Medically, pregnant women do have high libido especially when heavy. So it's normal.
Meanwhile, body differs. The op body might be among the 8.2% who can't take it, it's normal to feel that way. Since she didn't marry a monster, she should open up to the man. Simple as A B and C. Everything is not about gender bashing. .
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Don't bother thanking me, ure always welcome.

victorian:
I have a married friend, she has been on bed rest, from when she was 5months pregnants till she delivered, cause the doctor said, she could risk loosing the baby due to pressures from home.. What will a husband do at that situation? Go to the hospital and rpe her, cos he needs sex? .. The doctor or nurses will just walk him out, with his dick ....if he like , make bleep any available babe in town... Her health and the baby's safety first...

Meanwhile I have seen cases where the doctors will instruct the couples to have sex regularly during pregnancy especially the last months. A friend once told me they had sex the morning the wife gave birth, not knowing the baby is due that day. She and her husband is the only person that knows themselves and should talk it through.
You are quick to judge people without knowing them, condemning the husband isn't the issue, in most cases, libido in women are higher when pregnant.
Abd there's no where the op is complaining about the sex, she's just asking how can a man cope with a pregnant woman during sex