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LocalStandard1:
All your posts are either about the Igbos or related with them. You have a sickness boy, a deep congenital one and you need to cure it.

USCPA:
I am American, i was on a short visit of Lagos. I met few girls from Tinder, ofcourse it was all money for pleasure. So our meeting was pure business.

What really surprised me or pissed me off, is like from our second meeting, these girls started demanding gifts and not nicely asking, commanding me? I am not quite familiar with Nigerian culture but you don't command a guy in Western world, and specially while you're sleeping with a guy for money, you have no power.

Is this common? or was it because i am an American and they see me a cash machine? More i was surprised that they actually thought i would be a sucker and fall for them? why they didn't think if they are on my bed for money, I would have a list of more girls to replace them?

and last: Is Tinder in Nigeria for dating? or its just full of prostitutes?

onumadu:
This thread is funny, but I get OPs point.

@OP, never mind inventing things, let the black man organize a free and fair elections in the largest black nation first.
They failed, and you see a sizeable percentage of them beating their chest (like apes) rejoicing and celebrating an electoral heist that even shames non-Africans.
Meanwhile the election was organized and presided over by a "university professor".
University professors in other races are known for excellence and integrity.
In our clime, they are criminals supporting criminals to take over the country.

I used to believe that blacks can do things other races do, but at every turn and in every opportunity given, the largest black nation makes the wrong choice PROUDLY.

I'm not giving up hope though...
But you see that journey? It is very very veerrrrrrrrrrrrry far.

kollinzgee:
If Europe,Asia and America gets wipe out in a nuclear war today which is is looking very likely,will Africans be able to produce,phones,laptops,Airplanes,car engines,infact will a blackman be able to go to space to at least launch a satelite to aid telecommunications? Despite having the richest minerals beneath of soil.
All we do everyday is cry victim of white oppression while we are the ones helping to conquere us, we fight against any good that come out of Africa.i doubt we will ever get it right in this our lifetime.maybe our children children.

Wordsfrombimpe:
Waiting for the right one
Sex is spiritual

Let’s discuss

Alanama06:
My vote is for Tinubu tomorrow by God's grace. Now I need to find a good hotel in Lagos and rest after this long journey before I proceed home tomorrow

Who can recommend a good hotel in the mainland

KlausMichaelson:
Honestly this has been bothering me for a while now. And I think that this is what is referred to as Misogyny
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I hate the to hear or see the opinion of a female gender cos most times if not all the time, it doesn't make sense. And this realization could make me end up angry for the rest of that day. Whenever I apply logic to actually understand why they make such opinion, I find out that it's always out of emotion and not logic. They also always act before thinking (even when they think, their opinion still doesn't make sense). This is applied to all of them. None is excluded.

A typical example is the Nekede school girl who made a video saying it's the god of my pussy





Honestly I feel we are both the same sometimes when I see women I begin to wonder is this how I will end up spending my life with someone that doesn't think out if the box ..

I want my children to be geekshiw will she help me achieve that ..
I find most women irritating that why I keep mute around them or I snub them

I just see them as though they have no thinking faculty that is founded on logic. From the posts on social media, Whatsapp and everything. When you look at the motive and the reasoning behind it you will understand that the female gender has this shallow mindset. This is totally different from the male gender, exception to a very few. Majority of the male gender tend to have logical opinions about something.

Maybe I am too much of an observer, I really do not know. Or maybe because I am very sensitive. Sometimes I think to myself that if not that I was born by a woman, I don't see how useful they are, cos they are irritating when it comes to being logical. Try and engage them in a very intricate discussion, you will understand what I mean. The best they can do to appear intelligent is to be good at subjects in school which is always limited to the book they carry around in their school bags. And this is not intelligence.

Now my worry is that, it's affecting the way I act towards them. The worst punishment I can do to myself is to try withstand an opinion from them during arguments. That's the worst. This is giving me a second thought on whether to get married or not, as a matter of seriousness. Cos this is mentally draining to live with people like that for the rest of one's life.

It's really worrisome. Am I the only one?

Appologies if you are not ok with this. But it's just an observation I have come to learn so far so good about that gender.

Modified
One other thing I'd like to point out is that, it's not every male gender that your butts or your body (you shamelessly post on every social media page) will trigger some sort of unnecessary obsession with you. Until then, your weapon is just like a toy gun, absolutely useless. And you are probably useless if you have no logical thinking faculty.

Sixfeetbelle:
Another thread created by a Nigerian man to bash women. Sigh

Come, ye, alpha males of Nairaland, your banquet is ready. Enjoy

LittleBigDick:
For me, I like how clean and pure they look.
I like that their pussies are pink and their nipples are pale. I also like how they dont smell bad. I have honestly never met a smelly young white girl in my entire life. They always smell of nothing or clean and slightly floral.
I also like how innocent yet slutty they are. They are more honest and upfront than other women and I appreciate that.

akube34:
bro I am not in Nigeria, and trust me, a 20 here hasn’t achieved anything

akube34:
u no serious. What do you want to achieve at 20

Pukkalolo:
Recently a guy asked me a nice question.

He said, "all the girls I meet are always already in a relationship."

Basically, anytime he tries to ask a woman out, the "I have a boyfriend" line is being thrown out at him immedately.

What guys don't realize is that having a boyfriend is a big rank for ladies. Whether there's actually a boyfriend or not, most ladies don't like being viewed as single. In their shallow feminine mentality, having a "boyfriend" is much better than being single because being single implies that she's not attractive or decent enough keep a guy committed.

It's even funny how a guy get that foolish excited look when a girl finally say YES to him. Some women keep a boyfriend more for financial benefit: this guy is a nice guy who’s buying her things or taking her out every now and then.

Having a dependable dude she can call when she's in financial needs is also a valid reason to recuite you as a boyfriend for the time being.

In more miserable cases, she’s with you only because she can live in your house or apartment rent-free. While she goes outside to cheat on you with other guys.

The “I have a boyfriend” line is just a phrase she automatically say, even if she likes you. She’d rather be viewed as someone who has a guy than admitting that she’s single.

Many women aren't so loyal or faithful as they want you think. Couple of times, a lady will throw the "I have boyfriend" line at a guy in the earliest stage of the interactions.... but after he got her tripping a bit, she start saying “if you're serious, my boyfriend is not a problem.”

The vast majority of the time many women would rather quickly swing from boyfriend to boyfriend than be single in between. Basically, In order to avoid being single they look for a backup guy while they are still officially dating their current guy.

They drop their current boyfriend only once the next one is secured, just like you'll confidently let go of your current job only after you have firmly secured another job.

Always keep in my mind that many woman have a “backup guy”... She may act like you are the only one in the picture; but NO; there's a backup.

Saintmary:
You are correct, although, only the bride price will be returned.


The box and it's contents are for the bride


The fruits, rice, salt, oil, etc will be split in many ways and sent to different members of the bride's family as a token of honor, not purchase, because no one can repay any parent.


P. S. The implication is that the bride is free to return to her family at any time if she is being maltreated.


Any Yoruba woman who stays in an abusive marriage is only doing it of her own volition.

FreeStuffsNG:
This is an authentic Yoruba marriage rite list given to the groom's family. That dowry will be returned officially to prove that they are not selling their daughter and not in debt in the event the groom's family fail to keep their word to take care of their bride.

BanyXchi:
'You don't see Lagos as a yoruba state' is what ibo bigots come here to say everyday, I don't care how cosmopolitan Lagos is, Lagos has and will always be a yoruba state, the Ibos trooping in to Lagos everyday are refugees and immigrants. There are more yoruba women in Lagos than any other ethnicity so when you say they don't come your way it's difficult to understand.

Yes a lot of people don't want their daughters to date out which is not wrong, they are just ethnic conscious unlike you who is Yoruba but don't see Lagos as a Yoruba city because there are other ethnic groups here.

BanyXchi:
Lagos is a Yoruba state with majority Yoruba, are you sure you're Yoruba or one of those ibo miscreants claiming Yoruba on a faceless forum?

BanyXchi:
are you not based in Yorubaland?

BanyXchi:
why can't you just focus on only Yoruba women.

Goodmarlian:
I am igbo I was born and bred here in yorubaland but i have lived at least 3 years in igboland,igbo people are great people especially their men they are hustlers and goal getters, but you see igbo women they are a no no for me.

You see,just because nature blessed them with beauty and light skin they believe they world revolve around them.
I have worked in jibowu,ladipo and some popular igbo markets because i have lots relatives in lagos markets,i have seen lots of nwaboy being brought from the village to serve their oga and one of the advice their oga always give them is to avoid girls during their years of service especially igbo girls,e get why igbo women are the most hypergamous women on earth and they dont hide it,they say it straight to your face.i think most igbo men from the village are narurally simps and have no game its not their fault it because of the hypergamous nature of igbo women over there.
Yoruba are akwaibom ladies are the best,dont get me wrong,l its not that they dont like money,but it is lesser,i remember when i was still in a lagos polytechnic my dad died in my year 1 i had no choice than to look for a side job to be able to sustain myself and education that period i was so broke and lost my looks due to working in the sun,my yoruba female coursemates still respect and cherish me but the igbos ones looked down on me for real.can you believe one day an i was actually playing with one igbo girl in my photocopy shop in school and her friend aske her if its photocopy boys she now dates i just laughed.igbo women are just too hypergamous.
Yoruba girl open their hearts to men irrespective of his financial status especially if he is serious and doing something but igbo women want a ready man and will be too ashamed of you if you are broke.

ChizzyBuna:
My aunt wants to send me $700
She is,asking for my PayPal and I told her that Nigeria cant recieve money from PayPal.

Please apart from western union
Which other way can I recieve money from USA??

Prometheus666:
Men are designed heavy lifters. We are warriors, masons and mountain climbers. We are the real structures of the Universe. If a girl's father had failed in roofing their home. He is a man like us, so we should, if we can afford to, not just roof the house, but to build a new one.

I find it offensive that the OP is a man. Are men supposed to be competing with women now?

We are built to alleviate poverty. Women are designed to nourish us sexually and nutritionally. And with women, we procreate.

I will always help the poor.

Goodboy2000:
Hey Ladies, You noticed your man doesn't stay at home?

You don't need to go to any Babalawo to make him stay at home, especially this coming festive period.

Protect your man from "small girls with big god"

Trust me, with Playstation Video game � your man would always stay at home.

What do you think guys?

SultanOfPuna:
A lot of parents are old school people.
They have not travelled the world or experience what life is like outside Nigeria.

They have some ignorant beliefs
Such as Tattoos are evil
Dreadlocks are evil

Ignorance is a very deadly disease
Many of our parents are very ignorant.
They never grew up in the technological phase
The information age, they never experienced it





It's not parent Africa has this mentality that anything your parents don't like is evil
You have access to all information you need to build and shape your life.
Why listen to your parents old school way of thinking??

Remember in early 2000 when women wearing trouser was forbidden by every Nigerian parent.
That is to show you the level of ignorance and today you see that women wearing trouser is a normal thing.

ModestGal:
Thanks everyone for your contribution, unfortunately, I didn't see thew answers and I already finished the test. But at least I know now that i can easily come to naira land for help
I'm sorry everyone

Jeweltz:
Is any of you looking for a wife? I'm � beautiful, educated, respectful, submissive, Godly, know how to cook.

Only a guy living in Canada please, and must not be on student visa.
Men in Nigeria are Heartbreakers and liars

captaininiobong:
Hy guys, I don't know if you have been in this, my woman that agreed to be the mother of my kids as stated by her recently stopped talking to me, picking my calls because she needed a 3million naira marriage.

I told her please why not we do moderate and use the remaining for investment. She said no. The three million is even small.

When I asked her what will we use the 3million to do, she said to buy furniture for the home. Uptill now she doesn't pick my calls, reply my chat if not that no be God showed her to me I would have deleted her number off my phone but am still keeping it for a reason I don't even know.




Guy thank God for you my advice is if you are the odogwu in the relationship brother this marriage sign a prenup with her if not that lady go wreck you .. cus she will frustrate you till you die

We have been together for long, not until a friend of mine got married and I told her they did thier marriage not less than 300k, then she said it's a big lie.

Coolguy34:
This kind of story de always make me fear relationship like that.
once I notice any funny behavior from my girl I will clone her WhatsApp so I can be able to read her chats and WhatsApp call, I will also check who calls her on WhatsApp.

If I notice her doing nonsense with any dude that's the end.
I'm too young to train another man's kid..

And for people who need me to teach them how to check anyone's WhatsApp message check my signature and contact me on WhatsApp..

But you will pay me a token sha.

mimicherry:
but you are wromg

Your girls are known for sleeping around even in marriage

I won't be surprised your sister is the one involved in this whole mess because normally una dey shameless