₦airaland Forum

Ekundayokan:
what are the disadvantages of dating you?

Jaybee3456:
So i and my wife today we were coming back from church the way we always do and our(my) car broke down. Guess what this woman did next? she called uber to come pick her and left me here by myself. Imagine ooo, I'm thinking of many things i can do to teach her a lesson. Any ideas? (Please only married people)

marlow1962:
Na poverty they cause am, chia e no go better for Nigerian politicians, especially apc ppl.

Dimaya:
There are friends that will spend 200k on lunch with a woman they will sleep with probably just once without realising that they're ruining the girl for the next guy and also for herself because she will spend/waste the rest of her life looking for that same standard.

9jabazeblog:
A US-based entrepreneur, Anita Brown, is claiming she is expecting a child with Nigerian singer, Davido.

The lady, who is not holding down her claims, alleged that she met David in Dubai in 2017 and that it was not a one-night stand thing between them.

To back her claims, Anita shared several receipts and a video of herself conducting a pregnancy test on social media.

Checking out banging photos of Anita Brown below

What do you think about this young lady? I feel bad for his wife Chioma

EmptyGarden:
Ask “Young Sheldon”.

Dangrace01:
Is nairaland a porn site on Google. Type Nairaland on Google and click images

It's just girls sex and romance images that pops up.

You won't see my products or people's product

I sell cars though

Just romance breast and girls. It's crazy



All search engines uses what we call a web crawler so when u type in a word it serches it database and pulls out all the information related to that word on your screen


You can screenshot your results lets see

Dizzyyish:
What this woman wrote is the same reason you'll barely see a female comment on that FP thread.

Deep down, they don't care about the guy's circumstances they simply see it as an L on the woman's part and hope she'll rip what she didn't sow..

(image courtesy: heartofcity12 )

saintbillion:
Some men sparked off a debate on Twitter this morning after saying a man's wife cannot be regarded as his family member. They shared this opinion while reacting to the unconfirmed reports about Moroccan footballer Achraf Hakimi whose wife filed for divorce and allegedly wanted more than half of his property and fortune.

He is one of the highest-paid players in Ligue 1 and receives more than a million euros per month. The estranged wife therefore would have had the jackpot.

Unconfirmed reports claim that when they arrived in court, they realized that Achraf Hakimi had no property and that the bank had none either. It is alleged that Achraf Hakimi had put his entire fortune under his mother's name a long time ago.
This is the number 1 trending topic on Twitter. Now, no one has confirmed this report but several men on social media are applauding Hakimi and saying he made a smart move.
https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2023/4/hakimi-twitter-users-debate-after-some-men-argue-that-a-mans-wife-cannot-be-regarded-as-his-family-member-2.html

labake1:
Guys praising Hakimi Achraf are Losers, I tried to understand why he deserves all the praises but couldn't find ONE.

Hakimi Achraf CHEATED on his wife while his wife was on vacation with their children.

If Hakimi's wife is to be your sister, will you praise him?


Also, I felt pity for the wife for marrying a MAMA'S BOY. She deserves more than half of his wealth.


She should be compensated for the emotional damage and marital fraud. He should be jail

Johnholt909:
First of all, let me start with myself. It was during the NYSC and was living in a very nice two bedroom flat apartment. She said she can’t date a youth corper. I was so surprised and a little bit downhearted.

One month later, I met another lady much better than her.

PoliteActivist:
So you'd be admitting to your parents you are already doing it?
And what if she "convince" but the guy later decide not to marry her nko?

boomii:
Whats with Nigerian guys sef? I have a friend who is ready to get married soon but the dude said there will be no wedding till she gets pregnant.

Personally I'm against it and even tried talking to the guy since she is not the wayward type but seems he has gone wacko,so please what should my friend do.Should she stay or get pregnant? she is pretty confused.

P.s: She will be reading this cos she is on nairaland so no insults please.

Zonefree:
See how Nairaland girls occupied the Second, third and fourth position on a thread about Men and Sex.


You hardly see them in political or educative discussions. Na only for sex thread you'll see them and their prowess.

Rosehinkle:
As a man in a relationship whether as dating couple or married. If your spouse cheating is a big deal for you and you have so much trust for your girlfriend or wife. My advice for you is check her phone ....From Facebook, Instagram, Whatsapp( whatsapp calls and archived chat), email( check ins locations on her Gmail location, lookout for credit/debit alert from/to any particular guy) or any other messenger you can find in her phone. Check call log, message box, photos and deleted photos. Check her bolt/Uber apps if she doesn't drive. Look out for any app lock vault and try to find the pass to it. In all these try as much as possible for you not to be caught while in the act. if you eventually spot any evidence, make sure is legit with enough proof before confronting your spouse else they will deny&convince you making you feel bad.


I didn't advise guys to have a spouse just have a friend you back
That your saint wife or girlfriend is probably f*cking someone else for years now. Especially those boyfriend that are about turning to husbands and school fees payers. But if cheating ain't a big deal for you then I think you shouldn't go through all this stress

youngking89:
Why don’t you just create an account

NaBanga:
If you marry at or below your level, it won't be much of a struggle. If you find a woman in a hut with straw roof, she will be a great wife because you will elevate her level to yours. Don't try to impress any woman with what you don't have, because it will always come back as a problem.

However marriage is not compulsory. Many people in the Western world are moving away from marriage because women want equality. Women are working and providing, so they cannot be fulfilling a traditional role in such circumstances. The key to marriage is HONEST communication and knowing what you want before you jump into. Be TRUTHFUL with your partner so she can understand your desires before marriage.

flokii:
If your financial standing no strong as man in this present economy and you go chook head
put for marriage.. aswear na body go tell you.

Not with the ungrateful crop of ladies we have out there now.. always wanting to buy the best and use the best without considering the man they are putting the bills on.

MrBrownJay1:
there is a huge difference between marrying an uneducated lazy good for nothing wife AND marrying a hardworking educated helpful intelligent wife

larryking78:
I think of women and ladies as buckets, pots, bags, just simply collectors. That's what they are. If you gets the one that worship and adores you, you are luckiest man in Earth because 70% have the tendency to frustrate your life from the day she says Yes to your proposal.

Brothers, think before you fall in love and once you fall in love live with your falling process else love will turn hatred and you will regret it bitterly.

anthonyuncle:
with this your mindset, even if you become a billionaire, you will still marry the wrong person

Rayban25:
The reason most men still consider marriage is mainly because they want their children to grow up in a stable household so that the childs psychology wont be affected by having only one parent while missing the other..that's why I'm not a fan of baby mama trend too


Mist marriages would have broken up since if not that they have children together and so they just manage themselves

As for me I'm not paying Bride price for no mans daughter sha..and bride price should even be eliminated totally because we have bandits instead of virgins running about now

ForG:
I moved into this apartment about two weeks ago. Mini flat, only myself, excellent neighbourhood; I'm constantly indoors and not social.

But the landlady has been a pest so far.

The property has three tenants, but only one has been there for over a year.
The renter I replaced still works for her today, but quit the house only after a year.

The longest-tenured tenant (five years, married man with kids) warned me about her before I moved in. That she meddled in the affairs of her tenants. He is also desperate to leave the house this year.

Under the pretext of protection, she herself told me that she routinely informs her tenants' families of every move they make.

Today, the camel's back broke.

A female acquaintance of mine recently stayed with me for some days.
The landlady took offence and informed me that she does not want any female visitors except a known girlfriend.

Before relocating, she had also said that she did not want much male visitors in order to avoid disruptive behaviour. Made sense to me security-wise.
Wasn't a problem since I don't have male friends.

The next day, I saw her and informed her that an animal was running in the roof, as well as other anomalies I had noticed in the apartment.
She said that it seemed I was dissatisfied with the home and that she would provide a full refund without delay.

I made certain to inquire whether the prohibition on female visitors was on security grounds, but she said that the residence was a Christian home where everyone must be family, notwithstanding the fact that the tenant before me was a muslim.

Today, my agent came on my door and informed me that the landlady had complained to him. We subsequently met with the landlady, who once again threatened a complete refund.
She continued by saying that I am too young to have female companions because they would destroy my life.

I'm 23.

This evening I took the decision to collect the refund, cut my losses on the agreement and commission, and look for a new flat in the vicinity.

I had only heard rumours, but I had no idea such toxic home owners exist. The husband of over 33 years is pretty laid-back and even made a joke about my bringing a female acquaintance around to my guarantor.

The wife on the other hand is hell's fury.

Candidlady:
and why do guys always sexualise visitation from a lady


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But then, I will sound it to her that d money I am giving to her is not because of d sex we have ooo, that its just a tip.

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men are so dumb



Women think like fishes ..
You need to understand that no one can force you to do the things you don't want to do .

You came to my place I initiated sex if u don't want it say it ..
You are dumb op said they both made it clear to themselves that they aren't having anything serious....

The sex didn't she enjoy it too why is sex always one sided u didn't like it and u kept in visiting.

Avoid women they think with emotions not brain that y most of them aren't logical thinkers...
kai

abeg tips for what?


dead gender



see that eddiiot beneath my post... his mom had him outta wedlock no wonder she kept going back to your now step father..