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Fish and fishes😹👩‍🦯

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"This was why one Umm poured hot semo on Abu's head when he was receiving his intended mathna's call. The liquid semo fah, Abu that just barbed his hair infact, ko funny rara."

When your husband decides to take another woman, the first wife should react, there is nothing wrong with it, but it should be done in conformity with decency. In reality, marriage is an individual thing, if you kill or inflict injuries on him, you will be treated as a criminal or murderer, the case of Maryam Sanda is a case in point.

She would have accepted it or sought for divorce, than going physical that resulted to the death of the husband. She could not live her life properly afterwards, her baby could not be properly taken care of, the prison cannot be compared to her freedom of movement. If she could go through this on earth, what about the hereafter?

'I was with him when he has nothing, now after we have made it, my husband is seeking another wife, a lady that did not know how we suffered, she will come and benefit from the things she did not work for'. A common statement from most first wives, who have started with their husbands from the scratch, they always feel betrayed when their husbands decide to take second wives. Irrespective of your position in a man's life, do not start what you cannot finish. We have in one way or the other benefitted from things we did not start.

Let the husband plays the role of a man in the marriage, financially and physically the man should pick the bills. If he does not have, and you are willing to help, do not make it a condition for him to be denied access to plural marriage. It is true that some undefined men lie and pretend you will be only one till death, you should not fall for that as a smart sister, the man's statement/promise during the trying times or during sex could be made under disguise.

If you are going to help your husband financially, do not attach conditions to it especially when you intend to deny him the right to marry another wife. When you contribute to his growth, it is either you give him freely or you ask him to pay back, this is better than denying his divine right. As a wife, you have made him to be lazy by paying the house rent, school fees etc for him, then when he decides to take another wife, you then ask him to fulfill his obligations, he is not used to it.

You do not own your husbands, we all belong to Allāh, if you cannot tolerate a second wife, and your husband wants to do it, then you have options to stay or leave the marriage in peace. Some wicked women have practically destroyed their husbands because of plural marriage, aunty first wife, why do you want to go to hell because of a man?

'If my husband takes another wife, I will kill him, when he is not mad', women who say and think like this are not humans in a manner of speaking, if a man is married to a woman that can kill under any circumstances, then he is living with his enemy.

We know it is not easy, but it does not make any sense to become a criminal when you have alternatives. Your life should matter to you too. The men should stop persuading or enticing sisters who reject their proposals, women need to be emotionally connected to their husbands, and that way, she becomes happy when the man reciprocates, but if you are not her 'spec', please let her be.

As a sister, if you really detest plural marriage, then stay away from men that have the tendency to practice it, men that are polygamous material are mostly sought for by sisters, yet they want these husbands to be confined with one wife. Some men do not like keeping two, three or four wives at a time, they are not physically and financially capable to do it, so these brothers will not bother to apply for more wives, such men should be sought for if you cannot tolerate co-wives.

Obviously, a sister should marry a man meritoriously, because in the real sense not all men deserve to be treated like kings, they will betray the trust and put their wives in terrible situation after benefiting immensely from their kind gestures. You are not a good person as a man if you deceive your wife that you will never marry another woman, and later disappoint her. You told her you will be responsible, but you flirt with other ladies and refuse to fend for the family, yet the only thing you know is plural marriage, you are a cheat. Men in this category are the ones making plural marriage difficult for our teaming sisters, especially the first wives.

Plural marriage is enshrined in our religion for men that can afford it, as a sister, marry a responsible man that fears Allah, fear of Allah has nothing to do with speaking Arabic or English Language, carefully select a man that is feeling fine, even if he marries two, three or four wives, he will treat them with fairness. A good man is a good man, whether he practices monogamous or polygamous marriage because he knows the punishment attached to unfair treatment.

Always pay attention to details.

Abu Sheikh

DenreleDave:
This ain't pomo.... This is the intestine of a ram..

It can never be pomo

Eyyah! Na wetin ur eyes see be that

Pomo🥰

Banana pancakes🤌🏾

Hamzashaf99:
How you take make that tamarind drink

Washed the granule then cook it with cinnamon,black pepper,cloves and ginger for like 10 minutes. I sieved it,added sugar and cold water to it.... shikkenan.... then styled the cup with dried cinnamon powder and sugar!

armyofone:
Please what is the second picture? Chin chin ?

Yes.

cococandy:
what’s fankaso?

Its made from wheat flour... then fried

Oya who go like chop meat pie🥱🤌🏾




Chin chin nko?🌚🌚

Where una dey see boyfriend and girlfriend?😒😒😒

Jazakallah khair!

ahnie:
Majority of northern politicians are gay.brielz.
They're hiding under the cloak of religion.

What has religion got to do with this?? Majority!?
How you take do the statistics abegg🤌🏾

Pomo in soup with fankaso and boiled yam

descarado:


Is it tamarind granule or powder?
How does it taste?

Granule........
sweet sour taste 😋😋😋

Brown rice, kuli kuli in gas meat,winter salad and tamarind drink

lilioj:
Walahi e make sense die🤤🤤

Hehe thank youuu

GboyegaD:
Looks beautiful as well. Well done madam.

People of this thread, where is Chef D? I haven't seen his post of late.

Thank u

I wanted to make meat pie buh i then decided to do this! E make sense no be small😋

Happy sallah y’all
Oya everyone shu pick 5🤌🏾

Taqabbalulloh minna wa minkum!
Jazakumullah khaiir

Vegetables in noodles with beans
Puff puff

Donuts

LivingSage:
I followed u because of the food you always post.
Are you a chef?

Thank you
Not yet a chef tho, am a student of hospitality management🙂

Cucumber salad and cous cous

Wagwanbrethren:
It's sweet when hot, but some na eyesore! 😁
Very sweet if it's well garnished with onion and hot grinded pepper! 🥵

Sure thing! Or even cabbage..... buh i like mine with sauce or grinded pepper

Minced meat in sauce with kisar/kisre (traditional food made from fermented millet,rice, or sorghum)
Cucumber and apple salad🤗

Wagwanbrethren:
Binta, this tofu come be like wara cheese. Na the same thing?

Yess its the same thing! Here in the north, we call it awara🤗

Chicken in sauce with fried tofu🤤
Beef curry sauce with vegetable chicken🤗🤗

Caaz:
Hajiya kwa'na da yowa!
Sanu da zu'a.

Lafiya kalau fa..
Yauwa sannun mu.
Nagode sosai.

Me seff don see abacha chop today🥱💃 twas good tho

Halcyon123:
Midnight snacking,chocolate cake

Beta things😋