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CFCfan: In terms of speed, Bale is definitely better than Hazard, but Hazard has better technical ability.

ileobatojo: Me neither. Which is why I said 3 leads 2 only by a whisker. I rank 3 as the worst for the plain nastiness/disgust factor. 2 is extremely unpalatable to me, why does he need a steady mistress? How can you claim to love me when you need another steady mistress? The way I see it, having 1 steady mistress means you are sharing your heart with her and I have no interest in dealing with that. Also how can I tolerate knowing that when you get off my bed, you are going to go poke your 'something' into another woman's Cores only to come back to me the next day, or even the next hour. Yuck!


Interestingly, I had this argument when I was younger and I remember strongly rating 2 above 3 and the person I was arguing with couldn't understand why. I don't know the reason for the slight shift though in my stance though...

bukatyne: I can't cope with nos 2 and 3.

No 1 will ruin the relationship and special bond we have and it'll take a conscious effort to build it again.

Everybody have their flaws and thresholds.

I can't stomach a cheating or abusive husband.

Chi16: A MARRIAGE GUARANTEED TO FAIL

Much has bben written about ways to keep ur marriage strong. usually wen u read abt someone's failed marriage, u hear talk of one or a few of the things dat happened dat helped sentence the marriage to death. usually at the top of the list are finances and lack of s.ex or affairs. but long before these things usually come into play i challenge u that there are things being put into place that virtually ensure the marriage wi eventually die. these things are:

bukatyne: Then why your question 'if a woman would stay if her husband does his duty but has a steady mistress?'

Can a husband be truly said to be doing his duty if he's unfaithful to his wife?

bukatyne: And you think this duty excludes fidelity and faithfulness?

debrief08: 1. The economy: Most people still believe in running single income house hold, Father runs around morning till night in bad traffic, stress from thinking of constant bills, he ignores his health, takes panadol for headaches (which is a sign that something is going wrong in his system), with no preventive and proper lifestyle, seating a lot and hours in traffic, father has a silent stroke and dies.
2. Lifestyle choices: some fathers live irresponsibly, chasing all the girls in town, drinking and smoking like tomorrow no dey, when they kill their bodies with bad elements, they die
3. Travel: father works in lagos keeps family in spacious ibadan house, or fathers work involves plenty travel, so many accidents on Nigerian roads plus majority of commercial drivers are fathers not mothers
4. Fathers more than mothers ( except in places like Jos and north central) are involved in hard manual labour and coupled with failure to care for health fathers body and heart gives way
5. Mothers due to pregnancy get to check their health more and see red flags on time, most fathers never go for voluntary tests till its almost too late
My suggestions; Fathers cut down the work load, you die work continues, if you drive, drive carefully or demaand drivers drive responsibly for the sake of your kids as they say "speed kills", reduce drinking, smoking and indiscriminate messing around.
Mothers who believe father must kill him self and sell his blood for you, cut it out earn a living, you have hands, if he dies you will find work and raise those kids.
Help fathers reduce stress level, make appointments and drag him if you have to so he can get regular blood checks, sugar levels, blood pressure and other tests

bukatyne: It's really amazing people think it's ok if a man cheats or has a steady mistress as long as he's performing his duties at home.

This now births the question:


What is a man's duty at home?(i.e. to his wife, children)

candygosh: U dis boy. Must u show ur face and ur utmost foolishness on every thread.
If u dnt like the thread just leave it and stay out.
Most of ur comments spew stoopidity and echo it.
Dude, three words for u GET A LIFE.
I have one outside nl

Lilimax: There is no need of telling your children how much you earn.
Just be a good parent to them.
Provide them with the basic need of life as you can.
Train them in the way of the Lord.
They will surely bring joy to you

thegoodjoehunt: Bale is speed and power, very little skill. Forget that PFA crap, Hazard was the best player this season.

Sezua: for wat reasons na?...all i see is jst sentiments

richjah: Please I need to know why 80% of all fathers die before the mothers! You can also observe this yourself and you will realise what am saying is true! How can we stop this?

Mcleo007: Hmmmmmmm! So this is the best you can come up with, eh? Now, picture these: When this team was a persistent thorn in the flesh of most top teams, they weren't considered top class abi world class in your own book, right? When top coaches were made to look like rookies, and could only marvel at the awesomeness of this bond and the tiki-taka passage, they still weren't top class, right? When renowned defenders were made to look like school boys (Ferdinand, Vidic, Pepe, Ramos, Maldini etc), not sparing world class goal-keepers and midfielders, they weren't up there in your own 'delusion', i can guess. My guy, i bet you started watching football when Moanrhino got signed to Chelsea, and the whole noise of player signings got you hooked, and made you think football is all about 'now'. The signs were there from midway into the season. The coaching crew only failed to tend to it. The squad is too thin to compete on the grandest level and to full capacity. A good case is in the first leg away at Bayern; looking at the bench, you need no soothsayer to tell you there is no single person there who could walk in and change the game. We have been on the hangers all season and there is a limit you can hold on to. All the team needs now is a little injection in key areas to complement what is there and trust me, we are back to our formidable best.

IMO:
1. We do not need to sell players like some have suggested. The cure to a head ache is a pill and not cutting off the head. Selling massively and buying little will only reduce the squad further.

2. We need to look into next season and look positively at that. Squad rotation is one sure thing that will help. There is no need loaning Bartra or Montoya. All that the lads need is more playing time. I believe if Bartra had played more during the season, at least in the home games against smaller teams, he would have developed faster than he currently is. Look at Varane for example.

3. We need 5 major singings: 2 CBs(Hummels, Botia, Agger, T.Silva or that Real Sociedad guy who has made La Liga team of the week on Goal.com no fewer than 9 times this season), 1GK (Courtois or Hugo Lloris), 1CMF (an experienced one ala Beckam's mould) and a striker (big or small in stature - i prefer Suarez). These signings will provide us the Plan B so sought of.

4. For those media suggestions of the end of an era, i challenge them to say same at this stage next season. We are barely at the awakening of the era. The era is not about to end just yet. Afterall, La Liga is signed and sealed. That is major trophy considering the challenges we have faced this term. Moudrid can choke on their King's cup - respect to Chief Usbcable.

Sezua: on wat grounds?
because u like hazard doesnt make him d best

rokiatu: Please save your rant. We love Klaus he couldn't die.

rokiatu: What sort of nonsense is this?

Sezua: u av started again oh...i hate all dis crap!!...is hazard beta dan gareth bale?

solomon111: Our season was ruined by the combined efforts of abramovich and rafa "the fat spanish waiter" benitez.
We've learnt our lessons.
Btw,chelsea's run in the UEFA cup helped England's coefficients.
So it is still 4 spots to the EPL in the forseable future.

solomon111: lol.
This match still infuriates me up till now.

TechyGuy: Courtois is Belgian not Spanish.

solomon111: Are you saying all
Epl fans=footie newies?

thegoodjoehunt: Not like a Mechanic like Essien, Makalele (Note the Maker in Makerlele ), Lassana Diarra and Mahammadou Diarra. Mourinho cherishes Mechanics, more than Artists.