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carefreewannabe: Your experience is not representative, science is! That's why we should focus on facts instead of judging from our little experience. How old are you and how many companies have your worked for? I work for a foreign university so I guess my salary doesn't fall into the statistics.

On the contrary it does..but no problem if you cant answer

Nice point coogar can any female member of this forum with fact of gender wage gap stand up
You have the same qualifications as a man with experience and you earn less
Please stand up n be counted

LewsTherin: I wouldn't say I don't want kids. But I didn't get married because I want to have children. And any In-Law who bothers me about it should go have their own!!!
Am I looking foward to children? Not really. But I am grateful that God will choose me to bring some new life into this world.

...and that is what I am worried about. This world is messed up enough as it is.

The world has been messed up from time immemorial
Na today people dey poke man nyansh - sodom n Gomorrah
Na today org.ies dey happen - roman empire
Na today immorality full ground - Noah's flood
Na today embezzlement dey- judas wey dey with jesus steal money


This world is a stream n we are in it for a time.
Its ur impact in that time that you should focus on
If you have kids, train them and God will bless your efforts

As in people actually believed wengazidis.....?!

carefreewannabe: You can state your opinion in a more matter-of-fact way instead of being ggressive and offensive calling women who want to ensure other women some certain rights all sort of names. You have a very extreme view and you sound like some sort of bigot. This happens because you are not able to look at things from MORE THAN JUST ONE PERSPECTIVE in order to develop A MORE BALANCED VIEW.
The same happened when we were talking about the Bible yesterday. You stated the duties of a wife but didn't mention those of the husband.
Now you are saying how feminists destroy homes and forget that husbands do the same all the time.

Like I said, you will EASILY find a woman who is compatible with your mindset, so no need to worry. We can continue talking but let's stick to facts instead of getting all emotional.

Since you are talking about facts
Can you provide evidence on this gender wage gap you speak about
All the companies I have worked In have the same stafting salaries for men n women

Do you work n if u do
Does ur organisation pay gender based salaries
Pls use your experience not weblinks

Sadly true... even me I don't know when I watched ait or channel last

Aside tv, films just full ground

Spartacus, game of thrones, nikita etc

[quote author=Risky_mallam]Next time, take it slow with the "Let's meet up ASAP"

Naija ain't safe no more.[/quote]Dont mind the budding ritualist

Carefree.. please I asked u a q

Na edward dey vex u

Dem no give you cain or esubiyi or lucifer.. u think say eddy bad

Do you know wat edward means at all

Edward
The name Edward is a baby boy name.

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Anglo-Saxon Meaning:
The name Edward is an Anglo-Saxon baby name. In Anglo-Saxon the meaning of the name Edward is: Guardian.

Its a name of kings

Forget it mehn n build up your self confidence
Let criticism n yabbis flow off your back

Imbibe the royalty of ur name n your excellence will show forth

This is pure irresponsibility and I support what tv01 n bellong said


A man does not run from his own home


You have to brace yourself mentally

Reach out to your other support networks - your family, church,

Start saving your own money

Dont get pregnant again

It is well with you

Naija ple dont watch local tv as much like before..
Africa magic, super sport and mnet

Let them do an advert on africamagic

You will see the impact

KazeKage1: Who'd i want in my team?
Uchiha Itachi - We all know why
Shikaku - Strategist
Minato Namikaze - Yellow Flash
Hidan - Your blood is all i need
I'll need a medic-nin so i'll go with Tsunade as the last person

Funny guy at hidan

In nyanya voice


Your blood
Your blood
All I need is your blood

carefreewannabe: You can state your opinion in a more matter-of-fact way instead of being ggressive and offensive calling women who want to ensure other women some certain rights all sort of names. You have a very extreme view and you sound like some sort of bigot. This happens because you are not able to look at things from MORE THAN JUST ONE PERSPECTIVE in order to develop A MORE BALANCED VIEW.
The same happened when we were talking about the Bible yesterday. You stated the duties of a wife but didn't mention those of the husband.
Now you are saying how feminists destroy homes and forget that husbands do the same all the time.

Like I said, you will EASILY find a woman who is compatible with your mindset, so no need to worry. We can continue talking but let's stick to facts instead of getting all emotional.

Since you are talking about facts
Can you provide evidence on this gender wage gap you speak about
All the companies I have worked In have the same stafting salaries for men n women

Do you work n if u do
Does ur organisation pay gender based salaries
Pls use your experience not weblinks

claremont: It is an interesting coincidence that most feminists are the downright ugly and vile ladies. Feminism, to them, is not a choice but rather, it represents the last straw they desperately cling on to.

Nah my own I yarn oh, make nobody insult me this morning abeg.

This thread has shown how misguided the feminists are
What is so pathetic is the quickness to descend to insults

Symptomatic of a superiority complex caused by deficiencies in other areas
Reminds me of mordoc for those who follow the marvel universe

LOL

[quote author=Mynd_44]Get used to the both of them and I am not a fatalist. Stop derailing[/quote]That's cool

[quote author=Mynd_44]Get used to it[/quote]The fact that its your siggy or wat it says....

It makes you out as a fatalist

[quote author=Mynd_44]I don't see him as less of a man oo. The wife is supposed to be a helper not a maid or slave.[/quote]Ur siggy is fricky

Shollypopz: An idea I know nothing about?? Dude stop running around with your head in another man's anus!
You are phony, a mere witless pansy!

Ive caught my fun with u woman
Seems u know nothing n have no value to add to this discussion
U just seem to have a bitter mouth n full of uncouthedness

Toodle oo

DIG1: Children are stress, n I avoid stress as possible

If I may ask are u based in the west, europe or in naija

Frankly wat I dont get about your kind is the haste to descend into insults ....

I thought y'all were like moses for women .. opening the blind but with caustic acerbic orifices haha

Shollypopz: LMAO!


I guess your hog-wash outlined by ill-thought-out lies is what is pretty lucid huh??

Fvcking bovine excrement vendor!

Yet you buy n eat the crap
Muppet carrying an idea you know nothing about

honeric01: Remember your statement: Feminists are confused women.

On this thread alone, she was all feminist, then became 75%, then to 50%, now she's no longer a feminist, trying to become a 'misandrist lol...

See confusion!

The dilemma of people who just adopt ideologies they dont even grasp not to talk of understanding

Shollypopz: You and ur buddy deserve an award for the amount of bullsh1t one can spill in one day, DAMN!

And you think you are being lucid?
Crappist

coogar: majority of them have troubled childhood - they were abused or saw their mothers abused. if a woman grew up in a family that radiates love, where her father gave her attention and an undying love, feminism would be the last thing on her mind.

Others are over brilliant with no sense of emotional intelligence who just want to cause chaos for thr fun of it

Lol at using brain..

Soon a new research will come up that males use only 3pc of their brains or that they don't even have brains upstairs and that it is down in the genital area

Hahahahaha

Abi oo
All outmoded concepts of chivalry should be thrown out the window

Women should woo men too

Pay for dinners

Buy necklaces for us to look fly too

Open doors for us too

No Ladies first again

igbo boy: are men not doing that on a consistent basis? that door wey we dey open every time abuna dey salute nko? e never do them? greedy people.

Are you married
Can I give you my sister

If the so called educated ones cannot see this is a case of man driving his better half to the ground and not stereotypical BS

I wonder what hope there is

My old man cooked for us and people here have brough examples of their hubbies cooking when they were pregnant or away on courses

Yet these people persist in these beliefs that men are oppressors

One of them spoke about poor girl child education compared to girls in naija 2 weeks yet neglects the fact that only 3 pc of girls in the north go to school in the north

Yet she is a muslim oo

ekwah: haha I am glad you brought this up Shollypopz:

The man clearly has no respect for his wife. It is a classic example of an inconsiderate man with a very bad attitude and not a consequence of the ills of gender roles.In fact I don't think he believes in it, because if he did then his wife wouldn't be working for pay as that would have been his sole responsibility-(providing for his family). He is just lazy and is using very cheap excuses to justify his stance. Do you honestly think he would treat her any differently if there were no expectations on who was to do what in that house? I don't think so. Blaming the man's behavior on gender roles is rather simplistic.

I think all people (women and men) should be able to do some things by themselves- cooking,cleaning, and other basic things they need in other to get by daily. I however, still feel that there's nothing wrong with women and men playing different roles in the society provided there's equity in the treatments they receive. They should be able to share the responsibilities of the home such that no one is left with more than they can handle. It's really not that deep in my opinion.

If my wife wants to work for example, I see no problem with that. We would simply split the responsibilities between us. I would play my role as a man and she would perform hers as a woman. I can take some domestic chores, but there's just no way for example where I would play a sit-at-home dad while my wife is out there working.

collynzo2: Real feminists will rebuke you for that. Maybe you're talking about the ones on Nairaland who just follow the bandwagon without fully understanding what it's all about.

Mgbeke feminists sitting behind tablet screens in cushy surroundings talking about what they dont know

Wage gap? Abotion? Taking up male surnames...

Funny people

No

Every relationship is unique

kraftykc: This is a game to determine the COOLEST Naruto character out there.

First of all we will all select our top 5 COOLEST characters, solely based on your preference. There will be NO NEED TO EXPLAIN WHY YOU CHOSE THEM.

After 24 hours the results will be tallied and each character that gets selected by 4 or more NLers will make the final shortlist!

Those shortlisted will then be put up for elimination.

Elimination process: Each hour ONE character will be voted for till only one remains standing. Remember, you can only vote once per hour and the timing will be monitored by me.

Aiit, let's got there

Cool to me means classy, strategic nin not obnoxious semi foxes screaming all the time

Itachi
Kakashi
Neji
Shikamaru
Darui

Numero uuuno: i see 4
I*an elephant
II*a mouse
III*a "giraffelike" creature
IV*a dog

Rat
Ape

collynzo2: I once got up on a crowded bus and offered the woman who was stood near me my seat, she said was a feminist, didn't want my seat and just wanted to be treated equally with men...
...so I headbutted the bîtch for farting in my face earlier!

Now this is genuinely funny
Feminists actually want doors to be opened for them

luvmijeje: I'm proud to be a feminist. Anyone who doesn't like it should please hug a live transformer. I can feel jitter, fear and anxiety in their words. What are they afraid of?

No one is afraid of anyone
The tragedy is that most of your ilk don't even know what you believe in