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Just pulling your legs ma

Ive been waiting for u to make note of the aluta in the moniker

adaobi123: Since England is knocked. I stopped watching it.

Germany to win.

I think sweden will

The Home factor is strong

These girls are goooooooood


See trapping n crossing

alutacontinua: @dayo, hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
@op, when i opened the thread, i liked you at first because of your username.
I read your story and stopped liking you instanta, especially when one of the first few posters threw a jab at the word 'aluta' because of you
I read Efe's comment and felt, damn, this is it! Pls, God, help this op's head to work, got to CC's comment and she just completed the whole thing.
Saw where you admitted your errors and decided to make things right and I started liking you back.
In conclusion, kneel down if that is what it takes and save our username the insult, abeg!

I thought it was ur alterego naaa

Germany v Sweden semifinal

Quarter final

France and Denmark going at 1 nil

These phrench girls are fine and can play some footie

Good advice though it may be too late now

1.For me let the man summon the inlaws and in the presence of a lawyer, his wife and children tell them to back off

2. Set a will and put the house in order

3. Reconcile with his wife in case heaven comes knocking

Na wa

With this post, it will be a strong nail in the coffin of the divorce philes
Marriage is not perfect as humans are imperfect
As long as it is not spousal abuse

chaircover: Hmmmmm @ poster because you hear divorce mentioned almost every second here on NL, you think it is an easy thing. My dear its not easy at all.

Your life is not in danger but you are indirectly and subtly threatening your husband with divorce. You are even lucky he has only asked you to kneel down and apologise. Some men would have sent you back to your parents; especially the ones who were already looking for an excuse to get rid of you.

I am not an internet Nigerian! and so I will tell you how it is.
Go and ask people who are divorced. The honest ones will tell you how hard it is especially in a culture like ours where your respect as a woman corresponds to the ring on your finger. That is why you will hear some women being beaten black and blue but they will stay saying that they are staying for the children. . .deep down below, that isnt their only reason.

To find ordinary accommodation, landlords won’t even want a single woman cos they will think that you will be bringing in all sorts of men and the security of the house is at risk

When you do finally get the accommodation, the day you have a misunderstanding with your neighbour is the day you will hear your life story. . .at work nko? All those randy ogas know that you no longer have your “covering” and they will soon start trooping in with their jaga jaga toasting and will be hoping for lunch sessions in short time hotels in the area.

Friends will desert you . .they don’t want you to “steal” their husbands now that you don’t have one of your own. People wont eat your food cos they are scared you will put love portion in it for their husbands. If your gen breaks down you are on your own, if your plumber rips you off you are on your own, if your car breaks down you are on your own . . . . When you go to your friends house, your friends mother who came to visit, will call her daughter to the side and and warn her to stay clear of you dalemosu and she will say that to her you are a bad influence to her daughter.

. . . .This is the real way in which divorcées are treated in our culture and I can guarantee you that you wont like it. However by all means if your life is in danger, then flee beacuse none of the things I mentioned above is worth more than your life.

I am expectng you not only to kneel down to apologise to him but to promise him never to threaten him with that again.

When this is all sorted, then you both go back to your issues and try and talk it through. Clearly there are crossed lines in the way you relate to each other and that needs to be sorted out so that there is no repeat of this in the near future.

Don’t be fooled. Every marriage has its ups and downs and there will be some days he will be speaking Greek and you will be speaking Hindu, but with time, understanding, commitment and respect on both sides, this will become lesser and far in-between. It can take hard work, but I promise you is worth it in the end.

dayokanu: You better kneel down facing him and apologize

After that stay on your knees and bring out the "microphone" and sing a joyful song to your Lord, with your head moving back and forth till he lift up his voice onto the heavens

After that still on your knees back him and let him put his "thrust" in you powerfully as a sign of forgiveness then both of you cuumm in holy union

then daughter you are fully "forgiven your sins

Hahaha!

neyostica: Get yourself a girlfriend till you get another job, that will do the magic

Which kain advice be dis
Person no get work,, u wan make hin get second wife
I tire for you ooo

So it was just a case of a randy girl flouting public decency laws in the middle east of all places

Hahaha

#NotSurprised

Abbey2sam: @op what do you take marriage for?
Do you think marriage is a joke?
Listen to yourself; you tried chatting him up on bb, like seriously?
And you want to resolve family issue...
Maybe you're too young to be in that marriage

Get da fuq on your kneels and apologies..
Spoilt brat

Bros u dey vex ooo
She don adjust naa

Wayo wayo wayo

Evil in high places justified by religion

greatgod2012: Let me narrate this story.....
My mother lived in Sabo area in the town i was before i got married, i saw so many dramas perprtuated by these old mallams who married very young girls. There is a particular one that's so funny.......the man was a very wealthy hausa man who was in his sixties, one day he told my mum that he wanted to travel home to bring in a new wife(he already had 5 wives o), so he left and after about 2 weeks, he came back with a girl that is around 11/12 old, we all saw them when they both arrived and entered their house, but it never occured to us that, that girl is the new bride he had gone to bring, so at dusk, he came to my mum's shop(in front of his house) and my mum asked about the new wife and he said, its the girl he came together with, my mum exclaimed ha! He said why now, that is their practice there,to cut the long story short, when it was evening, we were hearing the little girl shouting "wayoo, wayoo, wayoo" and eventually ran out, the helpless girl ran to my mum's place and my mum asked what went wrong and she admitted that the s...ex was too painful. The Alhaji and his senior wives all came out with touchlight to look for the poor girl, they saw her in my mum's place and my mum begged the man to take it easy with the girl, that he should remember that shes just a little girl. The man was furious and warned my mum never to harbour her again, instead, she should send her back into the house. The funniest part is that, for the first one month of the marriage, the girl usually ran away when its about an hour prior to the time the man will come back from work, the man usually come back from the market around 9p.m,and around 8p.m, the girl would have ran away, its after he comes back that he and the senior wives will be looking for her, and there was one fateful day, that they didnt see this girl until after 3 days,so, by the time she was discovered, the man took the girl back to his state, but i dont know whether the marriage was dissolved or not.

So, all these our peado..phile senators, abeg. Leave these girls alone, help in shaping their future instead of ruining their lives.
These people are even shameless, imagine them inserting their anacondas into those tinny and tight holes of those small girls.

Ehen..

This is what we want to hear

May God bless you and your home

alutawestand: Thanks every one for ur wonderful contributions. I'll really make amends and make my marriage work.

I think he's calming down small small oooo. I sent him a message now asking him what he would like to have for dinner and he said special soup, bed, massage and kiss. Typical him.And also I should not forget the apology. That I must kneel down. Lol.

Nice one

At least when she is alone and the man get second wife make she no vex

You no fit beg..
Don't worry the e-warriors that will support you will soon come

Remember na your marriage ooo

Royal Roy: I guess your hubby is right about you afterall. You obviously can't control your tongue when angry!!

I personally HATE people who talk thrash out of anger & come back regretting!!!
A very big turn-off.!!!
He wants you to apologise for your "misbehaviour" and here you are saying you feel its dehumanising!!!

Wake up & smell the coffee woman!!!

Ok.. Good facts

But you convieniently forget to state the roma communities are not mainstream and live on their own while here the child bride grooms are supposed upstatnding members of society

Moreover should child brides carry on because it is a vestige of the past

makahlj2: It is not uncommon for 12 (and even 11)-years old girls from the Roma community in Europe to marry. Some even have given birth as early as before turning 10, as incredible it might seem.

And you say you work with kids

I pity your wards

So much hate and anger brimming from your posts

Really feel sorry for them

Toodle-ooo

Last response to you.. Woman

Calling someone ignorant smacks of a god complex itself

However if you are stating facts,GZ was found not guilty of murder irrelevant of how touchy the issue sounds

It's tragic but it's the truth

Western principles of law and justice say so.. Your west right?

I don't have a white god

khiaa: I am very patient, I deal with children every day, it's my job. You have not shown me where I called africans ignorant. I called alot or some of the people on this forums ignorant, but if you have been on this forum long enough, you would know that there are many different nationalities on nairaland. To answer your WHITE GOD COMPLEX QUESTION, ZIMMERMAN COMMITTED MURDER.

Be patient for once.. It seems you are revising your comments now

I have quoted your comments some posts ahead

Read them slowly..

Who's the liar now

I never dog fighting and murder are equal

Moreover who committed murder

khiaa: Caught you lying again. Yes you said Mike was convicted of dog fighting which you are right, it is a criminal offence, but you made this comment after I said a black man ( which could be you in america ) was sentenced 2 years in prison for having a dog fight, but a white man was set free after killings a 17 year old black boy. Your comment insinuated that killing a dog was more serious than killing a human being. Still waiting for the comment where I said africans are ignorant. You have no integrity.

Baba ooo...

Long time

Tragic.. Isn't it

Forerunners of thought now bogged in archaic child bride mess

SNCOQ3: So is algebra. Its not about the race but about the belief system that shapes the culture. Islam is retrogressive.

Nice one

We are saying the same thing

Well done all once again

Ortarico: Sir, what he did was combo not permutation.

Well, this was how I did mine ooo:
The first person shakes hands with 7 persons, the second with 6 persons, untill the final 1 person, giving it: 7 + 6 + 5 + 4 + 3 + 2 + 1 = 28 or better still deriving a sequencial formula thus;
1, 2, 3, 4, 5. . . . . .n - 1

=> n(n - 1)/2
=> 8(7)/2
=> 56/2
=> 28

Ok...


I don hear you

So if you understand rightly that kishi can do and undo in HIS STORY why do you speak so rigidly on certain issues

Like this izanagi issue..

KazeKage1: Naruto was given the Kyuubi which he's handled pretty well so far,no?

You need to un'stand that Kishi holds ALL the pawns and CAN do whatever he wants with ANY of the characters. The fact the Nagato was "given" the Rinnegan didn't mean it was visible or he knew anything about it, he needed something to 'awaken it' and the death or his parents or the war which made him an orphan was the turning point.

So, don't hold out on the possibility of Naruto become the next non-uchiha wielder of the rinnegan hijo.

Just want to add chemistry is derived from an arabic word

khiaa: xxxx

I have shown you where you made the statement

Kindly quote where I came to the defense of the white god

If you claim I'm a liar; so are you for impugning my integrity

All I said is mike vick was convicted of dog fighting which is a criminal offense

Booyah

khiaa: I am not angry at all. but you seem to be., Yes YOU are a fool, and yes YOU are ignorant and arrogant, but kindly show me the post where I said all black africans were ignorant like YOU are, you can't do that because YOU are a LIAR. It is very clear to me that you hate and are racist against african americans.

I dont know u but u came here spewing ur superiority crap
Read ur posts again slowly

I have never claimed to be wise so calling me foolish does not faze me
You are the self proclaimed wise one here.. see all, know all

Your condescending posts

You may call me anything but im no liar...lol

khiaa: UNBELIEVABLE!! Yes dog fighting is illegal, but so is MURDER. So the Nigerian justice system is corrupt, I don't believe that, I am sure the citizens deseve what they get, I'm sure they are guilty of every charge. Wow!! I sound just as ignorant as you do, and what the hell do you know about racism in America. Do you think Mike is the only person in America that has harmed an animal? Boy, you people are exausting, some of your mentality is really screwed uped when it comes to caucasians. I really wish some of you could come to the USA and recieve the welcome you deserve.

khiaa: You are so right, but what is funny is alot of ignorant people on this forum think they are immune from American racism because they think whites only hate african americans but what they fail to understand is that they hate foreign blacks even more. Don't be fooled by smiling faces.

[quote author=nadia_SA]Then wot must I do nau[/quote]Hmmm... me sef I tire
I made some posts earlier just be situationally aware and God will watch over you

Don't use bling n fly shoes

Some more from the article

You tell them to watch their back, they will be screaming rights

Tosh baba pls keep advising them ooo

Don't enter the matrix.. it will chew you raw
Go and exercise your rights in gaol

This is BIG BUSINESS talking....MODERN DAY SLAVERY

Prior to the 1970s, private corporations were prohibited from using prison labor as a result of the chain gang and convict leasing scandals. But in 1979, the US Department of Justice admits that congress began a process of deregulation to "restore private sector involvement in prison industries to its former status, provided certain conditions of the labor market were met.” Over the last 30 years, at least 37 states have enacted laws permitting the use of convict labor by private enterprise, with an average pay of $0.93 to $4.73 per day.

Federal prisoners receive more generous wages that range from $0.23 to $1.25 per hour, and are employed by Unicor, a wholly owned government corporation established by Congress in 1934. Its principal customer is the Department of Defense, from which Unicor derives approximately 53 percent of its sales. Some 21,836 inmates work in Unicor programs. Subsequently, the nation's prison industry – prison labor programs producing goods or services sold to other government agencies or to the private sector -- now employs more people than any Fortune 500 company (besides General Motors), and generates about $2.4 billion in revenue annually. Noah Zatz of UCLA law school estimates that:

“Well over 600,000, and probably close to a million, inmates are working full-time in jails and prisons throughout the United States. Perhaps some of them built your desk chair: office furniture, especially in state universities and the federal government, is a major prison labor product. Inmates also take hotel reservations at corporate call centers, make body armor for the U.S. military, and manufacture prison chic fashion accessories, in addition to the iconic task of stamping license plates.”

Some of the largest and most powerful corporations have a stake in the expansion of the prison labor market, including but not limited to IBM, Boeing, Motorola, Microsoft, AT&T, Wireless, Texas Instrument, Dell, Compaq, Honeywell, Hewlett-Packard, Nortel, Lucent Technologies, 3Com, Intel, Northern Telecom, TWA, Nordstrom's, Revlon, Macy's, Pierre Cardin, Target Stores, and many more. Between 1980 and 1994 alone, profits went up from $392 million to $1.31 billion. Since the prison labor force has likely grown since then, it is safe to assume that the profits accrued from the use of prison labor have reached even higher levels.

In an article for Mother Jones, Caroline Winter details a number of mega-corporations that have profited off of inmates:

“In the 1990s, subcontractor Third Generation hired 35 female South Carolina inmates to sew lingerie and leisure wear for Victoria's Secret and JCPenney. In 1997, a California prison put two men in solitary for telling journalists they were ordered to replace 'Made in Honduras' labels on garments with 'Made in the USA.'"

According to Winter, the defense industry is a large part of the equation as well:

“Unicor, says that in addition to soldiers' uniforms, bedding, shoes, helmets, and flak vests, inmates have 'produced missile cables (including those used on the Patriot missiles during the Gulf War)' and 'wiring harnesses for jets and tanks.' In 1997, according to Prison Legal News, Boeing subcontractorMicroJet had prisoners cutting airplane components, paying $7 an hour for work that paid union wages of $30 on the outside.”

Oil companies have been known to exploit prison labor as well. Following the explosion of the Deepwater Horizon rig that killed 11 workers and irreparably damaged the Gulf of Mexico for generations to come, BP elected to hire Louisiana prison inmates to clean up its mess. Louisiana has the highest incarceration rate of any state in the nation, 70 percent of which are African-American men. Coastal residents desperate for work, whose livelihoods had been destroyed by BP’s negligence, were outraged at BP’s use of free prison labor.

In the Nation article that exposed BP’s hiring of inmates, Abe Louise Young details how BP tried to cover up its use of prisoners by changing the inmates' clothing to give the illusion of civilian workers. But nine out of 10 residents of Grand Isle, Louisiana are white, while the cleanup workers were almost exclusively black, so BP’s ruse fooled very few people.

Private companies have long understood that prison labor can be as profitable as sweatshop workers in third-world countries with the added benefit of staying closer to home. Take Escod Industries, which in in the 1990s abandoned plans to open operations in Mexico and instead "moved to South Carolina, because the wages of American prisoners undercut those of de-unionized Mexican sweatshop workers," reports Josh Levine in a 1999 article that appeared in Perpective Magazine. The move was fueled by the state, which gave a $250,000 "equipment subsidy" to Escod along with industrial space at below-market rent. Other examples listed by Gordon Lafer in the American Prospect include Ohio's Honda supplier, which "pays its prison workers $2 an hour for the same work for which the UAW has fought for decades to be paid $20 to $30 an hour. Konica, which has hired prisoners to repair its copiers for less than 50 cents an hour. And in Oregon, where private companies can “lease” prisoners at a bargain price of $3 a day."

Even politicians have been known to tap into prison labor for their own personal use. In 1994, a contractor for GOP congressional candidate Jack Metcalf hired Washington state prisoners to call and remind voters he was pro-death penalty. After winning his campaign, he claimed to have no knowledge of the scandal. Perhaps this is why Senator John Ensign (R-NV) introduced a bill earlier this year to "require all low-security prisoners to work 50 hours a week." After all, The New York Times reminds us that "creating a national prison labor force has been a goal of his since he went to Congress in 1995."

In an unsettling turn of events lawmakers have begun ditching public employees in favor of free prison labor. The New York Times recently reported that states are "enlisting prison labor to close budget gaps" to offset cuts in "federal financing and dwindling tax revenue." At a time of record unemployment, inmates are being hired to "paint vehicles, clean courthouses, sweep campsites and perform many other services done before the recession by private contractors or government employees." In Wisconsin, prisoners are now taking up jobs that were once held by unionized workers, as a result of Governor Scott Walker’s contentious anti-union law.

red jasper: The favors of the favors political or otherwise are a legit element of the prison complex but the focal point of this prison system is INMATE LABOR. With blacks being 6.5 times higher to be incarerated than whites and receiving 60% longer sentencing times for the same crimes it makes you go HMMMMM!

21st-Century Slaves: How Corporations Exploit Prison Labor



This article talks about the Black Codes and more, definitely worth checking out!
http://www.alternet.org/story/151732/21st-century_slaves%3A_how_corporations_exploit_prison_labor?page=0%2C0

Its a bloody vicious cycle
You have to open your eyes so you are not swallowedup by the system

From the article...

The modern-day version of convict leasing was recently spotted in Georgia, where Governor Nathan Deal proposed sending unemployed probationers to work in Georgia's fields as a solution to a perceived labor shortage following the passage of the country’s most draconian anti-immigrant law. But his plan backfired when some of the probationers began walking off their jobs because the fieldwork was too strenuous.