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I have been dating a guy for three years now. At first, everything was smooth, so gentlemanly and cultured. I really like him, but after few years down the line, we went to different institutions, we still see once a month, but the relationship has lost it's spark, and there is this new guy I'm starting to like, but he treats me disrespectfully, since I've gotten used to my boyfriend's princely attitude.



Should I break up with him, I'm confused guys....

adeboi1991:
no....u still av a lot of work to do

I should sit for Post Jamb, or wait for next year to do Jamb again?

I was wondering if 205 is enough to get me on the track to post utme, is it enough pls

You make fun of my raw hair, it maybe thick and ordinary but its not ugly. It is raw as nature itself, as Africa is the land of mother nature. You may despise my tan skin, and bony structure... but I won't give up my black skin for the world. You call our girls ugly, but dark or fair, they always have their own beauty. The sparkle in their eyes, the glow in their cheeks and their light laughter.
Africa isn't just a continent
it's our home!




#SayNoToRacism

lekjons:
LMAO!!
sharp girl! she stylishly said "you too mumu for her liking!"

u get brain lol... no leaves a 'perfect' guy, serz, is she cra.zy?

if not the majority, I certainly noticed it. Gone are the days you could actually cross check and correct the mistakes, don't fret God is in control.

Interesting15:
Is it that jamb changed your subject too?

yeah, economics.

Eleniyan15:
a curse.....trash
watch out for top federal uni and state uni this year

May God Punish DiBU abi be e name

are you also a Jambite? I'm just scared cause the cut off of Jamb/ post utme would make people regret.

As you all know, everyone is probably enjoying the grace of Dibu's +40, you may call it a blessing... but let's think again. If every Dic.k and Harry get 200+ due to unmerited favour, caused by JAMB's in competence, don't you think cut off would go off the roof.


I talk mine... wetin u guys think?

Not quite certain, its like approximating ur result, your mark is probably higher than that... but the difference is not much. God is in Control!

Aje(witch) meeting place... I can see the AC from here

Donpizzle:
Spoken and written English aren't the same. He is probably good in written English buh nt fluent in it. Very possible.

I love the way u think... are u a mind reader or some thing.

okay, everyone makes mistakes, Let's not murder the OP. instead of laughing, we should think about that "maybe-fake" score.

olac21:
Did anyone ask for that?

Excuse you, smartass.

Economics is so complex... chai, I read and read, and mistakenly on purpose, tossed into Kanga... Chikenaa

Very cute... I feel like becoming darker.

what a piddy, wait and see how life unfolds.

Broke up with my bf, a day after valentine's day. Kicked his sorry ass to the curb, he deserved it for taking me for granted.

sorry guys, I had written it for awhile now, so I just Copied and pasted it from my Website... happy reading!

it seems it's easy to remember NLanders, I'm a newbie

He doesn’t know you’re interested: Ladies here’s the thing about us- we think we can read everyone’s mind. But believe it or not, that super- hero power doesn’t exist…and it especially doesn’t exist when it comes to the men in our lives. The bottom line is that men don’t know what you’re thinking. I’ve heard from numerous young men who would love to take the next step in a relationship but they feel like they are getting absolutely no “vibes” of interest from the girl they’re interested in. If he hasn’t pursued you yet, maybe it’s time to show a little interest. Don’t be afraid to say hello, start up a conversation, or make some plans. You are just as capable of furthering your friendship with this guy than with anyone of your friends. So go ahead and show a little love (and by a little, I mean a little. We ladies have the tendency to go all out), and then step back and see what happens. 2. He’s just not that into you: So you went ahead and showed a little love, and still, nothing. It’s time to consider the possibility that maybe he’s just not that into you. I know a lot of women have the tendency to jump to this conclusion immediately, and start getting down on themselves wondering: Am I good enough? Am I pretty enough? Is there something wrong with me? Here’s my conclusion with this whole thing. Maybe it has nothing to do with you, and everything to do with him. If he’s not that into you…then he’s not for you. I always remind my single friends that at the end of the day, you want to be with someone who is just as crazy about you as you are about them. Don’t force the fit with a man who doesn’t appreciate you just where you are at. You are worth far more than that. Maybe it’s time to consider moving on. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Wait for someone who views you as a catch worth finding. 3. He’s afraid: Believe it or not girls, some of these eligible bachelors are just as insecure and unsure as you are. Afraid of rejection, of heart break, and of failure- it takes a lot of courage and confidence to go ahead and make a move, and some men aren’t there yet. If you are worried your secret interest might be fearful, the best thing you can do for him is pray. Ask God to give him strength and courage, pray for his heart, soul, mind and strength. There’s nothing you can do to erase his fears besides prayer, because ultimately, fears are something that must be healed from within. This is God’s thing if you know what I mean. 4. He’s working through his own issues: I think the biggest favor we can do for ourselves as women is to stop blaming his lack of pursuit on ourselves. If he’s not asking you out, there is a good chance it has so much more to do with him, and so very little to do with you. Many of the guys I’ve spoken to explained that their failure of pursuing a girl is a reflection of the fact that they are still getting their “stuff” together. Figuring out his career, finding a good job, moving our from under his parent’s roof, dealing with past hurts, or getting right with God are just some of the things I’ve heard from men who are working out some things in their lives. I applaud those men, because at the end of the day a healthy relationship begins with two people who have done some good solid work on themselves. Those who are willing to put the work in up front will have so much less work to do when they are united with another in holy matrimony. If he’s not ready to pursue you now then there’s a good chance it’s better he didn’t! Take that as a sign and instead of waiting around obsessing over his next move, use your time to reflect on your personal journey. What areas of your life need some focus? Some healing? Some work? What goals should you be working toward? Take some time to do some of this work in your own life. Because healthy people will always make for healthy relationships. 5. He doesn’t think the timing is right: Sometimes timing can be a matter of perspective. I remember the months of developing a friendship with my husband, wondering when would be the right time to take the next step and start dating. Looking back, his idea of the right time, and my idea of the right time were totally different. But in reflecting at my story I also know this: God’s timing for our relationship was so outrageously right. There were so many things that could have gone wrong had the timing been anything other than what it was. I think what it comes down to is that the only One who really knows what good timing means, is the inventor of time Himself. Seek to connect with God, to know His heart, and ask Him to lead both you and your certain interest to just the right time in just the right way. God is good and opening the doors for things that are right, and closing them hard for things that are not.

I told u I was confused, see now interesting... gobe for Law students.

Hello guys, I just got confused, are Law students to have economics in their JAMB combo? thanks in advance.

Without further ado, get more candidates who also suffered the plight, write a letter of complaints to the board Asap, or threaten to sue... its your right, don't dull urself.

My bestie! She knows me like Omo Igbo knows money... no offense

labodinho:
English Language and any three Arts or Social Science subjects. Music, Fine Arts and Principles of Accounting are not accepted. Accepts either Economics or Commerce but not both.

So Law students would have to do five subjects, right?

hello, what's the Jamb Combo for Law in Unilag, thank u plenty!!

ShyNeptune:
learn to be courageous


I'm did not apply for medicine.
I did not apply for law either.

I applied for physics

Noted. I should have written it, so if I don't pass exceptional well, I could go for pre-degree. I'm for law! the cut-off is outta this world!!

ShyNeptune:
I'll be writing the exam too... and I'm in SS2

Really? you're brave, I was too scared to apply for the form, since I've not sat any external exam. What course?

Oghumu1:
This place is suppose to be made for Jambites, especially those who did theirs today. But all I see is some set of people tellings us the year they did theirs.

well, I'm not exactly qualified for JAMB(ss2 student) but my senior wrote it, said questions were hardly repeated. Last days in Forcado high school was technical

rhymesnoni:
Aha, next tin pls help ah lost ma virginity.

lol, what?