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Oloshos evriwia...

the only thing that makes a woman calm and faithful is nt money,love,care or affection but THE GRACE OF GOD.

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11 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Telling You The Truth, According To Science

Wouldn’t the world be such a simple place if someone’s nose really grew when they told a lie? Then we wouldn’t have to spend so much time trying to determine whether people are telling the truth. Luckily, though, there are scientific ways to tell if someone is being honest that can guide us in the right direction. The signs of honesty, which we'll get to below, are a combination of both verbal and non-verbal cues that all are dead giveaways, based on research and practice.

It can be nothing short of frustrating when we feel someone might be lying to us, but we can’t seem to get to the bottom of whether they are really telling the truth or fibbing. Lies can be thrown at us by countless people in our lives — from friends, to family, to significant others, coworkers and more. Sometimes the lies are tiny little white ones — like, “I love your new dress,” or “No, your hair doesn’t look messy today” — but, other times they might be big and very significant — like, “No, I didn’t cheat on you,” or “It wasn’t me who stole money from you.” When considering the latter group of lies, I’m sure many of us can agree that it's vital to be able to tell if the person is telling us the truth or not. For that reason, let’s discuss some tactics that could be helpful in cracking the case. Here are 11 scientific ways to tell if someone is telling you the truth.

1. Their Story Is Longer & Detailed

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If you’re suspecting someone is lying, yet they tell you a story that is lengthy, complete, and fully detailed, it’s likely they’re actually telling the truth, according to Psychology Today. The outlet said a short story, or one that seems to be strung together and incomplete, might tend to be one that is fabricated.

2. They’re Holding The Right Amount Of Eye Contact

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Eyes have the power to be extremely telling at times, particularly when it comes to whether people are telling the truth or not. When I think about it, I assume liars would have a difficult time holding eye contact, but it turns out the opposite is true. According to research reported on in Psychology Today, “liars maintain more deliberate eye contact than do truthful people.” With that in mind, pay attention to the eye contact the person in question is maintain with you — if it doesn’t feel like a complete stare down, and rather is moments of eye contact followed by glances away, it could be a sign they’re being genuine.

3. Their Breathing Is Steady

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Business Insider spoke to Dr. Lillian Glass, a behavioral analyst and body language expert and author of The Body Language of Liars, who said someone who is lying to you may begin to breathe heavily as they’re speaking. “In essence, they are out of breath because their heart rate and blood flow change,” Glass said of liars. “Your body experiences these types of changes when you’re nervous and feeling tense — when you lie.” Is the person you’re speaking with maintaining steady breathing? The words they’re speaking could likely be the truth.

4. Their Voice Is Steady, Too

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In addition to steady breathing, those who are telling the truth also tend to have a steady speaking voice. Real Simple spoke to Gregg McCrary, a retired FBI criminal profiler and a crime analyst in Fredericksburg, VA, who said it’s important to first pick up on how the person usually speaks (animated, subdued, etc.) and then take note of if their voice is changing as they tell certain parts of a story. If their voice is steady, it’s a good indication the person is telling the truth.

5. They Neglect To Blame Negative Outside Forces

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While liars tend to use negative outside forces as excuses (e.g., “I’m late again because there was so much traffic”), truth tellers are less likely to do so. Fox News Magazine quoted Noah Zanden, science communicator and chief executive of Quantified Communications, who said liars will tend to blame these outside forces because deep down — on some level — they might actually feel guilty about the fact that what they’re saying isn’t true. Listen closely to the person you’re speaking with. Are they constantly blaming in this way? If not, they might be in the clear.

6. You Haven’t Noticed Them Touching Their Nose


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Watch the person’s hands. Are they reaching up and touching their nose as they’re speaking? Nose touching is a sign of fibbing, according to Dr. Alan Hirsch of The Smell & Taste Treatment and Research Foundation in Chicago. This is because certain tissues in the nose usually engorge when a person is telling a lie, releasing histamine and making the nose itch. If the person hasn’t been touching their nose at all, take this as a good sign.

7. They’re Not Covering Their Throat

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Likewise, hands will cover certain “vulnerable” body parts when someone is telling a lie, according to Glass. Glass told Business Insider the areas liars tend to cover include their throat, head, abdomen, or chest. On the flip side, truth tellers won’t have the urge to do so, so watch their body movements and take note of how they’re moving and what they’re covering.

8. Their Rate Of Blinking Doesn’t Change

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Back to the eyes for a moment — blinking is a very easy way to detect if someone is telling you the truth. Those who are being honest will maintain a consistent rhythm of blinking as they’re speaking to you. Oppositely, according to research discussed by the Daily Mail, a liar will blink more slowly when they’re telling a lie, and then the blinking speed will increase up to eight time faster than normal after the lie has been told.

9. They’re Speaking In Complete Sentences

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According to research out of UCLA on the topic of lying, liars tend to use sentence fragments more often while speaking, while truth tellers tend to speak in complete sentences. So, in addition to picking up on the non-verbal cues we’ve discussed already in detail, be sure to pay attention to how the person is forming sentences.

10. There’s No Fake Smile In Sight

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A genuine smile (that which engages the eye muscles) is good. A fake smile could mean something is up. The Telegraph reported on a study that showed one of the body movements associated with a lie is a fake smile. Why? According to the study, liars have an “increased activity of the ‘zygomatic major muscles’, located around the mouth,” and it can force the face into a fake smile.

11. Your Instincts Are Telling You It’s The Truth

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Did anyone ever tell you you should follow your instincts? Turns out that when we’re deciding whether to trust someone or not, we really should rely on those automatic instincts we have after all. According to research out of the Haas School of Business at the University of California, Berkeley, our instincts for determining whether someone is lying or telling the truth are fairly strong. The research showed, rather, that it’s our conscious minds that sometimes let us judge the situation the wrong way. If you have that gut feeling either way, listen to it.

Now that you’re schooled on some of the tell tale signs someone is being honest, you might be pleasantly surprised to learn the people around you are more truthful than you might have imagined. We al know not everyone is going to tell the truth all of the time, so at least now we can more easily detect when stories or statements are honest, or big ‘ol fibs.

SOURCE: TRENDZ BASE.COM

op,you try.but this are mean for white People not Africans or Nigerians..
Do you when u catch a man unto your babe,she go deny in front of you..lol..
Na try am with oloshi s ooooo,they can even to God

nanizle:
Sighs.

People fail to realize that the so called pastors are still ordinary men just like you and I.

If they commit crimes, they should be investigated and persecuted. But Nigerians no go gree, they go about victim blaming and refuse to entertain any idea that their pastor can commit a crime even with evidence staring them in the face. It's sad that this guy is only now making noise because his sister may have been a victim.

That been said, if the kini was mutual and consenting, I see no reason why these girls should disturb us with their private affairs.

As for Suleman, I don't have any issue with the guy. It's obvious he likes big nyash and he's very generous to his babes.

Konji does not discriminate against anybody... pastor or not.

Am begining to see that Religion is Deceptive...I believe in God but Religion is a slavery unto we Africans!!!!!....Its better to Live by the Principles of Nature than Being Too Religious and foolishly obyeing your Pastor!!!

IamAirforce1:
This men of God don become endangered species o

Am begining to see that Religion is Deceptive...I believe in God but Religion is a slavery unto we Africans!!!!!....Its better to Live by the Principles of Nature than Being Too Religious and foolishly obyeing your Pastor!!!

Sammypope4all:
Hmmmm. You just can't have everything all in stuck for you, for you alone Mba. Like it's said, you can't be shorter than me at the same time taller than me: you've got to choose one.

A rich dude who doesn't give a 4k about how you feel after hiscum or a "just there dude" who loves and cherish you but can't buy you a Range Rover. Choose one ladies

it will always be rhe rich dude...

Sunnymatey:
Rich guys and arrogance are like . . . . . . . . Ladies, money does not guarantees happiness in marriage.

no be Nigerian Lady u dey Tell that one....

okenwa:
Portipha's wife acquised Joseph of trying to rape her. The husband believed because joseph left his garment behind while fleeing from her.
Otobo acquised Suleiman of same issue.

Only God knows the truth in all things.

But why she is coming out now and the reason behind it is a bit controversial.

From all indication, Suleiman is under attack from perceived enemies

Am begining to see that Religion is Deceptive...I believe in God but Religion is a slavery unto we Africans!!!!!....Its better to Live by the Principles of Nature than Being Too Religious and foolishly obyeing your Pastor!!!

SweetBoyFriend:

Strap a bomb on yourself and go kill your own people ??

Why ??

I just want to know what their motives and agenda are

You do it because of a God who doesn't exist or you just want to send a message to the world to know that you love killing yourself for no reason or you want us to know that you're still stupid ??

These people need education

I repeat again, these people need education

education is Harram

ISDKING:
Wickedness at its peak. But what would be the reward of the whistle blower in this case ?

if the blower na Muslim,na 70 virgin but if na christain Apostle suleman go give am one babe

Ralphlauren:
Apostle suleman should stop using the altar and church as a platform to lie to his members. He should stop using Christianity, the bible and God to shield his lies.

At this rate, he is going to further incur the wrath of God.

He should remember this bible verse.

Psalm 101:7King James Version (KJV)

He that worketh deceit shall not dwell within my house: he that telleth lies shall not tarry in my sight.

Psalm 101:7New International Version (NIV)

No one who practices deceit will dwell in my house; no one who speaks falsely will stand in my presence.

Someone should tag lalasticlala. Front page please.

Am begining to see that Religion is Deceptive...I believe in God but Religion is a slavery unto we Africans!!!!!....Its better to Live by the Principles of Nature than Being Too Religious and foolishly obyeing your Pastor!!!

IpobExposed:
I hate terrorist so much. Thousands has lost their lives to terrorist groups like Boko Haram and IPOB terrorist groups.

This is because of the intense brain washing.

A Boko haram terrorist believes in virgins.
While the other ones believes USA and Britain will come if they die.

Now Shiite has stopped. The military will continue using hard hands on this people till they are subdued finally.
So peace can reign.

Sai Baba Sai Baba

IpobExposed

lol..Leave IPOd and condem Ur fellow Memeber for promoting juhad for mohammed..islam is evil..Period

Jacksparr0w127:
Wow wow wow

That's all I can say

oloshoooooooo

jimmyero:
Apostle must hear this

funkeee,funkeee.ayamei,egba mi ooooooooooooooo

cbngov01:
Make I park here

Wait o, the guy looks like ago fayose....na him brother?

THE LADY HAND LOOKS LIKE A MANS HAND..LOL

HungerBAD:
Lol.

When the interviewer asked HungerBAD what he had to say about Tonto Dikeh,her marriage,her lifestyle,these pictures and everything.

HungerBAD answered.

" ASHAWO WEY GO HUSBAND HOUSE DEY HOLIDAY"

Tonto Dikeh,welcome back from your "Holiday" how was your trip?

haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

NA WAA OOOOOOOOOOOOOOO..NIGERIANS ARE TOO RELIGIOUS TO SEEK FOR THE TRUTH.SULEMAN IS A MORTAL AND NOT GOD..WHEN SOMEONE IS ACCUSED ESPECIALLY A PASTOR,HIS FOLLOWERS FIGHT FOR HIM,WHY?..LET SULEMAN COME AND CLARIFY HIM SELF.....AM JUST HATING RELIGION........NIGERIAN OWN TOO MUCH.

GlorifiedTunde:
This is becoming rather confident of her.

Apostle needs to do something if he's trully not guilty.

NIGERIANS ARE TOO RELIGIOUS TO SEEK THE TRUTH.

CharleyCharley:
Nigeria is an evil forest

lol