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In life i have experienced loss of virtually everythin apart from my life.
my parents gave me to my grandma at the age of 4.i lived with my grandma in joy.she loved me and i always call her mummy.when my mum came to visit us at the village when i was 11years,i couldnt recognise her and always force myself to call her mum.i am the last child of 4 kids.


i never experienced the love of both parents.my siblings saw me as a stranger.
at age 12,i went to live wih my parents and siblings cos my grandma who was struggling with high blood pressure and diabetes was terribly sick and needed urgent treatment in ondo state,so i was returned to my parents.sge died there

before her death she assured me that her son in unitefd state would take be abroad abd sponsor my education,she said am like her last child that i would never suffer.
my life with my siblings and parents was strange as i foind it difficult to adapt.
i was a stranger in their midst.

i started working immediately i finished secondary school,i saved up for my acceptance fee and accomodation fee.i gained admission to moshood abiola polytechnic where i studied mass communications.
my parents paid my school fees but gives me 3k monthly which was not good enough.
anytime i go home during weekends my dad would chase me away that i should go and sit in schooleven when eerybody had travelled.he says i want to come and consume his food.that was how i ended up always spending weekends at my boyfriends house.

i met him before i gained admission.he was physically challenged.brokebut loving.

along the line i became pregnant for him.he went to meet my parents and told them that he would marty me.my parents were against it and gave me abortion pills because he was physically challenged,broke and yoruba.am igbo.

i took the pills but d baby didnt abort.when they found out about this.they said i should come home and go for D and C.Irefused and avoided home.they disowned me and didnt pay my school fees anymore.

my man was too broke to sponsor me so i ended up as a school drop out.i gave birth to the baby but he was still birth.

i got pregnant again twice but it ended up as miscarriage.untill i gave birth to my daughter.

i thrn eent to appologise to mt parents with the baby.they forgave me and accepted my child but wanted my man to come and pay my bride price.but no money to pay uptill now.my mum was struggling with stroke

my man got a job at abuja but ended up loosing the job due to this cindition(lame)my mum died.i gave birth to a son.i started teachingvin a private school.i immediately
got registered into school of teaching as a part time student.i sponsored myself untill i graduated with nce certificate.i built a room too without toilet and kitchen.i bathe outhside the house early mornings and late at night but i had peace of mind.

i never sold my body for money.when i first asked for help for my pop corn business.a nairalander charted me up knowing fully well i have a man and kids,he wanted to date me he said he would change my life forever

i politely refused his offer.

nairalanders set me up for business i have gone to the market to buy fruits three times now.the business is doing well thanks.

part of my house collapsed nd the following nairalanders helped me out
1.john bender 10000
2.my uche v.mo......50000
3.mr.france man 50000
4.Mr Akeem... 10000
5.mr monday sadi... 3000.

with this fund,i have been able ti fix my house and lay foundation for sitting room,toilet and kitchen.i slept in my room last night.

Thank you nairalanders i appreciate your efforts in my life.

i am not a scammer.i am a hustler.i am trying my best to be both a father and a mother to my kids.i am trying to be legs to my spouse pending when God will answer him.

i will upload pictures later when u borrow a good phone

sorry for the long post.

his parents must be full of wisdon as its hard to see an old man who knows his date of birth.

most old people just guess their ages.
happy birthday grand pa.its a priviledge to attain such age.

where are onila and introvert?o have been on nairaland since 2013.i miss the days of miss nairaland.

i think mrs.nairaland should be organised so that i can participate,as i was just a silrnt observer then.

i love pouring garri into white nylon,add water,tie it,shake it very well,pierce the bottom part of the nylon and drink my garri,the feeling is wow.

i wont,am number4

kamez:
look for a 1 room self con, as soon as possible, make sure the landlord is willing to accept two years rent upfront, (so u don't start bothering urself about rent renewal anytime soon) then quote or send me a pm I will pay for it agent fee and any other cost included.. be strong dear it is well

this was what happened,i sent him a mail that it was my personal home that fell,not rented that i will need amount from him,i told him d house needs roofing and plastering.he said i should give him an estimate,i told him 150k will solve the issue that he should pls assist me with 50k,i would get d rest from family and friends.
after people around adviced me to rent an apartment first then renovate mine later when i have the means.i sent him another mail that i have found a room self contain of 70k per year and agent will get 15k.that theres no agreement fee in abuja.ihavent gotten any reply sice then.
i dont want to ever beg on nairaland again,am onky explaining because people think he has assisted me.

pls a mode should help me take down this thread.

kamez:
look for a 1 room self con, as soon as possible, make sure the landlord is willing to accept two years rent upfront, (so u don't start bothering urself about rent renewal anytime soon) then quote or send me a pm I will pay for it agent fee and any other cost included.. be strong dear it is well

people who want to help me are unable to help me due to this post,i hope i didnt offend you thats why u didnt help me.my mind is clear.sir,you own your help and can help whosoever you wish to help,how can i force you.i didnt work for you to even expect such help.i got no help from you but it is well with us all,amen.

emipan:
So how did it end or still in the process?

still in process ma

kamez:
look for a 1 room self con, as soon as possible, make sure the landlord is willing to accept two years rent upfront, (so u don't start bothering urself about rent renewal anytime soon) then quote or send me a pm I will pay for it agent fee and any other cost included.. be strong dear it is well

pls do something for me sir

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kamez:
look for a 1 room self con, as soon as possible, make sure the landlord is willing to accept two years rent upfront, (so u don't start bothering urself about rent renewal anytime soon) then quote or send me a pm I will pay for it agent fee and any other cost included.. be strong dear it is well

sir i have sent u an email.may God bless u

kamez:
check ur email, I sent u a message

sir,the pne am using cant even open mails.pls be patient with me sir,i will use someone elses phone to acess the mail when he comes back.i am very sorry sir.pls bear with me.

Mskrisx:
@Kamez. Mehn bro I had to log in when I saw this. May the good Lord bless you so much that that will leave you surprised. You are a blessing. @op nne smile for your God has said enough is enough.

am smiling

kamez:
drop ur email address so that I can send u a message ASAP

ogambajoycem@gmail.com or whatapp 09032756718. thank you

DAVIDO said love is sweet o,when money enter love is sweeter.i am happy in my relationship that has no money,i would be happier if GOD blesses my spouse to spend money on me.for example i stayed with my spouse for eight years without tasting ice cream.

he bought me a plate of ice cream last month and he saw the joy in my eyes and appologised for starving me of such joy.

money is important in a relationship but men should not be pressured.

kamez:
look for a 1 room self con, as soon as possible, make sure the landlord is willing to accept two years rent upfront, (so u don't start bothering urself about rent renewal anytime soon) then quote or send me a pm I will pay for it agent fee and any other cost included.. be strong dear it is well

wow!

Iyabo OBASANJO BELLO comes to mind

Greatsm:
Hello, i just sent you 3000 naira.

You don't have to give up or question God. See it as though God want to complete your joy by making it possible to go get a better and more hygienic place to stay. Do get more to add to this little token of mine and find an affordable but clean place close to your shop to rent and you can plead with the owner to allow you pay for like three months or so. Cheers!

may GOD bless you.i got it this evening.thank you

Fountainofyouth:
I'm a Christian o, but pls go and sleep, the Bible that said prevention is better than cure isn't stupid, God cannot be mocked.

an not lying,it actually happened.i didnt believe it myself until she testified in church.God may actually give the op two kids only and they will both be AS.

Be prayerful,GOD changed my course mate's genotype from AS to AA.Now they have two healthy kids even expecting the third ine.her husband is AS.there is nothing GOD cannot do.

Mariangeles:
Take down the post to avoid further humiliation.
Never give people the power to use your situation against you.
Try seeking help from those around you. Even some churches might offer you a temporary place to stay for free.

how do I take it down

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bender:
where is your location and location of the house?

church gate,bakassi road,around kurudu market.f.c.t.abuja.i will pick u up when u get to the market.just call me

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my fone doesnt upload pictures on nairaland.iwill bortow another phine and upload later

pictures

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how can God give me a business and take away my home?are my sins worst than that of others?

why is my life filled with problems.

when botrix my spouse asked for help to repair the one room we manage,the one room that serves as our toilet,bathroom,kitchen and everything.some people tagged him a scammer.

the room just collapsed now
it has finally collapsed.

my family will be sleeping in my shop until a miracle happens.
pls dont ask me for pictures i am not in the right frame of mind now.may be i will be better by tomorrow

i am getting tired of life.

my pop corn business will be restarting tomorrow.watch out for updates

walkwithgod:
you are an amazing woman, God bless you abundantly.

I will call you next week.

Cheers !!

thanks.i will be expecting the call

OgwuEgo:
Welldone, there is dignity in labour, I will bookmark this and check back later. Have faith and keep striving, I am also in Abuja, I will patronize you for the culture, when corona eases.

i really appreciate.God bless you.

SpicyMimi:
Well organized...i almost cried too. May God bless your hustle.

we will all cry tears of joy ijn.amen