Family › Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by bjtinz: 5:37pm On Dec 10, 2021 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Why won't she be tired when you stress the life out of her?
Children supervision - na she.
Cleaning and chores - na she.
Cooking - na she.
And she still has to go out there to make money else you tag her a liability. Now, tell me, why won't she complain of exhaustion?
Men, please, learn to alleviate stress off your wives. Stress kills. Kills health, libido and in the long term, puts a strain on your sexual/intimate lives. Don't know why you folks keep using these stale lines. She's soo tired. Really? Even if it means laying let him do the work? What about the man's feelings too, doesn't it matter? Why must it be all about her? Her less virtuous colleagues out there have no qualms servicing tens daily, yet wify is too tired for just once or twice a week with her betrothed. She being manipulative, end of |
Family › Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by bjtinz: 5:25pm On Dec 10, 2021 |
craigkoel1989: I tell you it is not easy, madam will tell me she needs to rest for 30 minutes I should wake her and we will end up the next day with no show, right from time wasn't really interested in it, anytime it happens I just watch xxvideo and relieve myself Chai!! Una dey try ooo.  |
Investment › Re: See How Much I Got After Opening My Piggybank (Kolo) by bjtinz: 5:14pm On Dec 10, 2021 |
QuickStandard: I get charges of more than 15k a month. So I doubt your assertion Easy.  |
Politics › Re: Precious Chikwendu: I Never Had Sex With Femi Fani-Kayode For 6 Years by bjtinz: 12:51am On Dec 08, 2021 |
Na wa o. FFk son suffer |
Education › Re: My Daughter Was Bullied At Faith Academy, Abuja & Sexually Assaulted - Parent by bjtinz: 12:27am On Dec 08, 2021 |
chinyce: I don't think Bullying us the Issue here. Bullying has always been with us from when School was invented.
Bullying could Mar or Build a child.
The issue here is Cultism. Sly died because he Rejected Cultism. Those senior boys did not kill him by bullying. They killed him through cultist activities.
Secrecy, untouchable by school Authorities, fear among other Children, seaminly above the law. These are few attributes of Cultist Practice.
The issue is Cultism not necessarily Bullying. Very true. A very important distinction which is lost on many people. What happened to Sly is reprehensible and should never be condoned Problem now is even simple acts of disciplining a child is taken as bullying. For instance a senior asks you to kneel or 'pick pin' for misbehaving and people now term that as bullying. Seriously? � |
Education › Re: My Daughter Was Bullied At Faith Academy, Abuja & Sexually Assaulted - Parent by bjtinz: 12:20am On Dec 08, 2021 |
jaszplus12: On one hand, some of these bullies actually picked it up from HOME! Do you know that most mothers bully their kids without admitting it? What about fathers? They are not left out as they too in a bid to show that they're in charge they bully wives and this trickles down to the children. Let's look inwards, how you treat your kids reflect on them. How you treat your husband/wife is seen by the children! How you treat your domestic servants isn't hidden either... Since you can get away with it so also the child who become a bully feels powerful!! How exactly does a parent bully his children. You mean if I flog my child that's bullying? I really think some of you guys are taking this thing too far. |
Travel › Re: Passengers Confront Air Peace Staff After Cancelling Flight Delayed For 8 Hours by bjtinz: 9:45pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Surprised to see this. Airpeace is supposed to be one of the better airlines at least from my little experience |
Health › Re: How We Were Vaccinated In The 1960s And 1970s by bjtinz: 9:28pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Not just 70s, even up till late 80/early 90s while in primary school. I can clearly recall receiving meningitis vaccine this way. |
Crime › Re: Mother Watches Her Sons Serially Rape 9-year-old Girl In Enugu (photo) by bjtinz: 12:58pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
GetMeRight: Shame on you. See as you're defending a female who preferred to protect her rapist sons instead of rescuing a female minor in her care. Shame on you You dey mind her. Sapphire is one of the biggest rape apologists on NL, as long as her gender is involved. |
Politics › Re: Buhari Inaugurates 368km Roads Across Nigeria In Two Weeks by bjtinz: 12:54pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
I just passed Abakaliki - Mbok junction along Ogoja- Ikom road few days back and marvelled on the newly asphalted road.
Awka to Onitsha is just about 25mins now
Equally along Makurdi Lafia road.
Let's face it this admin is doing well regarding roads |
Education › Re: Joy Edordu, Mother Of Dowen College Bully Deletes Her Instagram Account (Photos) by bjtinz: 12:13pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Ultimately you do your best as a parent to bring up your child, and pray that he turns out well.
However it's callous to put the blame solely on her. Where they erred was shielding the son from prosection. |
Education › Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by bjtinz: 10:59pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
ashawopikin: I was a bully in school but never went to the extreme, but I discipline people children sha, may God forgive me Hmm. See una  |
Education › Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by bjtinz: 10:56pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Ademola121: I was very shy and gentle in school. So it was like I became a spot for everyone even girls would ride me until one Friday.
My bully came to me to floor me again like he always did but unfortunately I landed him just 2 elbows in the back. Everyone heard the sound it was like thunder! Gbim gbim!
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Just 2 elbows publicly and that was the end. He couldn’t even move on the floor. This happened in js2 and I enjoyed immunity till I left in ss1.
The best thing is to confront your bully. They have their fears too, in fact they are weaker than their victims when pushed to the wall.
If you can’t confront your bully, learn to use your enemy.
I encouraged my children to take taekwando classes so they won’t be like me ☺️☺️ @bolded, not a wise choice, in my opinion. Don't forget why we having this discussion in the first place. The bullies in this case we're hardened cultists who had to no qualms torturing the poor (now late) boy. Those guys can do and undo. To me the best thing is to involve the school (though they may likely not do much), but if becoming too severe them inform ones parents. |
Education › Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by bjtinz: 10:46pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
ukaface: If all of Una be the bullied,where are the bullies Most people after being bullied become bullies themselves, but would rather focus on when they were at the receiving end. |
Education › Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by bjtinz: 10:43pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
SpecialAdviser: I was very thin and they gave me a name. I never liked that name but was not strong enough to fight anybody. Thank God I was brillant. Some strong guys decided to protect me because they feel they will benefit from me in the major exams.
Still, it never stopped them sometimes from calling me that offensive name. I never loved it but had to live by it. Worst of it was some my fellow senior colleagues calling me same name before the juniors. When I decided to live by it and refused showing angry face whenever they call me that name, many of them stopped it. The way the name phased out still remain a misery to me.
Moral lesson is to learn to ignore bullies although it can be hard some times. Lol. Just like I'm reading my own history. I was also thin, as in painfully skinny, and was the butt of hurtful name-calling. Though they never got physical with me, but the nicknames they gave me were painful. However what I lacked in body mass, was made up with intelligence, and was among the brightest in the class and loved by teachers and, like your case, even some of the bullies. Life truly can be funny. Many years down, you won't believe that I'm currently battling excessive weight. . .  |
Politics › Re: Orji Kalu, Umahi ‘in Desperate Move To Return To PDP’ ― Nkole by bjtinz: 12:35am On Dec 03, 2021 |
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Crime › Re: Help..they Just Withdraw Money In My Account. by bjtinz: 1:37pm On Dec 01, 2021 |
All this time you used in posting u should have rushed to the bank |
Health › Re: Omicron COVID Variant Was In Europe Before Detected By South African Scientists. by bjtinz: 6:44pm On Nov 30, 2021 |
BigDawsNet: I [s]Hav a Theory about the new covid Omicron...
I really think the world leaders hav met on close door and they are really not happy with Africans decisions on neglecting Vaccine dosage s.
According to statistics just 6% population in all African countries combined have taking the jab....
The world Health Organization ain't happy about this and they believe Africans travelers will put other continents at risk as long as border is open ...So they Develop a fake non-existent new variant called Omicron whick will appear serious and deadly to help African hav second thought about taking the neccassry vaccine.....
I believe there is Covid 19 generally... But I don't wanna believe in the new variant...
It's just a random theory[/s] Theory ko, practical ni. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Federal Government Survival Fund Congratulation Message by bjtinz: 3:01am On Nov 30, 2021 |
I'm almost tempted to believe OP is trolling us.
Can't believe anyone would fall for such a glaring, poorly constructed scam |
Health › Re: Ayoade Olatunbosun-Alakija BBC Interview On Omicron COVID In South Africa by bjtinz: 10:31am On Nov 29, 2021 |
Righteousness2: So much Deceptions and Delusions in these last of the Last days. [s]You need the wisdom of GOD to operate, if not you fall for the Deceptions and Delusions.
CV is the Red carpet to the Beast System. Everything that is being done about it has 2 major End points . First is Population Control and Depopulation Second target is to connect souls to the Mark of the Beast.
Revelation 13:16-18 And he causeth all, both small and great, rich and poor, free and bond, to receive a mark in their right hand, or in their foreheads:
And that no man might buy or sell, save he that had the mark, or the name of the beast, or the number of his name.
Here is wisdom. Let him that hath understanding count the number of the beast: for it is the number of a man; and his number is Six hundred threescore and six[/s].
@bolded. Courtesy of people like you. |
Crime › Re: Prices Of Litre Of Petrol In Nigeria And 14 Other African Countries by bjtinz: 4:20pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
No wonder smuggling can't stop. All our neighbors have pump prices almost double that of ours. Gabon, Benin, Togo.
Even Ghana far away is at over 400/litre.
Let's get sincere with ourselves. Subsidy has to go. |
Romance › Re: Wtf!! All Simps Must Die!!! (photo) by bjtinz: 2:22pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
Gini bu 'sex tools' Kwa?  |
Crime › Re: Young Couple Found Dead In A Toilet In Ondo State (Photos) by bjtinz: 6:49am On Nov 26, 2021 |
Wow. They look so young? How old were they? RIP to them  |
Health › Re: UK To Ban Travel From 6 Nations As South Africa Detects New COVID Variant by bjtinz: 6:43am On Nov 26, 2021 |
Xilsbridalhouse: You must be a joker ooo
Someone posted and you are deeply hurt by it ? Are you for real ? [s]Why can’t you people let others do what they think is reasonable and doesn’t in anyway hurt other people[/s]?
If you can’t accept his truth, then move on! Why do you want to hinder others?
Seun will never listen to your pleas. Desperately wicked fear mongering and conspiracy peddling nutcases are 'reasonable people??' I laugh in Greek. There's a reason why your type are banned in forums because of the danger they pose. People die because of such irresponsible comments!But for people like you and your likes, the pandemic would have been largely tamed and we go on with our lives. But here it is, getting stronger by the day. 
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Health › Re: UK To Ban Travel From 6 Nations As South Africa Detects New COVID Variant by bjtinz: 6:13am On Nov 26, 2021 |
Righteousness2: Open your eyes, the last days Deceptions are so real. Satan did not tell Eve, the full consequences of what. . . . . . Moderators please you need to take more decisive actions against peddlers like these. Facebook, Twitter, YouTube and likes deletes and bans such posts immediately because they are dangerous. As a result of their reckless actions and utterances, many have died and may still die. 8. Don't post false information on Nairaland. |
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Travel › Re: Ten Things You Should Be Aware Of Before Boarding A Plane In Nigeria by bjtinz: 5:06am On Nov 25, 2021 |
braveheart77: How can you check in Online?
And does this mean i skip the check in point entirely and go straight to the waiting lounge? For the first question, after payment, you proceed to the 'manage booking', enter your reference (PNR), click check in, select your seat then proceed to download and print your boarding pass. It's that simple. For some eg Arik, airpeace, you just need a copy since it's already in duplicate, for others eg Dana, yiu need two copies. For the second question, yes. Just present the printed boarding passes with your printed ticket at the boarding gate and youll be allowed in. At least for most airports I use, Abj, Enu, Lagos old terminal. However like I said in the last post, the only exception so far has been MMA2. They explained due to the nature of airport even with online checkin, one still has queue up. |
Crime › Re: Woman Kills Her Husband, Nasiru Dagana, In Edo State (Video, Photo) by bjtinz: 8:09pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
Rip to him. By the way, are those his children? |
Romance › Re: Finding The Perfect One by bjtinz: 2:12pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: Finding The Perfect One by bjtinz: 2:10pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
valves: You need to understand intersexual dynamics. ladies (and guys too) have a timeline, but most are oblivious of it until much later in life when it's almost too late.
Ladies are at their peak period when they are between ages 18-24 (for some it extends to 26). At this stage they are approached by all kinds of guys, obviously because they are young and beautiful, but this attention they get makes them to feel like they are on top of the world, like goddesses and gifts to humanity. Among those approaching at this stage are people who genuinely want to settle with them for life, but they are not ready to forgo all the attention they are getting from the other guys. They basically want to explore and date different people.
When they approach ages btw 28-34 they realise that they are no longer as attractive as they used to be and are not getting the attention of guys as before (this is the epiphany stage). Then they become desperate to settle down but most guys/suitors have already gotten married or switched their attention to much younger ladies. So the top guys they were interested in during their peak period are no longer available to them. Most ladies at this stage will still adamantly refuse to lower their standards and settle for someone who isn't (in their minds) "up to their (unrealistic) standards", and they keep aging while waiting for "Mr Perfect."
For guys the story is different. Guys peak around 32-36 years. At this age they have worked very hard and made money, are financially independent and ready to settle. But most of them will settle for ladies who are younger (ladies in their 20s), only a handful will go for ladies in their 30s.
Also, our generation is losing it. Some ladies find it hard to keep a man because they do not know their roles as women. They have consciously or unconsciously become hard-core feminist. Reality is most men don't want to settle with such ladies.
Summary is no lady will truthfully say that guys (well-intentioned guys) never approached them in their twenties (peak period). But they are on top of the world at this stage and belive they have all the time in the world and can attract anyone just because they are young and beautiful.
If you are a lady in your 20s (especially mid 20s) pls while you are getting all the attention from guys try and identify a potential suitor to settle down with. The older you get the more difficult it becomes. Quite true, but you also those who were approached and genuinely interested in settling down, only to have thier hearts broken by the guy. I know of at least three of such in my office. |
Politics › Re: Buhari To Igbo Leaders: Your Demands For Nnamdi Kanu's Release Is Heavy by bjtinz: 12:26am On Nov 20, 2021 |
Just to be clear I'm not by any means supporting PMB, but does he have the power to unconditionally release Kanu, especially now that it's in court? I don't think so |
Politics › Re: Passenger Destroys Properties At Lagos Airport Over Missed Flight (Photo, Video) by bjtinz: 10:00am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Chei! The man gather blow sha!!  if that one land for person face, omo na hospital |