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[b]I want to add to what i had posted earlier, even though it may reflect all what has been said before. Women are weird creatures. Agreed with all what others have said, you don't have to pretend being someone else, and the best person you can be is urself. U have been taught to be nice to people, just like hw my parents taught me too, but atimes you shouldn't be too nice, cause such things can be and will be used against you. take for example what frank said earlier. Women might say something but they mean the other. they may say "NO, get lost" when they actually mean "guy, try harder, i don't want to appear cheap to you". you don't have to do everything a woman asks you to do. have the will power to say "NO" in some situations. Like ur second girl, i'm sure she knew ur weakness at saying NO, that's why she had the guts to say she wanted to sleep over in ur bed when she knew that she was going to meet another man. It's insulting to a man. Just be a man, and continue to be urself. but most importantly, learn how to say NO and control ur emotions when it matters most. Okay pal?[/b]

A dude of mine way back in school called me and told me he was in town and he then said we should hook up. I was in my babe's house then and she later asked me when i was leaving that who was that "girl" i talked to on phone. I asked her what gave her the impression it was a girl i was talking to and she said she kn ew the voice over the phone was a girl's. i tried telling her that it wasn't a gir'ls but a guy's, but no, my babe no gree. That led to a shouting arguement between the two of us when she insisted that what she heard was a girl's voice. naturally i just left her and zoomed off. She later sent me a couple of texts that nite calling me a lair and saying that i broke her heart and that i had dashed the trust she had in me. That thing vexed me no be small.

you were just displaying ur naivety and the girl took advantage of that. But was this recent or a long time ago?

It's all part of the insecurity-feeling girls possess. I wonder if she would have decided to dump the poor dude if the tables were turned and she was the one being posted far away.

Pele jare poster such things do happen. It shows that the girl never loved you and that she wanted a way out of the relationship, which is what your posting gave her. Just take heart and move on with your life. you might be lucky to find a nice and sweet girl on camp(which i presumed ended yesterday) who would appreciate you.