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I've already purchased the car. I never knew it was in such a bad rear-end collision accident until the guy who bought it sent the pixs of the car before repairs to me. looks like the mechanic did a very good job repairing it. i just wanted to know the conditions it was before purchase. thanx dude. these are the pixs of it before and after repairs.

and what does it mean by This vehicle DOES NOT qualify for the CARFAX Buyback Guarantee?

This is a narration from one of the girls in my office. I told her she had already lost out, but she doesnt want to accept. I'll sit back and let you mature minds sort this out. i'm sure something like this has been brought up before. Excerpts:-

[b]"Right now i'm so confused i don't know what to do. some years back, there was this guy i used to date while i was in school. We promised each other heaven and earth back then. I so much loved this guy, i couldn't do without seeing him everyday. then he was two years my senior in school.

When he went for his service, he was always calling me from camp, assuring me that he'll never leave me. i promised him nothing will ever come in-between us. this went on untill he finished his service year and he got a job in one computer firm in Abuja.

in 2006, while i was serving in Nassarawa, he always drove down to see me in keffi where i was posted and atimes he'll spend a nite or two with me. We usually kiss and cuddle, he sucking my naked breasts and erect nipples, but we never went as far as having sex. i made him promise that we'll keep ourselves intact till our wedding nite.

Towards xmas period in 2004, he got an admission to study his masters in an American university. the nite i heard, i was both happy and sad, happy cos my love had gotten somewhere which to improve himself, sad cos i'll not see him for about 3 years. the day he left, i almost cried my eyes out. he promised me he'll never forget me and that as soon as he was thru with his studies and gotten a job, he will come back for me.

things went on for a year. he called me about twice every week, telling me about how things were hard there. i also told him all what was happening to me down here, and as i had finished my service year and gotten a job, everyone was asking me when i'll get married. he pleaded with me to be a bit patient with him to finish his studies and secure a good job.

After about two years, his calls became fewer and fewer. Anytime he called, he was always like his work schedule was very tough and it left him with little or no time for himself. i told him that things weren't easy here for me either since my parents were pressurising me over when i'll get married. my friends too were all on my neck, and they concluded that if a guy cannot have time to call his own babe, then he was seeing someone else. they urged me to forget about him.

His calls continued to dwindle. it even came to a point that he didn't call me on my birthday. i was soo sad that day. all that while, my friends had been pestering me to forget about him as distance ruins relationships. they urged me to find someone else.

on this my birthday, when my boyfriend didn't call, i decided to stay at home. then one guy(a young handsome banker where i worked) came to my house and took me out. SOON WE STARTED DATING. gradually we became closer and closer, and it wasn't long before he popped the question and asked me to marry him. I agreed.

I gradually forgot about my former boyfriend, and anytime he called, i would not answer him like i used to. i guess he noticed my tone, cos he asked me what was going on, that he knew that he hadn't been calling as usual. i then said something that made him suspicious, he then asked "Natasha, or are you seeing someone else?" i started insulting him and i hung up on him. he tried calling back, but i refused to pick up.

My wedding was scheduled for 1st of March. I had already done the traditional marriage, but my fiance had to travel out of the country for a two week course, so we decided to have the white wedding when he came back. everything was gearing up to the D-day. my bridal train was ready, IVs had been sent out, and everyone was eagerly waiting for the day. But i had a bombshell last week friday. I was at work that day, and i was at my computer when one of the office staff called my extension line and said i had a visitor. I asked who it was and she said it was one very handsome man. thinking it was my future husband, i went downstairs. i was so shocked at whom i was seeing, my mouth just dropped open. There stood my former boyfriend all so handsome in the navy blue suit he wore. I knew i was in trouble. He stood up smiling and opened his arms for a hug. I never knew when i flew into his arms. I buried my face into his chest and burst into tears. he kept saying "baby it's okay, i'm here now. nothing will take us apart anymore".

We later went out for lunch and he told me all what went on while he was in school. he had graduated and was employed in a lucrative Computer firm in US, and that he wanted his arrival to be a surprise to me, that's why he didn't tell me he was coming.

Right now i don't know what to do. my wedding is about a month away now, my ex is back(will i call him my ex? we never broke up in the first place). He's been telling me that he'll want both of us to go back together when he's to resume work, ironically, on my wedding day!!!, and that he wants to go meet my parents to ask for my hand in marriage. I cannot bear telling him that i'll soon be someone else's wife in less than a month's time. Honestly, i don't think i can go on with my wedding anymore. I still love this guy, but what will i tell him? what can i do? PLEASE HELP ME !!!"[/b]