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Me I look better in person oo, don't even like taking pictures the most useless app on my phone is my camera... Every picture I have was taken by someone else and in all am snapping with someone standing by my side....

khia:
1. You are a damn liar. There are sooo many unsuccessful Africans living in poverty in the US living on the welfare system and other government aide. They are ashamed to go back to their country because of their failures. Not to mention the ones locked up in prison for fraud, selling drugs, prostitution rings.

2. I don't know if you are a liar, ignorant or just plain dumb. Only blacks lives in poverty? What about the many poor whites living in the white slums of America called Trailer Parks? What about the poor Hispanics living in the ghettos called Barrios? What about the poor Italian neighborhoods?. You are beyond reality.

3. The only reason African immigrants don't complain about the injustice in this country is you are cowards, you are afraid of being deported. You will complain and disrespect Black Americans while they are fighting for a better America and you do nothing but slander them and reap the benefits.

4. What's going on in America today is the same thing that went on in the 1960's,50s,40s,30s, 20s and as far back as the ,17 hundreds in America. Black Americans in the 60's were on the frontlines fighting for your right to migrate to this God forsaken country, something your ungrateful ass has proven to be undeserving of. Your allegiance is to the white man, it has always been and will probably always be, it's in your DNA. Because of your backstabbing behavior we don't give a damn about immigration anymore that's why you never see us protesting when Trump talks about kicking you out, hell, most of you support Trump anyway.

5. Those crybabies are the ones who changed America, those crybabies are the same people who will change America in the future. America is far from a perfect country and those crybabies are what America is all about. Those crybabies are exercising their constitutional rights. I wish you would start being crybabies in your own countries and stop running to other countries where crybabies have made it possible for you to thrive. Choke on that for awhile.

dear first of all am an African not a black american, With all your ranting, you make no sense, you make where you stay as been the worst planet on earth but I don't see you dreaming of migrating to your home land called Africa.. Maybe spending just a week here you will know the true meaning of racism.. On the issue of protesting, I laugh how long will you keep protesting? Since martin Luther you guys over there have been a cry babies how has it change and emanticipate you from mental slavery? I have families in your country from Nigeria and they never say anything negative about america... I will say it again most black americans are lossers check the statistics you will know that... Am sorry to be harsh with you but its getting so boring with the noise... What is so special about blacks that they are been hunted? Even China who have control of 70% of Africa continent didn't protest to make there relevance.. Meaning blacks should stop being a cry baby we should be self reliant and be competent.. That's how you gain respect and eradicate racism... You don't eradicate racism when majority of blacks live on welfare especially single black moms...who breath on alimony and government welfare...

How can you call this a prison, and crime rate as not skyrocketed....

With your condition I don't think you should be thinking of marriage, there other things you should consider as priority.... Any girls that truly loves you won't be given you ultimatum, she is doing that because she is considering various things such as, are clock, pressure from friends, suitors around her... If you end up marrying her that same girl pressurising you now won't think twice to find a better option... You are in love now and It seems you the only one asking the logical question, while she is been emotional, na when you crossover na that time she go come dey logical come realise say she made a bad choice..... But I hope you won't come here on this forum telling us story of heartbreak....

Joycekkh:
Keep deceiving yourself, they don't like getting married yet the kneel down to propose, they use cars to propose and even get depressed if the lady says no. I have a couple of guys that are disturbing me for marriage, I'm actually the one running away from them and they seem really desperate.

most guys will do stupid things, promise you heaven and hell just to get down there you know what I mean...... If this games we play among sexes doesn't exist and guys are given the freedom to express there through feeling, instead of " I like you, I love you" that you are used to when guys approach you, what you will hear is "I want to Bleep". ..

Joycekkh:
Look at you saying marriage is a woman's dream, I know so many men that love getting married and nobody forced them to, they just love it, stop deceiving yourself thinking that men are forced to marry.

babe am a guy and there some things we say to your face to make you happy but in our mind is the opposite...

desiregold:
I'm yet to understand how marriage favors only women in Nigeria.

Please, make me understand

give me three benefit of marriage to men. That will make us go gaga about it... And please don't bring in children and cooking, I can do that without getting married..

Hypocrisy at the highest order on this article, assuming the news was the other way round and the girl ended up dead all this idiot and animals claiming wonderful will keep shut... First of all she was trafficked by her fellow colour.... Abeg make we think deeply and let that sink in..... All those mad people shouting black life's matters let start from here!!!!!!!!

1, got job a through here... 2. Have been saved from been scam from a article on this forum. 3 although many people opinions in things are very extreme here I see a lot of childish post, tribalism, hatred, but I respect there view atleast they are been honest with there feeling, which I like... If you are all about political correctness and you get easily offended on people views and opinion, I think you should avoid Nairaland... We need a little bit of honesty in this world we are use to lying to ourselves and camouflaging our feelings because what we may say might get another person hurt.... But on this forum people speak there realities and there mind...

Calapar:
Lol...most of these girls suck at dates. Some won't be interactive while some turn it to interview. To some, it's question and answer session. I don't ask straight questions during dates, I discuss around what I want from you but unfortunately some fall for it but few intelligent ones get the gist

when you on a date and the first question is what she ask... That babe know get interest in you oo, she is trying to gauge your pocket and decide her next move...

There is no big deal if a lady rejects you, 1 probably she is forming hard to get 2 at that moment her mood and the timing was bad. 3 she isn't interested.. The main thing is that you approach her and you sorted your mind.. Don't be those guys that if they see a lady they like, they won't approach, when they get home they become producer writing imaginary script of how they should have approach, they end up sleeping daydreaming about her...

4reala:
Its not scam my brother, call or walk into your bank and inquire

I will do that

Omo God go punish Coro, my plan this year as been ruined by this epidemic... Luckily, resume working but business is not as usual, money is not circulating people and business are still in the period of hangover.. Before things will get to normal I presume till august...

Thank you op God bless you so much.... Thank God for nairaland... Got the same message this morning, the only thing that stop me sending that email was I am stiil at work and I can't lay hold of my utility receipt...

I met this babe at my sisters church spoke to her we exchange numbers call her the next day we fixed a date... The D day for us to meet we met at my friends gym. Strike no 1 she came late, when she came she didn't even apologise or give reason why she was late, I overlook am after settling down the first question that came out of her mouth was "WHAT DO YOU DO FOR A LIVING" am like I work for lawma, gave one mumu excuse find my way commot.. Later that evening my sister con dey para for me say I just abandoned her friend...

Men proposing to women logically I find it foolish and dumb... First of all throughout my life I have known majority of guys don't take big deal about marriage, marriage is a woman dream and fantasy, the only few guys who even talk about marriage with there tune of words you can hear that they where been force, manipulated, bombarded, criticise, indoctrinated in getting into one... Logically there is no benefit of marriage to men it only favors women, so op when a guy propose to you its a privilege, and one sad thing been said about privilege, " give a man a meter he would take a mile" which with your message
you are doing now..

Why do you want it to be in front page? I was even surprise when I heard it mention on this forum. Most mistake you guys make you think redpill just have to do with relationship and women and you go about shouting "am red pill! Am red pill!" Up and down..... Been red pill is a way you view every spectrum in life, relationship politics, ideology etc.. And separating your bias emotion from it making you more logical and you see the world for what it is.. To know about been redpill is different from living the life, and you don't live redpill life by shouting up and down...redpill is not for everyone is only meant for a few.... The only time I speak about redpill, is if someone close come to meet me for a advice and I know he is genuine and in serious need of help, at this stage he is more likely to be open minded for a change of mind...... You don't go on social media shouting redpill it makes you look stupid, people will even take you as a phsyco... Sorry for my ash word.... All of us who came to the knowledge of red pill got to know about it in our down time in life.... Hence we seek for help.... In a nut sheel a pain looming is what will push most people to knowledge....

Trying hard to wrap my imagination around this piece of news... Mbaaanu I can't believe this happen!!

In other word what op is saying,, guys run from a damage goods... The last thing you want is one of them having your kids.. You will be connected to trouble for life... And for the Mr and Mrs "do not generalise", please you can do the opposite of what op says...

How much respect? It all depends on every woman patient... But one thing I can bet my balls with, no woman can go on with that forever, guys remember "click click click click" the clock is ticking to the countdown..... Women don't have the nature of a provider....

What keeps woman together ,hmmmm? I think when they are fighting for there manipulative interest.... They will come together..... But when there manipulation is threaten they become enemies.... Have you guys wonder why house wife's and mother in law don't get along. Reason been that women knows the game they play.
mother in law is his protecting his son cause he did it to is father, wife too understand the same thing too.... When women are together they would claim they are feminist.... But when the right guy comes she would say am a wife material.......

We share the same birthday, days and month.... We celebrate with a bottle of whiskey and couple of beers, and we reminisce about the past and what the future hold...

The simple truth is that she just meet someone who caught her attention and you not in the picture anymore..... I won't advise guys visiting dating app, it is a waste of time....most girls on dating app are there to get validation to feel good about themselves with the attention they get from guys.. A lady just logging in would get like 15 messages under a minute, you see some idiot guy wooing a girl that she is just a 4 in ranking telling her how beautiful she is, a ugly girl can get like 100 like..... And secondly most on dating apps are for hookups.... Am not saying you can meet a serious girl, but its like gambling carry 30games straight... So guys if you have better things to do with your time pls avoid dating site..... Approach women if she no gree you no go die

Why do you want to change your friend? Don't spoil market for us, everybody can't have the same knowledge.... The best way they will have sense is when woman show them pepper from there they will get the clue, even some will still not learn.... You can't change people everyone has the right of opinion..

The title should be how to loose a woman so fast by getting her bored... Am certain all what he wrote there he can't do one of it...if not he is a "nice man" and we know the meaning of that over here....

Black life will matter when we start to value each other.... I understand why the op is ranting, most Africans who migrate to america are living and making a good life for them selves than a native black america citizen is a reality that the only place you find ghetto is in a black america Setting... We have the arabs, mexicans, Asians, even foreigners from south and north america, everyone of them seems to be doing well themselves, is only black Americans that complain a lot pointing fingers.... And me am starting to get tired of there rant, they now look like cry babies..

When she say "no jor" it means she want you to initiate it and be more persistent, girls don't
like responsibility, they want to make it as if they are not interested that she was reluctant and you force or convince her in the act ... So if anything goes wrong ie pregnancy or you betray them they can point finger or manipulate you, and secondly some do that because they don't want to look like a slut or promiscuous...

Alezy:
lemme guess, she is a TIV girl. Dem no dey stay one place at all

guy how do you know? Na tiv babe

mrdino:
Bro, I agree with everything you typed here, but please note that, there is no "convenient" time for marriage.

when I mean convenient time I mean do it at your own volition, don't get marry under ultimatum or pressure....

Guy I thank God for your life.....