₦airaland Forum

JayCynic:
If you believe that men and women aren't equal simply because they have a different mental wiring and because men have died in wars, then a white man can also say he's greater than a black man simply because the white race have brought civilization, they have contributed more to modern technology and they have introduced the internet which black people benefit from.

And if you think women haven't had it bad in the past, then you don't know your history. They have been denied education, they have been forced to marry people they don't want to, they have been reduced to the lowest strata in society. If Men died in wars, how did that make women incapable of fighting in wars? We have female Army Generals today, we have creative women who have made a difference.

Read my post, I believe in meritocracy, everyone should get what they qualify for and gender shouldn't have anything to do with it.

don't bring race to the issue... Why we Africans are backward as nothing to do with slavery or colonialism.. We need to look inward and tell ourselves the bitter truth... On the matter of feminism please with y life experience tell me how women want equality? All I see is please "step down for me to rise up" how is that equality? Is my dream to see the feminist ideology, at least I will be free from paying of useless bills, my dream is to sit at home and watch TV, do a little bit of cleaning while my girl go out and work, my dream is to be treated like a child that has no responsibility and is not accountable for anything always pointing fingers,... Yea that's my dream . stop been hypocritical, how many women will fit my above mention dreams? Please I don't know who you are whether you a guy or a lady, but if you a guy please go meet your girlfriend or your wife and tell her you want to be a stay at home dad... When you get her response please get back to me.!!! What a simp

what about the red pill crew? always forming tough guy

Feminism says man and woman are equal and should be treated equally I agree with that.... Me personally I don't believe that man and women are equal, I believe most people saying that deep down they know they are lying or living in delusion... I believe both sexes exhibit qualities that compliment each other, for example men are rational in thinking while women are emotional, women can multi task while it is difficult for men... All these qualities has help us to survive to this date.... I believe feminism is a lie women don't want equality, when they want is men stepping down for there cause which is hypocritical, in my own understanding equality means competition we are judged equally and treated equally which if you notice doesn't exist.... Op says he is a man feminist but I can bet my balls that he is among those people who believe " thy shall not beat a woman" even though she can do the opposite, how is that equallity? Is not double standard... Any body that believe in feminism is living in delusion... And for the op saying women have been treated bad time past.. All I have to say to the op is, tell that to men who died at wars, tell that to men who created technology for mankind to have a easy lives, tell that to men who created drugs and herbs, tell that to men who created contraceptive for you woman to be liberated for reckless sex, at time past it was humans against nature and both sexes played there part for civilization so for someone to wake up saying women as always had it bad I think is dumb... I want equality I want people to get the best jobs not because of there sexes but because of there competent which feminism is against, when you here words like " let give women a chance" which means guys step down let her have are way.... If you want to succeed in this life you have to compete and be among the best. But most feminist like the op don't see it that way, they believe life is like charity... My wish is to see feminism come to reality, but how many women pay the bills in a relationship, how many women ask guy out, how many woman want to carry blocks, women want the benefit but don't want to do the work.. In conclusion when you here feminism it is a hypocrisy....

francisgodstime:
Are we monogamous by tradition?

no especially guys, but girls then majority of them are virtuous, meaning they are loyal... But now we are competing..

sam4noow:
Ohh Dammnn shiiitttt nigggaarr

Sharap diaaa Mr Man

I'll rather marry my elder sister than all this 16years old girl of nowadays way there Kpekus wide like Borehole

so from your logic if 16 years old kpekus wide like borohole how 45 years old go be, na ocean, or universe abi?

With all this I can guess a woman wrote this.... The topic should be list of making a relationship boring.

To stop it, whenever she say no, just stand up, dress up take your car keys if you dont have one put on your favorite shoes, go out and have fun for the night if possible don't come back home till the next day... When you back, do like nothing happen no matter how she nag you or stir trouble, just be calm and don't ask her for sex until are brain reset even with that still show no interest for a week. Try that you will thank me later..

So aunty if am dating you now marriage is the first thing you would throw at me, if you are doing that you will stay single for a long time, that is a turn off to most guys stop it if that is what you have been doing... And secondly why will you be with a guy you are not arouse to or attracted to sexually, because if you are you won't be postponing sex in a relationship.. My suspension is you are not sexually active and you want to manipulate a guy into a marriage only for him to be With you and realise he has been scammed... When I hear a girl that say wait after marriage I know for sure she has a low libido..

Na wa for you ooo, me naturally believe that birthdays and all this celebration like valentine are meant for ladies, na them dey carry am for head.. Me am fond of that you know how many times babe don fight me because I forget her birthday, me that don't remember my birthday, this year na on top face book I realise say I get birthday......

Humanoid01:
People will always try to disrupt a good course, and they always give "good" reasons for it.

what is good about the useless course, do you think those guys care? They are just virtue signaling so they won't look bad...

Probably because you are a introvert....

The institution marriage in our generation is not realistic.. The main purpose of people getting married is to stay and live a monogamy life with your partner which is hard to practice, because both sexes now a polygamous in nature, with the invent of social media and technology both sexes have the ability to meet with a lot of people and are been distracted.... So what is the purpose of marriage when the vow you make deep down you know its likely you break it. And secondly how does marriage benefit a guy.... Pls give me 3 reason and don't tell children and cooking I can achieve that without getting married..

A wrist watch, and a torchlight phone, though the babe dey try oooo.... she no dey stingy if i broke she dey borrow me money but na with interest.....

People that goes about shouting redpill, I believe there life style is fake they dont practice what they preach ... A true red pill guy. Knows the virtue of keeping is belief coded.. The only time he talks about red pill is if someone close to him is down and need advise

ModestGal:
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Just like you see valid reasons not to join in solidarity for justice, you will see reasons why you shouldn't develop your Nation, and thats why you will remain poverty ridden most backward race on Earth

since Martin Luther era you guys have been protesting, then I wasn't even alive!!! Then China and Japan and most Asian country was a mess and there citizens wherever they went were second class.. But now both countries are dominating the word right now including Arabs.. How do you want to stop racism when you have nothing to offer, 70percent of black American females live on government welfare. There men are rather doing drugs or in jail...what do you bring to the table as a group, nothing instead take take take.. And you expect them to respect you... Those white guys marching with you shouting black life matters don't give a shit, they doing that virtue signaling in there consciousness they believe we are losers always pointing fingers. And when you say justice where were you when black kills black in your country or let me say ghetto.. You only fell pity for your fellow race when its not done by a black soul... Hypocrisy!!!!!!!!

I would love to meet you in person I like the way you narrate your personality.. Like your, type rare gem indeed..

Onyi22:
Regina Daniel is a Bea, she dumps her ex boyfriend and got married to a Multi billionaire, that's exactly what a wise lady would do..
Dump him!! I repeat, dump his useless ugly broke ass when u see a richer guy/man than him..
Don't be deceive that "things will get better" he's a bloody lier.
Don't die before ur death with a miserable, frustrated guy that has refused to make money.
Finally my sister, Marry money because Love na scam..

I agree with you totally.. That's why I tell guys love is about give and take and why they should avoid girls that the only thing they bring to the table is there vagina.. Which my guy Ned is exploring right now..

Kentura:
Just accept Jesus with your whole heart, He will do the rest.

madness

I didn't know the difference between the two holes, she as to lecture me I felt embarrass... That my first experience in secondary school..

sonmvayina:
The old testament or Hebrew scriptures was written and composed by the Jews for their religion called Judaism.. It is not for the whole world... It is the Romans who after creating Christianity stole it and added it at the back of their own scriptures... The two are hostile to one another..
The heart and soul of the old testament is the Torah which details the laws God gave the Jews 613 mitzvah and 7 for the rest of humanity...nobody has the power or right to change God's laws.. They are supposed to last forever... The Torah is the way, the truth and the life.. A lamp for our path..

The new testament is a failed on arrival attempt at replacement theology...

nice write up we learn everyday... but i dont understand what you mean when you say the new testament is a failed on arrival attempts at replacement theology.. pls explain

Dtruthspeaker:
Kai! Why do Nigerians never know and never understand?

When will you learn Judgements and Sound Reasonings?

Seeing that you do not know nor understand, so how then can you speak so Ignorantly and wickedly come to the conclusion you foolishly arrived at?

I would have enlightened you but now I am Angry.

Therefore, seeing that you have come to this wicked conclusion, then we would allow you live with it, which also means that you should not have bothered us in making this post, and therefore you are entitled to do away with the old Testament in your own Bible, as is in your power to do.

Who answer for it, is it not You Alone?

in the epistle you wrote there who sound confused and foolish.. Simple question am asking old testament stories does it not violate Jesus teaching... If you too dull to understand i just summarizes it for you...

Dtruthspeaker:
Oh Yes, oh yes oooooh YEEESS!!!

It is a False Prophet who Teaches you not to Keep the Commandments of God, Not Just the 10 oh, But All of them, which you can do.

so Christians should believe in the doctrine of an eye for an eye, cause that's what most of the stories proclaim in the old testament, and Jesus teaching is against that.....

Probably I didn't get his sickness, but most of the drugs prescribe where malaria drugs ...

Last week a cousin of mine was I'll and was diagnose with chronic fever, at first we were scared the result shouldn't be covid.. In the clinic I realise I haven't been to a hospital since I was 6 years of age I can remember that day vividly as I was given a bottle of fanta I knew I was been bribe for injection so I ran around the clinic with the nurse chasing me... Most people around me same too, I don't know probably we are the birds of the same feather. But one thing I do know Nigerians are bless with good DNA our immune system is strong and secondly most Nigerians live a rugged life and there body has adapted to that nature. 70percent of Nigerians don't visit the hospital which by me is dangerous but I can't blame them when the nation no 1 enemy is poverty... Give a average Nigerian a paper and tell him to list is top 20 wish list, I can bet my balls health insurance won't be there...

Hi, I have always have this view about the old testament, how the teachings and stories are extreme, brutal, selfish and violent, and a lot of injustice. Examples of this was the story of job who was righteous with God but was made to suffer for doing nothing but rather to just test is faith, stories of wars Israelite taking over cities in the name of God. You know what am saying when you read the old testament its kind of barbaric a lot of sacrifice and killings for the most stupid things there is no different between the old testament and what most extreme terrorist are doing now.. In my opinion i Really think the old testament should be separated from Christian teaching. The only time we need the old testament is for the purpose of chronology and ancestry trace...

no one seems to get the sudden change in woman after marriage.... ok i tell you why.... she has gotten are trophy she see no more competition, they get fatter even before getting pregnant, they dont mantain there self again.....same with men after marriage they lower the chase and passion...... i find this out among divorce couples and relationship..... if you having a hard time in your relationship i mean at point of breakup and all of a sudden your woman start visiting the gym, she get consious of how she dress and look. just know she is gone the relationship is over

you never get money be that now you still dey hustle, you want to be treated like a son.....let money come now your brain go reset then you want to be in charge, all of a sudden you will know say she old..........guy make money oooo make old woman wey don pass her prime no con be like beyonce for your eye

So you sleep with 13 girls you come they form sharp guy for Nairaland, who cares.... Am sure you are one of this red pill disciples.... A true red pill live there lives coded they don't seek attention, bragging up and down...

JBoss25:
don't be one sided just because he is your fellow male or favorite artist, nobody knows the truth only the 2 people involved and God.

dbang is not my favorite artist but am kind of involve in entertainment and I know scenarios that happen behind the scene, girls will "do anything" I repeat "anything" to get attention from this guys, ordinary location supervisor and people wet dey on set go chop there on self...

When cristiano was accused of rape some idiot believe the story, so won't be surprise if people believe this.... A character like this that get attention from girls, to the extent some babe use there pictures as dp will rape, wetin special about the girl... Abeg make we put on our thinking cap

If you are a guy and you doing so well financially you won't see older woman as attractive, rather you go for young and attractive girls... If you see a young guy that says he finds older woman attractive, that guy is struggling financially or broke.... Which is OK by me.. But don't put it in your head that you in love... Older woman most time are more financially stable and not needy.... Abi have you hear a millionaire marrying a older woman, rather he go for a trophy wife in young and juicy damsel... So whenever you see a guy says " I like older women". Pls check is pocket, its empty....

There is a element of truth to the article.... Back in school the most intelligent ladies and serious in studies are average looking girls... While the 10 and beautiful are so bumb... Am not saying there are no intelligent beautiful girls, but look around you how many do you see.. They are the exception to the rules...... Same with fat chicks too they have high self esteem cause they are use to people calling them fat, no big deal any more, go and tell a beautiful girl in shape that she is adding up or she is ugly, you will see how she will feel insecure...