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FamilyRe: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by BlackSan: 10:58pm On Nov 16, 2021
Angeldemon:
Those two parts were your problem and the problem with most nigerian women.
They want "freedom" in marriage. There is no freedom in marriage that is why it is literally called marriage. It is a relationship were two people are accounable to eachother but typical black women want to copy white culture that is cultureless.
You want to do what you like while you have a marriage. No accountability or cooperation.
The typical nigerian women is ruthlessly arrogant to people, talk less her husband, once she starts seeing her own money.
NO MAN ON EARTH EVEN PASTORS will condone an arrogant and emotionally abusive woman in his house, and this is what money turns women without self control/awareness into 99% of the time.
You came even stated that you wanted him domesticated. You can imagine. So because make more money than him you want him to become the housemaid. Then before you know you[i] see him finish[/i] then start cheating with men outside you see as[b] on your level[/b].

Typical Nigerian men and men all over the world take pride in helping their wives with funds to start their own businesses, hobbies or things they want to do with their lives, but once its a rare turn of a woman we see posts like this online. With support from fellow selfish women.
I always say it that women are more selfish than men and hate helping. They only pretend when theres a benefit attached to it immediately or in the foreseeable future. Men will give their wives money without even batting an eyelid or remembering int but even that same women will start insulting that same man when things stop being rosy for him.

The definition of a wife was meant to be [b]helper [/b]but you modern girls have turned to destroyers of men. Its men that still take you all seriously and sacrifice for you all i pity their stupidity

We heard your well-baked side of the story. im sure if we hear your husbands side it will be a different thing
I'm not a fan of feminism or equality though I emphasize on respect for both partners in a marriage but I'm curious of your second to last paragraph.

Though correct me if I'm wrong but I will be using a theological approach. A wife is more than just a helper, she is also his partner. Maybe your word "helper" meant more than that but I rather you call a wife a partner than a helper, (using theological approach) the reason a woman was created was because man was alone and lonely. She is supposed to help him physically, emotionally, psychological and on
FamilyRe: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by BlackSan: 10:48pm On Nov 16, 2021
Aksnoopy:
This bitch is definitely based in America.

Any man who still believe in the so called love is a fool of the century.

Any man with money who believes his wife loves him is a walking corpse.

I will advice men to watch this series "Ambitions" and learn how to treat and handle corporate hoes.
You are getting inspiration from series? Perhaps you were never told but it isn't good to generalize things and people's opinions should respected irrespective of their view on the matter. I believe both the man and the woman are both at fault for the problem but a certain series doesn't really tell you all about life.
You need more enlightenment!
ProgrammingRe: 'great Learning' A Free Course App For All Tech Courses by BlackSan(op): 12:36pm On Nov 15, 2021
So take for instance this course that I'm currently learning.

ProgrammingRe: 'great Learning' A Free Course App For All Tech Courses by BlackSan(op): 12:26pm On Nov 15, 2021
Ah... Least I forget
I made this post for those that wants to go into Tech but have no resources or aren't certain how to go about it. And importantly because of the certification. If it is able to help anyone then I will be glad.

I think the benefits are something 'some' of us desire. There's also a community forum for each of the courses so you are able to interact with people whom you share the same goal with.

Even though you will be getting the courses for free, you still need data, don't forget!
ProgrammingRe: 'great Learning' A Free Course App For All Tech Courses by BlackSan(op): 12:18pm On Nov 15, 2021
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ProgrammingRe: 'great Learning' A Free Course App For All Tech Courses by BlackSan(op): 12:14pm On Nov 15, 2021
Oh before I forget, after registering, I was made to know I can interact with the tutor if I have questions.

ProgrammingRe: 'great Learning' A Free Course App For All Tech Courses by BlackSan(op): 12:05pm On Nov 15, 2021
More coming

Under the IT and software, this following are the courses under it.

Programming'great Learning' A Free Course App For All Tech Courses by BlackSan(op): 12:00pm On Nov 15, 2021
So I stumbled upon this app on Play store and out of curiosity, I decided to check it out. It has all the IT courses you could ever think of and they're free!!

You just need data to watch or download them and when you are done with the courses, you will be given a certification (Though I don't know if you have to pay to get the certification).

And please don't get the wrong idea or misconception, I'm not advertising, just creating awareness since it's free.

I will be presenting some pictures of what the app looks like.

And it isn't just for beginners because there's also master class for already working personnels.

If you have any questions, please don't be shy to ask.

ProgrammingRe: Has Anyone Here Worked For Crossover.com As An Independent Contractor? by BlackSan: 7:27pm On Nov 11, 2021
airsaylongcome:
I don't even remember what email I used. What's up?
I read somewhere about you being a Data analyst/scientist. Can I ask a couple of questions?
ProgrammingRe: How To Learn Data Science As A Complete Beginner To PRO Status by BlackSan: 10:42pm On Nov 06, 2021
kobakoko:
I have a Dell Inspirion laptop for sale
How much?
ProgrammingRe: Do We Have Female Devs On Nairaland? by BlackSan: 12:18am On Oct 30, 2021
Raalsalghul:
Why don't you start with Data Analysis?

Learn your Excel, SQL and PowerBI/Tableau first, then decide if you want to pick up python later.
I already know the basics of python though I am currently learning excel and python together. But thank you.
ProgrammingRe: What Kind Of App Does Nigeria Lack At The Moment? by BlackSan: 9:11pm On Oct 29, 2021
ThankYouGod:
Develop an app to fight corruption.
Sometimes it is advisable you read the post and pass by. Not derailing the trend with unnecessary comment.
ProgrammingRe: Do We Have Female Devs On Nairaland? by BlackSan: 8:12pm On Oct 29, 2021
tosinhtml:
I don't know who is advising you but your love for a particular field alone doesn't justify you going to that field. You have to make sure there are also opportunities before you choose where to focus.

Have you ever browsed LinkedIn jobs or any where and you saw influx of Data science jobs? Or is it sand that you want to be eating after learning data science? Have you ever asked yourself why and how do companies recruit for data science roles?

This is the same reason people choose foolish courses in the University like Sociology or Biz Admin because they like it or their friends told them to do it without any research from their own end.

You will finish learning this data science now and start crying all over NL for jobs. You berra use your head.
Correction! I will not cry!
Perhaps you are outdated on job opportunities and the roles of Data scientist but I will not argue with you further. Not because you are correct in your assumptions but because it is of no use.
ProgrammingRe: Do We Have Female Devs On Nairaland? by BlackSan: 8:03pm On Oct 29, 2021
Xinjin:
No I switch from data science. I personally think there is more opportunity in web dev.
Oh... wow
Okay.
ProgrammingRe: Do We Have Female Devs On Nairaland? by BlackSan: 11:29am On Oct 29, 2021
Xinjin:
I'm also a Data Analyst and a fullstack developer(still learning), you could take up Python as your backend if you like data science. But they are two different field.
I thought about what airsaylong said and I decided to fully focus on Data science. Well yunno one never stops learning in the Tech industry, I don't want to waste my time anymore.
I'm currently learning python, though I'm quite familiar with the fundamentals, functions and methods but I intend to stay on python until I'm able to create personal projects.
So you are working as a Data analyst and a developer? I don't get it.
ProgrammingRe: How Has Programming Changed Your Life And The Way You Think? by BlackSan: 10:50am On Oct 27, 2021
bastardson:
sad
Good morning.
Have you seen it?
CareerRe: My Success Story As A Civil Engineer Earning 7 Figures by BlackSan: 9:20am On Oct 26, 2021
richmote:
What kind of jobs
There are different type of jobs to do from home like freelancing with Tech skills.
ProgrammingRe: How Has Programming Changed Your Life And The Way You Think? by BlackSan: 12:40am On Oct 26, 2021
bastardson:
Nice one bro.. O8I2086I-860.. Kindly buzz make we yarn..

Modified: I went through your past post and realize that you are a lady. You intend going into Data Science. Mine is Machine Learning. We can still discuss though, I need persons who are just starting like me. So we can have daily targets or weekly study targets and ensure me complete them.

I think some these challenges propels someone to do better
Well yeah.
Apologies for not reaching out yet, been busy all day. Will do so later.
ProgrammingRe: How Has Programming Changed Your Life And The Way You Think? by BlackSan: 9:14am On Oct 25, 2021
bastardson:
Lol I can’t do that for now, I need to have studied the stuff till a certain level and be sure that I am a little prepared. I still wish I have someone here who’s just starting as well
Hello.
I just started python.
LiteratureRe: Chronicles Of The Liar by BlackSan(op): 10:41pm On Oct 22, 2021
*Chronicles Of The Liar 8*

While Richard was talking I couldn't help but notice his long lashes which complimented his eyes. I couldn't react to his own experience, compared to me, he is a born sadist. *who hell enjoys seeing other people cry? well definitely not me* I thought to myself while listening to him.

*Mind sharing your own experience?* he turned to me as I quickly looked. His gazes on me made my body shudder and weirdly excited as I blushed, taking a deep breath with my eyes closed, I slowly opened my eyes after some seconds and began my life narration. I wasn't sure why I was so opened to him about my life, perhaps because of own similar fetish but I felt comfortable talking to him as he listened with a stoic expression and his gaze fixed on me.

*I haven't much of an experience since I simply kept to myself. Though I have tried by myself but things didn't go as planned.* His eyes filled with curiosity expecting more explanation slightly lowered with disappointment. I tried to cheer him up with little talk when his phone rang. I signalled him to go ahead and pick while I admire the ocean.

*Hey bro, what's good?*
*Hey Richard! where are you? Been expecting you but you are nowhere to be found*
*Is there an event today?*
*Bro don't tell me you forgot! The crews are hosting a party and I told you in class, don't you recall?*
*Oh... my bad my bad I forgot, maybe next time.*
*Oh no no no there's still time, party just getting started, get your ass here*
*Can't! I'm currently meeting up with someone, can't leave her*
*Her!? you have a girlfriend now or a Bleep buddy? I thought it was bros before hoes?*
*Byeeee!*
*Hollup don't hang up yet, how about bringing her over?*
*Bye!* and he caught the call.

*I'm sorry for the interruption, so what were you saying?*
*oh uhm... nothing... nothing important* I giggled shyly.

The atmosphere was awkward again as we quietly stare at the ocean, watching cars pass by the bridge at the far end. *I'm sorry, I am seriously not a controversial person so please forgive me if I bore you* I said with my face down in embarrassment. He raised my chin up to reach his eyes, pulled closer to me, his upper lip slightly raised up, my thoughts ran wild thinking he was going to kiss me as I closed my eyes, ready to kiss him, *my friends are hosting a party, you mind coming along with me?* he said.

I agreed without a second thought and he took me to the location. I couldn't understand if he cast a spell on me, I wasn't a party person, I can't stand being in a noisy crowded place yet I agreed the moment he asked. We took a cab from campus to the gate, when we got to the gate, we took a bike to the place of the event. The event was held in a hotel, inside the hotel, there was a big hall where tables and chairs was organized with people everywhere.

When we got inside, they seem to be in the middle of playing a game. Richard took me with him to a seat that has been reserved for him by his friends, very few guys were seated in their section with their babes. *Yo Richy! so you decided to show up after all* one of the guys said, *Who's the chick? was she the one keeping you away?* asked another guy, *I'm here already so quit saying nonsense to frighten my guest* Richard said as they laughed it off.

A lady dressed in a sexy attire came with a tray filled with folded papers and told I and Richard to pick. They were playing a game where a person had to do whatever was written in the piece of paper he or she picked. I was too nervous to pick because whosoever doesn't do the dare has to pay #5000 and I wasn't with enough money. When Richard noticed I was hesitating to pick, he whispered in my ear *you don't have to play the game if you are too scared.* His tone sounded like he was mocking me while his expression hold no sympathy for my feeling.

I eventually picked a piece while the lady kept going round until everyone has picked a piece of paper. People were not allowed to open it until the MC got to their side and read it out loud to everyone. They were a lot of crazy dares, a guy was made to remove five things in his body though he refused and paid #5000, a lady was to pick any guy from the crowd and give him a lap dance for 3mins, a guy was dared to twerk for 3mins, another lady was dared to kiss a female and it went on as people were having fun.

When it got to Richard's turn, he was dared to pick any lady kiss her for 3minutes. *man you so lucky, I had to twerk in my turn* one of his friends said while others laughed, *This dude is always getting the good stuffs, I feel sus about him.*

His friends went on teasing him but he ignored them and turned to the MC *Which account am I sending the money?* Richard asked, *huh?* the MC asked in confusion. *I don't have much cash with me so how about I send the money to the account*

The MC in a confused expression faced the crowd and tried to stir things up *This handsome guy refused to kiss any girl and would rather pay! Could it be that there's no girl good enough for him to kiss?* I felt a bit upset by the MC's words, I secretly wished he kissed me. *Richard!* I whispered as he turned, when he saw I was the one that called him, he came closer as I whispered *Why don't you wanna do the dare? are you shy?* I asked in mocking tone, he pulled closer to me with our nose almost touching as my heart skipped a beat, *Do I look shy?* he asked but I never answered.

He eventually took up the dare, went to a table of three girls, took one of them and kissed her while the crowd hyped them. I was surprised as different questions ran through my head *Did I offend him? why didn't he kiss me? Is that his girlfriend? why then am I sitting beside him? Is that girl his type?* I tried to wave off these thoughts but I found myself getting angry. *Are you alright!?* a gentleman asked as he sat beside me, *Yes, I am* I answered. he dressed formal and corporate but he had a smooth, brown skin. *He probably thought you wouldn't be comfortable if he had kissed you* the gentleman said, almost as if he read my thoughts.

When it got to my turn, the MC opened it and read it out to the audience *Pick any male and seduce him until his crotch gets hard.*
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ProgrammingRe: Do We Have Female Devs On Nairaland? by BlackSan: 5:28pm On Oct 16, 2021
ojuwura:
Yea sure why not? We can hook up on whatsapp. I just sent a message
Where? I didn't see it.
ProgrammingRe: Do We Have Female Devs On Nairaland? by BlackSan: 10:38am On Oct 16, 2021
nobody01:
As Airsaylongcome would advise most of the times stick to your plan and play the long term game. If you are in love with Data Science, play the long term game and reap your reward in the future doing what you love. But if you need to get on your feet ASAP, then you can stick to Web Development but it won't also be as easy as you might presume.
I appreciate your advice and I will make make more research. Doesn't change my plans on Web dev. Since I started it, I have been loving every bit of it but thanks.
ProgrammingRe: Do We Have Female Devs On Nairaland? by BlackSan: 9:21am On Oct 16, 2021
airsaylongcome:
I will never understand our society. We LOVE wahala too much. Maybe for bragging rights. If not why on earth will someone who wants to delve into Data Science be wasting their time learning HTML and CSS? What does a Data Scientist need all that "nonsense" for?
Good morning sir
I made this decision after reading "The Chronicles of a Data analyst/science" here on Nairaland.
I feel learnt data science will take a longer time when compared to Web dev (maybe I'm wrong). I have other reasons but I don't think they are convincible.
ProgrammingRe: Do We Have Female Devs On Nairaland? by BlackSan: 12:51am On Oct 16, 2021
Sheriman:
Oh Oh Oh!! That's quite impressive. I like any woman that love challenge. We are the same because me too is yet to be a full stack developer. Anyways, I always keep improving my skills to become a better Android developer. I am very glad to meet you!!
Please! Please!! Please!!! Make sure you niche down your programming. Be specific on what you want to become. Please don't be like some wanna be directionless and unfocused Nairaland programmers who will be jumping from one language to the other without achieving anything. Stick with one language, understand it, master it, explore some advance new tools, framework and technology introduce in the language. Finally, build something great with it.
Happy coding!! to my new female programmer friend.
Thank you so much.
Advices like this means so much to me. I'm currently focused on Web dev but I appreciate your advice.
ProgrammingRe: Do We Have Female Devs On Nairaland? by BlackSan: 12:50am On Oct 16, 2021
nobody01:
Little piece of advice. Try sticking to a particular stack, you can't be all at once. Maybe you can be a Full stack or better still a Data Scientist instead of both. You can also niche down and become a Backend or Frontend dev.
I understand your point, although I am currently focused on web dev but I have my reasons. Besides, some of the skills in web dev will be required in Data science but thank you so much for the advice.
ProgrammingRe: How Can I Learn Coding In An Area Experiencing An Epileptic Power Supply? by BlackSan: 11:30pm On Oct 15, 2021
Hunks101:
Hi friends.
I recently bought a laptop. Although currently, I teach in a primary school, with the current economic situation of the country, it is advisable to have a side hustle. I have decided to learn to code and I was advised to start with HTML, I have downloaded W3schools offline. But my major challenge is the lack of power supply in my area, we barely have light, sometimes PHCN might restore power for 3-4hours a day. This is discouraging as I bank on them to keep learning. For those who experienced this and overcame it, how did you do it?
Please help a brother.�
Thanks
You will need a powerbank!
I can't really say the mAh but that's the only solution you got. By the way, how far have you gone with the html? Just curious.
ProgrammingRe: Do We Have Female Devs On Nairaland? by BlackSan: 11:27pm On Oct 15, 2021
McProspero:
Nice... What's your Stack.... Am front end for now ..

And....

Like what I meant was, programming has to have fun when you leave your female partner to do the code cracking and you assist her. O am already talking movies . Lol
But it's better hearing her blow gums than fight bugs with the keyboard... Choose the sound.

Feels goooood
Well also on my frontend journey after which I intend to learn backend. After I become a full stack developer, I intend to go into Data science. That was my major aim in the first place.
I hope we get along... Uhm... Prosper?
ProgrammingRe: Do We Have Female Devs On Nairaland? by BlackSan: 11:24pm On Oct 15, 2021
[quote author=Blessing0305 post=106770022][/quote]I blame the govt who doesn't really encourage IT among youths. A lot of females go into feminine businesses they find more paying and demanding. Yunno like fashion design, hair stylist, Aesthetic products.
ProgrammingRe: Do We Have Female Devs On Nairaland? by BlackSan: 11:21pm On Oct 15, 2021
Sheriman:
I am here!! I'm also longing to meet a female programmer like you. I am an Android developer, I write in Kotlin. So what about yours?
Inspiring Web developer.
Currently learning though.
Apologies if my words made you misunderstand but I am not yet a full stack developer yet.
ProgrammingRe: Do We Have Female Devs On Nairaland? by BlackSan: 7:06pm On Oct 15, 2021
ojuwura:
I think there are quite a bunch of female programmers though but most are social media ghosts. I am a front end developer still in her baby stages trying to wrap my head around javascript frameworks. However Web3 is my eventual goal; becoming a blockchain developer.
Hello
I hope you don't mind having a female programmer as a friend? The whole essence is helping ourselves. I would also love male friends, that is, if they don't mind.
ProgrammingRe: Do We Have Female Devs On Nairaland? by BlackSan: 7:03pm On Oct 15, 2021
valzey:
I don't think having girls here makes any difference, what do you expect? Nudes?
They're programmers too so they'll talk like other programmers.
Unless you're looking for females who are learning so they can be easy catch but you're better off getting a girl in your neighbourhood than online.
THANK YOU!!
Lately I have been seeing threads about females. I can't tell if it is supposed to encourage them... Sigh
Gender shouldn't be emphasize in this field or it would make some females feel special about themselves.

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