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lorretta u: Nna I don't have time for you this morning
Just bear in mind that your thread is meaningless.
You don't even know what you're saying.

since you said you can accept your wife cheating and you know you can't stop her, my case with you is settled. I'm a strong champion of doing unto others as you'd have them do unto you.
So since you can drink your own medicine, we got nothing more to say
Bye

Loser. You are the one saying meaningless things. When did I say I ACCEPT my wife cheating? My advice for you is, next time read and comprehend the hidding message in a text before rushing to give to your verdict and start throwing insults.
At the end of that post I even advised guys to try and resist that urge. Still your dull brain didn't get the MAIN message from that text.

xynerise: @op. Just because you don't have self-control doesn't mean every man will be like you. And don't bring this stu'pid theory of inevitable cheating by men.

Shup up. Just because you have self control doesn't mean everyman will be like you. And don't post this stup.I'd statement that every man will be able to resist cheating.
For your info, this thread is not justifying cheating. OK?

vivacious vivi: Sorry Bro, but you are so justifying it. And I also agree with Booqoee. If you really want to bring God into this, let;s take marriage for example: Did both partners not swear to the same God to uphold their marriage? Is a marriage not supposed to be blessed by God - whether traditional or white wedding. God gave Adam only one partner- Eve. And he (Adam) was meant to be contented with that. Stop justifying what is wrong, unnatural and sinful. Take correction jare

The part in bold right? So if I say greed is part of the human nature does it mean I am justifying greed to be right?

lorretta u: So you think the average man has higher sex urge than the average woman? Lie
What the avergae man lacks is much self control as the average woman.
Reason is parents focus so much on protecting the girls,they fail to imbibe the chastity rule in the boys. Result is evident in individuals like you with warped sexual orientation

A wise person once said 'don't tell your daughter not to go out,tell your son to zip up'

Rubbish. Did I say anything about sex urge? Please I mean DESIRING MULTIPLE FEMALE COMPANIONS. I didn't say men have a higher sex urge than ladies. If sex urge is the problem as you stated it then it means men will stick to one lady as long as they keep getting the "high dose " of sex. But am talking about DESIRING MULTIPLE FEMALE COMPANIONS. Its a different thing from sex urge. Hang on and keep getting educated. Dont run away in your interest.

lorretta u: How intelligent of you Einstein
You topic says women should expect cheating from guys.
And you're here saying everyone who disagrees with you is dull and lacks comprehension. Don't you sound imbecillic to yourself?

So what happens when your wife cheats?
Do you accept that you can't stop her and when it does happen will you look the other way and not lose your mind?
I wonder the kind of brains some people have. A human being with equal feelings and emotions like you. You expect them to be ok with your emotional abuse but you as a person can't take it. Right? Meaning they are sub-human and their feelings don't matter right?
As long as you get off doesn't matter who gets hurt right?

And you have the nerves to call us unintelligent.
So xtupid of you.

You're so not worth the time I'm using to type this.

Nonsense. I only stated why some men will find it hard to resist cheating. Men naturally always desire more than female. Its a natural urge that some men can't resist. Ladies can't stop that. So they shouldn't hope and be 100% confident that men will ever remain faithful. So how does it justify cheating when I ask ladies to be prepared?
Of course my wife can cheat if she wants to. I can't stop her. Will I kill myself or go crazy if it happens? No cos am prepared for that.
The word "expect" as I used there is synonymous to being prepared. dumbass.

lorretta u: You can carry that unreasonable logic to an under developed village girl and tell her how to think and what to feel and how to react when u mess around

But bring it around to someone like me or my type and you'll get left so fast you won't know what hit you.

Yea you didn't justify cheating but[b]you're excusing it[/b] Right? Tell me the difference Mr smart pants

If you like don't tame your d1ck. nature didn't create you to have self control at least nature should have given you common sense
You can't be lacking everything. That's not fair

Keeping talking trash and exposing your dumbness. What's the difference between "justifying" and "excusing"? Go get some brains foool.

Teespice: Bull's eye.

OP, cheating is cheating whether done by the male or female. Stop trying to use silly instances to justify this thwarted view of yours.

If you say women should prepare for the worst whenever men cheat, then its also safe to assume that you men should also steel yourselves for the worst, for what's sauce for the goose is also sauce for the gander.

SMH.

Cheating runs both ways. Both women are the ones complaining frequently and claiming victims that's why I passed this message to them. Not justifying cheating but saying. GET PREPARED

lorretta u: @ topic
This is the handwork of a typical jobless randy idle mind.
Who has too much energy to waste, the excess is running into his d1ck forcing his brain to malfuncTion and hence create the useless topic

Oh yea. We are prepared to accommodate philandering men.we don't mind cos God made you that way. You can stick it in adaobi,nneka, joan, lizzy etc and come back to darling wife. She won't be upset or hurt cos she has accepted that you don't have control over your manhood.

If you don't sound ridiculous to yourself, all hope is lost. We give up on you.


Off to better topics.
Mtchew.

You are such a huge unintelligent iidiot. Why are you disgracing yourself and showing me how dull you are in comprehension and thinking? Can you point out where I really justified cheating?

lalaosky: Crap topic!!. Nothing justifies cheating on someone. Absolutely NOTHING. The crap excuse of "men are polygamous in nature' is pure rubbish. Men do cheat, but does that make it alright?. NO!!. If you get tired of a woman, you can call it quits instead of emotionally abusing her by cheating behind her back. If you know you're tired of a relationship, Quit it and move on and go have other girls. Don't lead her on or plan on sleeping with her and moving on, unless you've told her your aim earlier on and she didn't have problem with it. Truth is, when you really love someone, cheating on her is not an option and when she in turn, cheats on you, you are heartbroken. Simples.

lorretta u: @ topic
This is the handwork of a typical jobless randy idle mind.
Who has too much energy to waste, the excess is running into his d1ck forcing his brain to malfuncTion and hence create the useless topic

Oh yea. We are prepared to accommodate philandering men.we don't mind cos God made you that way. You can stick it in adaobi,nneka, joan, lizzy etc and come back to darling wife. She won't be upset or hurt cos she has accepted that you don't have control over your manhood.

If you don't sound ridiculous to yourself, all hope is lost. We give up on you.


Off to better topics.
Mtchew.

Only intelligent people will get the message am trying to put across. To make it easy for you guys let me simplify it: LADIES CAN NOT STOP MEN FROM CHEATING. THEY SHOULD ALWAYS BE PREPARED AND NOT LOSE THEIR MINDS WHEN IT HAPPENS.

For me to spend freely and carelessly on a girl its not just sex alone I would get. She must have to scrub my toilet, wash my clothes and clean my house. I mean it cos I work hard to get that money legitimately so whatever am spending on should worth it.

Did the OP just say "fallen standard"? Was the standard high before?

Eeja Nla01: Op,relationship is not suppose to be Money this money that,it is exactly what u thought it should be.however,if we are to face reality of what's going on here in naija,its better a man get the money and later choose the type of lady he wish to date/marry,if you are waiting that she ill love you cos of your grammer,you go wait till your pubic hair turns grey,only few of them check personality.

yemmit90: Cam down man! We're Africans, men are always expected to do the chase and take care of their women. On this basis, it's fundamental trait of every African woman to seek for security/protection in their prospective partners. Therefore, modern security = MONEY and POWER.

So, get money/power or remain there dey complain. The choice is yours!

smh. Its amazing how the same guys who accuse girls of materialsm are the ones encouraging them. Please let me ask you this: How would you feel when you are already in a relationship with a girl then she dumps you for another guy richer than you?

booqee: this op no get sense. U mean i should always expect it dat my man will cheat on me because it is a natural driving force in them. Dafuq is dat?! Because animals do it, so we humans shouldn't be different huh?? May i remind you dat in animals, its not only their male species dat have multiple partners, the female species too mate with more dan one partner during their lives, So why have you excluded women from ur justification for cheating and put only men. To worsen the matter he even put religion inside it. The day wey you go cheat wey ur blokos go gum the woman toto like everlasting super glue never come ni o. Cheating aint right whether for men or women!

Mtcheew. Please if you can't comprehend written things don't bother to respond. Where in that post did I justify cheating? I was only saying ladies should be prepared and not be caught by surprise. I said it is part of the male spieces nature to desire more than one female partner. And who made that nature? isn't it God? With a reason of course. Yes ladies cheat too but they are the ones who complain frequently. So I directed this post to them. Simple.

Cabsso: So u tink try competin wit a rich guy nd c if u wil get d gal.

That is IF she has an option to choose between the two. But let me ask, what would a lady do if no rich guy comes her way? She would prefer to die single right?

raficki87: i hate it when the world,media, feminist etc try to push it down our throat that men are inclined to cheat. and women aint? binsh please. all you so called male 'cheaters' ask ursef these questions whats the percentage of girls i cheat with are in a relationship i bet its quite high. the percentage of marriedwomen that cheat during nysc? why are you always scared when you travel for long period oof time if women are so saintly and cant cheat? and ask ur self this question why do most guys have that ex that they are so sure thst when next they jam even if she is married they have a 96% chance of hitting. just stop this fallacy and know that the propensity or inclination to cheat is equal btw the sexes........ and if u still want proof. google okafors law be weary of it.

Of course both sexes cheat but ladies are the ones who complain too much about cheating. That's why I directed my post to them.

jmoore: And what proof do you have that God exists? You brought in God so you should have your facts.

There is a big difference between human beings and animals. Unfortunately some human beings have decided to live as animals.

Lol. I do not intend to derail this topic to religious matters but I must say that God's existence is clearly proven in the complexity of things created. So don't ask me about the proof of God's existence. Its just obvious. But what is the proof that God created only Adam and Eve? The answer is NONE.
Of course there is a big difference between animals and humans BUT they still share a lot in common. Do you expect me to start listing them for you? I believe you should know it.

jmoore: You brought in God into this.

Why did God create Adam and Eve and not Adam and Eve+ Adaobi+Ekaette ?

I keep saying it, the only man that is polygamous in nature is the man with more than one pen**.


Folks should stop trying to justify their selfishness.

First of all what is the proof that God only created Adam and Eve? The fact that the bible said so is no proof.
I am not justifying men's cheating, but only saying there is a natural driving force behind it.

The "good" advice I intend to give ladies is to always be prepared for your guy to cheat on you. In fact just assume that your man is already cheating on you. By doing so you will spare yourself the shock and devastation you will experience when you eventually discover he is cheating. The reason I am saying this is because stopping men from cheating is like stopping rain from falling. There is a natural force involved. God naturally made the male specie to desire multiple females for a reason. Not just with humans alone but the animal world too. Consider a pride of Lions, a single male lion is always in charge of several female lions in the pride. Consider a Cock too, sometimes we see a cock moving about with about 5 hens and the list goes on. Its unfortunate that men are deceiving themselves taking vows to stick to a single lady when they are aware its contrary to their nature. Men should have adopted the polygamy style rather than monogamy.
Before a lady decides to date or marry a man, let her realize that she has agreed to a hidden TERMS AND CONDITION:
YOUR MAN MAY CHEAT ON YOU AT ANY UNPREDICTABLE TIME.
It is left for the lady to tick I AGREE or I DISAGREE.
As for the guys, try as much as possible to be faithful. If you know at the onset that you can't stick to a single lady, please don't make careless statements and promises to any lady that she means the whole world to you and you will always be faithful.

When a serious question is asked posters avoid it. I expected a challenge but none seems to be coming.

aaronson: What did the girl use in keeping up that beauty for you to get attracted to her
Let's not deceive ourselves the gospel truth is 3things are involved to make a woman stick with you.1. money 2. Se.x 3. Security

What sort of silly thought is that? A relationship is a means of survival for ladies? Why can't they say so openly and stop pretending its about love and understanding.

bad meat: Dude wake up to reality!women don't understand ur flow until it come with the dough!

Then I would watch how every lady will hook up with a rich guy.

USB Tethering is not the problem bro. Just pray for your network service.

Most opinions I have heard are passing the same message: YOU MUST HAVE MONEY TO DATE OR GET A GIRL. This is clearly the general thought of most Nigerians. Definitely its a Nigerian mentality. But I have to ask, why is it necessary to be rich just to date a girl in Nigeria? When it comes to marriage I agree there has to be money mainly because of CHILDREN. But talking of dating, what a hell do we need all that money for? If you love each other so great you do not need to spend money going to expensive restaurants and cinemas to spice up the relationship to create happiness. Just his or her presence with you alone will be enough to give you full happiness. Most relationships are built on fake love so there is no natural happiness, in this case money and sex will be used to create that happiness artificially.
Am not suprised its about a country called Nigeria where almost everything sucks. Underdeveloped infrastructures, underdeveloped education, UNDERDEVELOPED ROMANCE.

physise: 6GB , 32GB , 64GB , 128GB
Meizu MX3 powered by
KEY SPECS
TYPE
Smartphone
OPERATING SYSTEM
Android (Jelly Bean [4.2])
SCREEN SIZE
5.1 inches
INTERNAL MEMORY
16 MB
CAMERA
8 megapixels
DIMENSIONS
139 x 2.83 x 0.36 in
WEIGHT
5.04 oz
ANNOUNCED
2013-09-02

This is the correct spec.

GENERAL 2G Network GSM 850 / 900 / 1800 / 1900
3G Network HSDPA 850 / 2100
SIM Micro-SIM
Announced 2013, September
Status Available. Released 2013, October
BODY Dimensions 139 x 71.9 x 9.1 mm (5.47 x 2.83 x 0.36 in)
Weight 143 g (5.04 oz)
DISPLAY Type Capacitive touchscreen, 16M colors
Size 1080 x 1800 pixels, 5.1 inches (~412 ppi pixel
density)
Multitouch Yes
- Flyme 3.0
SOUND Alert types Vibration, MP3 ringtones
Loudspeaker Yes
3.5mm jack Yes
MEMORY Card slot No
Internal 16/32/64/128 GB storage, 2 GB RAM
DATA GPRS Yes
EDGE Yes
Speed HSDPA, HSUPA
WLAN Wi-Fi 802.11 a/b/g/n, dual-band, Wi-Fi Direct
Bluetooth Yes, v4.0 with A2DP
NFC Yes
USB Yes, microUSB v2.0 (MHL), USB On-the-go
CAMERA Primary 8 MP, 3264x2448 pixels, autofocus, LED flash,
check quality
Features 1.4 µm pixel size, Geo-tagging, smile detection,
WDR
Video Yes, 1080p@30fps, check quality
Secondary Yes, 2 MP, 1080p@30fps
FEATURES OS Android OS, v4.2 (Jelly Bean)
Chipset Exynos 5410
CPU Quad-core 1.6 GHz Cortex-A15 & quad-core 1.2
GHz Cortex-A7
GPU PowerVR SGX 544MP3
Sensors Accelerometer, gyro, proximity, compass
Messaging SMS(threaded view), MMS, Email, Push Mail, IM
Browser HTML5
Radio No
GPS Yes, with A-GPS support and GLONASS
Java Yes, via Java MIDP emulator
Colors Black (front panel), several color options (back
panel); white
- Active noise cancellation with dedicated mic
- SNS integration
- TV-out (via MHL A/V link)
- Google Search, Maps, Gmail, Talk
- MP3/WAV/eAAC+/FLAC player
- MP4/H.263/H.264 player
- Organizer
- Document viewer/editor
- Photo viewer
- Voice memo/dial
- Predictive text input
BATTERY Non-removable Li-Po 2400 mAh battery
Stand-by Up to 429 h (2G) / Up to 393 h (3G)
Talk time Up to 12 h (2G) / Up to 14 h (3G)
Music play Up to 40 h

China's Meizu MX3 is the world's first 128GB smartphone phone. I wonder why the likes of iPhone and Samsung have not gotten to this level.
Anyway, China already has high quality brands like Oppo, Meizu and Huawei. It's unfortunate that only lower division Tecno is the one that makes its way into the Nigerian market.
The Chinese are improving and catching up fast. No doubt about that.

http://www.engadget.com/2013/11/18/meizu-mx3-128gb-china/

salam8528: its very clear dis writer is a Christian haven't u seen were people DAT converted from Christianity 2 Islam r bin abandoned, if u claim we r serving dsame God den liv ur Christianity Nd convert 2 Islam since dey r 1.

It happens among Christians too of course. But Moslems are less tolerant. Am sure about that.
I am neither a moslem nor a christian. I can worship in a mosque or church at any time. These divisions don't make sense to me.

Most times when a family member or someone very close to us converts to another religion, we don't take it lightly. We dissociate ourselves from them or hate them. The Moslems in particular take it very extreme to the extent of disowning or killing a family member if he or she dares to convert to Christianity. But the question I wanna is: IS IT NECESSARY?
There is one thing I am very sure about. There is nothing like a separate Muslim God and a separate christian God. The God that Muslims worship is the same God that Christians worship. The God that created Muslims is the same God that created Christians. So why bother about someone's conversion when he or she is still going to worship the same God? Why is a jihad necessary against Christians necessary when they still worship same God with the Moslems?
In my opinion converting to a new religion is only changing a style of worshiping the same God. What's the big deal?

This is what some people who don't follow Nigerian politics keep asking because sometimes we come across some folks saying the president is working and the next minute we see people calling him names like "Jonathan", "Jonathan", "clueless", "Retardeen etc. So who are we to believe? For those who say he is not working, what is it that they are not seeing which makes the others say he is working?
Anyway, I want you guys to clear the air for those of us undecided. If you believe the president is working or making progress, come up with your reasons backed with proven facts. And if you believe he is a "Jonathan" come up with your reasons and proven facts too to end this confusion.

Sometimes its not really about huge military budget. China can still build that carrier with only $1 billion.

Personally I don't think it was a mistake or bad idea to unify various ethnic groups into a country called Nigeria. I think the problem has been that there were no measures taken to handle such unification. For this sort of union to work I think we should never have terms like IGBO LAND, YORUBA LAND AND HAUSA LAND. The idea behind setting up NYSC to disperse and mix up tribes in all corners of Nigeria was a good one, but the problem is that its not sufficient enough. I think it should have been extended beyond NYSC to others areas like employment, schooling and business.

Let me say for instance that the system is transformed such that each tribe would only find favorable employment, education and business opportunities only outside his ethnic region. The result of this after some years will be that in every region of Nigeria we would have an even distribution and presence of all ethic groups in Nigeria. Using only the 3 major ethnic groups just for an example, in Igbo land we would 40% Igbos, 30% Yorubas and 30% Hausas, in Yoruba land we would also have 40% Yorubas, 30% Igbos and 30% Hausa's and same pattern across every area in Nigeria. Each ethnic group will get used to the other and after all the intertribal marriages and mixing up I bet every issue rooted in tribalism in Nigeria would be never spring up.

Having said all that above, if we have done this since the 70's when NYSC was set up do you think an impact would have made or not?

Our so-called girlfriends are using sex as a justification to make outrageous demands. Just a 3 minute sex with a girlfriend can be a justification to request for a N1,000,000 change of wardrobe. Their reason will always be like: "After all I GIVE him sex". Emphasis on the word "give" cos I don't understand how girls are doing guys a favor by GIVING him sex when girls enjoy the sex too. After the enjoyment they had they still want to be given something on top of it abi? Even when sex is not involved, just washing a guy's singlet is enough justification for a girl to demand for an expensive smartphone. Bottom line is keeping a girlfriend in this part of world can incur an endless list of expenses.
Considering all these do you think it is more expensive or cheaper keeping a girlfriend or keeping a Call girl?