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r231:
Does it ALWAYS come with a sleazy connotation.

So ladies when u are asked back and say yes, have you or do you always expect to have sex. Lets discuss.

spikedcylinder:
Errm, not really. Rather, I think its people with complexes that cannot take compliments in stride.

I've never and still don't have problems complimenting girls, I just know the kind of girls to compliment. Usually, the reaction of the complimented puts me off. You'd get stuff like :

Me: Hey, I like you dress, it really looks nice on you.
Her: I know

or

Me: What have you been eating? Makes your skin look great
Her: If I were you, I'd eat fruits for the rest of my life

or

Me: Hey, my boyfriend saw you the other day and said you are really pretty
Her: Do you think you're finer than me?


PS. I didn't make any of those conversations up, they actually happened! This is why I get miserly with my compliments.

olusolami:
Me? I think anywhere will make sense as lng as we are together and we stick to d plan. Anywia i cn b read to, pamper wt all d la_la_la and lo_lo_lo.

xynerio:
A number flashed me one day and I called back only for a female voice to tell that my number had been flashing her. I ask her name and location and she said her was DAKORE, that she stay in Aguda. I introduced my myself and I told her I will like to see her one day. She ask me to meet her in front of Tasty Fried Chicken at Adeniran Ogunsanya street in surulere. I went there and I called her to tell me the colour of her dress, she said pink and I quickly spotted a lady in pink dress standing in front of the right venue. She was wearing glasses, I didnt see her face from afar. When I got close to her, her face was full of acne with black spot all over. That day I was pissed. Well I manage to buy her a drink and ran for my life. I believe they forge numbers and if a guy pick it, the game has begun. Fine gals no get time for this shit.

Ebonyeyes:
My dear put a weave on it then until it grows out. Men love long hair thats why women black and white(yes white women wear weaves too) wear weaves. The hair industry is  booming even in this great depression.

Ani Lee:
Well, i still stick to my idea that different women look good with different hairs. Some women look really really pretty and beautiful with male-short hair or even bald and some women look as equal with shoulder-length/longer hair. And some just look like creeps no matter what they do wit their hair (aint their problem though). But Hint: Get a personal (professional) stylist and find what  hair suits you. In most cases, the hair you feel most comfortable in is the hair that really makes you look good. And in return you will find, some men love women with short hair and some with long hair.

jennygirl:
after toasting u and all that shit,u finally fall for the guy and decide to give him a chance but once he's had sex with u he sends u this annoying e-mail saying that he likes u alot but cannot give u what u want or deserve and would like u guys to be friends if that's ok with u.

don't bother toasting a girl if u're already hooked up or are not ready for a relationship.

TheSeeker:
Baby when I told you, you're the only one I like, I meant to say I really wanna f.uck tonight,
Baby when I told you, you're the only sunshine of my life, I meant to say, shawtie I ain't your trick, b.itch please I ain't buying your shit.

When I say I like you for everything you are,
I meant to say I like the way your titties set up in your bra,
Everything I said in your ear by the bar,
Was just to get you in the backseat of my car,
You're an inspiring actress, girl you could go far,
If you know who I know baby you would be a star,
But when I said you had sexy lips, I meant to say I bet you suck a good d.ick . . . . . . . . 50 Cent

~Sauron~:
Over ma dead body. . . . . . .

P.S. I am relocating to South Africa.
This dude married 4 women at the same time.
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TheSeeker:
  Another reason is that Yoruba men are very very prone to polygamy. I share this belief in its entirety. Polygamy is nothing any parents want their daughters to deal with and this is predominant among Yoruba men.

Stella N:
so Igbo girl dey hungry u to marry ehyaaaaaaaaaaa ndo oooooooooo
well are u ready to pay the price?

okey let me just tell u one reason why Igbo hate to give their precious child to a Yorubas in marrage
right from origin yorubas are wicked especially to the people that does not understand their language,
and they are ready to marry may be two wivies and have as many concubines as their pennis could carry,
so my dear if u want an Igbo girl be prepared to leave some of your tribe character

TheSeeker:
It doesn't really take a lot to make a relationship work but I think the main thing is commitment. You need to have that before your relationship can move any close to working. Commitment will make you go the extra mile to put in your best in a relationship.

When you have commitment, you go for communication. You obviously can't communicate if you're not committed because you could care less.  After this comes honesty. I want to believe that when you communicate, you do so in all honesty or it won't be a hearty discussion.

Another is patience. Dealing with a partner -- young or old, mature or immature -- is like having to do with someone you have never met just as it was back in your elementary school days. It takes a lot of them for some people to adjust to who they are dating and it could be pretty short for some. You have to know also that the comfort-level of each person varies, and the rate at which others integrate perfectly into their new dates depends on a lot of factors. Don't get mad when you have to repeatedly spell out your do's and don'ts to your partner, and don't lose your patience when your girlfriend wants you to pet her all the time, both when necessary and unnecessary.

Commitment, communication, honesty, patience, then comes another, sacrifice.

Sacrifice can mean different things to different people in different and diverse situations. The most important thing is, in every relationship make good use of your head and do what's right. Your heart at some point may not convey a correspondingly valid message with your heart. Right at this juncture, you'll need to use your brain to fathom what's right. You can't possibly ask your girlfriend or fiancee to drop her dreams of wanting to be a nurse because you think she may not have time in the future for the family (you and your kids), and it'll be foolish for her to walk out on her path to a rosy career because of what 'harm' you think it might do to the future you both are planning.

Musty450:
@ thread; i find the above quote, sad but true; the thing is that saying it is sorta a leap of faith; i mean why say it if you aint sure it ll be reciprocated
My dad always used to say:
"Never make any assumptions Son"

If you really and truly love your partner then you should say the words, leap of faith or not.

And, if you re not good and ready then DONT