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I am loving this. A real pow-wow since the Nigerian civil war. Time for some action. We are gonna smoke 'em out(God bless George Bush). Its words, “We therefore, declare that we are no longer part of the fraudulent amnesty which is full of deceit and betrayal. We have recruited and trained fresh able-bodied fighters across the Niger Delta States to execute our mission.That is gud. Bring it on I say. Word of caution to the 'beer bellies'. No drinking on duty. Time to kick some ars*e. ![]() I remember GEJ importing some Americans to reform the ex Niger-Delta militants a few months back. Now, I now what he has been up to. |
^^^ Are you a moderator? Why is this 'spambot' only perculiar to my Phillip Emeagwali's posts? Yes, the posts were deleted and I got several messages I should have saved. Please, if you have any information concerning the matter please share it. Instead of butting in where you do not have a business. . . .smh to you too. Whatever that means in your language. |
Olu (not real name) is from Osun state (real state)I did not say anything o. ![]() But you all know what I am a-thinking. ![]() |
jason12345:Absolutely 'kwarect". Aboki has spoken. Till that oil dries up, it is ONE NIJJJERIA. ![]() Come and secede let us whip lash you back to your senses with our JTF. Too late now. We need slaves from southern Nijjjjeria. IBB for 2011. ![]() Allah bless Lord Lugard. |
ada24:You truly are struck with 'tunnel vision' aren't you? I ask you again, what do you suggest the women in such positions do to avoid divorces IF the marriages are salvageable? Is it all marriages with domestic abusers that end up as failed marriages? Instead of making matters worse, what are your solutions? Is domestic violence and spousal abuse unforgivable/unsalvageable? Some men do not know how to communicate except with their fists. How can a woman change him? I had an uncle who did the same thing day in and day out to his wife of 10 years. She never complained but we all saw what was going on. One day the man stopped beating his wife and we all wondered why they turned out to be such a happy couple after all. When the woman was asked, she told everyone that she had to teach him so that her sons would make better husbands in the future. Now, tell me if you would have advised this woman to leave her matrimonial home? When asked what she did to make him stop, he admitted she threatened to kill herself(she did not mean it of course). But the man never touched her from that day on. He realized he could not lose her and that he really loved this woman. Moral of the story? Every man has several buttons to push. Find the one that works if you want to remain married. The grass is NEVER greener on the outside. Always a mirage. The next one will be even worse and is single for a reason(someone got rid of him too). ![]() I have had enough of this topic. Take care. |
peacettw:Keep reading from her and those women will surely end up divorced for the wrong reasons, not domestic violence or spousal battery. Now you live in 'our environment' and you do not know how to solve simple domestic disputes in the year 2011 almost? Do you live in a cave or in some isolated village with internet services? Most women I know in Nigeria would be calling on their parents and family members of whom the husband went to pay her dowry to. I believe you had a customary marriage too? If indeed you are or you are not the person who seeks for help here(totally irrelevant). Did you abscond with this man without proper marriage rites of passage? I don't believe MOST educated women in modern day Nigeria will tolerate domestic abuse from their spouses without packing out of the house FIRST. The man can only come back to ask for her after dealing with her kinsmen or getting the beating of his life(if you are one of my sisters for sure). Either way, the lady hides such at her own detriment and peril. What exactly is YOUR story? Are you in a 'runaway' common-law marriage and you have absolutely NO support systems? I know many uneducated women in Nigeria living in the villages and they will not put up with domestic abuse from their husbands no matter how illiterate. Before you start looking for a lawyer without looking for a divorce, you need to get with your family members and report the situation. It is nothing to be ashamed of. If you have a father like mine, that will be the first and the last time any ears will hear such a thing concerning ANY of his daughters, since his sons do not hit their wives. Search yourself and see what you are carrying sister. Your stories do not make sense. |
ada24:If you are not a Nigerian, then I can understand your perspective. Not everything in Africa has to end in divorce and court cases like Western countries. We have family intervention and other remedial avenues. You are really immature in your responses. It is either she goes all the way or just tolerate the behaviour you stated? I hope you are not a counsellor or a social-worker. Do you believe in the power of appropriate verbal and non-communication? If you have children, you can easily solve a man's problems. Children are more difficult to deal with. What kind of a woman will stay with an abuser and hide the abuse, when her life is in obvious danger? ![]() Why get married if you cannot communicate and channel negative energies of those around you? At least try? |
ada24:You are not paying attention. Where did I imply all these? can't u get that this cultural norm u talk of is wrong - if u like call us "white" women but beating up your wife is wrong and illegal - i mean anyone else outside the home could have u arrested for assult.I understand all this, and I am not saying the woman should stay if she has no other alternative. Instead of shouting divorce, police, victim and all that, why don't you suggest counselling psychological evaluation for the man to find out if he is "sick"? The woman married him for a reason right? Without losing her life, is it possible that the man might change? Is all hope lost? Is divorce the only answer. I have seen many marriages survive domestic violence so I believe it can be stopped. If the man does not want to get help, then that is a different matter. So what alternatives are you willing to suggest, if you think for a minute, besides ending the marriage? i have had a little experience of working with women who are victims and most times u will find that the woman has not done anything instead the men are the ones who look for "weak" women. THE VICTIM IS NEVER TO BLAMEYes, the victim is never to blame. But we are talking about solutions here. What do you suggest? Your "little" experience might not qualify you as a psychotherapist. |
Beaf:Wham. The dude does not even have to leave Minna anymore. Do we still want the North to secede? ![]() Southerners, try your luck. May the force be with you all. The winner is IBB. Kei! Only in Nigeria. A nation of cowards. OBJ wins again. What an evil genius. |
Where is my last post? I thought I read the thread was closed. Am I seeing things? This has happened several times today. This is driving me nuts. ![]() |
Why can't I post Phillip Emeagwali's rebuttal from The Nigerian Village Square on Nairaland? Is that a violation of the rules? ![]() I tried to start a thread of this clarification and it was deleted. I tried to post it 3 times today on related threads and they were deleted too. Funny enough, I can still see my log in name as the last poster, but no post. What is going on? ![]() Before I make any further comments on this issue, I would like to read from the moderators of the Politics section. Thanks. |
[quote author=bk.babe97y link=topic=551001.msg7149198#msg7149198 date=1289835843]Ok, Ive allowed you, much like Phillip Emegweali (and quite frankly, every other red blooded Ibo man) to carry on with your lies. . . Hey, its what u guys "do", afterall. That ability to tell a lie and insist that its the truth even in the face of overwhelming evidence. . . . its just what being "IBO" is all about, so, no biggie there. I guess. . . . Look at how many lies u continually (even to the point of looking like a fool to other forumites---cus your clearly lying) tell, hoping against hope (like a typical Ibo), that someone will "Buy" your story! lol. I claimed to be from "Brooklyn, Manhattan"; I've been "caught" dressed as a drag queen; I posted pics of my "gal" and, lo and behold, she weighed 500lbs; I posted realistic looking "fake" pics to disprove EzeUche's claim.; I'm "American". . . . I mean for you guys WHEN DO THE LIES STOP?! The pic was fake, u say? LMFAO!!! Yeah, realizing that the person on the other side of the screen is bigger and badder will do that to you. Trust me, it doesnt stop with "denial". Thats just the second stage. It usually metamorphs into other emotions like anger, and self-hate; attempts at suicide after depressing feelings of uncontrollable despair is usually the end result! So, dont worry, ure well on your way. Louis to Gianni? Lol. No need to even go further with this! LMAO!!![/quote]Phillip Emeagwali has answered you jealous cowards. Go and complain there please. [b]http://www.nigeriavillagesquare.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=17103&Itemid=224 ![]() |
http://www.punchng.com/Articl.aspx?theartic=Art201001111555696 Obasanjo to invest in EthiopiaBetcha this costs more than $40 million dollars. But who wants to know. Lessons learned. Do not contest for Nigerian elections if you have been caught with your hands in the "cookie jar". Aluta continua! |
Only $40 million? The timing is "suspect". ![]() God's time according to EFCC is the very best for sure. ![]() Why can't these same financial criminal be prosecuted in Nigeria? ![]() His accomplice has since been jailed in the US, what is Nigeria waiting for? Anyway, I don't know what the bru ha ha is all about. For you to be a Nigerian or a Nigerian politician for that matter, It is imperative you are a financial criminal. MOST of the governors in Nigeria are ex-convicts inside and outside Nigeria. Most had pled their ways our of criminal sentences abroad. So, I ask again what is the big deal here? No wonder IBB got the Arewa ticket. Atiku was blackmailed with this piece of dirty laundry. I knew there was more to the story. OBJ wins again. His juju is really strong. ![]() |
peacettw:I agree. But my question is how did the woman end up as a punching bag? ![]() Of course in marriage, domestic abuse REMAINS a social problem in my opinion because, you are better off dealing with domestic abuse as a social problem as opposed to a legal problem. YOU ARE MARRIED and not strangers on the streets. Unless you want to end your marriage. Try everything else from therapy to counselling before you involve the police. If you want to live like a "white" woman, be prepared to go all the way. Join the statistics and be a divorced single parent. I am not a lawyer but the matter is simple. You do not need a lawyer. If you want to sue your husband for assualt and battery, why not go all the way like a 'white' woman? Why do you need a lawyer if not for a divorce? ![]() Do you think you can get a lawyer to stop spousal abuse? You will have to pay for the lawyer's services and your bank account may just dry up throwing money away. Just save yourself the stress and get rid of the abuser by leaving the marriage. Case closed. |
ada24:I did not put the blame on the woman. I only stated she should find out why. A mental problem should be addressed. There can be domestic abuse without pychoses as we find in African men with cultural and religious norms where it is ok to hit their wives. The reason I said women should find out why then go from there. Please, learn to interprete what you read. But come to think of it, most of the women who complain the loudest are to blame for sure. The reason being that MOST of you were battered girlfriends before you became batttered wives. Expecting things to change after desperately chanting "I do" or allowing yourselves to get knocked up by a serial domestic abuser whose father did the same things to his mothers and her co-wives. You marry drunks and drug-addicts then turn around and complain the men in your lives are abusive. Can't have it both ways. ![]() |
peacettw:Oh, honey babes. Keep lying till your dying days. Your husband is no fool and probably already knows how your mind works. If you have to keep lying till your dying days, It only means one thing. You are not at a mature point in your marriage or relationship. What a sad way to live. When your husband comes home with lipsticks all over his work shirts or text messages from unclothed women on his cell phone, he will lie to your face too. ![]() Who said it was simple? It is a simple question. Simple question, simple answer. It cannot be avoided for there are other men with qualities her husband may not have. Dealing with the attraction is a different topic entirely. You have not asked for that. So, let us stick to the topic. Why should you lie? If your husband tells you he is not attracted to other females other than yourself he is lying of course. Only insecure people are not in touch with their feelings or feel threatened by natural courses of events. By lying to your husband's friend in front of your husband, you probably exposed yourself the more. Better to be silent and thought a fool, than to utter a word and clear all doubt. Who is fooling who? |
GL:No problem there. with regards to age though, i guess i would raise them differently. i don't expect a young child to handle the same types of responsibilities as his/her older siblings.No problem there. these distinctions in roles and attitudes of each gender are mostly based on the society/family. not all girls are emotional and not all boys are predatory; these aren't entirely inherent traits, they have a lot to do with the upbringing. so for those who would like their daughters to be emotionally strong, and their sons to not be predatory, it's best not to pass those ideas to the kids at such young ages.There are exception to the rule of course. I did not state ALL boys or ALL girls. We are talking of norms. You are thinking Western culture for the most parts. Think African culture. about only a real man being able to raise a male child, i beg to differ.One of the main reasons we have a lot of homosexuals and bi-sexuals all over the world(love them, for they are God's children too). When you allow your sons to sleep in your beds and letting them see your "stuff" till they are 20 years old as young men. Only to wish for a sex-change down the line because they love what you have. ![]() i know several guys who were raised by single mothers for various reasons. and about a girl being damaged for life if her relationship with her father is tarnished, it's not a rule. while it does seem that way for some girls, many girls grow up fine in such situations.I can't argue that there are fantastic single parents as mothers. Not all girls are damaged for life without a father figure in her life. If you read what I wrote previously, I stated a healthy relationship with her father. Of course, a girl is better off without a man in her life than with being saddled with a pedo-phile or a domestic abuser for a father. Let us not restate the obvious please. I did not say ALL. Yes, MOST. A general statement? Heck yeah. My opinion. kids learn so much from other sources than their families from their pre-teen ages. though the tendency is for kids to follow after the parent of the same sex, there are many kids who grow up to hate certain traits of their parents.Different topic entirely. The basic foundation for a child's growth and development comes from the parents as role models, Yes, there is peer pressure and all that, which is only fleeting and ephemeral. When the chips are down, the child does not remember what his or her friends told him about life, but what mommy and daddy did and how the coped *with life. Yes, kids get to hate certain traits about their parents good or bad. We all went through those phases. But when the parents are no more(I mean responsible, loving parents) who do we give the thanks and praises to? The parents of course. We come to appreciate them, not our friends who want to lead us down the paths of destruction where their own parents have failed them. Food for thought. ![]() |
[quote author=Miss_Ife link=topic=546821.msg7149597#msg7149597 date=1289839129]eheh, maybe I don't express myself very well in english (not my native language) ![]() when I said that I would probably make difference between boys and girls, I meant without being totally conscious about it. I don't have brothers and all of my close friends are girls, I am a very "girly" girl if I may say. Actually, when I think about it, the only man I really know is my husband. So I cannot know how I would behave if I had a son, in theory, I want to give him the same education as my daughter, but I might do differently without even noticing it. does that make sense?[/quote]So, how did your dad raise you and your brothers? Did he make you wash his car or assist your mom with the kitchen chores? I am very happy that you disagree and that you feel free to express your opinion. this is not a right/wrong topic, and I am not trying to convince anybody, as I don't feel that my opinion is better than yours or anybody's. I know why I think that way, that doesn't mean that your own opinion doesn't make sense. Actually, what you said hereYou are extremely verbose, and your presentation highly fragmented. This is very distracting. ![]() got me thinking. I do believe too that a long term relationship such as marriage is easier if the two members of the couple have a clear idea about what is their responsibility/role in the relationship and the family. Does that mean that it can't work if there is no such thing as a defined "man's role" and "woman's role"? divorce statistics in the western world might say so, most of my wester female friends believe otherwiseAgain, you are running around in circles. Did your mom and dad play the same roles? You should commend the divorce stats in the Western world, for if African women had the same opportunities other women had in the same Western countries, there would be NO marriages in Africa. ![]() as for the study I was talking about it was just to prove my point that women would behave differently depending on the way they were raised, and so that it is not a question of "natural" differences, but also of education.You keep mentioning "this study" and "the study". Where is it? Since you admitted yourself that English is not your primary lingo. Moreover, going by your literary activities on this thread, my most educated guess is that you may not have interpreted what you read in the context of "the study". No insult intended. I need a cigarette. You are driving me to drink. Stoppit! ![]() |
1. Find out the reasons for her being battered and proceed from there. Most marriages are salvageable even with this problem. It is left for the woman to stay or leave. But, she MUST put a stop to the battering and command respect from her husband. She has the key and she can do it. Unless she does not wish to. Most men can be cured out of that bad habit. It is up to the woman. 2. It is NOT a legal problem but a social problem which does not require the services of a lawyer. |
Yes. Her choice. Simple question, simple answer. |
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Phillip Emeagwali finally speaks. Go here. http://nigeriavillagesquare.com/forum/articles-comments/58908-what-did-emeagwali-discover.html MonThanks bro. Now, your enemies can die in pieces. ![]() |
http://nigeriavillagesquare.com/forum/articles-comments/58908-what-did-emeagwali-discover.html [b]Mon 15 Nov 2010 What Did Emeagwali Discover? Written by Emeagwali.com Monday, 15 November 2010 23:17 What Did Emeagwali Discover? Introduction This is the first in our weekly Monday series that will provide answers to our most frequently asked questions. In this column, we will focus on Philip Emeagwali’s discoveries and inventions, and will answer specific questions, such as, Why was Emeagwali called one of the fathers of the Internet? How did his seventeen years in eight degree programs at five universities help him solve one of the “20 Grand Challenges” in science and engineering? Why did he need a supercomputer that sends and receives emails as an internet to solve it? How did he get exclusive access to a supercomputer, which today costs 1.32 BILLION dollars, according to The Wall Street Journal (October 4, 2010)? Most importantly, how did he become a famous scientist? The key to success, Emeagwali believes, is to make discoveries and inventions and then become famous for creating new knowledge to be taught to mankind, present and future. The reason President Bill Clinton extolled Philip Emeagwali for creating the knowledge now used to program the supercomputer is that Clinton understood that the inventor is the first teacher of his invention to humanity. Our weekly series will put the most emphasis on his discoveries and inventions. We’ll begin with Emeagwali’s “41 patent claims,” filed 20 years ago. Regards, -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- His Inventions Philip Emeagwali scribbled the actual equations used by the oil company Exxon (now Exxon Mobil) to simulate the flow of oil, water, and gas inside its petroleum reservoirs. Emeagwali pointed out that four forces exist inside every petroleum reservoir; he discovered that the Exxon Mobil equation had summed only three forces. Emeagwali correctly summed all four forces, namely: pressure, viscosity, gravity, and inertia. After learning about his discovery, Mobil Research and Development invited him (in a letter dated March 19, 1990) help the company in “reservoir simulation.” It’s as abstract as the Navier-Stokes equations listed in the “Seven Millennium Problems” but yet computably solved by Emeagwali. His equivalent of six degrees in mathematics and engineering helped him to discover the 36 partial derivative inertial terms and to invent 36 algorithms for solving them. His Lectures As an invited speaker at the world’s largest gathering of mathematicians on July 8, 1991, in Washington, D.C, Philip Emeagwali presented his discoveries and inventions to the field’s foremost experts. From 1993 to 1998, Emeagwali represented the world’s two premier computer societies, The IEEE Computer Society and the Association for Computing Machinery, as their Distinguished Speaker at Computer Science Departments in the United States. As the headline speaker at a top science festival (on January 30, 2009, near Calcutta, India), he held 7,000 attendees spellbound for 40 minutes. When he stepped down from the stage, the audience mobbed him like a rock star. How “41 Patent Claims” Was Shortened to “Patents” Stories evolve, often subtly, with each retelling by others. The retelling of the story of “the 41 patent claims” that Philip Emeagwali told on July 8, 1991 at the International Congress on Industrial and Applied Mathematics evolved into “41 patents.” This conference is to mathematics what the World Cup is to soccer—unique and held only once every four years. Emeagwali told mathematicians at the conference that he had filed 41 patent claims, which covered the 36 algorithms he had invented for solving the 36 partial derivative inertial terms that he had discovered. As non-mathematicians retold his story, his “41 patent claims” was shortened to “41 patents.” Similarly, his young age of 35 years, published accurately in a 1989 interview, was repeated over and over for 21 years, which contributed to a few mistaken tabloid media attacks claiming Emeagwali had “lied about his age.” Philip Emeagwali told the mathematicians at the International Congress that his 41 patent claims were precise legal definitions of his algorithms for solving the 36 partial derivative inertial terms that he had discovered. He filed his 36 algorithms as 36 patent claims to avoid losing some of his rights and protection under the law. He also filed five additional dependent claims, bringing his total number of claims to 41. Emeagwali stopped pursuing his patent claims because the United States Patent and Trademark Office told him that his 36 algorithms were discoveries, not inventions. He argued that they were inventions, not discoveries, explaining that although the Second Law of Motion encoded within his algorithms was not patentable, his algorithmic techniques that embodied that Second Law within supercomputers should be, because they are the discrete analogue of the 36 partial derivative inertial terms that he had discovered. In other words, they were functions with input and output. Patenting algorithms was a gray area in 1989.Today, it is possible to patent algorithms; however, because he publicly disclosed his inventions in 1989, the one year filing deadline passed. Importantly, scientific progress is only measured by discoveries, not patents. To discover means to see something that is previously unseen or unknown. Philip Emeagwali discovered that petroleum reservoir engineers summed only three forces, instead of summing all four forces within their oilfields. The word “invent” means the contrivance of that which did not before exists. He invented 36 algorithms for summing all four forces. To invent means to originate or create as a product of the inventor’s ingenuity. It does not mean to patent. In supercomputing, it means to correctly formulate and solve one of the “Twenty Grand Challenges” at a world-record speed. Philip Emeagwali simulated the flow of oil, water, and gas— with the forces correctly summed—at the then unheard of speed of 3.1 billion calculations per second. It was a Grand Challenge that was of interest to Mobile, but completed by one man in 1989. In summary, Philip Emeagwali received a standing ovation at the International Congress for telling the field’s foremost experts that: Exxon was falsifying its petroleum reservoir equations and that the equations taught in universities are not equating to what’s happening inside a petroleum reservoir. It is an unpatented invention just as the internet is an unpatented invention. Your dictionary defines the word “invention” without using the word “patent” and groundbreaking inventions, such as the Internet, cannot be patented because it has many fathers, mothers, aunts, and uncles. Most importantly, the discoverer is the first teacher of his discovery to humanity.[/b] |
fstranger:www.nairaland.com/attachments/350514_36750_135581066466166_100000428198353_284685_2032506_n_jpg1de6e65ed3199e51634dc4bb35b23532 Will do. But don't forget to ask your daughters to learn how to wash themselves and their smelly, Yoruba-butts before, they leave the house and start trolling the streets digging themselves free of pubic lice. ![]() Can't you see how these your daughter's legs look like those of a cattle? Knock knees and all. Omo dorty. For cattle(not cattles, you Yoruba, semi-illiterate) smell much better than they do. ![]() Here's some anti-viral soap and disinfectant to kill those ticks. |
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