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Yeah baby i've been there before and we broke up Feburary, it's going to be really really really tough on you at first if you break up cos you will think of becoming pyscho, and think of suicide and you will be depressed to the highest pitch but you will survive. Guys like that always want you to pay for every wrong thing you do, and you cannot talk to any guy except they give you the permission, you can't go anywhere without telling them and they have to give you permission, they find it difficult to say sorry, they push you so hard to the highest peak of frustration and tell you they are testing your level of endurance even when they are not,they keep talking about that very bad mistake you made till you can predict it's what they will say next, they think about themselves and how you should treat them with respect but you are never respected, they say your family doesn't like you so you choose between him or your family and you might even fight your family because of him but it's what he wants and you have no right to choose him over your family because family and friends will always be there for you when he's away, sometimes you think he's a sadist cos he finds every opportunity to fight you, he tells you the reason he's having sex with someone else is because you are distant, they monitor all your moves on social network and even give you their password so you will give them your password too which is the greatest mistake but they have this really great part of them that you can't really point out. By the end of the relationship you find out how ruined, stupid, helpless and screwed up you have been all along. please flee from him and you will get better guys although, you will really feel the urge to have him back and not wanting to move on with someone else but just take your time to heal the thing is you never know how to heal until someone who really loves you (which in my own case my mom) shouts at you.PEACE!

succyblinks:
Hi guys I really need your advice on this issue
I've been dating this guy for over a year now and it's been really tough on me, I truly love this guy even when my parents were kicking against him due to tribal difference I stood on my grounds until they finally accepted him but everytime we have an issue, the next thing he does is to break up with me and make me come back begging even if he was wrong, this guy was the one that disvirgined me and I can't just cut off the connection between us no matter how I try, now recently he started hitting me anytime he's angry and whenever we are having an argument he raises his voice and even threatens to beat me like he used to do, this makes me feel so embarrassed cause he says it even to the hearing of my neighbors, i've caught him sexchatting with one girl before and he wasn't even sorry about it, he made me break up with all my male friends and treats me like trash, I know I should leave the relationship but I can't it's like my life depends on it, I've read so many articles on how to get over a loved one but none worked, I've always wanted to get married to the guy who deflowered me but I don't think it's possible, please help me I'm on the verge of committing suicide as I feel like my whole world is wrapped around him. please help me.

thanks.

sorry is your case

LordofNairaland:
Be careful how you address the lord of Nairaland. You are to prepare for tonight. I have four wives. The first and third are stubborn. You seem stubborn too and that is good for somebody who must stand by me while I rule Nairaland.

Now, enough!!! Prepare to be married at once. Do not challenge my authority any further.

In your dreams, no be only wedding bells na MTN alert

LordofNairaland:
Don't mind me, I was merely pulling the OP's leg.

However, this day, I claim you as my wife number 5. As the lord of Nairaland, my claims can never be ignored. So, prepare to be married at once.

Mynd will sound the wedding bells at midnight.

OYO not Uyo, they are installed by traditional chief priest and king makers, and in most cases they are picked randomly according to the royal houses and the gods or chief priest will decide and king makers will guide them on what to do.

LordofNairaland:
Who installed an Alaafin in Uyo?

Ekit people don wise, probably beacause the bags of rice they collected then is now finished

Ekiti ppl don wise, now they didn't remember when they were collecting bags of rice

you welcome

yetunsbay:
Thanks Sis. I appreciate

1-2 weeks but before you do ask her if she loves you not like, if she says no ask if you should move on, if yes then move on or you wait and ask after a month if maybe give her a space to find out who she really wants then ask later

yetunsbay:
indepth analysis there. Suggest like how many days to give her chance for privacy. I jst hope it wouldnt be long days so as nt to create room for other guy within d wait period

That's how ladies love, even if we are the one to call the relationship a quit of even if it's the guy we will still have an atom of feelings for the guy, it's just our nature if you were in the guy's shoes she will still have the same feeling and wish she could go back but we hardly realize going forward is the solution except we are destined with the guy. There is always a man foe every lady and 10 ladies for a man be it married, single, divorced, widow or slowpoke. She just loves him and she has memories of him and there's nothing anyone can do about it except she's hard heartened and decided to feel numb but we can't still avoid. The same way a woman will say she loves her husband that beats her it to stupor .

yetunsbay:
Sis I appreciate ur kind reply & gonna put into use. Bt what do you think made her to insist having this feelings since she isn't sure d guy is still single? Still perplexed.

and one hand of her blouse falling when she don dey vex [quote author=Thobiy post=46830963][/quote]

you are just a troublemaker or troubletoaster or troublebaker

Puresolutions:
@Bless it's okay just kiddin

yeye, i'm just saying i'm not ready

Puresolutions:
@Bless ya'all say dat but then wat happens ?..ppl fall in luv ard me easily i no dey even talk2much self..Na God save yu..I wld hav shown u

Abeg i no get time for all this, wether i'll go soft or not is not my business but i just hope i don't go soft yet. i don't have time for emotional

Puresolutions:
Yea yea yea..ya'all start this way and very soon as convection occurs,it begins to melt all ova u..i'vv bin ard for a while trust me

besides i didn't mean it that way just making a point besides my siblings will soon be out of school too so my parents should be responsible for them and also me not my bf

Puresolutions:
@Blesso u implied the though nt me..

are you shitting me? i'm not asking you out besides i'm on a long vacation

Puresolutions:
Dam it sounds lyk ur askin me out..Won't oga Navy chase me with hs mattock

besides parents should be responsible for their kids not their kid's bf or gf

Puresolutions:
Lol. r u implyin dat who soever would ask u out is gonna hav to be ur siblings fada?

LOL, never besides whoever wants to ask me out is free to ask, and it's my choice to pick whomever i love, love is not by money, it's by how smart, modest and responsible you are

Puresolutions:
Lol. r u implyin dat who soever would ask u out is gonna hav to be ur siblings fada?

i didn't go to ijanikin

Puresolutions:
@Blesso relax.I had similar experiences too.. i dnt consida all these kwalities kwalify 4 xpensive... Is it Ijanikin u skooled at?

Ibadan poly..Dat cattle ranch

really, guess you can afford it then with other 3 responsibilities when i have younger brother just 1 yrs younger than me and look at what dollar is saying thank God it's better now

Puresolutions:
@Blesso relax.I had similar experiences too.. i dnt consida all these kwalities kwalify 4 xpensive... Is it Ijanikin u skooled at?

Ibadan poly..Dat cattle ranch

Really? ok let's calculate my worth together. the first of 4 kids, finished from a private primary school, a federal boarding school (school fees, monthly pocket money 20k and provision fee seperate per term) cos i was 5hrs drive away from home with no family member to visit cos everyone is busy, a graduate of polytechnic Ibadan who studied Science laboratory Technology and now here in China studying Medicine and surgery, imagine all the school fee, flight fee, pocket money plus dollar issue and i'm just 22 yr/o. So how much do you think i'm worth?

Puresolutions:
My bad,r u dat xpensiv? r u gonna date a Chinka..chinkanaya?

never agreeing to that, not in a million year or till ice age comes back

Puresolutions:
@Blesso u beta agree now..Hmph..

it's funny you decided to talk to me about this because i'm also in the same situation as the lady. like still in love with me ex but it's actually fading away which is a good thing, another guy asking me out but also refusing, but the difference is my ex is with someone else presently. my ex is an army the new guy is a navy . but the thing is she's said she will torture you and it's a lie it's just an excuse to either get back with her ex or take a relationship break or just mess around with guy. My sincere advice is ask her if she really wants you to move on with someone else and if you truly love her you will tell her you not going anywhere cos she's probably weighing her options btwn you and her ex or her beautiful free single life and if she says she like you and you a good guy so and so tell her you mean love not like and she should tell you yes or no and if you scared she will tell you no. prevent her from going back to her ex cos you doing her a huge favor which she might not know, keep close contact but give her a break cos she has not healed then she's good you can ask her out again. your presence in her life now shows that you are a shoulder to cry on for her. but if you feel she's using you to feel good about herself and not healing properly, live your life the way you want it, she will be the one reminding you codedly of how you asked her out and when she does that then it's time you ask her out again and her reply might be yes.

yetunsbay:
least i forget i just want to take my time to heal too, graduate befor thinking of a guy too




what's ur view on this




There is this lady we
met.We became frnds & later I extended my loving heart
to her by divulging my intentns to marry her. At inceptn,
she told abt her ex i.e hw she met another lady with him
in his room(hope u get dt) and broke up...bk to my own
matter... tho ve been pestering her for sme couple of
mnths bt d only constraint as at d moment of getting my
woo being replied she said she still got a bit of feelings for
her ex if paradventure he comes begging or they meet-
despite d fact dt she undrstnd her ex will hv had
intercourse wit anoda lady. Her remarks abt me was like:
-am a really nice dude generally
-i nid smthng much beta dan ds
-she even made mentn if she dabble into any relationshp
nw wit any1 is like she wanna torture dt person
Tho i love her so much whc she comprehend and visualise
bt insisted she doesnt want to torture me atall. Up to d
extent whc i explaind dt a guy dt do nt value lady wit dt
attitude will surely repeat d act knowing fully dt she'll later
come bk to him. Like i mentiond I really love this lady &
have plans for her.
We're both in same city while her ex is smwhere else. Pls
truthfully and maturely advice me on this matter coz she
nt gvn me a POSITIVE REPLY is d real torturing than she
returning to her ex.
Pls xcluding sex..

Blessed are those who expect disappointment for they shall never be disappointed

abbeyology88:
Bae, you don fall my hand.

U advice someone, u Not fit render d same advice.

Why u come advice den?

After I don dey happy say my problem go solve today-today.

#facedown#

nah, I'm a med student and studies is more important than any other thing. i just love to play here and read at he same time because whenyou come across something when trying to study you brain becomes more spacious and magnetic

Puresolutions:
@Blessograo all the best dnt stay here 2 long o... dnt be lyk Obi that wrote answers on the ceiling fan becos Light come only once in 6months in his skool,Light wasn't supposed to return till another 6 months,but PHCN suprised him,the day after there was light PHCN switch on the lite and he had written answers on the ceiling fan,all tru the exam Obi turn head turn head tire till him head Twist...

how my comment take find you, no be google map

Puresolutions:
Lol na u fnd me with ur comment.Un-ignorable how xam ?

exam was as bae as Mc Donalds Big mac burger but it remains 2 and that will be nextweek

Puresolutions:
Lol na u fnd me with ur comment.Un-ignorable how xam ?

Just an advice so get it from somewhere else

abbeyology88:
Damn you are Right, bae.

My doctor Just told me that it works Perfekt.
He was even surprised when I asked him. He say "How and where did you find the Secret?"

Abeg, I go appreciate if you fit donate for me Ooooh.
I go pay d price and even add Transport for you.

Abeg help me solve my pimples problem Ooooh!!!

you don find me reach here again

Puresolutions:
Yu try !

BoboFashion:
Tufiakwa

it also determines on the amount of ml the produces decides to put in each sachet

nonjebose:
Harsh!!! 200 x 286 = # 57200. Mbanu

i think ladies should start donating their vaginal discharge to the guys to clear their own pimple for $200 for a sachet of one fresh release then, 50:50

Who cares, the aim is achieved. THE god damn fucking bag is carried. case closed