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So guys today july 17th happens to be my birthday and the 3rd time rain did not fall on my birthday, so i'm here to share you pictures of my birthday and to also wish those Born a day before or after my birthday a happy birthday Ryabcool(m), tosinjay(m), Puresolutions, wristbangle(m), id2010(m), Ayuzz007(m), Coolguy89(m), rainerboy1010, AngelAhnie(f), robosky02(m), ilovemylife, DONSMITH123(m), DeeTus, bayulll011, Fadekebisola(f), ultrazone(m), crunchyg(m), Eghosa1(m), Precious91(m) you guys better come here.

RYABCOOL, don't worry i'm here for you

Instead your thread is reasonable but you didn't put it in a nice way nor polite way which is my problem with you. there are may ways to kill arat but using a gun is not an option

LizGray:
What am I saying and what are you saying? I would have uploaded if I were looking for cheap attention. The purpose of this thread is to inform ladies that belly fat is unhealthy. You shouldnt post if you have nothing reasonable to contribute.



P.S Do I act like a newbie? I think its pretty obvious that I'm not new.

You go to gym once a while not everyday ooo, you just registered here this month and you think you making marks with this rubbish, why not put you pic online so we see your body and if your eat right and gym right you should not have stretch marks either.

Puresolutions:
Thanks

You see why it's good to have a doctor as a child.I'll keep my brown teeth na boarding house o..

Ryabcool:
haaaaaaaa

It use to be so annoying especially the smile and never mind dear those are the guys a ladies should flee from

Puresolutions:
I'm pretty good.Thanks

Doc are there any side effects in teeth whitening i'm considering it

Yes there is, it's just like whitening your white shirt, it gets so white for the first time and when you continue it gets more brown than when you have never whitened it and it gets quickly dirty again after whitening. Most people who have done it before gets obsessed with it cos of the wonderful result.

Jackpal:
This is a fact based on what is happening in my family presently.


Around last week Fridays afternoon i saw my mom hiding her phone from me at first, i didn't even bother but when I discovered she was sending messages to a unknown number i started putting notice to it. This happened till late in the night like around 2 am, i was awake and I went to the sitting room only to see her washing clothes in the laundry and simultaneously chatting with someone and this is very unusual of her but my father didn't notice notice anyways.

On Saturday Last week the following morning i heard her making calls that she will be there by afternoon i felt like confronting her but i felt that she might just be going to her place of work. Afternoon came and she said she was going to another town for a naming ceremony we didn't mind. I left the house and i came back around 9pm and discovered that she wasn't back yet so i called her and she told me she won't be coming back that night then i knew she was up to something. I listened to the background very much and I noticed it isn't a party stuff or anything.

On Sunday she came back and I was mad but i just kept mute as i thought that I was not in a position to confront her.

Fast forward to today's early morning around 4 am. I heard my dad's angry voice he was very angry with my mum at first I thought she broke something in the room but i later heard my mum pleading that he didn't have sex with the man. After much contemplating, i went out of my room to the sitting room where they were and i saw my mom holding her phone i sensed that, her act has been exposed. My father left us there and went to his room. I confronted my mom and told her that i knew she didn't go for a naming ceremony the previous week and she was kind of surprised and she asked me how i got to know but I didn't reply her.
My dad came out of his room and asked her to come inside. Like after about two hours, my mom came to call me and I went to their room and dad sat me down and told me that he saw a text message on my mom phone the sender said they were to meet the day before but she my mom didn't meet him. My mom said the man is just a boss at his office and nothing more. So dad told me that I am his witness that if such happens again that he is going to divorce my mom. Well, my mom insisted that she didn't have sex with the man

I have 3 siblings and but they are still small am the first born am about clocking 20 years of age.

What should I do please?

Talk to your mom that you want to continue the conversation about how you got to know she didn't go to a party, then ask her how she felt when your dad embarrassed her before you and tell her how you feel about her actions be sincere about it. It's enough shame for her to handle hearing it from her own child and the worst she can do is slap you but it already like you stabbed her in the heart which is going to be a constant reminder.

Ewedu broom for the yorubas, mortar and pistol for pounded yam, that big bucket with cover for raw rice, beans etc. Yams always have a specific spot.

Puresolutions:
@Doc how are u,how chinko ?

China dey ooo, I'm fine and you?

mamagee3:
Hi all, I and my boyfriend have been together for about five months and he has my photo and everything but he is finding out details about me from an unknown source such as my middle name.

I didn't tell him my middle name and he has no other way of knowing it. He texted my middle name to me this morning and I woke up to see it.

I'm confused as to know he's finding this out. I only gave him my first and last name. What should I do?

He has neither met any of my friends nor any of my family members

Is he stalking me?

Babe your own small ooo, my military ex use to send me pictures of my ex and say things about me that I have never told anyone and when I ask how he got the info the reply will be never mind dear and he will just smile. It's the most annoying thing ever, hope yours don't graduate to such cos I can't say if its obsession.

Puresolutions:
Blessing and DeeTus these one you've both been flirting around the past days in public like that...Make una pack for road talk nau..

Yeye, ok let me flirt with you then, is that ok with you?

Puresolutions:
Blessing and DeeTus these one you've both been flirting around the past days in public like that...Make una pack for road talk nau..

Yeye, ok let me flirt with you then, is that ok with you?

DeeTus:
Hey, just wanted to connect you with one of my chinese friends for summer job.

Guess you were thinking about something else.

You no well, abeg I need the job ooo. Besides I didn't understand you before I thought you mistakenly sent that to me

Yet your southerners, Easterners and Northerners invade the West and come back here to say rubbish and yet you guys have more chaos in your place than the west. We educate our offsprings which is why you don't get so much agricultural produce from us but we understand that what we have will not manufacture themselves, you come to the western states, enter into their farms to still their crops like you planted them, yet you were not killed. My question is why are western universities more recognized, was was it UI Queen Elizabeth endorsed when Nnamdi Azikiweis there? Probably because our parents gave up all the had to make sure their children (western children) get educated and nit end up in business at age 5. How many tourist attractions do you have in other regions compared to the west cos the government get money from tourism too, if westerners stop palm oil the ones you get from other parts how long can it last you not to talk of oil besides not all oils are Groundnut oil. How many states southern states have rice when the yorubas have rice too especially Ekiti. Abeg you guys needs to think before you post. Like I said we might not produce enough but the little we have matters. Talking of hospitality southerners are good at scamming and they go to any extent to get money which is why they have bad record in other countries, how many yorubas are killed for illegal issues instead you see them getting honorary award in foreign universities and its what we ate proud of. You get to a Easterner or southern event and all they do is drink and spray money but even the last igbo person to attend a Yoruba function get something to eat.

And besides we are hospitable enough, unlike when other who don't care about what happens

iaamxavier:
I've been pondering for month what exactly the south west contribute to Nigeria's economy

**we know the North contributes a lot in terms of feeding,leather production and so much more!

**we know the SE contribute a lot in terms of commerce (import and export) business and so much more

**we know the SS contribute about 80% or more to Nigeria's economy in term of crude oil and other mineral resources

Now the big question is what is the major thing the south west contributes to Nigeria's economy ??

I'm talking about THE MAJOR THING!

The gold in Osun, Ekiti, and maybe Kogi did you get it from the south? It's not only North that has Gold, The west has also contributed in term of tourism. The palmoil we actually have more of them. we not be able to manufacture product but all the little essentials and ideas are what we can give.

AngelAhnie:
Ble Ble, where is my Bosky?

See this girl ooo, when you are doing open relationship you did not know, I hope someone else has taken over

robosky02:
how you doing bless

I'm fine and you?

Pandorabox:
I won't vote for him too. The same Vizkiz that called Vickydera aunty smelling pysssy.

Like seriously? The guy needs some lessons and with all I see he's drinking his vomit now but let the vote talk, we all don't need a thread for this

AngelAhnie:
You are in for a looooooooooong thing

Hmm my dear its really long like eternity

robosky02:
NO
beware of baby mama

Lol

Got your E-mail notification here days ago but could not reply cos its on my gmail account which do not work on phones here in China except I use my laptop which is faulty for now

Triczchic:
Babe.. My heart is where my heart is. Urs is wit Viz.kiz, mine is with Ryabcool.

May the best man win!

Ryabcool knows I'm his

DeeTus:
k...email it to me.

E-mail what?

Lizzyangel:
for the people who kept asking questions like,the op has wronged the wife before she took those steps,
how could a loving wife turn evil overnight and so all....

here is my view on what make her react that way, I'm a Lady and also married,I know what it takes to love a husband and trust him to the extent of not having a second thought on IF he will cheat on you...
according to the op's write-ups, she changed and started feeling insecure when her husband started keeping late night and feeling cold towards here in few weeks, so as a lady and not working,she would have thought a long way

* hoping her hubby is having affairs
*regretting the fact that she trusted him and he betrayed her and decided to act fast without asking her husband or patiently waiting for the reasons for such moves,but allow a third party to ruin her home.

advice to the op

if you're the religious type, you can forgive and forget
but I'll remind you of Yoruba adage which says "kosi bi a se fe se ebolo ti koni run igbe"
no matter the level of your forgiveness, you'll still have the occurrence in mind, "eni to su le gbagbe, sugbon eni to ko o le gbagbe lailai"

Summary : give her few months break after playing what you saw,if any family member wants to interfere, don't play the record to anyone as it can spread more than you think and everyone will be aware of your shortcomings, if after the break you think you've forgotten and she have changed, call her back home.

Note : don't ever go through her phones "oun oju o ri, kii bokan je"

best of lucks dear.

Ma'am I'm sorry to counter your opinion, she's not going to stop cos for her to enjoy her family abuse her husband, let the family's secret out and talk to the extent that she is opening a secret account is beyond what you think already, later the next advice is going to be she should get a house for herself and leave with their daughter. I'm a Yoruba too and I understand you perfectly but the stage you talking about has come and gone but still progressively growing like a brain tumor. It's not that she doesn't trust him, she already talked about it and they already have a final plan which is yet to explode but I hope will explode to burn their faces. Peace!

DevGuru:
NOTICE: Please, my story is still very long despite that I tried very hard to remove some unnecessary portions. But if you can be patient to read it to the end, then you are ready to give a mature opinion.

I am a Yoruba guy married to another Yoruba lady who happened to be the last of seven children. We met at the University and had a long courtship before we got married in 2014. I loved her so much and I believe she loved me too. We were each other's best friends. Shortly before we began to plan the wedding, on one faithful afternoon, I was watching the TV in my living room when I began to feel a slight pain in my lower abdomen. It got more intense within few hours and I had to go to a nearby hospital and by that time, the pain was inside my scrotum. The young doctor there didn't understand what was wrong and started injecting me with pain killers. I was kept there till midnight. The next morning, I noticed that one of my testicle was swelling up. I hen went to a teaching hospital where Orchitis was first diagnosed. After a week of antibiotics with no improvement, a consultant examined me and said it was torsion which should have been surgically corrected within few hours from the onset of the pain. As at that time, the testicle was dead. I had to go for surgery to have the dead one removed. My wife (then my fiancé) was with me in the hospital. She assured me that everything would be fine and that we could have as many kids as we wanted with just one left. I loved her the more.

Now we have a very beautiful daughter who obviously has my genes and delights everyone around her with her alluring beauty. We nearly lost her to a strange illness some months back but for God who used my mum to restore our daughter. That's another long story but not for this thread. My mum loves my family so much that even my wife knows that she can lay down her life for us to be fine. Since we got married, my wife hasn't worked owing partly to our daughter's health which is now very perfect. It's not been easy for me working day and night to feed the family and paying bills in a 3-bedroom apartment in Lagos but God has been helping us. My wife was so much loved in my family that people around thought she was my mum's daughter. Very hardworking and homely.

A little into her own family setup too... She has 4 female and 2 male siblings. All her siblings are married but very close to the parents. Because my wife and I were very close, I was aware of most of the happenings in their family, but I never even gave any thought to them on how they might affect my own marriage.... long story...

Last month, I repeatedly got home late due to an official event which I told my wife and I was talking to her on phone. One morning, she gave me a wild look and warned me never to come late again. I quickly noticed the strangeness in her actions and I comported myself by saying "I'm sorry, it won't happen again". We ate together and I left for work. I returned much earlier and was with her and my daughter for a couple of hours before went to bed after I told her I had a meeting the next morning.

When I woke up, I checked the time and realised I was running late. I greeted her and rushed out of the bed only for her to jump up too and say "We need to talk". Go on, I replied... Then she claimed she observed that I've been cold towards her since she tried to correct me the previous day. I denied it but she insisted, so I told her I would adjust and that I had nothing against her. She suddenly jumped at me and said I was going nowhere. I was very surprised as I asked her what was wrong with her. I begged her to let me go and if we had to discuss anything further, it could be later in the day after work. She grew wilder and began to abuse me verbally. I drew her out of my way so I could go have my bath and she grabbed my singlet and tore it down. I was shocked! I then grabbed her two hands and pushed her to sit on the bed. She just jumped up and said "this is what I've been waiting for". She rushed to her phone and called my dad. Immediately my dad answered the call, she suddenly began to cry saying "your son has been beating me since we woke up today"... It was like I was watching a nollywood movie. I looked like a poor citizen who had no money to eat but just got an allegation that EFCC had traced N1.4b to his account. My Dad called me immediately and ordered me to leave the house first before anything. Immediately, she called my mum too and said the same thing. My mum called me and began to cry that she never expected I would disgrace the family in such manner. I was sad and even had to shout at her cos she wouldn't let me say anything on phone. She didn't even give me time to explain what happened. My wife immediately called her eldest sister too and said the same thing. The sister called me and asked for what happened. I explained to her and she advised me never to raise my hand against her again, while she stylishly insulted me, but I disregarded that. I felt like Pastor Ken in the movie, 'The Price' who had to pay for what he did not do.

I had already missed my meeting but I had to go to work. That was the most horrible day for me at work because I couldn't even use my brain to do anything. I felt cheated and sincerely felt like doing what I had already suffered for. Then I felt the urge to use a bit of my power... I transferred some money to her account and then forwarded an SMS to her giving her 24hours to make up her mind on where she would love to go, either my family home or hers because I needed a break. Fee minutes later, her eldest sister called me to say my wife forwarded my SMS to her and that she was highly disappointed in me upon what she told me in the morning. I told her that I got more infuriated and betrayed seeing my wife ruin my reputation like that. She advised again and told me to go home and hug my wife. When I got home, my wife knelt down at the door and began to apologize that it was the devil. At that time, my elder sister called me and I narrated everything to her while my wife listened to me. The next morning, my wife continued to beg me. I saw the remorse and hugged her. We became happy again. The next day, I called her sister to thank her for her intervention.

My Dad came a few days later to confirm that we had settled everything. Unfortunately, I wasn't around when he arrived, so he called me on phone and I told him I would be around in about 1 hour. Before my arrival, she spoke at length with my Dad but begged him not to allow us revisit the issue on my arrival so as not to raise dusts again. On my arrival, my Dad just advised me and said he was glad we had already settled it. Since then, I've tried to get my home together again. I started leaving my office earlier than usual even when I had unfinished tasks.

This morning, I was flipping through the apps on my wife's phone and saw Call Recorder. I opened it but discovered it had a password. As a techie, I traced the file that stores all the voice calls and began to play one of my wife's recent conversations. It was with her eldest sister who intervened into our matter then. I nearly fainted!!! The sister hailed her for acting as planned and they both laughed with satisfaction. My wife said she was happy that she successfully ruined my image in my family and they both laughed again. They said they were happy that my mum who always thought she had raised good children was made to realize that I was a beast who beats his wife and so on. But the most infuriating part was when her sister said she wanted to give her tips that would help my wife succeed in marriage. She advised my wife never to be open-minded with me and that she should begin to live a separate life while pretending to be a wife in my house. She said my wife should also open a secret account for herself so that family members can occasionally drop some token into it for her upkeep because men are unreliable and my wife agreed with all what her sister said.

I opened another and it was a conversation with her immediate elder sister - not the same as above. This one picked every member of my family and abused the hell out of us... including myself. My wife enjoyed the abuses and even cheered her to talk further. They both called me 'half man' with one testicle - a secret my wife claimed she would never reveal to anyone. In this conversation, my wife told her sister that she was very glad that she finished me through what she told my dad when I was absent, they called my mother all sort of names and this one even told my wife never to act like a good daughter-in-law towards my mother, she was advised to do everything possible to prevent my mum from visiting... and so on...

Now I am extremely mad. So many options are coming to my mind but I don't know where to start from. It is now obvious that I've been living with a stranger all the while. My day at work was so horrible that I had to leave before closing. My head and heart are both heavy now but I'm trying to put myself together. Any ideas?

Sorry for all that is happening now and I never knew some ladies not to talk of married women are like this but anyways i'll go straight to the point. I'm not one of those people who will tell you to go for a divorce, instead I'll tell you to go as far back as looking at all you both have gone through during courtship and for the voice notes I advice you send them to your phone and call a family meeting urgently and play it in the presence of everybody, now note that her family might not want to come for the meeting and if they don't take the meeting to them, I see your parents as wise people and I think they can advise you better, don't let your wife know the reason for the meeting not even your family before the meeting. If you think going for divorce is a solution go ahead but think about your daughter and note that she might win the custody of your daughter cos she seems manipulative, I sincerely don't know what to advice but you will need the family meeting as soon as possible before she suspects you found it. Good luck

DeeTus:
Cool. Now it's time to enjoy lots of barbecue

Chinco is full of enjoyment. U r on facebuk, right?

Yeah

Puresolutions:
@puresolutions blessing and DeeTus move your conversation to romance o....Lol

, those fuckers banned me for 24hrs starting from yesterday night, as in night here

DeeTus:
Yea thnks dear. It's even today i started getting myself.

Are u thru with ur exams?

yes ooo, I finished last Thursday

DeeTus:
I felt sick so haven't gone yet. But she came to see me, on her way bought some fruits for me.

She became so sad seeing me laying on the bed.

Will go when i get well.

What a caring chick!

I feel sad for the lady for seeing the poor boy, sorry jawe, Pele