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Rich Ipobians are not complaining of one Nigeria because they are benefiting from this government, only those ogogoro drinking touts in the Yeast are complaining anyhow. Peace is all we need. Lets join hands and make Nigeria better.

The sight of this news has filled my heart with gladness. Slow and steady wins the race my people. I know some people are not happy with this news. We know them

TheDarkGamer:
Warning! You may find this post irrelevant.

Today makes it about a year since I've discovered the Redpill. It has changed my life in so many ways, not only concerning inter gender dynamics. I have a better mindset now, setting goals for myself and imbibing positive values in my life. The books have also increased my knowledge vastly on various topics.

I want to share my story and how I discovered this thread as a source of motivation to others. From my last message, most already know my age. I'm a teenager and I graduated from Secondary school last year. I understand that some people may not want to read this or tag it as a nuisance, it's alright. You can move on from here.

Before I start my narration, I'd like to give you a description of myself so that you can fully comprehend what I'm going to say here. I'm actually not tall in stature, not as short as you might imagine but I'm not of average height. I've come to terms with that because it's hereditary and my parents are not tall. I also have a fit body and people around me generally say I look handsome, so it seems so. The last thing I want to say here is that I'm actually quite intelligent, top 3 in class type. Now, this information may seem unnecessary to you reading this but if there was a way I could narrate this without saying all this, I would. I'm quite an introvert.

Now, I was thinking deeply recently and I discovered that the way our society right now affects not only adults but children and teenagers. Without finding out about the Redpill, my past experiences wouldn't have made any sense. Now, I have some knowledge about things, I'm still learning and I do my best to diplomatically share the red pill to boys around me and my ex-classmates. It's been going great actually. All this wouldn't have been possible without finding this redpill thread, I'm very grateful.

I started Junior Secondary school as a typical nerd. Always reading, hardly talking, and keeping to myself most times. Despite my serious attitude towards academics and my introverted life, I had always been attracted to girls. I even got attracted to one the first day I came to school. Before that, I had zero experiences with girls because primary school was all fun and games. I had kissed once though. Even after liking this particular girl that caught my attention, I didn't let it get to me. She was one of the finest girls in my set but she was not smart. I made her know though, she also developed feelings for me but some natural instinct back then made me act somewhat masculine. I wasn't intimidated by her, called her out if she offended me and I certainly did not put her on a pedestal. She still kept coming though.

I also had an abundance mentality back then ( I don't even understand it but I hated being tied down to a particular girl). Despite getting the interest of my crush, I started becoming aware of another girl. I had back then and it was that the girl must be fair complexioned and smart, height didn't really matter to me. She was fair and very smart but she was kind of "holy" and had good moral values. Now, it might be some evolutionary biology instinct but she was the one I was attracted to more. The first girl could be likened to a typically beautiful and packaged modern-day girl and the other an equally fine, calm, restrained, and intelligent girl for a better understanding of what I'm saying.

At the end of the day, I didn't give both of them any special attention and the whole set knew I wasn't committed to either of them. In the new class of JSS2, the pretty-but-no-brains girl went on to date the most masculine boy in our set at that time. He had muscles, a mustache, was a player, etc at the time (I know what you're probably thinking, yes this was JSS2). However, the church girl would go on liking me until I left the school without really expressing wholehearted interest until SS1.

Nothing really sexual happened in my set until JSS3 when I was the watchman for one of the boys who did shows (secondary school word for sexual activity like runs etc). At that point in time, I hadn't seen anything like it and I was very surprised. They kissed, he sucked her breasts, fingered her and she gave him head. It was mindblowing. Why did I share this? This kind of stuff happens even in primary school, so those of you that have kids, try to find out what's happening. Even till now, my parents do not have any idea of any of my sexual activities, they only see the serious student, reading and writing books part.

Nothing much happened in my Junior Secondary School except that in my JSS2, I fell for my senior. I simped in that one actually. She was double my height but I gave her snacks and love letters. Till today, I don't really know how she felt about me.

Fast forward to Senior Secondary School, I changed schools to another expensive private school, but this one was way worse in terms of freedom. The old school was a Christian school and they made religion a focus of the school's tenets apart from academics. This tamed most students, there were few situations of "shows" between students. But now in my new school, things were a lot different. It was bigger, had more social events, teachers were not strict outside the classroom, etc. I had my old mentality about being good and all and when I arrived, I couldn't deal with the attention and I snapped. I came late in the third term and my new class girls started flocking around me. It got to my head and I didn't even socialize with the boys much and that haunted me till I left the school. I started becoming more interested in girls and had my first shows within a week of arriving. I lost all feelings for the girl and smashed (not sex) four more times until the novelty wore off. Girls began to cool their interest and most boys were jealous and hated me.

A quick word of advice: Please if you have kids in secondary school or you have relatives, make sure that they don't get in the bad books of the top dogs in the class. I mean those boys that usually run the set and have the attention of all the girls, they are tall, strong and they excel in sports. They don't have to socialize with them but just be diplomatic. If they owe you, your stay will be smooth. I'm talking about boarding school. They don't flog nowadays so apart from suspension and expulsion, you can't really make them suffer a good punishment if you report them. They will come for you in subtle but painful ways. Mine was heartbreaking and I almost left the school. They took my shoes before school or assembly in the morning, stole my keys and took things from me, poured toothpaste in my uniform, etc. It was bad.

I also refused to stick to a particular girl this time too. However, this began to go south from here. Interacting with others and watching movies and series that pedestalized females and made them seem like the prize began to have its effect on me. It felt wrong to not date girls after doing shows with them and I had to treat them like angels even if they did wrong. That's why you're not supposed to slap girls or shout at them even if they do the same to you. And you know how it is, the girls are more united than boys and the moment you offend one, the rest are our for you. Boys don't even make matters easy because some will support girls. Please let's try to change this mindset in our children and the people we know.

I cruised my way through SS1. In SS2, my classmates pressured me to date this junior girl that was in SS1 and I almost did. She was what you'll call a hoe. She had done shows with numerous boys, even her seniors. I actually had no problem with it and we began to flow. However, I noticed she was still interested in her classmate who had dated her thrice and dumped her. (You see that red pill theory applying here). I couldn't deal with it and I left her.

Now, this last one is going to be very stupid. I wrote Cambridge IGCSE exams and we had to come back during the summer for a learning extension. We came with mufti and it was fun. But my focus in this part is on two people. The most popular boy in my class and the hottest girl. They were dating at the time. I began to notice the girl and I hadn't talked much to her before that time. However, during one chemistry class, we suddenly began paper chatting and I jokingly indicated interest. She didn't discourage me, so we kept on joking like that and I even got to touch her sometimes (nothing intense). She had a huge backside and that was why I call her the hottest, not too beautiful but a good figure.

That summer, her boyfriend broke up with her. He was my classmate and a good friend. He kept me out of trouble whenever guys wanted to deal with me and I made him laugh and we had a good conversation. We were not close but just there. When we came back to school, I started simping because I had spent my summer holiday chatting with her and thinking about her. In school, we got close and even kissed after some time. However, I noticed that she didn't want to date me. Remember, I'm the shortest boy in the class, so her case would have been understandable if she didn't want to date me. (Hypergamy at its finest, she broke up with her tall, sporty boyfriend and was using the short nerd as her support. I didn't just know this back then.) I noticed that I started focusing on her alone and stopped interacting much with other girls. (Scarcity mindset). I fed her so much attention that I was constantly thinking about her even when I was reading. From the outside, it looked like we were dating but only I and maybe her girlfriends knew what was going on behind the scenes. Till today, I get texts from my juniors and classmates asking how I got her. I thought I could change her and make her love me (Cap'n Save A Hoe) but despite my trials, it never worked.

She started getting interested in her ex and he started talking to her again. It made me feel sad and heartbroken but anytime I tried to stop, I always went back. I actually reduced my reading and became solely focused on her. But one thing I noticed was that anytime I was angry with her or I stopped giving her attention, she started disturbing me and making me feel special. I always asked to do shows with her but she never really got around to doing it with me. This was someone that had done everything except penetrative sex with her boyfriend (anal sex inclusive, most couples in our set did all kinds of crazy stuff. The only reason they didn't have sex was fear of pregnancy and the virgin issue). As time went on, I couldn't leave her even if I tried because I was so invested in her and I just couldn't. She eventually did shows with her boyfriend again and I would go on writing heartbreak poems and listen to Juice Wrld. Whenever other girls wanted to smash or were interested, I turned them down and made a big show of loving her because I expected her to do the same.

My newfound knowledge has made me know that women do not think as logically as men. They are wired to love you based on how you make them feel and no matter what you do, you aren't changing her. I wish I knew that then, I would have been a better person then. I still did well in academics but I stopped writing, became solely focused on searching the net for how to please women, etc. It was getting bad for me. While others were sneaking into girls' hostel and vice versa to do shows, I'd watch as the ex got to do shows with her and she'd act normal like nothing happened. Whenever I raised the topic, she was an expert at deflecting from the point and she wanted it both ways. I have no doubt that if I was taller and more masculine, I'd have her in my pockets, but I wasn't unfortunately. That's why she always went back to her ex for shows and used me for attention. The ex even advised me and told me that I was giving her too much attention, told me to limit it and focus on myself and I'd get here but I didn't seem to understand.

What I've learned here is true, we have to be masculine. Not only for females but for ourselves. I got pushed aside and bullied (not as intense as you might be imagining) because I wasn't masculine enough. I just let things go and gave them more opportunities to continue. I wish I had known about the red pill then.

Lastly, she even smashed her best friend (male) and that's when I saw how stupid I had been. I stopped talking to her but I couldn't gain back my lost year of school. Till today, I have some regrets but I'm better of now than I was before. I was even two years younger than her actually. I completely ghosted her after graduation but after some months, she hit me up on Snapchat and we've been talking. Things have changed and I've stopped pedestalizing her. I don't hate her or women in general. I'm not a misogynist but when you understand that you should hate the game not the player, you'd be more rational. Also, you might think this is nothing compared to what you have been discussing previously but for someone as inexperienced as me, this is a big deal. I lost my time and misplaced my priorities when I was supposed to be looking out for myself. I used to imagine dying for her then. Whenever I remember those days, I feel stupid.

Why did I post this? To give you a perspective of a teenager's view on inter-gender dynamics and to offer some advice. Everything about the red pill is actually true and has occurred at some point in my life, I just didn't acknowledge it. Girls at a young age want someone masculine and older to make them feel more feminine (They date seniors and older boy), they are hypergamous (searching for boys with more status, money, and power), they are emotionally manipulative (I was a victim), you can't save them (It's better you don't try), etc. We should all try to introduce this younger generation to the red pill because the way things are going, it's going to go downhill very soon.

I know this post is extremely long and it might offend some people, but I hope some others will see something to benefit from the post. I couldn't type everything I wanted to but I hope I got something through. This forum is actually a blessing to a lot of people. Men have to watch each other's backs nowadays. Women already have this inborn instinct in them and that's why they have each other's backs. Just like a cartel. We should try to spread the redpill as much as we can, I already do my part and I have saved some simps from ruin. Forgive the length of the post, it actually covers my 2000 words a day writing policy and I've even exceeded it.

Cheers.

I appreciate your writing skills. You are good.

Fake news

Impressive

This is good news. They are terrorists.

Impressive

Never has the impact of good Governance been felt by the common man like this before. I remember those days of Sure P. Naso so so suffer and yet nothing for the common man but that is history now thanks to President Buhari. Npower came and wiped off the pains of thousands of graduates in the country. May the good lord continue to bless president Buhari and his team of experts. Amen

Obj should just mind his business or keep quiet, he is part of the problems of our darling nation. He and his goons stole and milked the country dry for 16 years. How about the electricity scandal? Petroleum scandal? Etc. He who comes into Equity must come with clean hands.
We know the country is really going through alot thanks to the menace Nnamdi Kanu brought upon us but Nigeria will overcome. We shall remain indivisible, forever brimming with glory as one.
God bless Nigeria.

UGM=IPOB. We know this truth. I feel terribly sorry for peace loving igbos who now are unable to go about their businesses due to this menace brought upon us by Nnamdi Kanu. We know they are so many Yammiri chest beaters on nairaland who think they can stand the full force of our gallant soldiers, i laugh in spanish. War benefits no one, all we need is peace. One Nigeria is the way forward. We can all go back to the drawing and make amends. Nigeria belongs to us all.

Singing in onyeka onwenu's voice

Let us have peace in our hearts
Peace in our homes
Peace in our nation and the world.

Toast to a new life of knowledge and success. I'm so glad you finally unplugged from the matrix

Yori yori family.

My president, a selfless leader with a heart of gold. Always selfless, they'll be rescued and thats for sure.

The recent mass hysteria in the country is sponsored by IPOB. If you dig deep one can easily tell that UGM were behind that assassination. Their end is near, for as long as they are those who remember what was, they'll always be those who are unable to accept what can be. They just can't get over 2015.
This song is for all the trouble makers and prospective trouble makers.

Pikin wey say him mama no go sleep
How himself go sleep
Crime must to commot for Nigeria oh.
Oya oh
Gidi gidi wayo all of them commot
Oya oh
Cause we go hellep policee
Help them fight crime
Make Nigeria better
Pursue crime commot for Nigeria
Oya oh
Police don talk am say
Anybody wey the thing plan for his belle to bring cata cata
E go take e head carry am oh
Arm robbers una time don pass
Oya oh
Violent crimes case don change
Oya oh
Mr and mrs trouble maker una sorry oh
Oya oh
Cause we go hellep policee
Help them fight crime
Make Nigeria Better
Nigeria na better country oh
Make we commot crime for our lives
Nigeria go sweet again e oh
Well well.

SangoOlukosoOba:
Oil in South-East

That 10,000 sulphur riddled barrels you have is really freaking you. Those who have the sustainable quality and quantity dont even brag.


Please dont be mentioning oil and gas when people talk about oil and gas. Cos Nasarawa and Katsina will also lay claims to having oil and gas based on your standards.

Oil that cannot power all of Dangote`s trucks for 6 months. It will run dry

Hahahaha. Please school him.

Wahala no the ever finish for this life

This is a right step towards the right direction. I know Ipob Pigs (sit at home yammiris), children of hate and pedition will not like this news.

Why are Nigerians like this? Is the president not trying enough? Is he just folding his hands and sleeping on all the security issues bodering the nation? Is the president not trying his best? Is it until he kills himself before Nigerians will be satisified?
Ipob pigs(UGM) will surely be dealt with. For however beautiful the sunset is it will always go dark. Their sunset will soon end. Nigeria shall be victorious. Forever united as one.
God bless Nigeria

Abba114:
misogyny is golden not TRP because u are misogynist

What is wrong in being a misogynist?

Moferere:
It may take months, but s/he will be fished out and taken out of circulation.
S/He has messed with a wrong person.

Please ensure you deal with her. Most females on nairaland are demented psychopathic degenerates with zero respect for people. They all feel the world revolves around their bre$t and dirty V$gina

Moferere:
Sometimes, I wondered what people gain from cheap blackmail;

I contacted you because I saw you as an influencer on one of the sections on this platform and I needed you to drive an online project for me;

The moment I got a reply from you yesterday, I requested for your number because your email address did not look professional and I needed to be sure that I am not dealing with a scammer and there is something to trace you to;

Along the line, you told me your nearest landmass and made it clear that you were married;

Being that you were married, I felt uncomfortable chatting with you in the middle of the night and I requested about your husband comfort. The reply I got from you was terrible and I cancelled any thoughts of meeting with you for business discussions;

On my return from Lagos this evening I saw your message right from the airport. You addressed me as Uncle and I smiled to myself, knowing that you are just an unserious person.


BUT
I am amazed that you put up my details online, especially my email. Thereby, compromising my privacy. I have reported you to the mods and I will take a step further to log a complaint at the DSS and nearest police unit tomorrow. I will also seek legal advice from my lawyer tomorrow;
I believe that a benign conversation between you and I does not warrant publishing my personal information without my PRIOR CONSENT.

You have violated, you have shown yourself as a cyber bully and I will take this as a cyber attack on my person and my account.

Be ready to answer questions, be ready to be taken into custody.

You have messed with the wrong candidate
Cc:
Seun
Lalasticlala
Mynd44

Please i beg you in the name of whatever you believe in, please deal with this girl. Make sure she's locked up and the keys thrown into the ocean. I'm tired with all this female nairalanders and their cheap attention seeking theatrics. Enough is enough. Make sure she learns the hard way. Thanks

Comment readers association. Mosdii over to you

fattprince:
Did anyone see what that attention seeking femail wrote in the prior page. That a man should marry a woman that respect him. So you turn around to support what you've been arguing against. Just how confused can they get?

They are like that. Controlled by their emotions. You can never expect any tangible logical advice from women, they are just not capable of reason.

Doja2000:
The mods are suppose to banned you from this forum.
What the fu#ck.....!?
Like, what the fu#k is this.....!?
What is your fu#king problem,niggar....!?
You should be banned from this forum...!!

Yen yen yen

TheGidRedpiller:
And if you believe women deserve your love then you won't go far either, trust me.

There is no such thing as love. It doesn't exist.

chatinent:
Get her from him so I can get her from you.


I no like stress.

Gbamsolutely

Bla bla bla

Ishilove:
The mods should not be allowing this.

Ishilove why?

You need some time off social media, you need to heal bro. Hatred doesn't take people far in life. Moderation is the key.

Can ya'll stop quoting that female moniker? Stop feeding her the attention she's craving for. Is that even a difficult thing to do? Guys make una focus abeg. All this una female validation thing don the tire me.