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[quote author= post=79928063]CONGRATS gurl.

ART IS LIFE!

Below , the most expensive artwork in the world and another one in the top ten!

The 2nd one funny aight?! [/quote]Omo
Wetin be that second one.

AmazonTopaz:
And why are you also trying to shame the victim since you feel the man is innocent

No am not nw.
I don't feel he's innocent.
But I also feel it perhaps wasn't rape exactly.
Shebi the victim wants to be famous cos if something like that happened a better option wud have been to carry guys to beat the man( ever since o).
Not to come and start a sitcom

NoToPile:
This her post and Poju Oyemade's post admits pastor did it.

They both apologized.

Now waiting for the accused to tender his own apology.

Acceptance of guilt is an important step in repentance.

I hope it was just naive sex and not rape.
Anyways the issue I used to have with this pastor was his fashion shows. Think it was too much.
His choice though

MhizMuna:
For a couple of day s now the only most populous black nation in the entire  world, has been rocked by  various issues regarding how women are treated in various arms of government and also in the society.

Its also been barely 48 hours since a video from a CCTV feed revealed how a Nigerian Senator Physically abused a lady at a sex store shop in Abuja.

Fast rewind to some days ago, Bisola Dakolo ,wife of famous Nigerian singer Timi Dakolo revealed via an explosive interview that she was raped by the founder and Senior Pastor of COZA church based in Abuja


Many Nigerians have been reacting to all this issues , more also lots of female celebrities, one of such to learn her voice is former Mavin Records Queen , Tiwa Savage expressing her moment of anger and frustration to the way especially a country called Nigeria has maligned women in general.

According to Keys to the City singer, she is  embarrassed with recent 'brutality' against women.

see some her post on instastory below:

https://www./2019/07/today-im-actually-embarrassed-to-be-a-nigerian-tiwa-savage-cries-out.html

Look at this idiot that went to marry a man who has been beating his exes since time immemorial.

AmazonTopaz:
It is only a senseless idiot that would laugh at a rape victim.
The both of you should grow up cannot publicly laugh at a rape victim.
So stfu only illiterates with nothing to offer make fun of people's situations.
It is good she spoke up and sensible people would rally around her.

Why r u talking like this?
Where u there when she was raped?
Something under investigation is what u have already tagged as rape.

goooze:
There are lots of mysteries about God that the bible did not explain. And the same bible tells us that "the way of man is different from the way of men" Ask any pastor to explain the verse "my people perish for lack of knowledge" to you they will refer to this "knowledge" as knowibg the word of God it is a lie . The knowledge is very deep and its beyond human comprehension it includes reincarnation, seeing a dead person having a family somewhere far away, praying in certain way by calling God's real name to avert or prevent certain evil occurrences, Some of these pastors knows all these things but they won't tell you the truth. Can you believe that certain things you come in contact with everyday e.g "salt" has a lot spiritual usefulness if you have the knowledge of how it works? If you do it your pastor will tell you it's not Godly whereas it's being mentioned several times in the bible the important of salt.

About the salt.
E.g like what spiritual usefulness?

landmark86:
You be real mumu
Did u think the so called pastor has interest in their saying?
He only acts/step down based on what people like u saying that he must step down to face the accusation against him. Since them have we hear anytin from the Dakolo's?

Mind u the church is still running and the members are not regretting. Hope He-diot like you see the outcome on sunday.

But Busola just tarnished her image cos once you see her both physical or on news what will first come to ur mind is how she claimed she was raped.

A stigma that can never be delected both on internet & mind

Thank u.
When I say that the busola girl hasn't told us the full truth people start saying nonsense.
I keep asking how someone who is married and living the good life will suddenly remember that she was once raped.
And then decide to go all public with it.

BlueRayDick:
She left the church a lot earlier than most people are made to believe. She didn't meet and marry timi in coza as we are made to believe there is even a thread here on nairaland dated 2014 where they shared the story of how they met at House on the rock in 2010. People from coza camp are just throwing so many false info out just to make people doubt her story. You can even Google search how they met. You will know there is a calculated attempt to make the story unbelievable. At least we've seen how low they are willing to go at coza from the 10k they shared to counter protesters on Sunday

Ogbeni.
Which 10k did they share?

JuanDeDios:
Three eggs per day? One person!?

Come to Benin and see people ordering 5 eggs wit indomie

Omihanifa:
So that all of us go dey mess up and down

Abi na wetin make Messi mess up be that.
Too much Barça eggs

AngelicBeing:
He deserves 500 million lashes of koboko laden with chilly pepper, his 3 months allowances should be given to the less privilege in the society, the girl he assaulted should be compensated with 3 million Naira, the useless sin..ator should do community service by sweeping the National Assembly for 6 months, case closed

Oga o!
500 million lashes!
The person or people giving the lashes wud have suffered more than both the senator and the woman assaulted!

stdammis:
Yes bro, even people that had their entire family killed in front of them still go about their normal lives. do you think they got over it? its not easy when your will is taken away by such events.

OK cool. let's assume they don't go over it, the way the revelation came out is just too suspicious.

stdammis:
Wait what?

I mean u believe she hasn't gotten over it?

thorpido:
You obviously have not been raped and do not understand it
You can't even compare it to your example,failing an exam.
There are people who never recover from it.It alters their lives completely.It changed their perspectives about life,their relationships and their sel-esteem.Some have even taken their lives.

@bolded,many people act like it's all rosy outside but weep in their closets.You can't be sure about that good life.
What if she has not been getting regular sleep?What of she has mood swings that affect her relationship with her husband?

So the victim weeps, goes to parties, gets married, goes on instagram, etc and u believe she's still not over it?

oluwaahmed:
You are comparing a GLK to a Venza? Bros that's a huge insult to car lovers even though its your opinion. Mere placing dem side by side u can see the difference is clear. GLK is metal while Venza is fibre. Also what class of Benz are u comparing to 2000 Avalon?
1: 1997 c200 Benz
2: 2000 Toyota Avalon.
Pls which looks stronger and more stylish?

To me the venza is finer in shape.


The Avalon is more stylish honestly.

booksrite001:

Confused?

Benekruku:
This what you call cars


Not all this "MOTO" littering Nigeria roads.

God bless Mercedes Benz!

Until u go to where cars are sold, ull never understand that even all this talk about Benz is just bull crap.
Even a venza is more attractive than a GLK.
I used to think about Benz as being the best of the best until I understand that aesthetic longetivity is very paramount.
I mentioned the GLK cos it looked so fine when it first came out. But thiz days it's like an eyesore.
Again compare the Toyota spider to a Benz of same class. The Camry beats it aesthetic wise.
That's why a 2000 Avalon is still more dope than the benzes of same period.
My opinion though.

Wallade:
Busola must have shared the information with her husband. They left that church long time ago but perhaps they were still hearing stories of his escapades with other ladies.

Maybe that is the reason the husband has been questioning COZA mgt, for allowing this to thrive, on social media with cryptic messages some 2 - 3 months before now.

The mgt of COZA probably know what Timi was talking even though the public didn't know, sense crisis if the Dakolos speak and chose to stifle the information by getting church people and it's members to circulate information capable of assassinating Busola's character so that no one will believe her - discredit the accuser.

She indicated in the interview that she started hearing stories about her, several versions and of course people calling her describing her negatively.

So, she decided to tell her story, put the truth into perspective. I believe her story - 99%

I think Busola was simply out to tell her story, her version of the episodes, abinitio. Unfortunately, you will have to live with the knowledge of her story even if you are not comfortable with it.

From ur first paragraph, what is their curiosity with such stories, since they've already left the church?


Finally, lemi ask u, how often do u hear stories about ur self? for her to hear stories about herself speaks volumes about the people she moves around with and the connection she STILL HAS WITH THAT CHURCH!

thorpido:
Because it never goes away.

What r u saying is very unscientific.
That it doesn't go away doesn't mean it interferes.
Does the fact that a lecturer once failed me twice necessarily mean that it should come back to wreck my life 15 years after(with me married and enjoying the good life)?
And if it ever does, why don't I go and confront the person physically?
The moment u guys start understand what marriage is, the better.
This case is different from the ones that abound whereby the victim is very obviously in shambles.

thorpido:
This one knows nothing about rape,it's effects on the victims and how letting it out is the greatest path to healing.

Perhaps,he is a rapist himself.

Silence enables rapists.

Letting it out how?
She got married.
Had kids.
She's enjoying the good life




Suddenly she remembered she got raped?

JasperVII:
Started having sex at age 2-3 with ladies of 18-20? with what exactly? Bloody liar.I think it's high time i cooked up a story of my own.

Cooked?
Me am gonna roast then boil my own story for the world to hear.

peteofi:
My dear, you get respect. Your analysis are exactly my thoughts. Ever since I read the actual story. But let's all think forgiveness and reconciliation. And forget past misdeeds. She has no proof now. Na reputation of the man spoil. That's that. But she also is not telling us the whole story.

And that's where where I think she is mad if we go by this narrative.
Ur doing well in life and married. Then suddenly u remember someone once raped u.
The next thing u do is to do a video.

daddytime:
Without a shadow of a doubt there were incoherencies and loops, but let's just attribute that to the time gone and her inability to recall events as it happened.

Sensible and very plausible submission.

Why come out now?
That has nothing to do with time or inability to recall events.

SageMK:
So what if she collected a car gift or got wedded by the same man? — How does that proof Biodun innocence?

In fact, that can be easily be interpreted as a bribe to buy her silence. I should be the one arguing you to use your brain because her getting pregnant outside wedlock is also no defense to proof the innocence of Biodun at all.

so she collected rape and also collected bribe in form of car.
Ur funny o.

alsudan:
Now easy to understand why Briton and Hove Albion’s Lewis Dunk and Shane Duffy kept the shaky and error prone Balogun benched for the whole season.

KENNETH Omeruo remains Nigeria’s best Central defender, good on and off the ball, and reads the game very well, qualities Balogun and his shaky partner Ekong lack.

As for Mikel, if he can’t hang his boots, I can volunteer to help him. The Coach needs to restrict him to 3 minutes cameo appearance to rake in the caps, since it’s obvious the dream of 100 is the only thing still keeping him.

I like that u uses the word 'shaky'
I remember during our match against Argentina in the last World Cup, it was the same shakiness and fear that cost us. Anytime Leon balogun gets the ball he quickly passes it out of fear. He did the same thru out the match today. He can't hold the ball and think for even 5 seconds. He must pass.

megareal:
The way I feel now, I fit teleport go give Super Eagleschickens serious kobokorization. These people always falling hand everywhere.
Super

Relax with these two lines from the commentator:

'Fred ndidi worth about 39 million dollars is worth twice the total amount of all the Madagascar players on the pitch'


'if ur just joining us, ur set is not deceiving u. Madagascar is leading Nigeria by 2 goals to nil

Kennydoc:
Busola answered your question in the full video. It's on YouTube, and it lasted for nearly 2 hours.
Her aim was just to tell the world her own truth, and that was why she gave all the details, even mentioned many people's names.
I wish the other people whose names were mentioned like Pastors Wole and Flo can come out and either confirm or deny the parts of the story where their names featured. I also wish this Modupe can deny that Busola never slept over in her house to help her take care of her baby.
The story had so many details, that it seems so difficult for someone to just conjure such up, mentioning other people's names. If the entire story was all a lie, I'm sure those other people mentioned will speak out soon. If they don't, they it's completely true.

OK good.
Let me ask u. What business does the world have with her truth?
I mean, it's like me coming out after 20 years to call out a lecturer who once failed me deliberately several times and who now is a big figure.
What am I supposed to gain from that?
Am not equating rape to my scenario but I think they are related in subjectivity.
I hope u get my point? Why not just go after the man physically. Why the public brouhaha?

kiyosaki1:
If you offended me to the extent of causing me a life time trauma as the lady's case , and I had enough evidence , the best way to settle such is through law enforcement agent and not trying to defame the man as dakolo and wife are trying to do . The guy will come out of this stronger , but as of dakolo and wife they ,should kiss bye to their already crashed music carrier . My question is this what is the moral history of the accusers ? are they saint ? are you telling me they can't lie ? am not implying she is lying , but all questions must be asked before jumping into baseless conclusion. My take on the issue .

My own question is this:
Like someone said in another thread, busola and her husband are living the good life.
So what's the reason for the revelation at this point, years after their marriage?

olaBC007:
Step down for the name of the church till all is settled, idiot

Foooool. Step down when u have not been proven guilty of rape? Or when the case is not even in court?